Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.

Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.

Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.

You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.

Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

I have myself, once!

Men do us a lot of complement, and sometimes not even trying to hide underneath them a rough adulation. But never a man is not being disingenuous, saying: "you're my only ..." Each of us is really unique. And it does not matter that he is willing to put instead of dots princess or a frog, beauty or beast, more importantly, that there is no more woman like you, there was not and never will.

We love to read about successful people in general, and of women who have made a life of well-being, fame and recognition, in particular. Although, each of us experience a very mixed range of emotions. Sometimes we sincerely happy for them, and sometimes feel, as they say, the envy of the white, and sometimes black. But most of all, we tell ourselves that it was just lucky, and they were at the right time in the right place.

Perhaps this reasoning could claim the title of the axiom, if it were not for one small thing. I personally do not agree only with the fact that all this is just luck, just luck, just a happy coincidence, although the notion of "spoiled child of destiny" has a right to exist, but this is an exception. 
In this regard, the memory pops up a parable about that before you pray to God about the big win, you need  at least buy a lottery ticket.
Sometimes I want to ask, how many efforts we have made ourselves to  be in those "right places", many have decided to donate for that. And if we are not to blame for the fact that so many have missed the very "right time", hoping that we still have "whole life."

I'm not saying that we all need to blame themselves for what we have become stars of different firmaments, believe me, if they are broken it is very painful to fall and rise again so they often have in splendid isolation, is that, unfortunately, the price of success. But at least occasionally "buy lottery tickets" still stands.

In the 20 years the life before us, as the net book, and we have recently finished school, we think that it can be rough draft, and then, later, we can rewrite it. As a result, in 40 years we say that life is a failure, it is gray and boring.

Between middle-aged ladies, beating in depressive-dim convulsions and thus suggestive longing for their loved ones, often occurs such dialogue:
- All is ,bad,  I'm sick and tired of work, I am like a downtrodden horse!
- And what did you do in order to change something in your life?
- What can I?
- What did you try?
- What can I?
- Well, an apartment, a husband and children, probably not, try to change jobs!
- And what else can I do?
- Try something different!
- What can I do?

And so on to infinity. I want to take the shoulders, shake, and say as follows: "Then go at least get hair coated in a green color and wear a shorter skirt Ah, it would be foolish and ridiculous. But do not be sad and AS ALWAYS! And in the evening you can substitute the usual "leave me alone I'm busy," spit on the dirty dishes and do with your child grandiose crafts of the available material, so he took first place at the regular school competition. and when his eyes would shine with happiness, trust me, you'll be ready if not to everything but to a lot ! "
Lovely woman, there are many objective reasons, due to which we can not have everything that we would like and what we are certainly worthy. But remember, that depends on us, if not all, very much.

Our main task is to try to find all the good, bad, as a rule, you do not have to look for, it "comes" itself , and sometimes "fall down" on our heads when we did not expect.
Are you tired of everything. It seems to you that everything is bad. Find the courage to look at the circumstances on the other side!

You think that your life is monotonous, no, it is stable!
Do you think it is gray, well, no, it is not catchy, what would not be maleficiated!
You think that you are, I apologize, like a horse, just you are needed to evryone, and they can not do without you! You are not "horse" - you center of the universe! And to be the center, oh, it is not easy!

And finally, most importantly, a lovely woman, always remember that you are the best! Such as you in a single copy! Love yourself! Every morning, going to the mirror, meet yourself saying, "I am the ONE!" And all will be fine!

Plus of each age

As a child, you always happily was waiting for her birthday! However, there comes a time when on your birthday you do not want to have fun, invite friends and throw a party, because you became another year older. Do not worry. 

Of course, the time rob us of our youthful charm, but instead gives invaluable experience. Moreover, opening up new horizons, new opportunities, one is better than another!

20 years

Body. At the young girl is smooth and elastic skin, there is no hint of wrinkles, and furthermore on the extra pounds. Your body listens to you, and such reaction can be envied. As a young woman you can do anything - a dizzying slopes on a snowboard, crazy rides, Latin American dancing, skating, riding on roller skates. You can choose whatever your heart desires.


Memory. All of the new knowledge you absorbs ka sponge. But little logic in the actions, and the attention is distracted. For example, instead of to preparing and studying the French language, you have no qualms to arrange a party with friends or going to the last show in the movies.

The psyche. In your head heaps all sorts of plans, thoughts and ideas, and energy to spare. Today you have decided to sign up with a friend in the solarium, and tomorrow you travel to Tibet ... You can easily make a new acquaintance, very quickly fall in love with you liked guy. However, at your age you can get burned!


