Learning to be a QUEEN!

Dear, dear, loved  women! Most of you live alone, or with the unloved person, or frantically rushing in search of happiness ... You are - scared, confused and disappointed with life. Are you looking for support in this crazy world, but you're too weak to understand:
ONLY SUPPORT, THAT THE PERSON CAN TRUST - is himself.

You so want to be weak, bury your nose in the man's shoulder and to be a little girl, which mighty and the adult male will protect against all adversity, will love and tender care of her all life.

THROW THIS  CRAP OUT OF YOUR HEAD!

Even the parents do not have to take care of you all your life, and do you expect from a stranger that would take the baton from them?

It's time to grow up. And it means - to accept responsibility for everything that happens to you. Threw a beloved? Do not whine, do not feel sorry for yourself and think - why it did not happen the way you planned? And were you planning to do something? Or, once again, relied on the "fate"? 


 THERE IS NO FAILURES - ONLY A LESSONS

Each person can achieve what he wants if clearly decides WHAT he needs, HOW he can reach it and STOP  EXPECTING from the the WORLD FREEBIE.

You do not expect that someone will come and bring you money? You get up in the morning and go to work. As it is necessary to act with respect to the rest.
Start with yourself. Start with some small things. Teach yourself to be happy - always, regardless of the circumstances. DARE to be yourself. 
Tell yourself it does not matter, even if I do not meet my man in my entire life , I still: will get a lot of pleasure from intercourse with men, will test all pleasures of sex, give birth to the child ...



In general - I will do what I want. THIS IS MY WORLD!

And, believe me, you will have all that and much more of what you want to be done. World - rich and generously gives oneself to the one who knows how to enjoy it!

You are - WOMEN. You are are valuable itself. Doubt? Go out and flirt with any man. How he would be delighted! You say; oh, well, opening, understandably what these peasants want from us. Exactly! You initially have something that gives you value in society. But men have to make EVERYTHING ourselves. Use your feminine charm, to bring joy to themselves and men.


Be self-confident women. Not a bitch, not a maid, not a work colleague, but - the Queen of World.

The key to all of this - in FLEXIBILITY. Rubber hose can be tie a knot - and still he remains himself. Learn how to be flexible - and then you no longer have to wait until someone will choose you, you will be able to choose YOURSELF most pressious for yourself.


Your KING.

The theory of savings or how to love yourself

Many women often indulge in many things. In the expensive cosmetics, in manicure, a spa salons, or even easierin the new winter shoes or extra pair of underwear. There is a contrast, another type of women who do not save on itself absolutely. And what they can spend on myself . Who's right, from these two types of ladies?
Once, in a conversation my friend said the following sentence: "When I smoke expensive cigarettes, I have things go well, the profits itself swims in hand. When the class of cigarettes goes down as slowly and sluggishly go my business."

I thought about it. About the point of psychology. If this friend of mine dose not smoked but ate chocolate, his words were the same, only the word "cigarette" would be replaced with the word "chocolate".


I do not know about you, but for some time I ever scrimped on myself. And that felt like something between the homeless and the poor. Then of course I did not know what makes me a vision of myself. And then, my mother once told me: "Never save on yourself, because then you will go all your life in tatters."

And I abruptly changed my attitude to the economy. I really went to the store and bought a perfume that cost forty times more than before I was able to spend over a month. Wow! I'll tell you how strongly I flew in my own eyes. I felt expensive. Even though I did not go on the red carpet at the Cannes festival, but felt like it was so.

After I thought about it. I already had that to compare, and I realized you can save money on yourself, but with the mind. If my salary is about 5000 UAH I certainly can not spend over 4000. And if you subtract the bills, pay for food, etc., what would be left? Only money on travel. And yet, every month, you need somewhere to buy something, but please yourself. Every economist himself, and everyone is aware of how much money he has, and how much he can spend. But the calculations for embezzlement, must necessarily be a column "for personal use".

How does it work?

When we allow ourselves to get what we need to improve self-esteem, we begin to grow in our own eyes. We begin to feel more important, loved, popular. A, respectively, and for others we become such. This affects our communication with people. If you've been notorious, thanks to its purchase (things or servants, does not matter) your systems are aligned and gradually become invisible. Therefore, communicating, you begin to open up more, smile more, and that attracts people to you. As rapidly growing fast and your career. Although, by whom and where you work, your business will succeed.

One model, once said: "The big money is easy to earn, and small - hard." She said this with confidence, because once she was poor, and worked as a waitress for a pittance. And over time, become famous and rich.

