You are amazing!

I am amazing! "Say these words out loud and confident. This is the second magic spell that can make wonders. You are - amazing! Believe it. Call in to help all of your previous experiences. After all, you have everything you need to be loved worthy man. And now we're just learning to use it "all" in practice.

Why do you not always feel like a woman, totally admirable? Just because you only see things coming through your mind resulting in a dense filter that transmits the light of day you just admitted the error, previous disappointments and all the moments in your life when you behave not in the best way. In other words, you see yourself in the distorted mirror , which helpfully delineates all of your flaws and shortcomings.

Are you , in fact so ugly? Of course not! And now we'll know why.

YOUR DISADVANTAGES ARE AMAZING 
You are amazing! Of course, you are not perfect - how not immaculate are men  worthy of your admiration . But that's why you are with them so well come to each other. You all - at the same time delicious and possess some imperfections.


By the way, let us look at ourselves disadvantages from a different angle. Certain imperfections make you interesting, different from all the others. It adds a special touch to your way of communicating with people. Whether you are perfect in all, you would lose that zest, which is the "face" of every person

Fortunately, you are not perfect. You are lucky! You have a direction in which you can achieve even greater excellence. So work in this area, work on yourself. Many women who are burdened by a lot of shortcomings, and continue to trudge through life cursing their evil destiny, but do not striking even lift a finger, in order to at least do something change yourself. But you will make required minimum effort and very soon make yourself a gift that  you never dreamed of yesterday!

YOU - THE MAN FROM COHORT OF LORDS

Who are the people who buy books and videos with the procedures and guidelines on how to achieve self-help and heal their relationships with others? These are people who, sooner or later destined to achieve success in life and general well-being!

Successful people - people who seek to educate themselves no matter how deep is their acquired knowledge and life experience. Whatever success they may have achievedthey never lost the desire to achieve even greater prosperity.

Such people do not always show the willingness to accept given them halo of a person successful in life, who has nothing left that rest on their laurels. Rather, they see themselves as hard workers who continue to strive to achieve even greater success. Therefore, they continue to accumulate knowledge.


In this one you really like them. You do not want to waste your life flowed, condemning you as a blind puppy wallowing in the cycle of everyday problems. Are you looking for an opportunity to direct life back on track, and who seeks will always find!

You are not just a casual viewer, sadly watching how others find their happiness. You are - are potential winner. You actively seek to learn how to manage coincidence. This is exactly what distinguishes man who sooner or later good luck smiles.

As everyone else, seek to achieve a lifetime of success, you can not immediately take the lines that you would like to achieve, but you will always be much closer to  dream, than would have been sitting back and waiting for the sea weather. And it's only because with all your flaws and imperfections


Nine times out of ten your relationship with a man is only a reflection of your relationship to herself. If you love yourself, others will love you to

To foster a respectful attitude to herself, you have come to the realization of a very important fact: you - the person and the greatest authority in all that relates to your own life. Keep this in mind at all times because this view determines the way you will be perceived by a man.

Become yourself best friend and assistant, you can following way.

Learn how to consider attractive everything that you have, simply because it is - yours. Treat sympathetic to itself and to the subject matter of your preference.


Learn how to defend your point of view, whatever it was. If you will refuse stand up for yourself, on whom you have to expect? Do not rush to agree with the chorus of critics that shower at you the accusations, blame and resentment. If the situation really requires it, perceive their point of view, but do it in such a way that the flow of criticism in your address has changed intothe expression of approval and courtesy.

Do not waste your whole life waiting for, "THE ONE", with the emergence of which everything will change around you once and for all. This man already so many years wanders somewhere close by and you can not find him. And sitting out all day at home, at work, unless you will make it easier to find him ? Of course not! And you have to make a maximum effort to this. So become closer to yourself for the time, "Not THE ONE ,"as well as several men,that are worthy of your admiration and are able to brighten up hours of your expectations. 


Give yourself a little more kindness. I do not know what is the reason, but in every woman's life there comes a time when it seems as if it is completely useless. Do not believe this feeling, remember: you are needed first of all to herself

Learning to be a QUEEN!

Dear, dear, loved  women! Most of you live alone, or with the unloved person, or frantically rushing in search of happiness ... You are - scared, confused and disappointed with life. Are you looking for support in this crazy world, but you're too weak to understand:
ONLY SUPPORT, THAT THE PERSON CAN TRUST - is himself.

You so want to be weak, bury your nose in the man's shoulder and to be a little girl, which mighty and the adult male will protect against all adversity, will love and tender care of her all life.

THROW THIS  CRAP OUT OF YOUR HEAD!

Even the parents do not have to take care of you all your life, and do you expect from a stranger that would take the baton from them?

It's time to grow up. And it means - to accept responsibility for everything that happens to you. Threw a beloved? Do not whine, do not feel sorry for yourself and think - why it did not happen the way you planned? And were you planning to do something? Or, once again, relied on the "fate"? 


