What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).

The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".

To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.

Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.

Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.

You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.

Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

Seduction is proceeded by "Agent Provocateur" ...

Lingerie brand from England, but his mission is clear in any language. Oh, what kind of underwear! Expensive, impractical, minuscule lace and silk, a pinch of rhinestones and graceful bows - every day is not going to wear. That's right: non-lethal weapons should be available only to a specialist high-end. And just for the purposes of the special operation.

No, you just think about it: the famous brand established by an English couple! But what about the traditional British stiffness, restraint and decency? Sheds little light on the fact that one of the founders, Joe Corre, the son of the mad genius Vivienne Westwood, and to this any scandals on the shoulder. In fact, the emergence of Joe to the white light from the discharge too eccentric. Many years ago, Vivienne Westwood was young, and that's what piquancy, pregnant. She walked down the street by no means a good cause - namely abortion. And suddenly she saw in a storefront window her cherished dream. In a in the form of a gorgeous coat. "My God! Without abortion I can live, but without this beauty can not "- probably something like this reasoned in  Vivian's mind and all the money intended for the operation, were spended on the coat. Soon in the tiny crib little Joe was crying ...

Cheap and cheerful? No, expensive and sexy

In 1994, Joe Corre and his wife Serena Rees decided to "kerf rock in the hole" and shake the sleepy old lady England. Thus arose the first boutique Agent Provocateur. A few words about the title. Translated from the "spy" agent provocateur - a secret agent who instigate actions leading to the trap. Actually, the conclusion suggests itself, is worth seeing lingerie submitted under the brand name. Call it "underwear" language does not turn. Because its primary mission - to seduce, destroy, shoot down the path of true gender male. Perhaps it is because the British thought, standing in front of the shop window of the first with a vicious commodity. And there - oh merciful! - Stretches, smiled and took sexually-enlistment pose mannequins. In lace bustier, fishnet thong, armed with whips and handcuffs in rhinestones to bows but with fur trim. Boutique atmosphere - boudoir, sellers dressed in "uniforms flight attendants" - short pink robe with the inscription Agent Provocateur. By the way, the design developed by Vivienne Westwood. She dictated the rules for its "exploitation": wear exclusively with black stockings, unbuttoned top and bottom buttons of clothes.

Oh, well, what they have done, these Joe Corre and Serena Rees!
 .. Nothing special: call things by their names, crushed pillars of pretense and hypocrisy. And at the same time returned underwear long-lost sensuality and seduction: lace-up corsets, garter belts, a combination of bright, saturated colors. By the way, all these panties, bustiers not be construed as push-ups and seductive pads to add volume to the right places, just beating a backhand naturalness. Therefore, a woman in sexy lingerie feels sexy and domineering. Like she is walking on the podium, commanding shocked and admiring partner. To shake the darling can not only view, but also the price of laundry. However,  he does not need to know this.

The British public maybe grumbled over a cup of tea, but linen swept from the shelves. Agent Provocateur knew what to do.

Harz, Kylie! Do not hesitate, George and Tony!

Buying happiness would not be complete without a controversial advertising moves. Joe Corre did not wait and beg. In 2001, the famous movie was aired with Kylie Minogue in Agent Provocateur lingerie prancing horse an improvised. Well, as a horse - a velvet seat. Well, as the prancing - seductively writhing. A decade after the brand has thrown out altogether unheard-of audacity: posted on his website movie outrageous content. As you see it is unlikely, remains to listen and use your imagination. So imagine the Oval Office, a man like an American ex-president George W. Bush, taking part in a sadomasochistic orgy. Of course, along the way there is an advertising production Agent Provocateur. In the end, there is another party, from head to toe in black latex and wears the mask of a dog. When the "lady" takes off the mask, it is a ... man, surprisingly similar to the British Prime Minister Tony Blair!

Scent of a Woman, and the temptation

The English couple get not a joke and added an arsenal of spirits befitting the occasion - you know, what. So, Agent Provocateur fragrance is hidden in a black box, and that, in turn, hides pale pink porcelain bottle. Which predictably provided "slit for spying." And what opens to the prying eyes? Sleek bottle shaped like an egg, which symbolizes fertility, a woman, and of other similar things here. Ask how perfume? They say they are for women, whose purpose - and the power of seduction. She avoids pressure excludes obligations. She seduces and charms, seduces and provokes insanity. Thats all!

