My inspiration

What do I want from this blog? - I asked myself before creating it! 

The main thing that I wanted from it was that it helped me to know my purpose, become more feminine. I want to be a Woman, with my own dignity and principles in life. To be a diva, to have power which is mine from nature. To be a  Lady, to change my thoughts in this condition of mind. One more thing why this blog has place to be is I want all women all around the world to become confident in their woman-power. 

My inspiration for this blog became my Mother and Beyonce. 

My Mother is an astonishing woman, she can combine work and home together. She has also time to decoration of house, to designing new clothe to herself and me, and she never lose heart no matter what problem is. She is very religious person and every day try to find time to God. She is so bright, like a sun in our home, around her I  want to be like her and shine as bright as she.

Another Woman as I sad was Beyonce. My metting with her changed my life and the knowledge about woman. When you are standing next to her you fell such energy, power that you cann't even describe it. The way that she presents herself, is incredible.

The energy on her concerts is so strong that I charged with it for a whole year. Mrs. Carter makes the women be proud to be them, not to hide their personality, inspire them to change themselves and to share the love to everyone around.

 She is Woman and she is proud to be one. 

She is so feminine and so bossy at the same time. She loves herself in all aspects. 

Her body is not like a super-model but her figure is making crazy millions of men and women all around the world. In every move in evry step, you can see that she is a Woman and that she is ohnered to be  Woman. She inspire all other women to be indipendent, self-secure and TO RUN THE WORLD!(like she do). 

Another aspect why i am so inspired by her, is that she has a wonderful marriage. Beyonce and Jay-Z is a couple which gave me a view how I want my family and marriage to be. Their Love is an incredible thing to show-business, where such strong couples are very rare thing. Today I thought such love is only in movies but no it exists. He made her a Woman and "when people see her, they understand that it's me". She is a real Diva and Legendary Woman, and every year she is better abd better like a wine which is better with age!

P.S. I can write about my MOM and BEYONCE more and more. I will never stop to admire them.

The Purpose of Women

In Vedic culture, women have always been very honored. It all started from birth a girl. In Sanskrit "diva" means divine. It was believed that the girl is born perfect, and it is the main task - to maintain its cleanliness. In this case, the girl initially by their nature are much closer to God than the boys - as cut from the ministry. And from the birth try to serve, help completely disinterested. Service -  is a women's purpose.

In all traditional cultures, it was, but somewhere else is.

There are even a few facts about the female nature, as described in the Vedas:

1. Feelings of women is 6 times stronger than that of men

2. A woman's mind is 9 times stronger than the men

3. The woman consists of service - she always wants to help someone

4. The girl has great power - the power of chastity, able to resist all kinds of malefices

5. Woman gives birth to children

In ancient times, everyone knew that the girl is born perfect. Her did not try to alter or otherwise citified. She had been taught to accept their feminine nature. They are very much praised, even pampered. At the same time develop their natural talents. Dressed up, made a lot of compliments. And so the girls learned to maintain their self-esteem.

Now things happen differently. Women do not realize their original fullness, so all the time trying to develop something yourself, work on yourself like a man. Set goals, plans, objectives, and go to them, training dedication, willpower, determination. Qualities that are essentially masculine.

Whenever we think of our female destiny, about the nature of how the world is changing. When we have a sense of self-esteem (but not arrogance!), People treat us differently.

A woman with dignity, can be happy. And this happiness is like a magnet, attracts people to her. In her life come a great men because they like to be close to such sun. The  friends appeare  - because she has something to share with people. Next to a mother  children blossom- they see that adult life is full of happiness and love.

A woman wants to do even happier than she is. Because she already knows how to be happy. And even if a man does not get to make her even happier, she in any case remain happy! Win-win lottery in which it is impossible not to play.

Such a woman is able to make happy those who are near her. When you're full, you easily share happiness - because you have a lot of it.

And it all starts at the point when you realize that you were born is perfect. And all that is needed - remember how it was. Its purpose - the purpose of Women!