Love. Sure, you can fall in love to madness, here you have everything spontaneous and chaotic. You dream about the ideal relationship with romance, passion, gifts and of course, you want him to wear you in arms, in general, everything that you see in movies about love. But you should know that usually life is not so rosy. You both want everything to be good, but there is practically no experience yet, and you can not tolerate, so every minute quarrel because of all the rubbish.

Sex. At this age, you probably are not making love in order to someone fascinate, surprise or pleasure - you play in curiosity. You do not know how to get a real pleasure, and you do not know what it is. Very often, you remain dissatisfied, but you probably would have changed your attitude to sex if your partner was not contemporary, but a man that has already an experience.

30 years


Body. The facial skin is no longer such "fresh". Get plenty of it moisturizes, and before going to sleep under the eyes, always apply a nourishing cream special. If you notice that you start to gain weight, then do not wait another minute, come eat so much and loans themselves, fight wrinkles, cellulite because it creeps up quietly, and then settles permanently on the buttocks. Try to move more, because the metabolic processes in the body are not as intense as it was ten years ago. However, despite these changes, thirty years -  is the golden time. After all, you're just as good and keep the shape.

Memory. You have already graduated, in fact, has gone further courses - sewing, English lessons, mastering the personal computer, driving a car. You also perceive information and you can appreciate that you can try in practice everything you know. The only thing that's stopping you - your responsibilities are countless, and the thought of children, family and career.

The psyche. Not all the plans you are able to carry out some old friends dropped out, and they has no place in your life. But now you know your strengths and weaknesses, and they skillfully using . Now you understand that the most important thing in your life: friends, faithful companion on whom you can rely on.

Love. You not once heart broken, you're experiencing frustration, so already know well what kind of fruit is - a man and what you can expect from him. You more than anything want long lasting relationship that will be based on respect and mutual understanding. Moreover, if you have not done that already know and feel that it is time to have a baby.


Sex. You already know what a real passion. You already have a regular partner or husband, with whom you're constantly looking for new sensations and experiment are improving your skills in the art of love. You now know what an orgasm is and you know how to get it, in fact, has become a very skillful and irreplaceable lover.

40 years

Body. You first wrinkles on the face, and age has become the main theme for reflectionyou increasingly began to think about it. Purchase a good, quality cosmetics, do not regret the money. Do not forget that even if you have a very good flawless skin, something about it still need to take care of, because you can not, without doing anything, then continue to look for thirty years. Remember your hands, upper chest neck, they also require care. Do not worry about the fact that you are not so quick to move around, but you are able to tolerate, you're hardy.

Memory. You start to notice that the memory fades, any knowledge difficult to hold in your head? This is not the case. Now you just need more time to learn the material, you need to concentrate and focus, moreover, now you need perseverance to achieve your goals the ability to properly manage your time.

The psyche. You can now realistically assess your strengths and abilities, easily define the ability  of others. You can anticipate the changes that are sure to happen in your life, so you analyze the pros and cons. But right now in your life was not enough spontaneity and immediacy. Before making any decision you think a hundred times hesitating for a long time, because of that missing the a lot of chances and opportunities.

Love. You know all its advantages, try to behave with men, whether it is a spouse or a friend. You can clearly explain your problem. But it is not worth much to get hung up on the kids or work. In order to love, you need to constantly take care of themselves.


Sex. Well, here you are at the top of your capabilities! You can do anything, and  know how to have fun dostavlyaet it to the man. Teens are not rival to you, not in love affairs, nor in temperament. However, you still dream to sink into the arms of a tireless young lover.

50 years

Body. The skin is thin and dry, like an oak leaf in late autumn. Do not stop to take care of her in the evening and in the morning. You possess a very high resistance and endurance, so you can safely overcome the marathon, you need only to want. You can manage your time raskhoduesh forces wisely.

Memory. Now you have more time to spend with the benefit of yourselves, can make sense to think about the development of some crafts? After all, even the scientists say that only 40% percent of people stop learning at the age of 25 years, and others continue to study only after survive the crisis of middle age. So you still able to great lengths!

The psyche. You have to learn to spend energy only as needed, has learned to control yourself. You can clearly set a goal and achieves it safely. At your age you can easily talk to a stranger, easy to make new friends, and it's true, after all, love and friendship for all ages!

Love. The most interesting - you have not lost interest in men. And now you're interested in and attracts adventurous relationship. You look back to your youth. But now you love is otherwise. Now you again have no worries, and time belongs only to you. Do not miss this moment, enjoy!

Sex. You have access to all the delights of sex. You are free to make love as much as your heart desires. And some discomfort and dryness of the vagina - this is easily remedied, take advantage of intimate gel, it will deal with this problem. Plus there will be no oral sex. Try it! It is not necessary to build a barrier in your head, live and enjoy every moment.

