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понедельник, 12 августа 2013 г.

The girl - "prick tease " - who is she?


Men, for some reason always think that a woman own something to them have, and she should to them usually SEX. It is not clear where they get the idea that if he's on his own will buy you a cocktail, you owe him sex. If he asked you out to a restaurant, then you  owe him sex. Even if you're just a very attractive and, God forbid, sexy, then you owe him sex. And if for you it is not yet clear, he by all means will give it to you to understand. Moreover, if in your mind was not such idea, you will be accused that you did badly, you used him and dumped him . It does not matter that he himself taken the initiative, it does not matter that nature has blessed you with beauty and intelligence, he still will blame you in his troubles .

Of course, can the immense male ego accept the fact that he simply was not good enough for you? No, that's impossible. He needs someone to blame for his failures and blame, of course, you .

If a woman that does not respond to the provocations of men, who knows what she wants, who sleeps only with those who really like her, but not with those who starts to put pressure on her, is called "prick tease "  - then yes, I am the PRICK TEASE. If the compliance own interests, the ability to hold the position and insist on her own called "prick tease "  - yes, the "prick tease "  that is what we want.

No matter what anyone says about the equality of men and women, all of us are the same, we are different. We are too different to be identical. And what men find their weakness, most often their weakness is the female force. But in what men are strong, all too often destroys women. I do not want to be a man. What for? I'm not going to be a man, I will be  better equal to a woman. And that is what makes me successful. Successful woman in front of which there is great potential. Be flexible - sometimes weak, sometimes strong, sometimes asking, sometimes insisting. Be different - sometimes funny, sometimes sad, sometimes clever, sometimes silly. But always be free.

Yes, men do not like such girls. And all because they want to impose on women a lot of obligations, to repair her for theirselves, to deprive their own will. "Prick tease " is free. She does what she wants and does not depend on men. 
She is attractive and does not intend to pay for the complexes of men. 
She does not render to them in dialogue and is ready to accept their admiration of herself. 
But she will not step over herself.


She is independent. After all, only independent people can afford easily take the gifts of others - their attention, worship, gifts. For all you have to pay? You should, and you pay for - and she is independent from the conventions.

"Prick tease " is - a real woman, and she can achieve her goals by any means. If she wants, goes directly, and if not, there will always be a real man who will gladly do it for her. And they will not accuse her of being too attractive, or too sexy or that desirable. She is such as she was created, and this is only her merit.



воскресенье, 11 августа 2013 г.

Affirmations. What is this? And how it works?

Affirmations - are statements that are helping to change the way we think and create the future that we seek. But not only ...

Affirmations - the thoughts, words, feelings, and emotions that each of us use in everyday life. However, as we all know, we do not always use the positive but also negative statements. So first of all, if you want to change your life for the better with the help of affirmations, you should only use them in a positive way.

So how does it work?

Think about what you're saying? Count how many times a day, for example, you or the people around you pronounce the word "Nightmare!" and "Horror!" These words should be forgotten! Each time, instead of them say, "Happy!" If aloud so hard to do, you can say it to yourself. The main thing - to replace every negative pulse to positive.

Or, for example, the phrase of astonished man, "Wow!" does not hold water. Remember once and for all - "All of Me." And just so, then the well-being will walk as your shadow.


Our thoughts and emotions shape our lives and our surroundings. Remember that like attracts to itself similar . Negative thoughts attract negative events in our lives but fears and concerns necessarily materialize, since we have projected their ourselves. What do you think, that you become.

From the above we can make a remarkable conclusion: "The positive thoughts and emotions of love, happiness and enjoyment, will draw into our lives happy event and necessary to us people."

But for those who are convinced that it does not work. Let me explain that the affirmations can not work only in one case - if there is a conflict between what you say and who you really are. That is, if you think one thing, say another, and the third mean, your guardian angels are no longer able to understand what you want in reality. That is, if every day you say "I want a bag of money," and the subconscious mind responds to answer "Yeah, hee-hee, now will repeat  10 more times and get as many as two suitcases ... this theory does not work," of course, nothing will work . Because there is no specific goal. There is a simple "want".


The main thing - your positive attitude, a belief that you will succeed. Come first to harmony within yourself, and you'll notice that the world around you has changed. Changed as much as you wanted to.