 THERE IS NO FAILURES - ONLY A LESSONS

Each person can achieve what he wants if clearly decides WHAT he needs, HOW he can reach it and STOP  EXPECTING from the the WORLD FREEBIE.

You do not expect that someone will come and bring you money? You get up in the morning and go to work. As it is necessary to act with respect to the rest.
Start with yourself. Start with some small things. Teach yourself to be happy - always, regardless of the circumstances. DARE to be yourself. 
Tell yourself it does not matter, even if I do not meet my man in my entire life , I still: will get a lot of pleasure from intercourse with men, will test all pleasures of sex, give birth to the child ...



In general - I will do what I want. THIS IS MY WORLD!

And, believe me, you will have all that and much more of what you want to be done. World - rich and generously gives oneself to the one who knows how to enjoy it!

You are - WOMEN. You are are valuable itself. Doubt? Go out and flirt with any man. How he would be delighted! You say; oh, well, opening, understandably what these peasants want from us. Exactly! You initially have something that gives you value in society. But men have to make EVERYTHING ourselves. Use your feminine charm, to bring joy to themselves and men.


Be self-confident women. Not a bitch, not a maid, not a work colleague, but - the Queen of World.

The key to all of this - in FLEXIBILITY. Rubber hose can be tie a knot - and still he remains himself. Learn how to be flexible - and then you no longer have to wait until someone will choose you, you will be able to choose YOURSELF most pressious for yourself.


Your KING.

I -am what I think of myself

When you say "me" what do you mean? Who is you, who is this "I", let's try to understand.

What can you say about yourself? Stop for a minute and think about it. Give yourself a definition. Do not be too philosophizing and think of complex designs. Try to define yourself in one word. "I am ...". I - the person. Well, frankly, indisputable statement. But what it gives you, what it tells you yourself or others? What do you have two arms and two legs. That you are omnivorous. That you possess intelligence. Good, but not too much, do not you think?

This game in the definition of itself can be continued. Who else are you ? "I - a woman / man" - here is, added another item. "I - a parent," "I - ...". The list goes on. Try it. How much do you have such determinations for yourself?

So, you are -  all that is above. Each of these definitions imply some special features. From these onesis in many ways made ​​up your unique and exclusive. Let's try to take the next step. Look at each of these "definitions". What it carries? What kind of information? For example, as I said, "person" - this, at least, bipedal mammal. More and reasonable, like. So, it turns out that for every image is a specific set of descriptions, but if you're talking about yourself, self-descriptions. Each of these characters has a certain set of features and, importantly, behaves in a certain way. Worker works, parent  is raising a child, the driver is driving, and so on.

... You somehow identify with these characters and live the way they should live. This - at most (but not less than) are your roles. And these roles you try out myself. Some culling, some are leaving yourself. You draw yourself like a picture which shows who you are. And this inner picture helps you to be yourself. And the extra touches - it's your development milestones.


So, the picture shows who you are. And the artist - is you too. And no one else. notice this.

That is, of course, someone can to some extent affect you, and your picture will change something, but to apply or not to apply the new touches - it's up to you and no one else. In the end, your whole life - is the process of drawing pictures. Something to erase something to finish. But pencil and eraser are in your hand ...

This picture occurs in obedience to your wishes, short-term and premeditated. Sometimes it is the mood - and you suddenly throw a few extra features. And sometimes you  take a long time of thinking, it is worth to once again touch the canvas and what you exectly  need to fix in it or what to add. And what has been drawn, mind you, change yourself. You find yourself in a strange way connected with your own creation. You are becoming it. Those features that appear in the portrait, become your features ...

Let's go back to our game, we started with, remember? So, there are a number of roles. Do you accept them, sometimes consciously, sometimes not. And they become part of you. Knowledge of these roles, can tell you about yourself.

You - are, in a sense, a set of your own self-perceptions of ourselves.


You know your capabilities and limitations, advantages and disadvantages, isn't it? And this is the description - the most accurate portrait of yours. Who knows you better than you know yourself? The others? But they judge you just by your appearance. Your behavior - is just one side of the coin. After all, you yourself understand more what you're doing and why. And what not to do.

But know everything about yourself , probably is impossible. Or at least very difficult. You can tell only what you know and realize yourself because only that you realize himself, right?

For example, if you do not notice the fact that you are often greedy, you can not tell to yourself you can not say "I  am mean." Sometimes it happens that a person knows that he is greedy and behaves accordingly. According to his representations about itself. As if he himself - that's what he thinks about himself. This is true, of course, not just about disadvantages. If you, for example, do not fully realize your potential, you too will not manage to tell anyone about it, even to yourself. The point here is not to boast. Quite different. In getting to know yourself ...

.. Because such knowledge has a special power. When you can judge yourself, anyway, you  kind of get under the influence of these words, these judgments. They can help and hinder you, it all depends on the situation, what is going on in your life. The more roles you have, the more resources for self-description, the richer selection of what can be done.