Brand Agent Provocateur presented in the native open spaces, The same boudoir decor boutiques, shop-attendants in her dressing gown fastened correctly, Linen, accessories, perfumes ... And the old, old truth: if a woman does not give up, she wins if rent - dictates the winner. So, are you ready to call your own conditions?

Beauty secrets from all over the world

Each country has gained invaluable experience caring for themselves and Beauty. Japanese women are famous for flawless skin, oriental beauty - gorgeous hair. I have tried to collect for you the most proven and popular beauty recipes in several countries of the world. Maybe you'll find something useful for yourself.

Japan

Purpose: Porcelain skin.
Secret Ingredients: rice and seaweed.

Rice Scrub. In ancient times, the Japanese rice bran replaced soap. Until now, many Japanese women use them as a scrub, which perfectly refreshes and rejuvenates the skin. Rice bran is ground in a coffee grinder, and then they are applied after a bath or shower in the wet body, including the face and neck. Besides the fact that rice bran is a good peel for the dead cells, they are also rich in vitamin E and other beauty antiokidantami that improve skin condition. You can use them in a different way: going to take a bath, wrap in cheesecloth half a cup of powdered rice bran and put the bag into the water - after a bath your skin will become the silk.

Seaweed mask. The healing properties of seaweed in Japan has long been known. For the mask you will need about 200 g of fresh seaweed, but you can use dried. Fresh seaweed soak for a few minutes in the water in order to wash the salt. Dry - soaked for an hour in the cold water. Then algae are boiled in a glass of water over low heat for 10 minutes. Grind in a mixer, cool and add a teaspoon of lemon juice. The resulting mask is applied to cleansed face for 15-20 minutes, then wash off with cold water. The mixture can be stored in the refrigerator up to 4 days.

Beware of the sun. Everyone is familiar with the traditional image of Japanese women with a parasol in hand. But it still does not go only famous geisha, but also ordinary Japanese women. After all, the sun - the worst enemy of beauty. But Japanese women do not stop there - they put on, sitting behind the wheel of cars, opera gloves (those up to the elbows) to the sun coming through the open windows, do not spoil the porcelain skin. There is what's take an example!

Pakistan

Purpose: Silk and leather luxurious hair.
Secret Ingredients: almonds, orange peel, melon, olive oil.

Almond Scrub. My Pakistani friend told me that even her mother, who, by the way, was reputed to be the first beauty of their town, used almond flour to cleanse the face. Probably not in vain because modern cosmetologists believe almonds excellent cleansing and rejuvenating. To get the almond scrub almonds are ground into a fine powder and mixed with coconut milk (for oily skin) or olive oil (for dry skin). However, if there is no coconut, it is possible to do regular milk. But the coconut is better - it has strong anti-inflammatory and anti-fungal properties as well as is a good restores keratin that makes up our skin, hair and nails.

Balm for the skin of the head. Patients with dry, itchy scalp is often mistaken for loose flakes of skin dander, and complain that over the years can not get rid of it. Meanwhile, there is a great tool that allows you quickly and effectively solve the problem. Need to rub into the roots of the hair and scalp little warm oil - olive oil, burdock, castor, sunflower, even in the absence of others. You can add to it 2-3 drops of natural aromatic oils. Then wrap your hair with a warm towel and leave for an hour or two. Then wash the hair with a mild shampoo. This mask improves not only the scalp, but also hair.

Orange and melon mask. Here's another favorite Pakistani recipe for beautiful skin: You need to dry orange peel (at last they found a use!) And then grind them in a coffee grinder. Add to them a little melon pulp, or, for want of a little water with the lemon juice. The mixture shuld be put on a cleansed face for 15-20 minutes, then rinse with cold water. The mask is best done in the afternoon or evening, immediately before  living the home. The mask has excellent antioxidant properties, making the skin fragrant, pleasant to the touch and literally glowing from within.

Polynesia

Purpose: The smooth young skin.
Secret Ingredients: Coconut and sea water.

Exotic island beauties not only use coconuts for food, but also successfully are used for cosmetic purposes. With their help, they treat your hair clean and rejuvenate the skin. Possessing land, disinfectant and soothing properties, coconut is particularly useful for the care and treatment of oily, problem and combination skin. Coconut promotes rapid regeneration of the skin, moisturizes and makes it velvety, while eliminating the excess fat. And the healing properties have literally all parts of the coconut: as pulp and its milk and butter, and even peel.

Coconut Scrub. Coconut husks soaked in water for one hour, then thoroughly ground in a coffee grinder. Then pulverized coconut pulp bit - about half the volume husk. And diluted coconut milk mixture to a paste. Scrub is applied after a bath or shower in the wet body, including the face and neck. Skin massage for a few minutes, and then rinsed with warm water .