Female Archetypes

A woman ... How many works of art dedicated to her as a warrior and heroic deeds being accomplished for her. How many sleepless nights, and poems have been written and sung for us, women.

As soon as you start to think about the intricacies of the universe women are plunged into a kind of a very different atmosphere. The atmosphere of softness, elegance, grace, subtlety and wisdom, deep and old as Earth itself.

The first woman is considered to be  Eve, wife of Adam. But few people know that there was a woman who had seen heaven before Eve - Lilith. The one that was rebellious and untamed, the one that was the exact opposite of the homelike and the meek ​​Eve. Already since the birth of the universe, women are different and each of them had its own particular qualities that give them something quite unusual and rather mysterious. Lilith inherent inflexibility and freedom in all its manifestations, and Eve was designed to create and preserve warmth of the hearth. And each of them has its own way to be beautiful and attractive to the men.

So why all the women are so different? The answer is simple. In fact, there are several archetypes of women, who are present in each of us and manifest themselves in different degrees. By reading this article, you will be able to understand how you prevail in this or that woman and what qualities it gives you.

Woman - The Queen, Empress, Cleopatra, Warrior

Element - air.

The time of year - winter.

Colors: white, black, navy blue, gray.

Stone - sapphire.

Habitats - hills, the tops of the mountains.

Autonomy and independencesuch brave woman and a cold-blooded, confident and free. Queen controls. In her presence, timid men, lost and looking admiringly, catching every word of a woman. If such a woman smiles, it is, above all, confuse present and make a man feel like a timid boy. The Queen commands. She is beautiful and majestic. Next to such a woman man is changing - he becomes King.

Woman - Mistress, Mother, Keeper

Element - Earth.

The time of year - summer.

Colors: green, purple, brown.

Stone - emerald.

Habitats - suburban area, forest clearing.

A woman who knows how to manage and hold in their hands the house, and to inspire a man to keep order and harmony in family life and relationships. A woman who likes to interact with the children and, most importantly, the kids meet her in return. In such womans' home always smells of delicious food, grow lush flowers, and on the couch basking fat cat. This woman is sure of herself, quietly watching the world go by and enjoys the good results of her contributions to the family, relationships, growth and development.



Woman - Princess, Girl, Baby

Element - water.

The time of year - spring.

Color - blue, yellow, pink.

Stone - diamond.

Habitat - the sea, the ocean, any body of water.

We all come from childhood. We were girls and this state remains within us. In someone it less in someone more. The girl needs to exhibit to her care and attention. She is joyful, light, open and trusting. Quickly gives and is easy to lift. Men with joy endows her with gifts and attention. Take care of her, often play the role of father for a girl. It's not a bad thing. These alliances are usually made ​​between a woman and a man who is older than her age or higher social status.

Woman - Lover, Priest, The Witch

Element - fire.

Time of year - autumn.

Color - red, burgundy and gold.

Stone - a ruby.

Habitats - volcanoes, geysers, caves, place the open fire.

The woman - the priestess has the highest sexual energy. She attracts and fascinates with its passionate nature and wild temper. The nature rebellious, freedom-loving and sensual. The clothes are common predatory animal motifs. Such women can use men for many purposes. It is very common that the female lover do not hurry to get married and sometimes have a relationship with multiple partners simultaneously. Excellent command of sexual practices. Liberated in bed and know what men love .

How to wake up your inner woman?

All four types are present in each of us and, as I said earlier, are shown in different aspects of life and with different people. I want to share with you, dear women, meditative technique that will help you determine what kind of woman you are. 

So, sit back, close your eyes and breathe. Deeply and quietly. With each exhalation try to maximize relaxation. Make sure that no foreign sounds can not be interfered with by itself and enjoy the peace and quiet. Feel like other thoughts leave you and have nothing distracting. Imagine for yourself a place where you would be good at the moment. This may be a place where you as a child spent a lot of time or the seashore.
And maybe it will be a blooming meadow, which illuminates the bright sun. 
Stay in this place, enjoy its beauty and the pleasant sensation that it causes you.

Then take a look around. Somewhere nearby a woman should appear to be dressed in beautiful clothes. Neat and noble. Look closely at it, what color her dress, hair, and follow her gestures, watch out for her. It is possible that she will talk to you. Thank her for what she is with you and for the qualities that she gives you. If you lack another state, call the woman whose qualities you need, and reunited with her. Dance, rejoice, talk with your inner woman. When you feel that you are filled with the necessary energy - slowly and quietly back into reality. Stretch yourself, hug yourself and remember you're a woman - and you already is the Goddess.