The girl - "prick tease " - who is she?

Men, for some reason always think that a woman own something to them have, and she should to them usually SEX. It is not clear where they get the idea that if he's on his own will buy you a cocktail, you owe him sex. If he asked you out to a restaurant, then you  owe him sex. Even if you're just a very attractive and, God forbid, sexy, then you owe him sex. And if for you it is not yet clear, he by all means will give it to you to understand. Moreover, if in your mind was not such idea, you will be accused that you did badly, you used him and dumped him . It does not matter that he himself taken the initiative, it does not matter that nature has blessed you with beauty and intelligence, he still will blame you in his troubles .

Of course, can the immense male ego accept the fact that he simply was not good enough for you? No, that's impossible. He needs someone to blame for his failures and blame, of course, you .

If a woman that does not respond to the provocations of men, who knows what she wants, who sleeps only with those who really like her, but not with those who starts to put pressure on her, is called "prick tease "  - then yes, I am the PRICK TEASE. If the compliance own interests, the ability to hold the position and insist on her own called "prick tease "  - yes, the "prick tease "  that is what we want.

No matter what anyone says about the equality of men and women, all of us are the same, we are different. We are too different to be identical. And what men find their weakness, most often their weakness is the female force. But in what men are strong, all too often destroys women. I do not want to be a man. What for? I'm not going to be a man, I will be  better equal to a woman. And that is what makes me successful. Successful woman in front of which there is great potential. Be flexible - sometimes weak, sometimes strong, sometimes asking, sometimes insisting. Be different - sometimes funny, sometimes sad, sometimes clever, sometimes silly. But always be free.

Yes, men do not like such girls. And all because they want to impose on women a lot of obligations, to repair her for theirselves, to deprive their own will. "Prick tease " is free. She does what she wants and does not depend on men. 
She is attractive and does not intend to pay for the complexes of men. 
She does not render to them in dialogue and is ready to accept their admiration of herself. 
But she will not step over herself.

She is independent. After all, only independent people can afford easily take the gifts of others - their attention, worship, gifts. For all you have to pay? You should, and you pay for - and she is independent from the conventions.

"Prick tease " is - a real woman, and she can achieve her goals by any means. If she wants, goes directly, and if not, there will always be a real man who will gladly do it for her. And they will not accuse her of being too attractive, or too sexy or that desirable. She is such as she was created, and this is only her merit.

What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).

The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".

To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

Nothing happens without a reason ....

Nothing happens without a reason .... I firmly believe that nothing in life is not without reason. I try to live for today and fully devote myself to what I do, and I believe that the correct way would be open to me. The use of positive statements keep me open to change and help me to deal with self-doubt. Sometimes it's a feeling of uncertainty in anything can be a great wake-up call, time to think carefully about what is really going on. Take a little time to think about the doubts may be a useful procedure for which you look inwards, revealing their true beliefs.

 There will always be challenges, obstacles and more than a non-ideal situation, but if you take it step by step, you will grow stronger and more confident in their own abilities. There was a time in high school when I was teasing a girl, my peers. This particular girl is always teasing someone, and then came my turn. I remember that I was really afraid of her, and because I did not want to go to school. So much so, that I did not want to go there. My parents talked to me for a long time. They told me to stand up for what I believe is correct: not to be rude, but to be honest with her and tell what effect it produces on the people, and how badly it makes them feel. I remember when I went the next day at school, quite sure that she would tell me something bad. I was much smaller than her, but as much as I was scared, I told her exactly what I thought. I told her that, as no one spoke, as he was not ready or brave enough to express it. I told her that the only reason that people are kept around her, the fear, and that she can not see that they are not her real friends. Those whom it is to be made, only some want to be out of fear. It hurt her, and she began to cry. I did not mean to hurt her, I just wanted to tell her the truth, which I did. In this situation, I defended myself and others when not even think I can. This is very interesting, because after that I let the situation with my friend, did not appear for no reason, and then it was time for me to learn to be stronger. As it turned out, my speech has helped her to stop teasing people and find out what it is - when you have real friends, someone who likes you for real. She and I are friends to this day, and I am grateful for the situation we went through together. 

Knowledge of self and trust your feelings and intuition will open your life's greatest opportunities, and make you move toward your goals. I learned that I should trust my instincts blind. In the end, only we know what is best for us.

Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.

Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.

Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.

You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.

Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

How to become a beloved woman

Falling in love with yourself, and then you fall in love with the whole world! This is the motto of the units in our world, but actually it works. Psychologists say that the better woman refers to herself, the more attention she attracts from the opposite sex. So, to be truly loved, you need to learn how to pamper yourself.

