Somehow, I came up with a theory that I decided to live the next 1000 years. It sounds like this: a man - was created by nature to meet women's needs and for procreation. It goes without saying that this "brilliant" idea visited my head after the man's offense? I think not. After a while, the offense gone, but I look at the men continued to hold enemy. And not a little effort it took me to get rid of the military spirit. I have been possessed by clean water of Feminism.
If you understand the nature of feminism, it turns out it has a lot of ways to sprouting in the female mind. It could be raised by mother (or the one who brought up the girl), it may appear on the grounds of resentment, and perhaps for self-improvement.
So what is feminism than, what it has bad and good ?
Now it is fashionable to be a feminist. If your girlfriend tells you that in her house husband is the boss, and she is on vocals, and you wonder, rebelled, and, of course, tell you that it should not be like this. Slogans: "We are women - stronger than man", etc., is so ingrained in our lives that seem to be so always, there will be. The fight is not long for equality between men and women, and for the superiority of women over men. And if earlier there was that the man on the prowl, and the woman in the cave, now a man at work, and the woman, also on the hunt, and at work, and in a cave-anywhere and everywhere. Naturally, the woman gets tired a lot more. After work, she runs home, but not to rest, but to work! What nonsense, say, men! Is household chores, such hard work! The absurdity is that the woman continues to do these things every day.
Why, nowadays we can not be relied completely on the man, and to do their - women's responsibilities? Is it because men are now less hardy, more steressed and soft? True-that men can not see! Where are they? Extinct with the dinosaurs? No. We, the women them destroyed. By our tremendous power that is within us. In the wrong direction, we sent our greatest potential. Instead, it would be ideal to carry out our mission - keeper of the hearth and distributor of love, we push, both morally and physically male population to prove ... To each his own, but what is the result ? When a man takes you by the hand, you do not think about the beautiful evening, but the marriage contract that will protect you and your children, if this man will leave you.
Pros of feminism sure everyone finds itself, but the cons are more clearly expressed. We have ceased to educate the courageous men. Why is this happening? Because our boy who grows up and takes the basics of life in the family sees where dad did not play the leading role, but only the executive. He goes to work, takes out the garbage, watches TV and reads the newspaper at the time, as a mom, like a squirrel in a wheel, doing all for the welfare of the family. A man can not be realized in the family. No one will givesuch an opportunity to him ! What might be the realization? A hanger in the corridor is not screwed! That's right, poor boys, see, what men really. As you consider what your family will get a baby? That's right! The same! Dictatorial wife, who will nag him for everything and never give praise, because it would undermine its men's health. A men are not men for a long time, they perish under the pressure of women's oppression. If the man is not being implemented as a man, he dies.
First, from the inside and then outside. I sometimes met with these women who complained about their husbands: he does not do anything around the house! He is such a kind of reptile-only football or his computer is busy! What about me ? And the children: For us it does not have the time! And you imagine how many times you come to a place where you say you're a fool? Probably more than never, right? And your spouse have nowhere to go. He has responsibilities and you have children together. So he goes home with his head down and to somehow abstract leaves to the football, television and newspapers.
We women have already received our freedom, our superiority. Man long time are not the strong but the weak floor. And sexual minorities are the majority. Where to next? And then, in the opposite direction. If we want our children to be happy, family, strong and reliable, we have to explain everything.
Let's try to do it.
1. Imagine that your husband (boyfriend, lover, lover), is facing a difficult choice (for example, there is no money for a taxi and it is late), do not reach for the purse to give him 10 dollars, and do not pay for the car. The man he is! Let him prove himself. He, and he alone is responsible for his decisions. Let come up with a solution myself. Otherwise, he will feel a jerk.
2. Try to negotiate with him all the joint actions (leisure, work, vacation), and if your opinions are commonplaces, look for a compromise and do not hit him with your "right" reasons.
3. Do not rush to do anything. Understand that you are a woman. You were made for a perfect (probably because it has no one to create beautiful, as all women in the workplace, there are so many homosexuals, as a substitute). Your companion - getter, you - the keeper of the extracted. Remind him about it, and remember yourself.
4. Never among the people do not abuse him and do not tell him what to do. It demeans anyone, not just men.
5. Do not discuss your family relationship with my mom . Mothers tend to then criticize their sons-in-law. Would you be pleased if his father discussed you?
Raise your chosen one as courageous man. You want that his strong arms wrapped around your fragile shoulders. So you want to live with him and be like a stone wall. I want to walk down the street with his arm, and proud when other women stare at your masculinity and stately Apollo. But for the fact that everything was just so in our time we need to string up. Two centuries ago, you would not have thought about it, but now have.