Thalassotherapy. So called sea-water treatments. It is a traditional practice of the vast number of countries around the world. The benefit of sea bathing is difficult to overestimate, because sea salt, mined from the depths of the sea, contains the full range of minerals and trace elements beneficial effects on the body: sodium chloride, potassium, calcium, magnesium, bromine, iron, iodine, and even silver and gold. All of these substances through our skin receptors have a healing effect: improve sleep and prevent insomnia, irritability, and reduce the symptoms of depression. Seawater also has excellent anti-inflammatory and analgesic effect. Useful sea baths and beauty: they provide a stimulating and regenerating effect on the skin and enrich the skin micro-and macro-elements, improve blood circulation and lymphatic flow, thus restoring elasticity and beauty of the breast and great fight with cellulite. Sea salt is sold in drug stores, usually in packs of 1 kg. The bath is best taken in the morning or 1-2 hours before bedtime. The water temperature should be 35-37 °, duration bath - 10-20 minutes. On the bath is required from 500g (Black Sea) up to 2 kg (Dead Sea) sea salt.

Mediterranean countries

Purpose: The natural beauty of fresh skin.
Secret Ingredients: milk, olive oil, grapes.

Milk baths. Women from mediterranean countries, have always been able to look after themselves. It is known that the ancient Grecian and Roman women loved to take milk baths. It is unlikely that you will afford to take a whole bath of milk, but milk to wash (for dry skin) or yogurt (for oily skin) is extremely useful. Lactic acid has a mild exfoliating properties, so dairy washing refresh and improve the complexion.

Nourishing body lotion. Woman from souther countries, there is a practice self-care: they are applied to the entire body, including the face and hair, olive oil and leave it to soak from several minutes down to several hours. When the oil is washed off, the skin and the hair is literally silk. Just be careful when putting oil on your face - If your skin is prone to rashes, better to limit a body.

Grape freshness. Grape juice is very salubrious for the skin. You can mix it with honey and apply as a mask for toning flabby or tired skin. And you can chop grape seeds, grape juice to dilute and use this mixture as a rejuvenating and vitaminizing .

How to look beautyful without make-up?

Sometimes you get tired of makeup. All these jars, tubes - well, as you can! Eyes on them do not look! I want to be natural and genuine, but still beautiful. Can I do that without having to look at myself in the mirror and arm do not reache for the powder or fresh-faced? Of course you can, but, nevertheless, some effort from your part is still nedded.

What is primarily characterized by untidy? Uneven complexion, pimples, puffiness - in short, the state of the skin. And that just is not so conspicuous, you need somewhere to distract the eye companion. And get an  attention to the beautiful and well-groomed facial features. And then come to help:

1. Petrolatum. To make the look more expressive and eyelashes longer, thicker and darker, put on the  eyelashes a clean brush with a little petroleum jelly or castor oil. It would be beneficial for their recovery, if you do it regularly enough, the structure of your lashes will improve dramatically.

2. Well-defined eyebrows. A neat line of eyebrows creates a kind of frame for your face, making the focus on the features: eyes, lips, cheeks. If you want to give your eyebrows the desired shape and direction, use a brush and tweezers for eyebrows. Carefully remove any excess hair and then comb your eyebrows - first against the hair growth, and then to growth. At the brush you can add a little castor oil or petroleum jelly.

3. Sugar Scrub. Scrubs make skin smooth, even and radiant because remove dead skin cells. To achieve the glow of youth to age or even tired skin, you need to regularly use scrubs. If the store is not at hand scrub, you can do well and homemade scrubs. The most simple but effective homemade scrub is this: take some regular granulated sugar and apply gentle massage and moist the skin of the face (do not forget about your lips!), then rinse with cool water. 

4. Light tan. It is the perfect replacement for tonal foundation and even powder. If in the near future trip to the sea does not threaten you, come to the solarium, or even better - bronzer. Tan should be easy enough to hide all the non-uniform color space, but will not wear out the skin visually.

5. Eyedrops. It is a simple but effective trick to instantly erase from the face of fatigue, remove redness of the eyes and make the eyes look bright and expressive drip into each eye, one drop of the eye means that eliminates redness.

6. Moisturizer. Support elasticity and freshness of skin with moisturizer, preferably containing light-reflecting particles. Put it in the morning after washing at a slightly wet face and neck.