Self-love and narcissism - different concepts. Love - is, first of all, the adoption of yourself for what is, but not simply admiring your own reflection. Have a respect for your body, thoughts and actions. Only when you realize that everything in life - ideally, the world begins to change in the best possible way.

My body is perfect

Shape of the eyes, hips, height, figure, color of hair each has its own. Even the appearance of twins have differences. And it is time to learn to be proud of, rather than trying to become an ideal, imposed by society.

Modern standards of beauty are very specific. Glossy magazines, television and fashion designers claim that there is a certain standard of beauty, which is called the "ideal". And everyone on the planet has to strive for it. But to achieve this goal - it means getting the same "as all". How much this is true? Somehow, millions of women feel that you need to do so.

Perfect appearance each has its own. But there are several compelling elements: well-groomed skin, beautiful hands, tightened muscles and a dazzling smile. To be beautiful, you need to take care of yourself, take care of every part of the body.

A woman can be charming and without the skinny figure, can conquer the hearts even without hair on hук head. The fact that it refers to herself. Love of self begins with a touching concern for the body. You need to take the figure as a given. And no need to customize it for standards, just start to care for herself. A manicure, do not forget about the masks. You should start with a regular facial and neck, but it's best to remember all the body. Dedicate yourself more time, pamper your skin with nice creams, body wraps and massages. Love yourself and appreciate. And the more time you devote to this task, the more you will get admiring glances from others.

I Think and do everything right

You should love not only your body but also your actions and thoughts. In psychology, there is a unique statement, which has helped thousands of people get out of depression: "At the moment I made the best way for yourself. I chose the best solution to a situation that could have been. "Let it become your statement axiom. Perhaps then you will come to mind the idea that it was possible to do something different. But nothing can be changed, and therefore, it is necessary to go further.

Allow yourself to live, do not waste time on regrets and digging into the past. Not worth going to sleep, think about how you could do that. It's a waste of time. Enough sorry! In the future you will do even better, but in the past, you were right. It's your life, you can go for it as you wish.

Give yourself the right to be wrong. Even if something does not add up, do not worry. There are no people who always do everything perfectly. Just let yourself do not control everything, let go of the problems that you still can not decide.

To learn how to relax, use the meditation. They may be very different, it is important that this process is called a sense of comfort and relaxation. Someone is trying to stop the thoughts, someone sings a mantra, and some people choose meditation with the words to the imagination to present the manner described. Choose your method. Some people prefer active relaxation. Sometimes, running, swimming, exercise at the gym,  give a discharge. Look for something that will give pleasure, you are eligible for the ease, joy and serenity.

Relax - this is important

Relax - it's a human right. And it's a way to show love for yourself. Just need to rest properly, without remorse. Day off will never bring lightness, if you are constantly thinking about what did not have time to do. If there are ideas in the mind of the commitments will not find comfort.

In order to properly relax, you need to solve the problem. First way: go on vacation or on a weekend, when all is done, when it is not another report, no need to remember about the partners and the authorities. If all can not be forgotten, you need something to finish, do not think about it constantly. Determine for yourself hours or days when you do not accept to work. This is a solution: it's time to rest - will be the right one. Deny yourself during this period even reminisce about their problems. For their solution find a different time, and rest - is inviolable.

Relax - it's time for yourself, not for cleaning or washing. Of course, home care can help to relax, but it is better to rest for real. Do only what you like. Someone will be active, while others simply will sit at the TV for hours. But it is important not to abuse yourselves, and admit that I like now to do just that. Give yourself permission to do nothing. Let this be a regular ritual - spending some time as you want, not the way you need or others want.

Loving yourself can be different. There are lots of ways to begin to realize their dreams, desires to indulge. Start not from the very large, such as buying a bouquet of flowers. A further is is easier to reach other ambitions plans. Appetite comes with eating!

How to look beautyful without make-up?

Sometimes you get tired of makeup. All these jars, tubes - well, as you can! Eyes on them do not look! I want to be natural and genuine, but still beautiful. Can I do that without having to look at myself in the mirror and arm do not reache for the powder or fresh-faced? Of course you can, but, nevertheless, some effort from your part is still nedded.

What is primarily characterized by untidy? Uneven complexion, pimples, puffiness - in short, the state of the skin. And that just is not so conspicuous, you need somewhere to distract the eye companion. And get an  attention to the beautiful and well-groomed facial features. And then come to help:

1. Petrolatum. To make the look more expressive and eyelashes longer, thicker and darker, put on the  eyelashes a clean brush with a little petroleum jelly or castor oil. It would be beneficial for their recovery, if you do it regularly enough, the structure of your lashes will improve dramatically.