People - being oh, what a difficult and ambiguous. Contradictory, we'd say. Sometimes it is difficult to predict its behavior. And even my own. So we create for ourselves description, which laid our properties and help us be ourselves. Otherwise too difficult. "I - a young and healthy, so I'll let the bus sit to the sick and the old people." This is quite natural and even necessary for the organization of at least some of our lives. Knowing what else you would expect from yourself certain actions in certain situations. Knowing yourself, you can do anyway. Your possibilities are largely determined by your self-perception is.

But, mind you, the same self-description can be a challenge. You need to do something that collides with your own ideas about ourselves. "I - polite and never rude to other people." It is the right and, like, a harmless plant can in fact do a good or a service. When, for example,  bad people try to stick to you. But the person is so intrusive that dosen't pay attention to your polite persuasion . In such a situation, it seems necessary to get out of yourself. Come out beyond itself. Be something more than you can imagine.

Affirmations. What is this? And how it works?

Affirmations - are statements that are helping to change the way we think and create the future that we seek. But not only ...

Affirmations - the thoughts, words, feelings, and emotions that each of us use in everyday life. However, as we all know, we do not always use the positive but also negative statements. So first of all, if you want to change your life for the better with the help of affirmations, you should only use them in a positive way.

So how does it work?

Think about what you're saying? Count how many times a day, for example, you or the people around you pronounce the word "Nightmare!" and "Horror!" These words should be forgotten! Each time, instead of them say, "Happy!" If aloud so hard to do, you can say it to yourself. The main thing - to replace every negative pulse to positive.

Or, for example, the phrase of astonished man, "Wow!" does not hold water. Remember once and for all - "All of Me." And just so, then the well-being will walk as your shadow.


Our thoughts and emotions shape our lives and our surroundings. Remember that like attracts to itself similar . Negative thoughts attract negative events in our lives but fears and concerns necessarily materialize, since we have projected their ourselves. What do you think, that you become.

From the above we can make a remarkable conclusion: "The positive thoughts and emotions of love, happiness and enjoyment, will draw into our lives happy event and necessary to us people."

But for those who are convinced that it does not work. Let me explain that the affirmations can not work only in one case - if there is a conflict between what you say and who you really are. That is, if you think one thing, say another, and the third mean, your guardian angels are no longer able to understand what you want in reality. That is, if every day you say "I want a bag of money," and the subconscious mind responds to answer "Yeah, hee-hee, now will repeat  10 more times and get as many as two suitcases ... this theory does not work," of course, nothing will work . Because there is no specific goal. There is a simple "want".


The main thing - your positive attitude, a belief that you will succeed. Come first to harmony within yourself, and you'll notice that the world around you has changed. Changed as much as you wanted to.

First, any positive statement is formulated in the present tense or as an accomplished fact. Secondly, there should not be a particle "not". 
Third, it should be directed only to a good cause and for the sake of goodness and love in the universe.


And one more thing, do not come true the desires which you think you want, but those whose performance your subconscious actually wants . So, do not be surprised if it comes true, what you so passionately wanted but were afraid to even think about it ...

Of course, I can cite the example of the great Louise Hay, who is the founder of the theory of affirmations. Despite the fact that she was born into a very poor family, was exposed during childhood of the humiliation by others, and many other things which I will not tell youshe changed her life through positive thinking, which has become a creature of her life (you can do some reading of her book where it says a lot about the way of this change.) And everything that she has managed to achieve, Louise Hay, reached  without assistance through the active application of learned and even improved method of positive thinking, which is based on its unique affirmations. The woman regained her ruined health (got rid of the cancer of the uterus without medication and operations, but only the power of thought) and established her own destiny!

Another important note. Affirmations can change your life, so first of all, think about it,  whether to change the life that you have now. As the saying goes, do not fix what is not broken. If you've decided that you need a change, as the air, then go ahead. We expect great things.

Saying the affirmations is an effective way to achieve the goals, happiness, love, harmony, health and well-being. Work with them every day, saying them aloud or silently, and the result will not wait!

One last tip before you start using affirmations, ask for forgiveness from yourself and your body for what was previously thought about someone (especially you) badly, for having experienced negative emotions, and promise yourself with this time to think and speak only positive. And follow that promise

When your life will be filled with nothing but positive thoughts, feelings and emotions that come along with them and remain with you forever peace, understanding, empathy, the ability to forgive and most importantly - love.

I wish you learn to see the good in everything with what you meet, and believe me, the world will respond in kind. Positive thoughts will be the light to guide you through life and will open all the doors in front of you.

Be a MAN!

Forget about the recent rebellion of feminism - women wearing bags, pay for them at the cafe, open doors for them, protect them, take on their issues.
Maybe you'll understand why all this and why it is are you when the thousandth time you come home, and then all the way comfortable, towelies of yours different colors in the bathroom, and there is  a plate with dinner. Maybe when everything will slip out of the hands - work, business, friends, but she - your good,  will be next to you every day - kissing the hands, curling up at your feet, and laying your head telling you that you are the best. And, maybe, when you see how much health and nerves, she lost while wearing under the heart your child, or when, after hours of 12-16-20 in the throes of childbirthshe will give you an heir.