7. Beautiful teeth. If you have a white smile, then you can safely dispense with little or no makeup, its absence no one will notice, so white teeth and grooming support the impression of well-groomed as a whole. So do not forget to visit the dentist regularly, periodically whiten teeth and protect them from tooth decay. And, of course, in any case, do not smoke!

Elegant home image

Fashion dictates the rules and in respect of home clothes. It was good to our mothers: in those days they could go at home (and allowed!) in robes. For a modern lady like dress code is not allowed. If we believe in family psychology, in a  such form it is not far to the divorce.

But seriously, in terms of choosing of attire for the house you should follow the example of oriental women. Husbands never see them in the old and ugly clothes and always admire their wives. I like the one statement on this subject, I do not remember where I read it: "The Russian woman puts on the best  coming out on the street, and  does not pay attention to appearance, when she is at home. That is, another man she wants to please, and hers not. "My friend with whom I shared similar thoughts objected that our women do all the work around the house themselves, they do not have assistants, as opposed to the same eastern, and, say, wash the floor in an elegant dress is not very convenient. What is true. But modern designers are for us. In the collections can be found both beautiful and comfortable home clothes. Take a walk to the shops?

So, what guided the choice of home clothes?

At home, we relax, restore power. And this is possible only if it comfortable, cozy, warm, and every detail of the interior we enjoy. The same requirements must meet and indoor clothing. With its help, we are creating a mood for yourself and loved ones. After all, if we are not comfortable in the clothes, no matter how beautiful it is was, would we be able to fully relax? Of course not. We will be annoyed by the fact that, for example, constantly having to correct the straps on top or pull up the skirt. I am sure that soon you will change  beautiful but uncomfortable clothes on the good old bathrobe.

Therefore, the first and most important requirement for home clothes - convenience. Attire must not hamper movements, push, be too narrow. Convenient should be any clothes, but especially home. Another reason that choosing outfits for school and work, we often sacrifice comfort for the sake of beauty. And by the evening are so tired that dream to get home as quickly as possible _ remove all to give yourself a chance to rest. It's like in the commercials where the girl proudly walking down the street in high heels, men looking after her with admiration . But once she crosses the threshold of house , as removes uncomfortable shoes, clothes and put on cute pajamas and slippers.

Second, the important fabric from which made ​​homemade clothes. Pleasant body silk, cotton, satin, flannel, jersey. These materials are soft, warm, breathable, easy to use (easy to wash _ dry quickly). Their only disadvantage is that they are heavily wrinkled. My advice - do not look for clothing made ​​from 100% natural fabric, if clothes will contain small percentage of synthetic additives, things will be less wrinkle.

The third criterion to guide the choice of attire for the home is a pastime in the native walls. How do you spend your leisure time? Are you hosting frequently? What chores are you? For example, a lot of you are cooking. So you need clothes, cut free of the fabric, so it was not hot, with short sleeves. Refill your wardrobe, dress shirt, there will be nothing to interfere with the culinary process. If you're a mom of crumbs that actively learns, then pay attention to the track suit. Obtain to it a couple of t-shirts, and the image is ready! In this dress you can reach to the nearest supermarket,  put garbage until the baby is asleep.

Fifthly, I recommend when choosing a home clothes to give preference to the one which is made in soft colors, so it does not irritate nor you, nor household. Pay attention to the things pale blue, olive, yellow, light pink palette. Do not forget about the accessories. Kit will be brighter if you combine it into a hairpin tone rim.




What to choose?


- Two robes - silk and bath robe. The first is indispensable for the morning toilet, in the second to wrap up so nicely after a bath;

- Jumpsuit. Very universal thing. It is convenient, clean and it is easy to cook in and guests to meet.

- Sweatpants;

- A few T-shirts and shirts-bortsovok. I love T-Shirts with cartoon characters. This print is uplifting;

- Breeches or shorts, depending on the characteristics of the figure;

- Dresses, one lung, another dense, warm for the winter.

Look good at home is very important, especially if you are married. I do not urge you to wear evening dresses and brightly painted, leave it for special occasions. But also do not need to go in the clothes you are ashame to go to street. And in these things we wear more often at home.

Clothing affects our mood. In a beautiful dress even relation to  household chores will be different, they are carried out with great desire. If your wardrobe has no home clothes, buy at least one set. You'll see how you mood will immediately change!  It's so important for a woman - to be beautiful and attractive. And to compliment ones provided!
I wish you in all situations have a flirty look, be well-groomed and elegant!