2. Well-defined eyebrows. A neat line of eyebrows creates a kind of frame for your face, making the focus on the features: eyes, lips, cheeks. If you want to give your eyebrows the desired shape and direction, use a brush and tweezers for eyebrows. Carefully remove any excess hair and then comb your eyebrows - first against the hair growth, and then to growth. At the brush you can add a little castor oil or petroleum jelly.

3. Sugar Scrub. Scrubs make skin smooth, even and radiant because remove dead skin cells. To achieve the glow of youth to age or even tired skin, you need to regularly use scrubs. If the store is not at hand scrub, you can do well and homemade scrubs. The most simple but effective homemade scrub is this: take some regular granulated sugar and apply gentle massage and moist the skin of the face (do not forget about your lips!), then rinse with cool water. 

4. Light tan. It is the perfect replacement for tonal foundation and even powder. If in the near future trip to the sea does not threaten you, come to the solarium, or even better - bronzer. Tan should be easy enough to hide all the non-uniform color space, but will not wear out the skin visually.

5. Eyedrops. It is a simple but effective trick to instantly erase from the face of fatigue, remove redness of the eyes and make the eyes look bright and expressive drip into each eye, one drop of the eye means that eliminates redness.

6. Moisturizer. Support elasticity and freshness of skin with moisturizer, preferably containing light-reflecting particles. Put it in the morning after washing at a slightly wet face and neck.

7. Beautiful teeth. If you have a white smile, then you can safely dispense with little or no makeup, its absence no one will notice, so white teeth and grooming support the impression of well-groomed as a whole. So do not forget to visit the dentist regularly, periodically whiten teeth and protect them from tooth decay. And, of course, in any case, do not smoke!

Elegant home image

Fashion dictates the rules and in respect of home clothes. It was good to our mothers: in those days they could go at home (and allowed!) in robes. For a modern lady like dress code is not allowed. If we believe in family psychology, in a  such form it is not far to the divorce.

But seriously, in terms of choosing of attire for the house you should follow the example of oriental women. Husbands never see them in the old and ugly clothes and always admire their wives. I like the one statement on this subject, I do not remember where I read it: "The Russian woman puts on the best  coming out on the street, and  does not pay attention to appearance, when she is at home. That is, another man she wants to please, and hers not. "My friend with whom I shared similar thoughts objected that our women do all the work around the house themselves, they do not have assistants, as opposed to the same eastern, and, say, wash the floor in an elegant dress is not very convenient. What is true. But modern designers are for us. In the collections can be found both beautiful and comfortable home clothes. Take a walk to the shops?

So, what guided the choice of home clothes?

At home, we relax, restore power. And this is possible only if it comfortable, cozy, warm, and every detail of the interior we enjoy. The same requirements must meet and indoor clothing. With its help, we are creating a mood for yourself and loved ones. After all, if we are not comfortable in the clothes, no matter how beautiful it is was, would we be able to fully relax? Of course not. We will be annoyed by the fact that, for example, constantly having to correct the straps on top or pull up the skirt. I am sure that soon you will change  beautiful but uncomfortable clothes on the good old bathrobe.

Therefore, the first and most important requirement for home clothes - convenience. Attire must not hamper movements, push, be too narrow. Convenient should be any clothes, but especially home. Another reason that choosing outfits for school and work, we often sacrifice comfort for the sake of beauty. And by the evening are so tired that dream to get home as quickly as possible _ remove all to give yourself a chance to rest. It's like in the commercials where the girl proudly walking down the street in high heels, men looking after her with admiration . But once she crosses the threshold of house , as removes uncomfortable shoes, clothes and put on cute pajamas and slippers.

Second, the important fabric from which made ​​homemade clothes. Pleasant body silk, cotton, satin, flannel, jersey. These materials are soft, warm, breathable, easy to use (easy to wash _ dry quickly). Their only disadvantage is that they are heavily wrinkled. My advice - do not look for clothing made ​​from 100% natural fabric, if clothes will contain small percentage of synthetic additives, things will be less wrinkle.

The third criterion to guide the choice of attire for the home is a pastime in the native walls. How do you spend your leisure time? Are you hosting frequently? What chores are you? For example, a lot of you are cooking. So you need clothes, cut free of the fabric, so it was not hot, with short sleeves. Refill your wardrobe, dress shirt, there will be nothing to interfere with the culinary process. If you're a mom of crumbs that actively learns, then pay attention to the track suit. Obtain to it a couple of t-shirts, and the image is ready! In this dress you can reach to the nearest supermarket,  put garbage until the baby is asleep.