Olga Valyaeva(c)

Does your own thing

I see are only three types of things in the universe: mine, yours and God's. (For me, the word "God" means "reality." Reality - a God, because it rules. Anything outside of my control, your control and in general anyone's control, I call God's works.)
Much of our stress - the result of what we mentally engaged in other people affairs. When I think, 'You've got to find a job, I want you to be happy, you have to come on time, you have more to deal with them, "- I'm doing your deeds. When I worry about earthquakes, floods, war or time of my death, I am doing God's business. If I'm mentally doing your chores, or God, the result is - the separation. I saw it back in 1986. When I began mentally deal with the affairs of my mother, for example, with the thought: "My mother should understand me", I immediately began to feel lonely. And I found that every time in my life when I felt hurt or lonely, it turned out that I have to get into other people's business.
If you live your life, and I mentally live your life, then who is living my life? Both of us are there. Mentally living your life, I do not live my own. I am separated from myself and still wonder why my life is not made up.
To think that I know what's best for someone else - it means not to engage in someone else business. Even in the name of love, it is - pure arrogance, and the result of it - stress, anxiety and fear.

Do I know what is right for me? That is my only business.  Do not I need to work on my business before I start to solve your problems for you.

If you understand these three types of cases so well that you only deal with their own affairs, and you can not imagine how it will free your life. The next time you feel stress or discomfort, ask yourself whose deeds you are mentally engaged, and maybe you burst out laughing. This question can bring you back to yourself. Maybe you will find that you never really are and were not present in your own life that you have lived, mentally doing other things, all your life. Even if you just notice that other people are doing things, it can get you back to your wonderful self.
"Loving what is"(c)

Arabic woman

In India, men do not allow women to work. Why?

If a woman begins to show itself in the society, it leaves your creative energy there, and her husband, a family has no choice.

Why are men so concerned about making a woman realizes itself in the family? Because they know that the female energy - the source of grace and happiness. If a man takes full protection over the woman gives her a sense of emotional, financial and physical security, then through it into family comes stream Welfare.

The better husband takes care of his wife, the richer she is decorated and dressed, the more pets, the more her heart is openedt, the more it is filled with creative power, and through such contented woman comes an abundance of happiness.

"Where a woman is worshiped,  there is a home of gods."

Yoga

 Why a woman needs to practice yoga? What benefit it (yoga) is able to bring to the female body?

1.Most importantly, regular practice is able to save us from any discomfort in the critical days. Yes, yes, do not be surprised! Actually, painless critical days - this is normal and is physiological. The practice of asana relieves the body as a whole, and the pelvic area in particular, from the stresses and - here you go, no discomfort.

This was the case with me about 4 months after the yoga classes have become regular, I noticed that the "women's days" are going completely painless, even unnoticed! Not immediately this phenomenon is associated in my mind with yoga, but later there were cases where, in the absence of regular practice the discomfort came back. Then I traced the relationship.

2. Meditation, ability to work with your own mind, keep track of your thoughts and reactions - all of which help to control our emotional state, which is unstable in nature. Yoga provides the tools with which a woman learns to cope with stress, be more relaxed and balanced.

3. All of us - mothers, in the future or in the present. Practice should help the woman to prepare successfully  for the child's conception, it is easy and pleasant way to recover effectively  after childbirth. And really - the procedure relating to the implementation of women as mothers are very popular - they really work and help us!