Be kinder to her.

Stop wag her nerves with your pride, man's logic, strength of character. Call her. Especially when you had a fight, call her. If you only saw her crying bitterly after you threw up, slammed the door. No, not that beautiful she cries, like in the movies shown in the pillow and quietly. She weeps bitterly, wiping tears from ugly, swollen, red face. She can be heard on the street, in a neighboring apartment. She howls in pain, which causes her to you. Call her back, come. Grab her up and take out of this misery, as from a fire in the fire.

Earnestly desire her.

Passionately, violently, furiously. Beat your fists on the wall, stomp the feet, smash everything around. Just never tell her that she is to blame for this. Do not reproach her, do not blame her. Better to let the 'one goat that looked at her "will be  wrong. But it is for you to let remains saint. Believe me, if she wants to change,
she will change, and you will not know. But if you paid attention, she did it on purpose. What would be at least as you showed to her that you are jealous, and thus love, appreciate and are afraid to lose her. Then she hesitated, in herself, in your feelings. Means that she is afraid for your relations.

Tell her more about it. Say that she is your all, that you are in heaven with her.

Let this be in cinematic pretense, so be it. Speak! If all of a sudden her will not be next day. But someday it will not. After all, all of us are not ever.
Life,  is very brief, so unpredictable, can end in an instant. So, if it will not be tomorrow, you will never get the chance to tell her everything. Tell me, dear, tell. Promise does not feel sorry for the promises and do not be afraid to cheat.
She is so happy when hears promises, while dreaming, hoping for something very good. She's so beautiful in that moment, so she's ...
Does not she deserve it? Yes, even if you will leave the day after tomorrow, is not it all worth the fifteen minutes when you were lying holding each other , and dreaming of your beautiful future! Worth it! Every second is worth it! Because there is so little such seconds in our lives .

How to "grow" out of husband a millionaire

1. Believe in husband

Sincerely and with all your heart. Forget for ever that "your husband stuffed pears". Of course, sometimes it is very difficult to transcend yourself - during the marriage accumulated grievances, and generally

But unconditional love  the husband and belief in him - the most important step towards turning him into a millionaire.

2. Praise husband

Yes, not only women love with their ears, but all males too. Admire the husband, be favorable to him. The secret of this method - in influencing the subconscious

The spouse will strive to overcome the greater height and prove himself to you and to be able to achieve any purpose. Thus, you, by the way, will develop his self-confidence.

3. Stimulate his growth

How is it done? In a female way very simply: "Darling, I want a new coat, and then the old view is quite lost. Yes, it is true. I understand that we can not afford it now. You are working and you try. You're such a good fellow "

In this form, please request looks very well, and in any case no pressure on the psyche. And the likelihood that your husband "suddenly" will earn money for the new coat is very

4. Do not cut him "for nothing"

Yes, the socket is still "on the nozzle" is kept, and the husband is an electrical lead is not even an eyebrow. The paradox of "shoemaker without shoes" is now observed in many families, and strongly influences the "atmospheric pressure". Remind him of it gently, but do not push. All the same, he will sooner or later . Husband just got used to that you will wave his hand and make everything yourselves invoke the wizard for example

So, if you learn to look at his the mess through your fingers, he realizes that it was his job. And without him it is not done - in any way. In order to turn into a millionaire husband must instill in him a sense of responsibility, and instilled it just on the basis of these "little things"

5. Develop his talents

You have so much time together, and you know your Blessed like the five fingers. What does he know best? Where does he feel like a fish in water? Push him, help to expand the knowledge and skills. Of course, for a little bit and unobtrusively.

Things are not what they seem

Two angels stopped for the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was inhospitable and did not want to leave the Angels in the living room, after putting them to sleep in the cold basement. When they were going to sleep older angel saw a hole in the wall and closed it up. When the younger angel saw it, he asked, why?

Senior said, things are not what they seem.

The following night they went to sleep in the house of a very poor, but hospitable man and his wife. The couple shared with the angels little food that they had, and said to the Angels sleep in their beds. The morning after waking angels found the owner and his wife crying. Their cow, whose milk was the only household income, lay dead in the crib. The younger angel asked the elder:

- How could this happen? The first man had everything, and you helped him. Another family had little but was willing to share everything, and you allow their only cow died. Why?

- Things are not what they seem, - older angel replied. - When we were in the basement, I realized that in the wall was a treasure of gold. Its owner was rude and did not want to do good. I repaired the wall so  the treasure was not found. When the next night we slept in the bed,  to his wife came the angel of death. I gave him the cow.

Things are not what they seem. We will never know everything. And even if you have faith, you have  also instill confidence that everything that happens is in your favor. This will understand with time. Some people come into our lives and quickly go, some become our friends, and stay for a minute. Yesterday - is history. Tomorrow - a mystery. Today ...
The present - a gift. Life is magic, and the taste of each moment is unique!


Very often we grieve when something we do not get. Often we blame ourselves in it. Or the case. Or life in general. But I believe that everything that is done is done for the better.

