Be a MAN!

Forget about the recent rebellion of feminism - women wearing bags, pay for them at the cafe, open doors for them, protect them, take on their issues.
Maybe you'll understand why all this and why it is are you when the thousandth time you come home, and then all the way comfortable, towelies of yours different colors in the bathroom, and there is  a plate with dinner. Maybe when everything will slip out of the hands - work, business, friends, but she - your good,  will be next to you every day - kissing the hands, curling up at your feet, and laying your head telling you that you are the best. And, maybe, when you see how much health and nerves, she lost while wearing under the heart your child, or when, after hours of 12-16-20 in the throes of childbirthshe will give you an heir.

Be kinder to her.

Stop wag her nerves with your pride, man's logic, strength of character. Call her. Especially when you had a fight, call her. If you only saw her crying bitterly after you threw up, slammed the door. No, not that beautiful she cries, like in the movies shown in the pillow and quietly. She weeps bitterly, wiping tears from ugly, swollen, red face. She can be heard on the street, in a neighboring apartment. She howls in pain, which causes her to you. Call her back, come. Grab her up and take out of this misery, as from a fire in the fire.

Earnestly desire her.

Passionately, violently, furiously. Beat your fists on the wall, stomp the feet, smash everything around. Just never tell her that she is to blame for this. Do not reproach her, do not blame her. Better to let the 'one goat that looked at her "will be  wrong. But it is for you to let remains saint. Believe me, if she wants to change,
she will change, and you will not know. But if you paid attention, she did it on purpose. What would be at least as you showed to her that you are jealous, and thus love, appreciate and are afraid to lose her. Then she hesitated, in herself, in your feelings. Means that she is afraid for your relations.

Tell her more about it. Say that she is your all, that you are in heaven with her.

Let this be in cinematic pretense, so be it. Speak! If all of a sudden her will not be next day. But someday it will not. After all, all of us are not ever.
Life,  is very brief, so unpredictable, can end in an instant. So, if it will not be tomorrow, you will never get the chance to tell her everything. Tell me, dear, tell. Promise does not feel sorry for the promises and do not be afraid to cheat.
She is so happy when hears promises, while dreaming, hoping for something very good. She's so beautiful in that moment, so she's ...
Does not she deserve it? Yes, even if you will leave the day after tomorrow, is not it all worth the fifteen minutes when you were lying holding each other , and dreaming of your beautiful future! Worth it! Every second is worth it! Because there is so little such seconds in our lives .

What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).

The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".

To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

Women's practice of "Sunshine in your heart"

Today I want to share with you an amazing practice that helps to open the heart chakra (one of the very important for women) and to transform your life with love and light.

It also helps to improve relations with the people and transform living conditions.

The practice of "Sunshine in your heart," do should in a quiet and comfortable place so that no one can distract you. Turn on soft music if it helps you, but not distracting. Take a comfortable position and relax. Feel that all cells of the body relaxed, and no thoughts distract you.

Think of the most striking moment when you were most happy. This may be a date with a loved one, any holiday, new baby, or just contemplation of beauty. Maximum try to remember the feeling and the feeling of that moment. Maybe this will be the flight of the soul or unbridled joy.

Now imagine in the heart, that you have the sun, which shines brightly. But it is not visible because it is hidden in a small box that needs to be open and let him out. Do it. Your sun begins to shine brighter and brighter, and you become the hot sun under the name of LOVE.

Every cell in your body radiates divine light, love and happiness. Enjoy this state.

This light can give loved ones, presenting a golden bridge between your hearts, and directing your love for him. You'll see how this man will change and begins to smile and lighten up.

In the material world, you will see how your relationship will become warmer or acquired new paint.

You can also do this with your home or situation.

Often turn your "sun" during the day. The result did not take long.

The most important thing in this practice - enjoy the process of giving love.

I wish you a lot of love and light in your life.

YOUR ZHEN-SHEN!

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