First, any positive statement is formulated in the present tense or as an accomplished fact. Secondly, there should not be a particle "not". 
Third, it should be directed only to a good cause and for the sake of goodness and love in the universe.


And one more thing, do not come true the desires which you think you want, but those whose performance your subconscious actually wants . So, do not be surprised if it comes true, what you so passionately wanted but were afraid to even think about it ...

Of course, I can cite the example of the great Louise Hay, who is the founder of the theory of affirmations. Despite the fact that she was born into a very poor family, was exposed during childhood of the humiliation by others, and many other things which I will not tell youshe changed her life through positive thinking, which has become a creature of her life (you can do some reading of her book where it says a lot about the way of this change.) And everything that she has managed to achieve, Louise Hay, reached  without assistance through the active application of learned and even improved method of positive thinking, which is based on its unique affirmations. The woman regained her ruined health (got rid of the cancer of the uterus without medication and operations, but only the power of thought) and established her own destiny!

Another important note. Affirmations can change your life, so first of all, think about it,  whether to change the life that you have now. As the saying goes, do not fix what is not broken. If you've decided that you need a change, as the air, then go ahead. We expect great things.

Saying the affirmations is an effective way to achieve the goals, happiness, love, harmony, health and well-being. Work with them every day, saying them aloud or silently, and the result will not wait!


One last tip before you start using affirmations, ask for forgiveness from yourself and your body for what was previously thought about someone (especially you) badly, for having experienced negative emotions, and promise yourself with this time to think and speak only positive. And follow that promise

When your life will be filled with nothing but positive thoughts, feelings and emotions that come along with them and remain with you forever peace, understanding, empathy, the ability to forgive and most importantly - love.

I wish you learn to see the good in everything with what you meet, and believe me, the world will respond in kind. Positive thoughts will be the light to guide you through life and will open all the doors in front of you.

Be a MAN!

Forget about the recent rebellion of feminism - women wearing bags, pay for them at the cafe, open doors for them, protect them, take on their issues.
Maybe you'll understand why all this and why it is are you when the thousandth time you come home, and then all the way comfortable, towelies of yours different colors in the bathroom, and there is  a plate with dinner. Maybe when everything will slip out of the hands - work, business, friends, but she - your good,  will be next to you every day - kissing the hands, curling up at your feet, and laying your head telling you that you are the best. And, maybe, when you see how much health and nerves, she lost while wearing under the heart your child, or when, after hours of 12-16-20 in the throes of childbirthshe will give you an heir.




Be kinder to her.

Stop wag her nerves with your pride, man's logic, strength of character. Call her. Especially when you had a fight, call her. If you only saw her crying bitterly after you threw up, slammed the door. No, not that beautiful she cries, like in the movies shown in the pillow and quietly. She weeps bitterly, wiping tears from ugly, swollen, red face. She can be heard on the street, in a neighboring apartment. She howls in pain, which causes her to you. Call her back, come. Grab her up and take out of this misery, as from a fire in the fire.

Earnestly desire her.

Passionately, violently, furiously. Beat your fists on the wall, stomp the feet, smash everything around. Just never tell her that she is to blame for this. Do not reproach her, do not blame her. Better to let the 'one goat that looked at her "will be  wrong. But it is for you to let remains saint. Believe me, if she wants to change,
she will change, and you will not know. But if you paid attention, she did it on purpose. What would be at least as you showed to her that you are jealous, and thus love, appreciate and are afraid to lose her. Then she hesitated, in herself, in your feelings. Means that she is afraid for your relations.



Tell her more about it. Say that she is your all, that you are in heaven with her.

Let this be in cinematic pretense, so be it. Speak! If all of a sudden her will not be next day. But someday it will not. After all, all of us are not ever.
Life,  is very brief, so unpredictable, can end in an instant. So, if it will not be tomorrow, you will never get the chance to tell her everything. Tell me, dear, tell. Promise does not feel sorry for the promises and do not be afraid to cheat.
She is so happy when hears promises, while dreaming, hoping for something very good. She's so beautiful in that moment, so she's ...
Does not she deserve it? Yes, even if you will leave the day after tomorrow, is not it all worth the fifteen minutes when you were lying holding each other , and dreaming of your beautiful future! Worth it! Every second is worth it! Because there is so little such seconds in our lives .




суббота, 10 августа 2013 г.

Feminism - evolution or degradation?