Fifthly, I recommend when choosing a home clothes to give preference to the one which is made in soft colors, so it does not irritate nor you, nor household. Pay attention to the things pale blue, olive, yellow, light pink palette. Do not forget about the accessories. Kit will be brighter if you combine it into a hairpin tone rim.




What to choose?


- Two robes - silk and bath robe. The first is indispensable for the morning toilet, in the second to wrap up so nicely after a bath;

- Jumpsuit. Very universal thing. It is convenient, clean and it is easy to cook in and guests to meet.

- Sweatpants;

- A few T-shirts and shirts-bortsovok. I love T-Shirts with cartoon characters. This print is uplifting;

- Breeches or shorts, depending on the characteristics of the figure;

- Dresses, one lung, another dense, warm for the winter.

Look good at home is very important, especially if you are married. I do not urge you to wear evening dresses and brightly painted, leave it for special occasions. But also do not need to go in the clothes you are ashame to go to street. And in these things we wear more often at home.

Clothing affects our mood. In a beautiful dress even relation to  household chores will be different, they are carried out with great desire. If your wardrobe has no home clothes, buy at least one set. You'll see how you mood will immediately change!  It's so important for a woman - to be beautiful and attractive. And to compliment ones provided!
I wish you in all situations have a flirty look, be well-groomed and elegant!

Find your own FAIRY TALE

You would think that in the choice of your path you are free from any kind dependencies. That you are freestyle bird and fly wherever you want, do what you want, think about what you want, and say what you want. Yes, yes, of course! That's right! Only in this way is only in your imagination, because you like to think so. In fact, every person is enmeshed in strong network of a variety of relationships: the moral, physical, physiological, psychological, emotional - mass sometimes not even recognized them as such. Because we are using them from childhood.

We are often completely enslaves public opinion and the burden of stereotypes, their own misconceptions and expectations that model of life that we once drew for ourselves once and for all, and follow it religiously.

We used to live in a strange tale, which selected for our life as a benchmark trying to play the unusual role and make completely foreign acts.

Well, for example, the role of a guy like Prince, and he is actively into this role and the suit itself selects and adjusts the expression, respectively, and the princess looks. Well, or at least a frog, but always be magical to know how a princess in which case quickly reincarnated. After all, as they, the women, kicked off the frog's skin, and forward, arms swinging right and left eyes and shoot him, prince, seducing the full program on the right path and teach.
Came up, he came up with, but  not pulling the poor guy as much as the role of the Prince in any way. And our "prince" looks like as ogre. By theprofile and vocabulary. Princess Give to him! No, better a queen!

A princess who dreams of being in the white stone houses with tiled sparkling pool and garden outside the villa, too, imagine messed up fairy tales. And actively learning the role of Snow White , although her ​​brain convolutions are exclusively engaged in the study of hunting areas and rules of the "pickup" of the planned object.

But in principle, Both other people, in general, quite good. Each in its own way. Just do not play their games. And maybe in their only on foreign soil. And when you're in a foreign field, that you seem to be bumps and hills and pits - chasms, and in general the climate is not suitable. Because you're from the North that is ...
Simply put, not getting something. It seems everything is the way you came up, and the legs of the nedded length, and eyes have the color you want, and even voice, smoky with a husky. And, imagine, even a house, but without the pool, but on the beach. And everything else is almost convergent. But it dosen't give you warm, NOT AT ALL!

But why? Because it is not your's! Because you invented all about what you really need, and the very person of yours missed, overlooked, passed by, blurry your own eyes with unrealistic expectations. Then suddenly recalls ...

But too late. You're already playing this tale "fortissimo" in full, go to church, you married the father, forced to kiss the cross. All forever linked by a single network of mutual obligations, dependencies, expectations and disappointments.
"What can we do to that?" - Yelling your inner voice that finally cut through, when drugged brain cleared and tuned in to your real needs.
But do nothing. Live!

Try to live in "your" fairy tale itself and with those characters, which you have! Better late than never! And what happens! suddenly you really wake upSnow White , dropping past mistakes and misconceptions. And in your instead of orge you will attain the Prince. Who knows! In life everything is mixed.

Well, if you have not "got into trouble," that is not found your fairy-tale characters, do not rush to paint himself the image of his lover's hard, based on the words of mother and grandmother, a neighbor on a staircase or friends. They have their own way, and their "princess", and you have your own. But to understand them, to recognize, to feel and "articulate" for yourself you will be able only when you will dismantled in your "inside world".

