Is it possible to feel happy every day? What do you need to fell this?
In part, this is a philosophical question, because the understanding of "happiness" everyone has their own. But there are moments of female psychology, given that you will be able to enjoy and celebrate life to the fullest.
Let's find out together !
Women are unique!Nobody can predict our behavior, thinking, or mood . Thousands of factors may affect our state of mind. Men often joke on our logic, but we perfectly understand each other :))
So, what settings prevent us from being happy?
I'll tell you about three of the most common ...
The first installation, "I will like myself when losing weight,'ll grow long hair and etc ..."
Perhaps reading these lines, you will smile and think, "What nonsense!" - Yes, I agree! But to be honest with yourself, you remember how many times have you said it yourself? Maybe it's sitting in your head right now?
Love yourself for what you have created nature. It is our otherness and it makes us unique and attractive for an individual.
Long hair - will not bring change to your life and will not "guarantee of happiness." A brand or exclusive things do not change the course of the party and will not affect the outcome of the date!
It is all about our inner feelings and a sense of fullness of life "here and now".
Think about it! Than you are ready to close for a year and limit yourself with communication until the hair does not grow back, or the body will not get the desired shape?? Do not you go to a party where you could meet her future husband, if you do not have a suitable dress??
Happy women do not expect that tomorrow everything will change. They live in the present, let go and thank their past for the experience, and make plans for the future.
Life is not so long, it is fleeting! And each year allegedly accelerated, especially after 30-35 years. That is why it is important to learn how to live the "here and now".
Focus on that date - this is the most important and interesting of what deserves your attention. Today - a whole life! Try to enjoy it and remember every moment of what is happening, no matter how long your hair is and how close your weight is to ideal .
The second unit, "My life will be better, brighter and more interesting when I will meet a man!"
Really? Of course not!
Men looking for the woman who will give them a certain inner state. In order to do this, we must be able to be happy with yourself, you need to be able to fill their own lives brightness!
Try to find inspiration in everything that surrounds you: the rays of the morning sun to read a book full of charm!
Only your fascination and inspiration of life are able to charge and inspire man.
By the way, one of the most important statements: "similar attracts similar" - very important when choosing a life partner. If you are happy, active, friendly, interesting and vibrant woman, then the man who would be next to you will be about the same.
The third setting, "What will others think?"
This setting is ingrained in many of us, as a "good girl syndrome" that has plagued 72% of women from childhood.
Many of us are looking for matches with the expectations of others, rather than to focus on the sensations. We are going through because of the fact that society can condemn us.
For example: women who have experienced a divorce, a long time (a year or more) believe that totally unneeded and the people around them look at them differently. They are afraid to voice their new status, not to get a conviction and a negativity in his address.
Some of the girls rush to get married in 20-23 years, not having any experience men only because they are afraid to remain "old maids."
Girls, stop! What is important is not a stamp in the passport, it is important to be close to loved ones, reliable and loving man who is willing to support you and take care of your family!
In this case, it does not matter how many years it will happen and what kind of men you have to communicate.
Take a look at the behavior, thoughts and actions on the part of ... And try to honestly answer the questions:
Is this like YOU or so would like your mom / friends / society?
When are you going to do something about what you are thinking, what others think about you or what it will give you?
Is it more important to live in harmony with each other, or be good for others?
Answers to these questions will help you better understand yourself.
I am truly convinced that be good for all IMPOSSIBLE! That's because many people, so many opinions - some with us is easy, with the other nothing at all glued, even talking about the weather ...
So why then, to kill your time in the pursuit of the correspondences and the expectations of others?
Listen to your needs and wishes, follow your dreams, even if they seem to all complete madness!
Only joy and satisfaction of knowing that you are doing what you want it to you, will give a feeling of happiness fullness of life!
Do not chase the templates! Stay yourself!
Smart people will always understand you and will take for who you are. Stupid and lazy to explain useless - still condemn! So do not waste your time on these people your time, focus on yourself and your happiness!