Somehow, I came up with a theory that I decided to live the next 1000 years. It sounds like this: a man - was created by nature to meet women's needs and for procreation. It goes without saying that this "brilliant" idea visited my head after the man's offense? I think not. After a while, the offense gone, but I look at the men continued to hold enemy. And not a little effort it took me to get rid of the military spirit. I have been possessed by clean water of Feminism.
If you understand the nature of feminism, it turns out it has a lot of ways to sprouting in the female mind. It could  be raised by mother  (or the one who brought up the girl), it may appear on the grounds of resentment, and perhaps for self-improvement.


So what is feminism than, what it has bad and good ?

Now it is fashionable to be a feminist. If your girlfriend tells you that in her house husband is the boss, and she is on vocals, and you wonder, rebelled, and, of course, tell you that it should not be like this. Slogans: "We are women - stronger than man", etc., is so ingrained in our lives that seem to be so always, there will be. The fight is not long for equality between men and women, and for the superiority of women over men.  And if earlier there was  that the man on the prowl, and the woman in the cave, now a man at work, and the woman, also on the hunt, and at work, and in a cave-anywhere and everywhere.  Naturally, the woman gets tired a lot more. After work, she runs home, but not to rest, but to work! What nonsense, say, men! Is household chores, such hard work! The absurdity is that the woman continues to do these things every day.

Why,  nowadays we can not be relied completely on the man, and to do their - women's responsibilities? Is it because men are now less hardy, more steressed and soft? True-that men can not see! Where are they? Extinct with the dinosaurs? No. We, the women them destroyed. By our tremendous power that is within us. In the wrong direction, we sent our greatest potential. Instead, it would be ideal to carry out our mission - keeper of the hearth and distributor of love, we push, both morally and physically male population to prove ... To each his own, but what is the result ? When a man takes you by the hand, you do not think about the beautiful evening, but the marriage contract that will protect you and your children, if this man will leave you.


Pros of feminism sure everyone finds itself, but the cons are more clearly expressed. We have ceased to educate the courageous men. Why is this happening? Because our boy who grows up and takes the basics of life in the family sees where dad did not play the leading role, but only the executive. He goes to work, takes out the garbage, watches TV and reads the newspaper at the time, as a mom, like a squirrel in a wheel, doing all for the welfare of the family. A man can not be realized in the family.  No one will givesuch an opportunity to him ! What might be the realization? A hanger in the corridor is not screwed! That's right, poor boys, see, what men really. As you consider what your family will get a baby? That's right! The same! Dictatorial wife, who will nag him for everything and never give praise, because it would undermine its men's health. A men are not men for a long time, they perish under the pressure of women's oppression. If the man is not being implemented as a man, he dies.

First, from the inside and then outside. I sometimes met with these women who complained about their husbands: he does not do anything around the house! He is such a kind of reptile-only football or his computer is busy! What about me ? And the children: For us it does not have the time! And you imagine how many times you come to a place where you say you're a fool? Probably more than never, right? And your spouse have nowhere to go. He has responsibilities and you have children together. So he goes home with his head down and to somehow abstract leaves to the football, television and newspapers.

We women have already received our freedom, our superiority. Man long time are not the strong but the weak floor. And sexual minorities are the majority. Where to next? And then, in the opposite direction. If we want our children to be happy, family, strong and reliable, we have to explain everything.

Let's try to do it.

1. Imagine that your husband (boyfriend, lover, lover), is facing a difficult choice (for example, there is no money for a taxi and it is late), do not reach for the purse to give him 10 dollars, and  do not pay for the car. The man he is! Let him prove himself. He, and he alone is responsible for his decisions. Let come up with a solution myself. Otherwise, he will feel a jerk. 

2. Try to negotiate with him all the joint actions (leisure, work, vacation), and if your opinions are commonplaces, look for a compromise and do not hit him with your "right" reasons.



3. Do not rush to do anything. Understand that you are a woman. You were made for a perfect (probably because it has no one to create beautiful, as all women in the workplace, there are so many homosexuals, as a substitute). Your companion - getter, you - the keeper of the extracted. Remind him about it, and remember yourself.

4. Never among the people do not abuse him and do not tell him what to do. It demeans anyone, not just men.

5. Do not discuss your family  relationship with my mom . Mothers tend to then criticize their sons-in-law. Would you be pleased if his father discussed you?