STUDY YOURSELF!  What you like (not because everybody likes, but because you like it), what is your soul, with whom to you pleasant,dressed immaculately, knowing five languages, and do not be silent for a moment, self-sufficient, or simply a snob and a shy bespectacled, cute, embarrassed and do not hide your weaknesses.

To each their own! Understand this simple worldly wisdom, and Do not look at foreign princes. Occupying someone else's place, one can never be truly happy. Whatever the castles of your dreams he has surrounded himself not. Perhaps this is the most difficult thing in the world, to understand yourself through. But it's worth it! Because it can minimize the amount of unfulfilled expectations that did not materialize, as a rule, lower us to the dark depths of internal frustration, doubt and despair.
What for?
That we learn to accept yourself and your life in the version that is available to us at the moment as the most suitable, because it corresponds with our needs, and our nature, and spiritual impulses, and level of development.

To live in the fairy tale - a pleasure!

You may ask: "How to understand your or not? What if you're wrong? Do not play hide and seek with you in your clever brain? "
Yes, the truth is that he is able to get up to us such things, it is amazing! And if you do not give take the trouble to figure out how he brings to you a wraith and do not learn how to put it into place, you will be doomed for life and live in a strange tale.
There is one universal way to check "your" or is not "yours", to identify yourself with yourself, that bring into full compliance with your internal needs and external displays, balancing all the "pros" and "cons."

This process consists of a complete stop, knocked out of the mind and the inclusion of the heart, the soul, feeling, intuition. Many people have no idea what a powerful force has their soul, who is able to read the information on a thin invisible plane. To them all this chatter seems sheer nonsense.
But even in extreme moments of their life, outside comes the most important things, they can feel the power of the inner prompter. And to say, "Yes, there is something there!"

If you find it hard to trust intuition, if you feel a vague uncertainty, and you're afraid to make a mistake, advise with reality. And the reality will prompt you to correct guesses in the most concrete and specific way.

What we do with pleasure, with joy, that responds to the most important and warm inside of us, what we do and satisfying. This is the most it! Do not discard it as useless. Holite it and cherish, multiply, increase, reinforces this feeling.
And then you feel the same call of the heart, which intuity know better than on logical calculations of consciousness.

Listen to it and follow it, this call, and then you finally will find your story, will not take someone else's place and become happy!

I have myself, once!

Men do us a lot of complement, and sometimes not even trying to hide underneath them a rough adulation. But never a man is not being disingenuous, saying: "you're my only ..." Each of us is really unique. And it does not matter that he is willing to put instead of dots princess or a frog, beauty or beast, more importantly, that there is no more woman like you, there was not and never will.

We love to read about successful people in general, and of women who have made a life of well-being, fame and recognition, in particular. Although, each of us experience a very mixed range of emotions. Sometimes we sincerely happy for them, and sometimes feel, as they say, the envy of the white, and sometimes black. But most of all, we tell ourselves that it was just lucky, and they were at the right time in the right place.

Perhaps this reasoning could claim the title of the axiom, if it were not for one small thing. I personally do not agree only with the fact that all this is just luck, just luck, just a happy coincidence, although the notion of "spoiled child of destiny" has a right to exist, but this is an exception. 
In this regard, the memory pops up a parable about that before you pray to God about the big win, you need  at least buy a lottery ticket.
Sometimes I want to ask, how many efforts we have made ourselves to  be in those "right places", many have decided to donate for that. And if we are not to blame for the fact that so many have missed the very "right time", hoping that we still have "whole life."

I'm not saying that we all need to blame themselves for what we have become stars of different firmaments, believe me, if they are broken it is very painful to fall and rise again so they often have in splendid isolation, is that, unfortunately, the price of success. But at least occasionally "buy lottery tickets" still stands.

In the 20 years the life before us, as the net book, and we have recently finished school, we think that it can be rough draft, and then, later, we can rewrite it. As a result, in 40 years we say that life is a failure, it is gray and boring.

Between middle-aged ladies, beating in depressive-dim convulsions and thus suggestive longing for their loved ones, often occurs such dialogue:
- All is ,bad,  I'm sick and tired of work, I am like a downtrodden horse!
- And what did you do in order to change something in your life?
- What can I?
- What did you try?
- What can I?
- Well, an apartment, a husband and children, probably not, try to change jobs!
- And what else can I do?
- Try something different!
- What can I do?