Previously, I believe in another truth: if you want to live, be able to spin. And if something was going wrong, I blamed myself around. Scolded. Punished. Well, as best I could. Do you think that what I want? The result: low self-esteem, self-doubt, and accordingly, in my actions and decisions. Oh, how should I then struggled with this.

Now I am sure everything in life is a lot easier. Yes, for everything that happens to us, we take full responsibility. Just us. Sometimes life throws us and all the "pretzel". But only in order to make us stronger and better.


If we prevail against any disease, we frantically swallow pills without a moment's thought, why do I have, but my closest friend does not. Or  why 5.9 billion people on the planet does not have such the disease ?

Because we all think differently, building on our thoughts, we make any action, and the output is the consequences are not always pleasing to us. So we need to treat not the body but a Soul. Although, since you're already sick with something, then you need to drink a tablet, but do not rely on them. It is necessary to begin the treatment from your thoughts. The disease will go away and never come back. Some authors say that in such waythe cancer can be treated. But still, it is better to prevent disease than to treat it, because when it is already there, people often start to panic, but there is much more difficult to fight.

Or you broken up with your lover. Of course we are shocked. Yes, even in what. Such horror. What to do now? Those who are younger, see the solution to suicide, those who are older, in a glass. Wise can be at any age. If your lover through you, it is only in order to make way to your heart, a worthy partner. Nobody is perfect. The one who left was just not your man. Tell him thank you. Now you have opened the opportunity to meet with your half. Your half never go away. Those who have gone out of your life,  are not your second component, but brought you a lot of useful information. Remember how many beautiful moments you had. And how many lessons you can now bear from it!

What we think, we send into space, the universe (call it what you will), and from there we get the result. The universe does not know the emotions. She gets a vibration that radiates our brains and just doing what they want. Here I also want to insert a little anecdote:

A woman is standing and saying: man is asshole, the drunkard, does not bring the money; the young children are noisy, losers, none of them is sensible. The government only cares about himself,  you bastards. Boss, also a pig, nor "hello" nor "goodbye", but only screams and hisses .....
Behind her are two angels, one is writing something. The second asked him:
- Why does she need all this?

- I do not know. Orders are orders. Write it down!


I will offer you a couple of tricks to help get rid of the blues, spruce will try hard from depression too and away the negative thoughts.


1. There are rubber bands, thin, their money is tied up. They have different colors. Stock up with a dozen such. Put one on hand. Once notice that in my head bad thoughts, click on the eraser on hand. And just think of the good. When you feel that this gum satiated a lot of negativity from you, throw it away, put on another. And so, as long as your subconscious mind does not understand, think is bad - bad is punished.

2. In the morning, opening your eyes, look at  watch. Smile and count three minutes. Think of a good (if  the bad thoughts climb - cut them off with rubber band on your arm.) Smile for three minutes every morning. First, someone it will be difficult, but there is also a matter of time. Get in the habit, and then it will be ease to you .

This is enough, but remember the words of father Thomas. He said:

Just like snakes and scorpions placed for a long time in the vessel, in the end, die, and bad thoughts, disturbing the heart of a hermit, die and disappear if you do not allow them to pass.

To hell with the prejudices! Take everything out of life!

Is it possible to feel happy every day? What do you need to fell this?

In part, this is a philosophical question, because the understanding of "happiness" everyone has their own. But there are moments of female psychology, given that you will be able to enjoy and celebrate life to the fullest.
Let's find out together !

Women are unique!Nobody can  predict our behavior, thinking, or mood . Thousands of factors may affect our state of mind. Men often joke on our logic, but we perfectly understand each other :))

So, what settings prevent us from being happy?
I'll tell you about three of the most common ...








The first installation, "I will like myself when losing weight,'ll grow long hair and etc ..."

Perhaps reading these lines, you will smile and think, "What nonsense!" - Yes, I agree! But to be honest with yourself, you remember how many times have you said it yourself? Maybe it's sitting in your head right now?


Love yourself for what you have created nature. It is our otherness and it makes us unique and attractive for an individual.

Long hair - will not bring change to your life and will not "guarantee of happiness." A brand or exclusive things do not change the course of the party and will not affect the outcome of the date!


It is all about our inner feelings and a sense of fullness of life "here and now".



Think about it! Than you are ready to close for a year and limit yourself with communication until the hair does not grow back, or the body will not get the desired shape?? Do not you go to a party where you could meet her future husband, if you do not have a suitable dress??

Happy women do not expect that tomorrow everything will change. They live in the present, let go and thank their past for the experience, and make plans for the future.


Life is not so long, it is fleeting! And each year allegedly accelerated, especially after 30-35 years. That is why it is important to learn how to live the "here and now".


Focus on that date - this is the most important and interesting of what deserves your attention. Today - a whole life! Try to enjoy it and remember every moment of what is happening, no matter how long your hair is and how close your weight is to ideal .


The second unit, "My life will be better, brighter and more interesting when I will meet a man!"