There is a theory that says that in order to achieve something, you must now experience a sense of joy from what has been achieved desired. Simply put, start today to rejoice over the fact that you have a million that you are the most charming that your children are the most talented, etc. It's not all seem a simple task, because not all girls know how to be the most beautiful. Not all men will be able to experience sensations owner of an expensive car. And out of this situation is the easy way out. We all probably ever got in a beautiful salon car, or someone told us, how do we enchanting. It is necessary to remember these feelings and experiences. Remember and be able to bring them into the present. Learn to enjoy what is not, but really want to. This creates a power of attraction and thereby becomes valid desired.

I'm not saying thatyou should live only in dreams Of course, the need to continue work towards achieving your dreams. But not always the answer comes to us it.

It is important to remember that there are such things as our psychological jams. Day after day, someone sits down and rides the subway to work. And every day, he sees the sick and the poor, who are held there. A luxury and a decent life, he sees only in passing expensive and upmarket shops, hotels and clubs. This is the effect of habituation. He was used to his social place, and even if he does not like, he does not move.


In order to change this, change and familiar way. Not always, but sometimes go to work by taxi. Of course, it is much more expensive, but it "catches up to you are important." Not always, but sometimes, it is necessary to do an expensive gift. It also helps you to feel like a king or queen. Let all your things will be a second-hand, but one is Versace.

It is important that climbing to the ladder of success should be gradual. Let us again take the example of machines. If you have a lifetime rode the subway and suddenly boarded a limousine, you will overcome the confusion rather than joy for their achievements. Because it is important to go through all the stages of recovery: Metro - bus-taxi - his first car - a road car.

So, we can summarize that saving on itself but with the mind. Of course, on the way to the top you are waiting many pitfalls, which will be known only to you. And I did not say anything about them just because everyone has their peaks. And their obstacles on the way. But do not be afraid of it. It's like riding a bike. How many times to fall, then to boldly go? And in life we fall down, but get up and move on, gaining experience and becoming only more intelligent. But let bygones be bygones......

Intuition - the main female mind

Intuition - the main female mind that many women ignore.

And if the "mind" does not apply to destination, it is like a muscle that does not work, begins to atrophy.

Logical arguments people make on the basis of known or external scientific facts, experiments, research, laws. In this case, all the attention is directed outward to the external, most often on the sources of information, at least on - energy information.

Currently the society for the most part is logical.

But sometimes human logic just starts to break down when faced with the fact that we can not explain and understand, "How can that be? This should be so and so because ..... In general, this can not be. "Probably heard similar statements from yourr friends or themselves have been in this situation.

And then start searching for a kind of conventional truth (at your outstanding issue in the logical thinking).


You can read dozens of books and hundreds, learn other people's experience on this issue, but it also happens, someone or something in whispers at first, then says, and only then shout: "This is not your answer! It's not what you need! Listen to me, I know how to be, what to do. "

And then the focus turns inward. And o miracle! Question, the situation is solved, and the solution often seems simple, easy and, most importantly, your own.

But after a whilemany people once again forget about their inner source of information. And walking around the circle starts again. Most often, this forgetfulness is for three reasons:

- A lot of outside distractions that do not give the time or effort or energy to apply to your inner voice, your feelings and just listen to yourself.

- Lack of confidence in yourself, your intuition. Instead of intuition turned the feeling that there is a clever uncle who knows better than I how  to do, what to do and how shall I live. But my uncle is in fact an expert for himself and his life. And you - the expert, author and director of your life.


- Doubts that the inner voice is telling the truth to you. The solution to a difficult question sometimes comes so simple and easy that the mind simply refuses to believe it. There is a deep conviction that solving critical issues have to be difficult, requiring maximum overhead.

What to do?

- To find the time to transfer your attention on yourself, learn to listen to yourself (observe the sensations, sounds, thoughts, desires, goals, their lives, aware of their actions)

- Spend more time in nature;


- To learn to trust yourself, your intuition. One of the easiest ways to exercise: While watching a movie to watch your thoughts, feelings about the further development of events in the film after 5, 10, 15 minutes. Make your prediction of events in the film. Thus, the film is used as a safe exercise for intuition,  and sooner intuition eventually will become your main mind.

What you attract into your life?

About what do you think, what you feel and what you attract into your life.

Fear of the new relationship, you are more afraid of them, and they do not deliver joy and eventually you broke up.