And so on to infinity. I want to take the shoulders, shake, and say as follows: "Then go at least get hair coated in a green color and wear a shorter skirt Ah, it would be foolish and ridiculous. But do not be sad and AS ALWAYS! And in the evening you can substitute the usual "leave me alone I'm busy," spit on the dirty dishes and do with your child grandiose crafts of the available material, so he took first place at the regular school competition. and when his eyes would shine with happiness, trust me, you'll be ready if not to everything but to a lot ! "
Lovely woman, there are many objective reasons, due to which we can not have everything that we would like and what we are certainly worthy. But remember, that depends on us, if not all, very much.

Our main task is to try to find all the good, bad, as a rule, you do not have to look for, it "comes" itself , and sometimes "fall down" on our heads when we did not expect.
Are you tired of everything. It seems to you that everything is bad. Find the courage to look at the circumstances on the other side!

You think that your life is monotonous, no, it is stable!
Do you think it is gray, well, no, it is not catchy, what would not be maleficiated!
You think that you are, I apologize, like a horse, just you are needed to evryone, and they can not do without you! You are not "horse" - you center of the universe! And to be the center, oh, it is not easy!

And finally, most importantly, a lovely woman, always remember that you are the best! Such as you in a single copy! Love yourself! Every morning, going to the mirror, meet yourself saying, "I am the ONE!" And all will be fine!

You are - the star of the party

Even the most timid person can feel at ease in any place and at any time, subject to a number of simple rules and a little pre-preparation - says Leil Lowndes, a recognized expert in the field of psychology, communication, bestselling author of "How to talk to anyone about anything . "

Before the event:

Imagine that all this has been
Consider that your task - to play a major role. So spend a dress rehearsal in advance. Imagine how you pacing (impeccable posture, as if someone pulls you up the rope) as smiling with a warm smile (work-out in front of a mirror), hear how confident you are talking to other people and, most importantly, feel the pleasure of knowing that you - in great shape, and people are drawn to you.

Find your "something"

Do not make potential friends suffer, inventing an excuse to come to you. Carry anything unusual that could be a topic for conversation.

Work on image

Show consideration to the choice of attire. If you think that the "dress sits very personal, especially if you draw the belly and do not turn sideways," it is better to put it aside. Otherwise, the entire party will torment you two questions: "So, whether you're standing," and "Is it enough to strongly pulled abdomen." In such a condition is no place for interesting conversations and enigmatic smiles. Pay special attention to shoes. No doubt, the heels visually lengthen the legs. But in order to have noticed it,you will have to move on them , not to prop up the wall! Meanwhile walk "of the tribe," and not from the hip can ruin any beauty.

Achieve 100% confidence

Allocate sufficient time to become perfect. A person who does not need to worry because the nails are not in the best condition, to brow hands have never reached, one eye somehow made ​​up slightly differently than the second, and underwear too tight bites into the body, it is easier to communicate .

Agree with yourself

In order not to be jealous about liberated ladies, preconceived strategy and tactics of behavior. Tell yourself that you are invited to a party, not your restraint, shyness and embarrassment, so that all these qualities will have to stay home and wait for your return.

If verbal persuasion does not help, create a written order on the same topic. Consider this magical changes that have to happen right at Christmas time.





In the beginning of the party:

Use the method of the "Old Friend"

As a rule, people value not only your words, but also how they are told and the tone you use, in what position you are. To make your cues not contradictory the language of your body, imagine dealing with a stranger, that he - your old friend (old love), with whom you have not seen for a long time. And just today, you each have met again. These pleasant feelings will start a chain reaction throughout your body - from the subconscious softening look to the turn of the body.

Use the method of the "Flowing smile"

Take your time to smile to everyone, as if just received from them a huge amount of money donated. Instead, carefully look into a person's face for a few seconds. Try to feel his personality. And then give him a wide warm smile that flows out of your eyes. Pause, which you stand will convince the person to whom you are smiling that smile of yours is sincere.

During the event:

Avoid one word answers

Your conversation even with the nice man can end, barely begun, if he would have nothing to add to what you say. Try to construct sentences so that the other party also had something to say. For example, the question "Where are you from" answer "from the Southern Butovo" is not enough. Nice to add that such a significant and interesting (not for you, but for someone with whom you speak) is in the area. If a male athlete - advice him to visit a good sports club, a banker tell about the lack of additional offices. Your task - to give him an opportunity to comment on your remark .Then, when he says something clever in response to your bait, will take you to as an excellent conversationalist.