Really? Of course not!

Men looking for the woman who will give them a certain inner state. In order to do this, we must be able to be happy with yourself, you need to be able to fill their own lives brightness!

Try to find inspiration in everything that surrounds you: the rays of the morning sun to read a book full of charm!

Only your fascination and inspiration of life are able to charge and inspire man.


By the way, one of the most important statements: "similar attracts similar" - very important when choosing a life partner. If you are happy, active, friendly, interesting and vibrant woman, then the man who would be next to you will be about the same.

The third setting, "What will others think?"

This setting is ingrained in many of us, as a "good girl syndrome" that has plagued 72% of women from childhood.

Many of us are looking for matches with the expectations of others, rather than to focus on the sensations. We are going through because of the fact that society can condemn us.

For example: women who have experienced a divorce, a long time (a year or more) believe that totally unneeded and the people around them look at them differently. They are afraid to voice their new status, not to get a conviction and a negativity in his address.

Some of the girls rush to get married in 20-23 years, not having any experience men only because they are afraid to remain "old maids."


Girls, stop! What is important is not a stamp in the passport, it is important to be close to loved ones, reliable and loving man who is willing to support you and take care of your family!

In this case, it does not matter how many years it will happen and what kind of men you have to communicate.

Take a look at the behavior, thoughts and actions on the part of ... And try to honestly answer the questions:

Is this like YOU or so would like your mom / friends / society?
When are you going to do something about what you are thinking, what others think about you or what it will give you?
Is it more important to live in harmony with each other, or be good for others?
Answers to these questions will help you better understand yourself.



I am truly convinced that be good for all IMPOSSIBLE! That's because many people, so many opinions - some with us is easy, with the other nothing at all glued, even talking about the weather ...

So why then, to kill your time in the pursuit of the correspondences and the expectations of others?

Listen to your needs and wishes, follow your dreams, even if they seem to all complete madness!

Only joy and satisfaction of knowing that you are doing what you want it to you, will give a feeling of happiness fullness of life!

Do not chase the templates! Stay yourself!

Smart people will always understand you and will take for who you are. Stupid and lazy to explain useless - still condemn! So do not waste your time on these people your time, focus on yourself and your happiness!



Remember, your time is priceless because it can not be returned!

Women's practice of "Sunshine in your heart"

Today I want to share with you an amazing practice that helps to open the heart chakra (one of the very important for women) and to transform your life with love and light.

It also helps to improve relations with the people and transform living conditions.

The practice of "Sunshine in your heart," do should in a quiet and comfortable place so that no one can distract you. Turn on soft music if it helps you, but not distracting. Take a comfortable position and relax. Feel that all cells of the body relaxed, and no thoughts distract you.

Think of the most striking moment when you were most happy. This may be a date with a loved one, any holiday, new baby, or just contemplation of beauty. Maximum try to remember the feeling and the feeling of that moment. Maybe this will be the flight of the soul or unbridled joy.

Now imagine in the heart, that you have the sun, which shines brightly. But it is not visible because it is hidden in a small box that needs to be open and let him out. Do it. Your sun begins to shine brighter and brighter, and you become the hot sun under the name of LOVE.

Every cell in your body radiates divine light, love and happiness. Enjoy this state.

This light can give loved ones, presenting a golden bridge between your hearts, and directing your love for him. You'll see how this man will change and begins to smile and lighten up.

In the material world, you will see how your relationship will become warmer or acquired new paint.

You can also do this with your home or situation.

Often turn your "sun" during the day. The result did not take long.

The most important thing in this practice - enjoy the process of giving love.

I wish you a lot of love and light in your life.

YOUR ZHEN-SHEN!

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Nothing happens without a reason ....

Nothing happens without a reason .... I firmly believe that nothing in life is not without reason. I try to live for today and fully devote myself to what I do, and I believe that the correct way would be open to me. The use of positive statements keep me open to change and help me to deal with self-doubt. Sometimes it's a feeling of uncertainty in anything can be a great wake-up call, time to think carefully about what is really going on. Take a little time to think about the doubts may be a useful procedure for which you look inwards, revealing their true beliefs.

 There will always be challenges, obstacles and more than a non-ideal situation, but if you take it step by step, you will grow stronger and more confident in their own abilities. There was a time in high school when I was teasing a girl, my peers. This particular girl is always teasing someone, and then came my turn. I remember that I was really afraid of her, and because I did not want to go to school. So much so, that I did not want to go there. My parents talked to me for a long time. They told me to stand up for what I believe is correct: not to be rude, but to be honest with her and tell what effect it produces on the people, and how badly it makes them feel. I remember when I went the next day at school, quite sure that she would tell me something bad. I was much smaller than her, but as much as I was scared, I told her exactly what I thought. I told her that, as no one spoke, as he was not ready or brave enough to express it. I told her that the only reason that people are kept around her, the fear, and that she can not see that they are not her real friends. Those whom it is to be made, only some want to be out of fear. It hurt her, and she began to cry. I did not mean to hurt her, I just wanted to tell her the truth, which I did. In this situation, I defended myself and others when not even think I can. This is very interesting, because after that I let the situation with my friend, did not appear for no reason, and then it was time for me to learn to be stronger. As it turned out, my speech has helped her to stop teasing people and find out what it is - when you have real friends, someone who likes you for real. She and I are friends to this day, and I am grateful for the situation we went through together. 