You are - the star of the party

Even the most timid person can feel at ease in any place and at any time, subject to a number of simple rules and a little pre-preparation - says Leil Lowndes, a recognized expert in the field of psychology, communication, bestselling author of "How to talk to anyone about anything . "

Before the event:

Imagine that all this has been
Consider that your task - to play a major role. So spend a dress rehearsal in advance. Imagine how you pacing (impeccable posture, as if someone pulls you up the rope) as smiling with a warm smile (work-out in front of a mirror), hear how confident you are talking to other people and, most importantly, feel the pleasure of knowing that you - in great shape, and people are drawn to you.

Find your "something"

Do not make potential friends suffer, inventing an excuse to come to you. Carry anything unusual that could be a topic for conversation.

Work on image

Show consideration to the choice of attire. If you think that the "dress sits very personal, especially if you draw the belly and do not turn sideways," it is better to put it aside. Otherwise, the entire party will torment you two questions: "So, whether you're standing," and "Is it enough to strongly pulled abdomen." In such a condition is no place for interesting conversations and enigmatic smiles. Pay special attention to shoes. No doubt, the heels visually lengthen the legs. But in order to have noticed it,you will have to move on them , not to prop up the wall! Meanwhile walk "of the tribe," and not from the hip can ruin any beauty.

Achieve 100% confidence

Allocate sufficient time to become perfect. A person who does not need to worry because the nails are not in the best condition, to brow hands have never reached, one eye somehow made ​​up slightly differently than the second, and underwear too tight bites into the body, it is easier to communicate .

Agree with yourself

In order not to be jealous about liberated ladies, preconceived strategy and tactics of behavior. Tell yourself that you are invited to a party, not your restraint, shyness and embarrassment, so that all these qualities will have to stay home and wait for your return.

If verbal persuasion does not help, create a written order on the same topic. Consider this magical changes that have to happen right at Christmas time.





In the beginning of the party:

Use the method of the "Old Friend"

As a rule, people value not only your words, but also how they are told and the tone you use, in what position you are. To make your cues not contradictory the language of your body, imagine dealing with a stranger, that he - your old friend (old love), with whom you have not seen for a long time. And just today, you each have met again. These pleasant feelings will start a chain reaction throughout your body - from the subconscious softening look to the turn of the body.

Use the method of the "Flowing smile"

Take your time to smile to everyone, as if just received from them a huge amount of money donated. Instead, carefully look into a person's face for a few seconds. Try to feel his personality. And then give him a wide warm smile that flows out of your eyes. Pause, which you stand will convince the person to whom you are smiling that smile of yours is sincere.

During the event:

Avoid one word answers

Your conversation even with the nice man can end, barely begun, if he would have nothing to add to what you say. Try to construct sentences so that the other party also had something to say. For example, the question "Where are you from" answer "from the Southern Butovo" is not enough. Nice to add that such a significant and interesting (not for you, but for someone with whom you speak) is in the area. If a male athlete - advice him to visit a good sports club, a banker tell about the lack of additional offices. Your task - to give him an opportunity to comment on your remark .Then, when he says something clever in response to your bait, will take you to as an excellent conversationalist.

Connect the other guests to the conversation

Engage in the conversation of those who like and am glad to join your circle, but does not know how to do it. People are always drawn to those who are interested in themselves. Imagine that you are shining spotlights around in your power to direct their light - try to make sure that their beams visited all who are close to you.
And, most importantly - remember the effectiveness of a smile. If your goal - meeting with a man, then keep in mind the results of research scientists from the University of Missouri.
Female researcher established visual contact with the guinea men who drank while sitting at the bar in the local nightclubs or drinking establishments. In some cases, the gaze of women scholars that was accompanied by a smile. In other cases, they did not smile. "The highest percentage of attempts to establish contact - 60% - was observed in the case where, among others, non-verbal signs of the present interest, a smile."

Plus of each age

As a child, you always happily was waiting for her birthday! However, there comes a time when on your birthday you do not want to have fun, invite friends and throw a party, because you became another year older. Do not worry. 

Of course, the time rob us of our youthful charm, but instead gives invaluable experience. Moreover, opening up new horizons, new opportunities, one is better than another!

20 years

Body. At the young girl is smooth and elastic skin, there is no hint of wrinkles, and furthermore on the extra pounds. Your body listens to you, and such reaction can be envied. As a young woman you can do anything - a dizzying slopes on a snowboard, crazy rides, Latin American dancing, skating, riding on roller skates. You can choose whatever your heart desires.