Connect the other guests to the conversation

Engage in the conversation of those who like and am glad to join your circle, but does not know how to do it. People are always drawn to those who are interested in themselves. Imagine that you are shining spotlights around in your power to direct their light - try to make sure that their beams visited all who are close to you.
And, most importantly - remember the effectiveness of a smile. If your goal - meeting with a man, then keep in mind the results of research scientists from the University of Missouri.
Female researcher established visual contact with the guinea men who drank while sitting at the bar in the local nightclubs or drinking establishments. In some cases, the gaze of women scholars that was accompanied by a smile. In other cases, they did not smile. "The highest percentage of attempts to establish contact - 60% - was observed in the case where, among others, non-verbal signs of the present interest, a smile."

Fatal woman

Fatal woman (Fr. la femme fatale) - common in literature and film image of a sexy woman who manipulates men by flirting. She is not always the one whom she claims to be in the beginning.

I am sure that every woman, at least once in a lifetime "tries on" the image of a woman - the vamp. After all, the image of the fatal, passionate, impregnable and at the same time enticing and mysterious woman drives men crazy. Do not see such woman impossible. It is always a strong and conflicting emotions: men love her  passionately, madly or hate, but indifference is no place to be here.


One of the secrets of the "femme fatale" in the fact that they know exactly one simple rule:   fullness, crooked legs and a big nose do not make us ugly! And our sense of insecurity that comes from awareness of their own "inferiority." It makes no sense to get angry and offended by the fate of the whole wide world: it makes us closed, vulnerable, spiteful and resentful. 

A woman with such qualities is unlikely to attract someone's attention, and the exterior has nothing to do with it. This woman knows well: her shortcomings may like nothing less than the dignity of her, and sometimes more. 

Another secret of the "femme fatale" is that it is up to the subtleties know (or feel) the male psychology. When dealing with any man she uses (not always consciously!) one and the same scheme consistes of only four steps. It's really scheme, because its content - especially individual and creative.

Step one: "You are such an extraordinary".

Step two: "Why is no one besides me, does not notice it?".

Step Three: "If you want, I will help you get better?".

Step Four: "And now look how I am extraordinary".

Very unpretentious-looking pattern, but in all ages on any man she acted perfectly. It is only necessary to competently and without hypocrisy to use it. 

Moreover she is not a man-hater, sometimes it seems that she herself-that is not fully conscious of her strength, so easy and natural this woman behaves. And why, exactly - "fatal"? Because even a fleeting meeting with her man will remember as something very important for him personally ... Maybe it will be right to call it a "real woman"? What is her secret? And what is it - an innate quality or skill acquired consciously? Is it possible to become a "femme fatale"? As one classic said, the "femme fatale - it's a profession." A profession can and should learn.

The image of "vamp" choose for themselves decisive, confident in their own beauty, irresistibility and sexuality women, such as Renata Litvinova, Monica Bellucci, Nina Dobrev,Beyonce, Angelina Jolie and others.

Manner of a woman - vamp

Manner of the women - vamp wear a light shade of negligence. Vanity and concern are alien to her . She is confident in herself and it is not possible to embarrass her. The woman - a vamp is laconic, but what she says always makes sense.  Her movements are smooth, graceful, confidentt, but not impetuous. Such woman can be compared with a panther which came out on hunting, her beauty and grace border with danger.

Style

Vamp style in clothes - is primarily a contrast throughout. Clothing should attract attention and arouse interest in others. In this case, the brightness and sexuality bordered with exquisite taste and irresistible appearance. All clothes are beautiful, harmonious and sexy, but not in any way vulgar.

Preference should be given to close-fitting and form-fitting silhouettes. Clothing should be possible to emphasize the dignity of the figure - beautiful breasts, beautiful shoulders, arms or legs, at the same time hiding the tiniest flaws. Be sure to emphasize the slim waist, using wide belts or narrow bright belt.





Tissues

Clothes should always be thin, form-fitting fabrics such as satin, silk, jersey, thin skin, the clothes which better underlined curves of the female body.

Colours

It is very important that the clothes had a bright but natural colors - black, maroon, bright red, scarlet, dazzling white. Out of prints are best suited for the style leopard, tiger, under the skin of reptiles.

Lingerie

It is important that women underwear, preferring style vamp, was luxurious, lacy and expensive. This gives confidence in her irresistibility. Black stockings and push-up bra is also attached to the image of sexuality, as well as a top slimming corset and transparent blouse demonstrate the impudence and aggressiveness.










Option wardrobe:

1. Fitting dress to the ankles with a deep neckline or a high side slit, or completely closed, but showing beautiful hands and shoulders;
2. Short-fitting dress from the sparkling fabric;
3. Complete sets of red and black lacy lingerie;
4. Top as a slimming corset and transparent blouse. It is obligatory to blouse long narrow straight skirt with a slit up to the mid-thigh;
5. Tight-fitting trousers made ​​of satin fabric.
6. Tight-fitting trouser suit.