Knowledge of self and trust your feelings and intuition will open your life's greatest opportunities, and make you move toward your goals. I learned that I should trust my instincts blind. In the end, only we know what is best for us.

Album of Wishes and Dreams

                            Get yourself Album of Dreams.

We are constantly overwhelmed with a lot of desires. Some are easily implemented and executed, immediately forgotten, others we cherish for years. A variety of reasons do not allow them to come true, and the cherished moments of happiness all postponed.

How does it work?

Album dream operates on the same principle as many of his colleagues and sisters - a collage dream book of dreams, or, say, a map of desires.

Even without going into scientific details of any of us can experience on themselves that our conscious and subconscious operate images. Pronouncing, for example, "a nice little stilnenko purse", we tend to imagine a particular thing, or somewhere we can already see the one you are currently readily portrays our imagination.

However, these features as they would be clear to us or draw, you can not touch it.



But if you record their on paper, they seem to materialize - become visible and tangible. It turns out that despite the fact that the object is not present in reality it anyway already exists. Begins the transition to the desired reality, and it is a very strong message to our subconscious

Excellent! What do I need?

Time

Probably, more than one hour and even more than one day.

The fact that a person does not always a clear idea of what he really wants. New work - where, what? Traveling abroad - where exactly? Money - how much? Married - for whom??

That's why you work with an album of dreams before they start to attract miracles in your life, will be able to discover the most hidden, sometimes for yourself unexpected "Wishlist".

In addition, the album incarnation dreams - not static, but a living and evolving entity. Over time, of course, transform our understanding of the ideals, and your images may need to be adjusted.


And this method is based on the visualization desired.





Actually album

According to the logic it should be strong, with thick sheets and symbolize this way solidity of your intentions. However, in such a delicate matter logic does not always work.

Therefore rely mainly on your experience. They just have to get the light and joy at the mere sight of your dreams album.

Consequently, advises beautiful and successful, it is necessary to start with the selection or self-cover design - and get pleasure from it.

And solace, gratitude, delight, peace of mind, confidence, interest - any feelings and emotions with the "+".


Exactly they - the true engine spectacular dialogue with the universe. It is their energy ensures reciprocity of this communication does not give your requests to remain fruitless pleas. After all, only feelings, according to experts in visualization, confer the power of dreams. It consists in the possession of positive vibrations, which reacts universe.

Images

Now you have the most exciting -  put in album all of your dreams.

This requires any images that fit perfectly as possible in your mind with plans, expected developments, acquisition or creation of things that can make you happy.

Magazines and the Internet - the main sources of relevant images. If you do not lack artistic ability, to create a very good image of its own future.

This promise of the Universe will be much more effective, if to use your photos, and it is obligatory the ones where well you look, are smiling, happy, the ones where you are satisfied and admire yourselves.


Imagine what you write colorful scenario of the future prosperity of where you are, of course - the main character, and the whole re-enactment is an overwhelmingly positive response in your soul.

And then watch it more often, fueled by positive energy and channeling it into the universe.

Let live there all your most treasured dreams near the simple human desires.

Collect the clippings from magazines, booksphotographs in a beautiful notebook ... 
Let the universe hear what you like :)

Love yourself

About what do you think when you wake up every morning?Are you satisfied with what you fell inside you? Is it anger, love or another felling? 
Every day is an opportunity to change something, espesially to love yourself. I want to encourage you to find in your heart a love to your personality, body, character. If you will begin building of your temple of love to yourself in your heart, you will see the difference very soon. 

Self-love is one of the most important felling witch can woman have. Our imperfaction make our personality and our with the self-love we can accept us the way we are. With love insisde us we can give love to the hole world and to the people around us. Life is a gift and the chance to understand how to love and accept the imperfection.
  It is our responsibility to do this. God gave us a life and body and we have to love us, firstly because God created us with perfect love of his own. Start the changes now and the changes are going to come. 
TODAY IS THE THE MOST HAPPIER DAY OF YOUR LIFE BECAUSE YOU HAVE A CHANCE TO LOVE YOURSELF! There is no tomorrow or yesterday, only Today. 

"I learned to love myself, because I sleep with myself every night and I wake up with myself every morning, and if I don’t like myself, there’s no reason to even live the life.
 I love the way I look. I’m fine with it. And if my body changes, I’ll be fine with that."

Are women aware of their power?

Muse - not an ephemeral thing, and sensual woman carrying the world of subtle energy of love, harmony, beauty and inspiration ..

Are women aware of their power? And the greatest blessing - to be born in a female body? Do they direct their creative energy, their creative thoughts? Whether consciously create their own reality happy or complain about the circumstances, destiny, karma, being content with less? ..