Memory. All of the new knowledge you absorbs ka sponge. But little logic in the actions, and the attention is distracted. For example, instead of to preparing and studying the French language, you have no qualms to arrange a party with friends or going to the last show in the movies.

The psyche. In your head heaps all sorts of plans, thoughts and ideas, and energy to spare. Today you have decided to sign up with a friend in the solarium, and tomorrow you travel to Tibet ... You can easily make a new acquaintance, very quickly fall in love with you liked guy. However, at your age you can get burned!


Love. Sure, you can fall in love to madness, here you have everything spontaneous and chaotic. You dream about the ideal relationship with romance, passion, gifts and of course, you want him to wear you in arms, in general, everything that you see in movies about love. But you should know that usually life is not so rosy. You both want everything to be good, but there is practically no experience yet, and you can not tolerate, so every minute quarrel because of all the rubbish.

Sex. At this age, you probably are not making love in order to someone fascinate, surprise or pleasure - you play in curiosity. You do not know how to get a real pleasure, and you do not know what it is. Very often, you remain dissatisfied, but you probably would have changed your attitude to sex if your partner was not contemporary, but a man that has already an experience.

30 years


Body. The facial skin is no longer such "fresh". Get plenty of it moisturizes, and before going to sleep under the eyes, always apply a nourishing cream special. If you notice that you start to gain weight, then do not wait another minute, come eat so much and loans themselves, fight wrinkles, cellulite because it creeps up quietly, and then settles permanently on the buttocks. Try to move more, because the metabolic processes in the body are not as intense as it was ten years ago. However, despite these changes, thirty years -  is the golden time. After all, you're just as good and keep the shape.

Memory. You have already graduated, in fact, has gone further courses - sewing, English lessons, mastering the personal computer, driving a car. You also perceive information and you can appreciate that you can try in practice everything you know. The only thing that's stopping you - your responsibilities are countless, and the thought of children, family and career.

The psyche. Not all the plans you are able to carry out some old friends dropped out, and they has no place in your life. But now you know your strengths and weaknesses, and they skillfully using . Now you understand that the most important thing in your life: friends, faithful companion on whom you can rely on.

Love. You not once heart broken, you're experiencing frustration, so already know well what kind of fruit is - a man and what you can expect from him. You more than anything want long lasting relationship that will be based on respect and mutual understanding. Moreover, if you have not done that already know and feel that it is time to have a baby.


Sex. You already know what a real passion. You already have a regular partner or husband, with whom you're constantly looking for new sensations and experiment are improving your skills in the art of love. You now know what an orgasm is and you know how to get it, in fact, has become a very skillful and irreplaceable lover.

40 years

Body. You first wrinkles on the face, and age has become the main theme for reflectionyou increasingly began to think about it. Purchase a good, quality cosmetics, do not regret the money. Do not forget that even if you have a very good flawless skin, something about it still need to take care of, because you can not, without doing anything, then continue to look for thirty years. Remember your hands, upper chest neck, they also require care. Do not worry about the fact that you are not so quick to move around, but you are able to tolerate, you're hardy.

Memory. You start to notice that the memory fades, any knowledge difficult to hold in your head? This is not the case. Now you just need more time to learn the material, you need to concentrate and focus, moreover, now you need perseverance to achieve your goals the ability to properly manage your time.

The psyche. You can now realistically assess your strengths and abilities, easily define the ability  of others. You can anticipate the changes that are sure to happen in your life, so you analyze the pros and cons. But right now in your life was not enough spontaneity and immediacy. Before making any decision you think a hundred times hesitating for a long time, because of that missing the a lot of chances and opportunities.

Love. You know all its advantages, try to behave with men, whether it is a spouse or a friend. You can clearly explain your problem. But it is not worth much to get hung up on the kids or work. In order to love, you need to constantly take care of themselves.


Sex. Well, here you are at the top of your capabilities! You can do anything, and  know how to have fun dostavlyaet it to the man. Teens are not rival to you, not in love affairs, nor in temperament. However, you still dream to sink into the arms of a tireless young lover.

50 years

Body. The skin is thin and dry, like an oak leaf in late autumn. Do not stop to take care of her in the evening and in the morning. You possess a very high resistance and endurance, so you can safely overcome the marathon, you need only to want. You can manage your time raskhoduesh forces wisely.

Memory. Now you have more time to spend with the benefit of yourselves, can make sense to think about the development of some crafts? After all, even the scientists say that only 40% percent of people stop learning at the age of 25 years, and others continue to study only after survive the crisis of middle age. So you still able to great lengths!