Beauty

We think that love, beauty - it is our personal touch. For example, she believes that if she's beautiful, it means that beauty belongs to her. But why beauty disappears somewhere after a while? The girl is ugly with age, she can not keep this beauty. Someone was very beautiful, and then suddenly becomes ugly. We age all this notice. We can not keep the beauty, because it is not ours. She can come to us or to leave, according to our fate. Therefore, we should not think that beauty - it's our personal thing. In fact, the beauty belongs to God. This means that a person who believes in God, serve Him, will find spiritual beauty. And this spiritual beauty will bless, and do a beautiful body. Such beauty with age no longer disappears
 (O.G. Torsunov)

Beauty

The internal component of sexuality is the most important, it is most defines the overall appeal. The most significant part is the ability to non-verbally, wordlessly pass on the positive sexual feelings to man and the ability to express them in their own language, so they came to him, struck him in the heart. And, most importantly, self-confidence in your abilities and female charm! Sex appeal is largely an internal state, a state of mind which does not depend alone on the shape or natural anatomical data. In contrast to the canons of beauty here, there can be no strandartisation such as classic 90-60-90, and that means sexy in principle, be absolutely every woman, every one of you! The figure and physical appearance are decidedly do not matter, appearance is important only for the initial interest. Sex appeal is synonymous appeal. At the same time, the beauty and attractiveness does not synonyms, it is two different things, so a woman can be beautiful and attractive, and can be beautiful, but not attractive or beautiful, but attractive. That's why sometimes a woman with appearance and figure, to say the least, very far from perfection knows no release from fans, while another beauty, supermodel left alone. There are lots of perfectly ordinary-looking, and even frankly ugly women, who nevertheless conquered princes, presidents, prime ministers and other people in positions of authority and wealth, which are surrounded by the most beautiful women in the world, but who nevertheless choose women with looks far from perfect. Sex appeal is the ability to show women and men to feel that she is really passionate woman, not just beautiful, but soulless and cold doll, which you can only admire how the statue of Venus in the museum only. In contrast to the museum's statue sexy woman men want (although this does not mean that she's sexy in fact) that they are interested in and close to where they feel like real men or supermen. And that's the main thing!

Piggy Exercises

Piggy exercises

1.Turn eyes. Think about one of the objects in the room, focus on it. Without opening his eyes, list as many attributes of this object. After 3 minutes, open your eyes and write down what you remember, still not looking at the subject.
2.Select a poem that you like. Use it as the last line of the first line for your own poems.
3.Where do you go when you want to have a break from the family, work, etc.? Write about this place.
4.In the 400 words, describe the ideal place where you want to live. (To use the word count on the menu Word «Tools" menu "Statistics")
5.Write, what would you say to intruder, who came to you at three in the morning.
6.Write story, beginning with the words: "One day I had a chance ... but I missed it."
7.Letter in the past. Write a letter to 10-year-old ... currently.
8.In 200 words, describe your first toy.
9.Write about the most difficult decision of what you have ever made.
10.Write about the easiest solution, which you have ever made.
11.Write story of an empty glass.
12.Try to remember about the SKU-at-bottom-screw in your life. Describe it, but remember that your story does not have to be the same SKU-at-sations.
13.Write 500-word article on this: "If I could change anything, I would change ..."
14.Write explanation of why you do not do to improve their writing skills every day.
15.Write the story of a blue object.
16.Imagine that you are in a room full of people, but you're the only one in her blind. Write down what you see people in the room and his imagination.
17.Make a list of all that fear. Select one fear, and write about it.
18.In 200 words, describe a hot day.
19.what do you do in bad weather? Write about 250 words.
20.Write about what meats you would have treated worst enemy.
21.Think about a man who could be called too proud. Describe the behavior of this man.
22.Use 150 words, describe the appearance, occupation, habits of a person by the name of ... well, Peter Willington
23.Write 50 actions, which you will never accomplish.
24.Write monologue on behalf of freshly cut flowers.
25.Write story, using the keywords: instructor-breeder, the law, the beach, the bun.
26.Write a monologue clean sock, mistakenly caught in a refrigerator, hammered products.
27.Count 15 reasons to learn a foreign language.
28.Why teacher is going to change careers? Name at least 10 reasons.
29.Why 7 worst phrases that can only be said that the dismissed person.
30.Writre short angry speech of 7 paragraphs, since each of them popular expression "growing like a weed."
31.Write short story using the words: preacher, coin, comb, stairs, well.
32.Write a short story with the story: the clones of Elvis Presley conquered the world.
33 Think about at least 7 reasons, including the most incredible, why antiques dealer has left the town.
34.Write monologue on behalf of a single tree, the remaining forests in place after all the other trees were cut down.
35.Count 8 noteworthy reasons justifying a liar.
36.Write short story using the words: the priest, the ring, the garden, the binoculars.
37.Propose 5 different inserts to the following request: "Please do not wrinkle ... because (otherwise, and that) ....
38.Count 10 things for which you have given to the past 500 per week to pay.
39.Write a story using words grandfather, photo album, e-mail, matches.
40.Name circumstances which may be red playwright.
41.Write monologue on behalf of a spoon caught in a dishwasher.
42.Write an instructions on how to teach the home of cockroaches to  the tap dance.