Do you have what it takes to be happy right now, at this very moment .. Just be aware that you are a Source itself .. The source of Welfare, the Source of Love, Beauty Source, the Source of Happiness, the source of all the most beautiful thing that only exists in the universe ..

You're doing your own reality, every moment of your life you are creating your world with the power of your creative thought. Realizing the source itself, know and feel that the circumstances do not affect you, and you - influence the circumstances. And right now, you can choose where to direct your energy, what kind of world do you want to create .. Dream on ... but dream with absolute certainty that the Universe hears your dreams, and give you everything that you can imagine, once you loose it and will not interfere with the wonders enter into your life and throw it with the light of happiness ..

Do not interfere - so do not contradict the nature of femininity. Be a woman every minute, under any circumstances - and alone with a man, and at work, and alone with itself, even when no one is watching .. To honor your divine manifestation in the female body, to honor your feminine power, and know when you're at peace with yourself - your dreams miraculously incarnate ..

My inspiration

What do I want from this blog? - I asked myself before creating it! 

The main thing that I wanted from it was that it helped me to know my purpose, become more feminine. I want to be a Woman, with my own dignity and principles in life. To be a diva, to have power which is mine from nature. To be a  Lady, to change my thoughts in this condition of mind. One more thing why this blog has place to be is I want all women all around the world to become confident in their woman-power. 

My inspiration for this blog became my Mother and Beyonce. 

My Mother is an astonishing woman, she can combine work and home together. She has also time to decoration of house, to designing new clothe to herself and me, and she never lose heart no matter what problem is. She is very religious person and every day try to find time to God. She is so bright, like a sun in our home, around her I  want to be like her and shine as bright as she.

Another Woman as I sad was Beyonce. My metting with her changed my life and the knowledge about woman. When you are standing next to her you fell such energy, power that you cann't even describe it. The way that she presents herself, is incredible.

The energy on her concerts is so strong that I charged with it for a whole year. Mrs. Carter makes the women be proud to be them, not to hide their personality, inspire them to change themselves and to share the love to everyone around.

 She is Woman and she is proud to be one. 

She is so feminine and so bossy at the same time. She loves herself in all aspects. 

Her body is not like a super-model but her figure is making crazy millions of men and women all around the world. In every move in evry step, you can see that she is a Woman and that she is ohnered to be  Woman. She inspire all other women to be indipendent, self-secure and TO RUN THE WORLD!(like she do). 

Another aspect why i am so inspired by her, is that she has a wonderful marriage. Beyonce and Jay-Z is a couple which gave me a view how I want my family and marriage to be. Their Love is an incredible thing to show-business, where such strong couples are very rare thing. Today I thought such love is only in movies but no it exists. He made her a Woman and "when people see her, they understand that it's me". She is a real Diva and Legendary Woman, and every year she is better abd better like a wine which is better with age!

P.S. I can write about my MOM and BEYONCE more and more. I will never stop to admire them.

The Purpose of Women

In Vedic culture, women have always been very honored. It all started from birth a girl. In Sanskrit "diva" means divine. It was believed that the girl is born perfect, and it is the main task - to maintain its cleanliness. In this case, the girl initially by their nature are much closer to God than the boys - as cut from the ministry. And from the birth try to serve, help completely disinterested. Service -  is a women's purpose.

In all traditional cultures, it was, but somewhere else is.

There are even a few facts about the female nature, as described in the Vedas:

1. Feelings of women is 6 times stronger than that of men

2. A woman's mind is 9 times stronger than the men

3. The woman consists of service - she always wants to help someone

4. The girl has great power - the power of chastity, able to resist all kinds of malefices

5. Woman gives birth to children

In ancient times, everyone knew that the girl is born perfect. Her did not try to alter or otherwise citified. She had been taught to accept their feminine nature. They are very much praised, even pampered. At the same time develop their natural talents. Dressed up, made a lot of compliments. And so the girls learned to maintain their self-esteem.

Now things happen differently. Women do not realize their original fullness, so all the time trying to develop something yourself, work on yourself like a man. Set goals, plans, objectives, and go to them, training dedication, willpower, determination. Qualities that are essentially masculine.

Whenever we think of our female destiny, about the nature of how the world is changing. When we have a sense of self-esteem (but not arrogance!), People treat us differently.

A woman with dignity, can be happy. And this happiness is like a magnet, attracts people to her. In her life come a great men because they like to be close to such sun. The  friends appeare  - because she has something to share with people. Next to a mother  children blossom- they see that adult life is full of happiness and love.

A woman wants to do even happier than she is. Because she already knows how to be happy. And even if a man does not get to make her even happier, she in any case remain happy! Win-win lottery in which it is impossible not to play.

Such a woman is able to make happy those who are near her. When you're full, you easily share happiness - because you have a lot of it.

And it all starts at the point when you realize that you were born is perfect. And all that is needed - remember how it was. Its purpose - the purpose of Women!

Olga Valyaeva(c)