The psyche. You have to learn to spend energy only as needed, has learned to control yourself. You can clearly set a goal and achieves it safely. At your age you can easily talk to a stranger, easy to make new friends, and it's true, after all, love and friendship for all ages!

Love. The most interesting - you have not lost interest in men. And now you're interested in and attracts adventurous relationship. You look back to your youth. But now you love is otherwise. Now you again have no worries, and time belongs only to you. Do not miss this moment, enjoy!

Sex. You have access to all the delights of sex. You are free to make love as much as your heart desires. And some discomfort and dryness of the vagina - this is easily remedied, take advantage of intimate gel, it will deal with this problem. Plus there will be no oral sex. Try it! It is not necessary to build a barrier in your head, live and enjoy every moment.

Lessons from Oprah Winfrey

She is called the most powerful woman in America, although the first six years of her life she spent not in a private mansion in rural backwoods. Her TV show is watched by millions of people, and once she was denied a contract for the presenter news. 

In her only marriage she spent twenty years old, became pregnant for the first time at fourteen. Make a show of personal life and everyone can but to become a popular TV presenter, but keep yourself as a woman perfectly turned out Oprah Winfrey.

Honesty and simplicity

Oprah Winfrey is famous throughout the world. What's her secret? With any person, whether it's the president of the United States or an ordinary housewife, she talks easily and honestly, not hiding behind verbal tinsel and psychological manipulation. Before Oprah everyone is equal she makes no distinction between businessmen and politicians, political criminals and school teachers. The key to it is the person himself, not the social roles. This is the motto she lives herself. If Oprah does not adhere to the rules of "simplicity and honesty", she would not have become the mistress of her life. Sincerity - one of her major talents.

Try to be honest with yourself and with your partner. Pay attention not only on the superficial communication, but also on the inner world of the man with whom you are dealing.

Be different

"Marriage is actually - the sacrifice of yourself for a relationship with someone. When I'm ready to put myself in a position, then I'll do it, "- said Oprah Winfrey. Interview she gives, never vary in directness and honesty from those of the author which it is in their shows. For a long time she did not dare to register a relationship with her fiance Graham Stedmanom because she was not sure that she could be a good wife and a professional TV presenter at the same time. After Oprah agreed, twenty years they lived, as they say, in peace and harmony, but then broke up. Now Oprah Winfrey is credited in love to Barack Obama or the childhood friend, Gayle King, blaming nonconventional orientation, but it is nothing more than speculation.

At the same time, Oprah can hardly be called a model of constancy - in youth she had many short-term romance. However, she believes that it is rather good.

"Dating - it's fun - she explains. - Even if he is not your prince. Take care that he sometimes missed ... When a man always know where you are, and you are always reachable - he takes it for granted. "

Therefore: every age - has its own activity, each period of time - their priorities. Do not limit your life by a man and  do not only focus your existence on him. Do not restrain yourself with too stereotyped behavior. If you want to be a flirty - be, a love - love of the soul. Do not be afraid to learn and  be open to new people. Maybe a new acquaintance, maybe he will not be your prince, but you can get a good and useful friend.

The past is in the past

As a child, Oprah was subjected molested by brothers, uncles and friends. In her opinion, it is "a perfect example of poor guy who got out of the dirt." The girl had run away from home and wander in search of shelter and sustenance. As a result of all the tribulations of a juvenile detention saved her early pregnancy, keep the baby from which also failed.

Despite such a traumatic experience, and maybe partly based on it, Oprah Winfrey, and was able to build their own destiny, and relationships with the opposite sex. 

However, an unpleasant experience, it is reasonable and ordered: men with strange reputation she dose not allow in her life. "Avoid men who have a bunch of kids from different women. He did not marry them when they made the children, why would he treat you differently? "- Asks herself and their audience Oprah.

So: do not be afraid to be wrong, be afraid to make the same mistake twice. The past can be a valuable resource for building new relationships, and just a material for art.









Know how to protect yourself

"No man will not dare break your heart." Such a statement once made ​​Oprah Winfrey. For a long time she was embarrassed her appearance and weight, not to mention the color of the skin. Could build a serious relationship, satisfied with fleeting connections and romances only for the way she spoke to satisfy her sexual hunger.