Remember, your time is priceless because it can not be returned!
In part, this is a philosophical question, because the understanding of "happiness" everyone has their own. But there are moments of female psychology, given that you will be able to enjoy and celebrate life to the fullest.
Let's find out together !
Women are unique!Nobody can predict our behavior, thinking, or mood . Thousands of factors may affect our state of mind. Men often joke on our logic, but we perfectly understand each other :))
So, what settings prevent us from being happy?
I'll tell you about three of the most common ...
The first installation, "I will like myself when losing weight,'ll grow long hair and etc ..."
Perhaps reading these lines, you will smile and think, "What nonsense!" - Yes, I agree! But to be honest with yourself, you remember how many times have you said it yourself? Maybe it's sitting in your head right now?
Love yourself for what you have created nature. It is our otherness and it makes us unique and attractive for an individual.
Long hair - will not bring change to your life and will not "guarantee of happiness." A brand or exclusive things do not change the course of the party and will not affect the outcome of the date!
It is all about our inner feelings and a sense of fullness of life "here and now".
Think about it! Than you are ready to close for a year and limit yourself with communication until the hair does not grow back, or the body will not get the desired shape?? Do not you go to a party where you could meet her future husband, if you do not have a suitable dress??
Happy women do not expect that tomorrow everything will change. They live in the present, let go and thank their past for the experience, and make plans for the future.
Life is not so long, it is fleeting! And each year allegedly accelerated, especially after 30-35 years. That is why it is important to learn how to live the "here and now".
Focus on that date - this is the most important and interesting of what deserves your attention. Today - a whole life! Try to enjoy it and remember every moment of what is happening, no matter how long your hair is and how close your weight is to ideal .
The second unit, "My life will be better, brighter and more interesting when I will meet a man!"
Really? Of course not!
Men looking for the woman who will give them a certain inner state. In order to do this, we must be able to be happy with yourself, you need to be able to fill their own lives brightness!
Try to find inspiration in everything that surrounds you: the rays of the morning sun to read a book full of charm!
Only your fascination and inspiration of life are able to charge and inspire man.
By the way, one of the most important statements: "similar attracts similar" - very important when choosing a life partner. If you are happy, active, friendly, interesting and vibrant woman, then the man who would be next to you will be about the same.
The third setting, "What will others think?"
This setting is ingrained in many of us, as a "good girl syndrome" that has plagued 72% of women from childhood.
Many of us are looking for matches with the expectations of others, rather than to focus on the sensations. We are going through because of the fact that society can condemn us.
For example: women who have experienced a divorce, a long time (a year or more) believe that totally unneeded and the people around them look at them differently. They are afraid to voice their new status, not to get a conviction and a negativity in his address.
Some of the girls rush to get married in 20-23 years, not having any experience men only because they are afraid to remain "old maids."
Girls, stop! What is important is not a stamp in the passport, it is important to be close to loved ones, reliable and loving man who is willing to support you and take care of your family!
In this case, it does not matter how many years it will happen and what kind of men you have to communicate.
Take a look at the behavior, thoughts and actions on the part of ... And try to honestly answer the questions:
Is this like YOU or so would like your mom / friends / society?
When are you going to do something about what you are thinking, what others think about you or what it will give you?
Is it more important to live in harmony with each other, or be good for others?
Answers to these questions will help you better understand yourself.
I am truly convinced that be good for all IMPOSSIBLE! That's because many people, so many opinions - some with us is easy, with the other nothing at all glued, even talking about the weather ...
So why then, to kill your time in the pursuit of the correspondences and the expectations of others?
Listen to your needs and wishes, follow your dreams, even if they seem to all complete madness!
Only joy and satisfaction of knowing that you are doing what you want it to you, will give a feeling of happiness fullness of life!
Smart people will always understand you and will take for who you are. Stupid and lazy to explain useless - still condemn! So do not waste your time on these people your time, focus on yourself and your happiness!
Remember, your time is priceless because it can not be returned!
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