Raise your chosen one as courageous man.  You want that his strong arms wrapped around your fragile shoulders. So you want to live with him and be like a stone wall. I want to walk down the street with his arm, and proud when other women stare at your masculinity and stately Apollo. But for the fact that everything was just so in our time we need to string up. Two centuries ago, you would not have thought about it, but now have. 
Give him the opportunity to make decisions for your family or for both of you. 
Give him the opportunity to realize himself as a man. 

He will love you more than anyone else, just for the fact that you do not destroy, but rather became his muse.









пятница, 9 августа 2013 г.

Intergated personality or someone's half?.


Each of us have heard the legend of the halves of walking around the world in search of each other. We hope that coming to wrap a handsome prince, it was she (the second half) will make us deeply happy. And desperately looking for the perfect man to save us from ourselves. 


Forget! 

First, the woman radiating fluids despair does not attract the opposite sex. Second, the search for the ideal - employment fairly stupid. With blinders on the eyes, you will look for the mythical person , whose image is formed by past experiences and prejudices of society. Burn your list of qualities of the ideal man and feel by the heart each of the candidates, not hanging a label through reason. And most importantly, do not wait to find someone who will make you happy, that someone is you, yourself. Relationships will not save you. Each of us - whole person, inside which there is everything to be happy. External able to awaken in us a state for a moment. True happiness comes from the ability to enjoy every moment of life ..

We emphasize two types of failed relationships: 

1) A woman enters a "business contract" with the man, hoping that he would kill in her the sense of loneliness, will fill the inside, will satisfy the needs and requirements. 

2) The woman is totally committed to the relationship, dissolving in a man, forgetting about her friends and hobbies. 

In both cases, the man is the lifeline that helps to get away from myself, from the depth of feelings and experiences. Relations are necessary, especially for the spiritual evolution of personality to reveal the full sense of love, compassion, warmth, which is already in us. Right now start living as a complete person, radiating love, and you will attract into your life or have  another whole different look at the man (before you looked on him as a half), which is close to you .

четверг, 8 августа 2013 г.

Meditation - an exercise for the mind

Returning to the question of how to save and where to get the energy, I want to say a few words about meditation.

Psychologists, and teachers of different practices know:

WHERE IS ATTENTION

THERE IS ENERGY

Where is the attention the most?

Usually on objects of the world: family, work, shopping, movies, animals, flowers, books, even interesting. Even at the time of an action focus is often on other things and often in a different time.

For example, during lunch time, few people realize that they want to eat at this time. Selected from the range offered in the dining room or coffee shop, rather than what you want.

If we listen to the body, it always indicates that wishes and that would be better. Also in the mind spinning like a swarm of bees, thoughts, memories of the past or the future and plans for the future, and not always justified criticism of yourself or others people.

All this is done, instead of full dinner. A fully - not just wave a spoon, but the attention to be at least at the time of the meal for yourself. After all, our body needs not only nutritious natural nutrients, but also energy. And energy - is precisely the attention.

There exist meditation just aimed at purifying your mind from the so-called "mental garbage" - a state of "all that I see and what I think, I say."

This also contributes to a special variety of distractions that seek to influence a person's mind through his senses: hearing, sight, smell, and touch.

Hence the variety of advertising in various designs, various tastings. For the attention of a man fighting many commercial and political structures in order to enter into his mind, to take its place and get yourself its share of attention and thus energy.

Meditation aimed at cleansing the mind, to study the nature of the mind and thoughts their nature, to help get beyond the usual perception of the world, to learn how to explore their inner world.

During meditation, the attention seemed tied to the breath. A breath going on inside your body. This allows you to keep quiet within yourself and energize.

At this time just might start the healing process of the physical body, restore emotional stability and peace of mind.

I would like to say a few sessions should not expect instant results. But this is possible with a regular practice.

Meditation - an exercise for the mind, which affects on the condition of the body.

Knowing this, we can consciously manage our health, emotions and energy.




In this to us can help meditation with visualization. Rendering images that may appear to help set up or on the wave of life to which you want to live. Listening to the radio, you can catch a wave interference, or with a clean sound.

Usually it is recommended to master the practice of meditation in the group where the teacher always explain what, how to do, you learn how to listen to your body. It is also a discipline in a certain way. Many practitioners are familiar with meditation or start a home yoga practice the fact that it has a beginning and after 10-20 minutes is not enough patience, everything strays or is taken a decision that it is enough for today.