"The fear of loneliness - that's what makes many women stay in abusive relationships - says Oprah. - You should know - you are the best thing that could happen to any man, and if he mistreats you, he will lose a lot. If he is the first to draw attention to you, just know that he - not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have much choice. Make the right. Women take care of your heart! "

Power in the word

Once Oprah has mentioned in her talk show about mad cow disease, transmitting through a the beef. Of course, after all, the demand for meat products plummeted. American businessmen working in this area have suffered huge losses. One of her casually thrown recommendation makes books bestsellers, ordinary Americans - the famous and diet drinks with which Oprah could significantly lose weight instantly become deficit in the markets bought by the fans of the star.

Oprah Winfrey has proven by example that words have over the minds and hearts of the people the enormous power. It's unlikely that we'll find ourselves in a situation where our every word and gesture will monitor millions of people around the world, but still we should treat them carefully. What are we up to the rest of mankind, if our words hear most loved, the most valuable people. Their feelings and our relationship with them may suffer due to careless words thrown.

Therefore: always say what you think, but think what you say. Closest people are called because we in front of them and they are defenseless in front of us, without the usual armor of irony and social protections. As a teenager, and now, the correct text messages could cheer up to its highest pitch. It seems to be a couple of words, and how much happiness. Rate the power of words. Learn to communicate.

Believe in yourself

Thoughts on the global popularity and millions of fees come in every other head, but Oprah Winfrey was able to realize their dreams in life. A simple girl from the Negro ghetto, who grew up without a father. Who could have predicted that within a few decades she will be the star of America and the billionaire into the bargain? At the cost of hell to work, intuition and faith in herselve unable to Oprah Winfrey to achieve such success. 

She never changed her personality, adjusting to the requirements of others, did not go for short-term profits as in the construction of her career, and in relations

"Do not try to change yourself for a relationship that is not destined to emerge. Slowly - that's the surest way - tells Oprah in one of her shows. - Do not survive life for the sake of another man, first find what makes you truly happy. If your relationship ended because he did not behave decently, then you can not "be friends." A true friend would never mistreat a friend. "

Therefore, no one except you will not make you happy. Neither the car nor the man will not bring  you happinnes. Oprah Winfrey experience teaches us that only faith in yourself, calm self-confidence, the ability does not depend on the opinion of others, can give the basis for a strong relationship.

Fashionable, Stylish and Confident

1. Necessarily should be in the wardrobe shoes corporal (natural) color. They are perfect to any kind of clothing, also visually lengthen leg.

2. One more must have - a few white shirts. Form-fitting shirt male pattern perfectly emphasize the beautiful breasts, thighs and waist.

3. In the wardrobe sure to have a set of clothes "for itself." Can wear it for fun - to communicate and meet with friends. Calm tones, multilayer does not emphasize the waist - all contribute to your comfort.

4. Purchase certainly classic black trousers, black sweater with a V-neck and black boats strict on the comfortable heel. Pants must sit upon you well and good, sweater highlight the neckline. This outfit can be hundreds of times outplay the different accessories and it will always look gorgeous and differently.

5. Remember that ribbons and straps on the shoes shorten the leg. A classic boats shape is drawn. This should be considered, especially for women of medium height.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.


8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.

8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

9. In the locker room necessarily have to be at least one pair of shoes with heels. Heels gives the woman some instability that attracts men to support her.


10. Wearing a bright, flashy dress, do hairstyle smooth not striking not to divert attention from the dress.

11. Bright shoes with straps are selected so that ankle was open.

12. Remember, if the top of clothing - bulky volume, the bottom should be light and airy. Look for harmony!

13. Bright, unconventional and revealing things to wear sultry resorts, there are looking great.


14. For a spectacular view, open the chest area, extend the leg line at the expense of a well-fitting trousers and add interesting accessories. With casual dresses will be well looked clutch, big sunglasses and a bright silk scarf.

15. Do not be afraid of trendy trousers with a low line between the legs. Contrary to the popular belief that they shorten the legs the do opposite sit perfectly and make legs slim.

16. Seductive and flirtatious gait of Marilyn Monroe can be repeated, wearing a skirt just below the knee, which will impede slightly walk.

17. The bright skirts, for example, beige color should wear a slender long-legged women.


18. To attract the attention of others, you can simply: make up lips with bright lipstick, put on huge sunglasses and bright bag.

19. The coat does not have to encircle. This is outerwear, and therefore can be free.

20. For full thighs there are long skirts and dresses just below the knee.

21. To demonstrate the neckline in a jacket with a plunging neckline, be sure to wear a contrasting color top.

22. In the wardrobe should be for all occasions in your life. These are clothes for home, shopping, working, elegant clothes. All these things have to be appropriate, stylish and well-fitting on you.

Evelyn Hromchenko (c)