I'm no worse off

"I had to admit that in life some women initially better than others. And this fact do not change either the purchase of shoes, no diet, no baking pies. I will not have perfect hair, I can not wear white, do not dirtying, to head committees, to sign official letters, but I'm no worse off!
Carrie Bradshaw(c)

Hello, dear....

Hello, dear!

it's me, your future .. Well, for example, the mysterious man. and if you want you can even betrothed! why do I write? there's a reason.

I have this .. in general, I wanted to say to you, that you threw smoke quickly and blanketed the kitchen table with a tablecloth, and wore a cross around your neck! Come and learn, and do not spend nights throwing the poetry on the flash drive in folder "some nonsense"! Do you, by the way, like dinner with candles? and if not, maybe just dinner?
and here's another: wear tights in winter_ catch a cold_ but this is fraught with .. and stop the night shots of vodka,it is early in your years. Still do not try to cut your hair.Why do you want hair like a boy? You with the long hair look like a princess .. or ladies from your magazine.

And finally .. let go of the past? You know of whom I am talking about. it gives you a false hope, and you try to avoid random meetings. and do not answer the phone, even desirable. ran away. otherwise it would never end, and the future (its me!) is waiting for you!

It is said that soon you will meet me again, and I anxious about that .. Then, I promise things will change

your future favorite faithful husband.

RUN THE WORLD

Men have been given the chance to rule the world but ladies, our revolution has begun. Let’s build a nation.

                       Women everywhere: RUN THE WORLD!

Motivation for Harvard's students

1. If you fall asleep now, you will dream. If you study now, you will live your dream.
2.  When you think it’s too late, the truth is, it’s still early.
3. The pain of studying is only temporary. But the pain of not knowing-ignorance-is forever.
4.  Studying is not about time. It’s about effort.
5. Life is not all about studying. But if you can’t even conquer this little part of life, then what else can you possibly do?
6.  Enjoy the inexorable pain.
7.  It’s those who are earlier than the others, those who put in more effort, who can enjoy the feelings of success.
8. Not everyone can truely succeed in everything. But success only comes with self-management and determination.
9.  Time is flying.
10. The saliva that flow now will become the tears of tomorrow.
11.  Dogs are learning, ambassadors are playing.
12. If you don’t walk today, you’ll have to run tomorrow.
13. People who invest in the future are realists.
14. The level of education is in direct correlation with your salary.
15. When today is over, it will never come back.
16. Even now, your enemies are eagerly flipping through books.
17.  No pain, no gain. (c)

Life is full of beauty

“Life is full of beauty. Notice it. Notice thebumblebee, the small child, and the smiling faces. Smell the rain, and feel the wind. Live your life to the fullest potential, and fight for your dreams.

The fresh start

I think every person through the life had thoughts about self-perfection. To me these thoughts came not so long ago, when I changed my usuall life-style. I moved from my parents home to another country and understood that I want to become better person and I want to change the way I think and do things. Hence, my blog will be about how to develop as personality and how to love yourself the way you are created.

Sincerely yours,

Zhen-Shen