Accessories

Accessories do not complement the style vamp, but seduce. Long gloves, developing a chiffon scarf, luxurious and elegant jewelery with precious stones or sequins, small elegant and refined handbag clutches.

Shoes

Shoes - an extraordinary and elegant. It is best to opt for a light and open sandals or shoes at a high and thin heels. Speaking of boots, high heels and a perfect fit by foot binding. Avoid unnecessary cumbersome details and bagginess.

Make-up

Doing make-up style vamp main emphasis should be on the eyes and lips. The eyes are enclosed in a black outline with a pencil, and the line should go as far as possible for the external borders of the century. In return for lips should be used a bright and vivid colors of lipstick with gloss. Best fit red, dark red, burgundy or maroon. Another important point. The girl-vamp manicure must exactly match the lipstick. Required and pedicure, which should be perfect.

Hairstyle

Despite the fact that the woman - vamp majority with the dark-haired beauty, if you have light hair, it does not mean that you can not play the role of the fatal temptress. Simply provide the proper care of your hair so that they can serve as worthy of framing the face.

To create a hair style vamp is quite suitable as long hair and hairstyle - quads. Can be curled strands, leaving them loose, or collect hair in a pony.

Dominatrix-style is cocky and bright, sexy, like the woman herself, preferring this image. If you like it - feel free to choose it!

Fashionable, Stylish and Confident

1. Necessarily should be in the wardrobe shoes corporal (natural) color. They are perfect to any kind of clothing, also visually lengthen leg.

2. One more must have - a few white shirts. Form-fitting shirt male pattern perfectly emphasize the beautiful breasts, thighs and waist.

3. In the wardrobe sure to have a set of clothes "for itself." Can wear it for fun - to communicate and meet with friends. Calm tones, multilayer does not emphasize the waist - all contribute to your comfort.

4. Purchase certainly classic black trousers, black sweater with a V-neck and black boats strict on the comfortable heel. Pants must sit upon you well and good, sweater highlight the neckline. This outfit can be hundreds of times outplay the different accessories and it will always look gorgeous and differently.

5. Remember that ribbons and straps on the shoes shorten the leg. A classic boats shape is drawn. This should be considered, especially for women of medium height.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.


8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.

8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

9. In the locker room necessarily have to be at least one pair of shoes with heels. Heels gives the woman some instability that attracts men to support her.


10. Wearing a bright, flashy dress, do hairstyle smooth not striking not to divert attention from the dress.

11. Bright shoes with straps are selected so that ankle was open.

12. Remember, if the top of clothing - bulky volume, the bottom should be light and airy. Look for harmony!

13. Bright, unconventional and revealing things to wear sultry resorts, there are looking great.


14. For a spectacular view, open the chest area, extend the leg line at the expense of a well-fitting trousers and add interesting accessories. With casual dresses will be well looked clutch, big sunglasses and a bright silk scarf.

15. Do not be afraid of trendy trousers with a low line between the legs. Contrary to the popular belief that they shorten the legs the do opposite sit perfectly and make legs slim.

16. Seductive and flirtatious gait of Marilyn Monroe can be repeated, wearing a skirt just below the knee, which will impede slightly walk.

17. The bright skirts, for example, beige color should wear a slender long-legged women.


18. To attract the attention of others, you can simply: make up lips with bright lipstick, put on huge sunglasses and bright bag.

19. The coat does not have to encircle. This is outerwear, and therefore can be free.

20. For full thighs there are long skirts and dresses just below the knee.

21. To demonstrate the neckline in a jacket with a plunging neckline, be sure to wear a contrasting color top.

22. In the wardrobe should be for all occasions in your life. These are clothes for home, shopping, working, elegant clothes. All these things have to be appropriate, stylish and well-fitting on you.

Evelyn Hromchenko (c)

Arabic woman

In India, men do not allow women to work. Why?

If a woman begins to show itself in the society, it leaves your creative energy there, and her husband, a family has no choice.

Why are men so concerned about making a woman realizes itself in the family? Because they know that the female energy - the source of grace and happiness. If a man takes full protection over the woman gives her a sense of emotional, financial and physical security, then through it into family comes stream Welfare.

The better husband takes care of his wife, the richer she is decorated and dressed, the more pets, the more her heart is openedt, the more it is filled with creative power, and through such contented woman comes an abundance of happiness.

"Where a woman is worshiped,  there is a home of gods."