Fear of the new projects, chores, a new and interesting activities, go away from her, plunging into the usual and familiar, but not giving the joy of life and energy, activity.

Fearing their desires, you eventually stop to understand what you want.

Thinking that you do not deserve to be happy, beautiful, wealthy, you are distancing yourself from happiness, beauty and consistency.


Do you think that  something does not work, then you would not succeed in a single attempt undertaken by you. And you do not even think about how to do so, to work out.

 Think about something (happy, beautiful, expensive), that this is definitely not for you and not about you. You separate yourself from happiness, beauty and abundance and include the "victim" of circumstances.

If you think that "all men cheat", then all your men will cheat on you.

And you know, the list is never ending.

For yourself you have it finished when you begin to live your desires, dreams, recognize your right to happiness, and most importantly, be honest with yourself.

Dream of a beautiful mutual love, a strong and happy family, go towards your ideas and desires, begin to do something to make your ideas come true, the courage to take the first step without delay.

Do not betray yourself.

Dream, believe in yourself and your happiness and success, believe in your man.

Unreal reality

Over the past decade, scientists have come to the conclusion that the universe is a kind of unfathomable clean energy, which has its own awareness. In Christianity, it is called by God (with different names), in the Muslim world - by Allah in the East - the Truth. Scientists call it the physical vacuum. There are other names. But no matter how this Something is called - it's just different metaphors, different ways of talking about one and the same. This source of all things, the force uniting everyone and everything in the world and is the basis of life. Magicians and sorcerers were known, and now this is the official science knows that this mysterious energy is amenable to human intentions. That is our very expectation of something starts to work on other energy systems and build the event in line with our expectation. Consequently, the one source of all things, the same Force that shapes our destiny is located in us.

But it's been known since ancient times. In the Slavic-Aryan Vedas says, "Getting to Know the World Reveal around us, we will sooner or later come to a clear understanding the fact that we know ourselvesbecause our existence in the World Reveal is an integral part of us." And the Bible says, "Do not seek the kingdom of God in the heavens or in the earth paradise, it is within each of us." A sign at the famous temple has existed for several centuries, says: "Know thyself." In Zen Buddhism, there is a great saying: "If a man is looking for the truth about himself, he tramples down what he is looking."

So why do people remained deaf to ancient wisdom and modern scientists to conclusions? How it happens that, when faced with the same World, different people perceive it such in different ways? And the reason is again the man himself. In his attitude to what he perceives. It turns out that when dealing with unimaginable, rich and complex reality, people are coming to the creation of a wretched model of the world, which is causing them pain and suffering.


People communicate with the surrounding reality, at least at two levels: the conscious and the subconscious. Consciously, we are dealing with a model of the world, not with the actual world. While the subconscious mind perceives reality as it is.

Our subconscious mind, under the relevant regulations ahead of us builds our world (or rather - small world), protects us from the chaos of the universe, selecting for us to perceive only what it considers necessary and safe, thereby fulfilling for us creative and protective functions. It is our mind does not allow us to go beyond the boundaries of the created world. He is constantly coming up with different shifts, often using fear to convince us that that illusion, which he presents to us, and there is Reality itself.


Everyone lives in his own world and creates its own unique world. Every one of us from birth under the influence of parents, adults, teachers, the environment constructs its reality, its world. If you have children, you remember how you impose them your description of the world, and explained them what is bad, and that - is good, what can be done and what can not. The same is done with them, grandparents, teachers and other adults.

As a result, your child has formed his Description of the world that is in some ways similar and in some respects different from yours. And your parents do to you as well. And all the people involved in this process. And you can not say it's good or bad, that we are taught from childhood to perceive reality in some special, "human" way. This process is absolutely necessary in view of the fact that, being involved in it, we feel calmer. But we are so involved in doing this that we forget one obvious truth: between Reality itself and our world there is a huge difference.

There is another paradox: we do live in Reality and  unconsciously perceive it as such as it is - as something wonderful, incomprehensible, unknowable, but realize only  just a model of Reality, the creation of which we spend our whole life and energy. But first we make some conclusions.

So:

The Universe (Reality, Validity, God, the World) is the unfathomable power, energy, possessing knowledge;

Human awareness is the only part of the Universe, the Divine Consciousness;

The world is incomprehensible and mysterious, and the person has to relate to the world and to himself as a mystery;

Our subconscious mind creates a model of the world in which lives our consciousness. In other words, our consciousness is in the role of observer and evaluator of the events that   our subconscious provide .