Give him the opportunity to make decisions for your family or for both of you.
Give him the opportunity to realize himself as a man.
He will love you more than anyone else, just for the fact that you do not destroy, but rather became his muse.
If you understand the nature of feminism, it turns out it has a lot of ways to sprouting in the female mind. It could be raised by mother (or the one who brought up the girl), it may appear on the grounds of resentment, and perhaps for self-improvement.
So what is feminism than, what it has bad and good ?
Now it is fashionable to be a feminist. If your girlfriend tells you that in her house husband is the boss, and she is on vocals, and you wonder, rebelled, and, of course, tell you that it should not be like this. Slogans: "We are women - stronger than man", etc., is so ingrained in our lives that seem to be so always, there will be. The fight is not long for equality between men and women, and for the superiority of women over men. And if earlier there was that the man on the prowl, and the woman in the cave, now a man at work, and the woman, also on the hunt, and at work, and in a cave-anywhere and everywhere. Naturally, the woman gets tired a lot more. After work, she runs home, but not to rest, but to work! What nonsense, say, men! Is household chores, such hard work! The absurdity is that the woman continues to do these things every day.
Why, nowadays we can not be relied completely on the man, and to do their - women's responsibilities? Is it because men are now less hardy, more steressed and soft? True-that men can not see! Where are they? Extinct with the dinosaurs? No. We, the women them destroyed. By our tremendous power that is within us. In the wrong direction, we sent our greatest potential. Instead, it would be ideal to carry out our mission - keeper of the hearth and distributor of love, we push, both morally and physically male population to prove ... To each his own, but what is the result ? When a man takes you by the hand, you do not think about the beautiful evening, but the marriage contract that will protect you and your children, if this man will leave you.
Pros of feminism sure everyone finds itself, but the cons are more clearly expressed. We have ceased to educate the courageous men. Why is this happening? Because our boy who grows up and takes the basics of life in the family sees where dad did not play the leading role, but only the executive. He goes to work, takes out the garbage, watches TV and reads the newspaper at the time, as a mom, like a squirrel in a wheel, doing all for the welfare of the family. A man can not be realized in the family. No one will givesuch an opportunity to him ! What might be the realization? A hanger in the corridor is not screwed! That's right, poor boys, see, what men really. As you consider what your family will get a baby? That's right! The same! Dictatorial wife, who will nag him for everything and never give praise, because it would undermine its men's health. A men are not men for a long time, they perish under the pressure of women's oppression. If the man is not being implemented as a man, he dies.
First, from the inside and then outside. I sometimes met with these women who complained about their husbands: he does not do anything around the house! He is such a kind of reptile-only football or his computer is busy! What about me ? And the children: For us it does not have the time! And you imagine how many times you come to a place where you say you're a fool? Probably more than never, right? And your spouse have nowhere to go. He has responsibilities and you have children together. So he goes home with his head down and to somehow abstract leaves to the football, television and newspapers.
We women have already received our freedom, our superiority. Man long time are not the strong but the weak floor. And sexual minorities are the majority. Where to next? And then, in the opposite direction. If we want our children to be happy, family, strong and reliable, we have to explain everything.
Let's try to do it.
1. Imagine that your husband (boyfriend, lover, lover), is facing a difficult choice (for example, there is no money for a taxi and it is late), do not reach for the purse to give him 10 dollars, and do not pay for the car. The man he is! Let him prove himself. He, and he alone is responsible for his decisions. Let come up with a solution myself. Otherwise, he will feel a jerk.
2. Try to negotiate with him all the joint actions (leisure, work, vacation), and if your opinions are commonplaces, look for a compromise and do not hit him with your "right" reasons.
3. Do not rush to do anything. Understand that you are a woman. You were made for a perfect (probably because it has no one to create beautiful, as all women in the workplace, there are so many homosexuals, as a substitute). Your companion - getter, you - the keeper of the extracted. Remind him about it, and remember yourself.
4. Never among the people do not abuse him and do not tell him what to do. It demeans anyone, not just men.
5. Do not discuss your family relationship with my mom . Mothers tend to then criticize their sons-in-law. Would you be pleased if his father discussed you?
Raise your chosen one as courageous man. You want that his strong arms wrapped around your fragile shoulders. So you want to live with him and be like a stone wall. I want to walk down the street with his arm, and proud when other women stare at your masculinity and stately Apollo. But for the fact that everything was just so in our time we need to string up. Two centuries ago, you would not have thought about it, but now have.
Give him the opportunity to make decisions for your family or for both of you.
Give him the opportunity to realize himself as a man.
He will love you more than anyone else, just for the fact that you do not destroy, but rather became his muse.
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