The theory of savings or how to love yourself

Many women often indulge in many things. In the expensive cosmetics, in manicure, a spa salons, or even easierin the new winter shoes or extra pair of underwear. There is a contrast, another type of women who do not save on itself absolutely. And what they can spend on myself . Who's right, from these two types of ladies?
Once, in a conversation my friend said the following sentence: "When I smoke expensive cigarettes, I have things go well, the profits itself swims in hand. When the class of cigarettes goes down as slowly and sluggishly go my business."

I thought about it. About the point of psychology. If this friend of mine dose not smoked but ate chocolate, his words were the same, only the word "cigarette" would be replaced with the word "chocolate".


I do not know about you, but for some time I ever scrimped on myself. And that felt like something between the homeless and the poor. Then of course I did not know what makes me a vision of myself. And then, my mother once told me: "Never save on yourself, because then you will go all your life in tatters."

And I abruptly changed my attitude to the economy. I really went to the store and bought a perfume that cost forty times more than before I was able to spend over a month. Wow! I'll tell you how strongly I flew in my own eyes. I felt expensive. Even though I did not go on the red carpet at the Cannes festival, but felt like it was so.

After I thought about it. I already had that to compare, and I realized you can save money on yourself, but with the mind. If my salary is about 5000 UAH I certainly can not spend over 4000. And if you subtract the bills, pay for food, etc., what would be left? Only money on travel. And yet, every month, you need somewhere to buy something, but please yourself. Every economist himself, and everyone is aware of how much money he has, and how much he can spend. But the calculations for embezzlement, must necessarily be a column "for personal use".

How does it work?

When we allow ourselves to get what we need to improve self-esteem, we begin to grow in our own eyes. We begin to feel more important, loved, popular. A, respectively, and for others we become such. This affects our communication with people. If you've been notorious, thanks to its purchase (things or servants, does not matter) your systems are aligned and gradually become invisible. Therefore, communicating, you begin to open up more, smile more, and that attracts people to you. As rapidly growing fast and your career. Although, by whom and where you work, your business will succeed.

One model, once said: "The big money is easy to earn, and small - hard." She said this with confidence, because once she was poor, and worked as a waitress for a pittance. And over time, become famous and rich.

There is a theory that says that in order to achieve something, you must now experience a sense of joy from what has been achieved desired. Simply put, start today to rejoice over the fact that you have a million that you are the most charming that your children are the most talented, etc. It's not all seem a simple task, because not all girls know how to be the most beautiful. Not all men will be able to experience sensations owner of an expensive car. And out of this situation is the easy way out. We all probably ever got in a beautiful salon car, or someone told us, how do we enchanting. It is necessary to remember these feelings and experiences. Remember and be able to bring them into the present. Learn to enjoy what is not, but really want to. This creates a power of attraction and thereby becomes valid desired.

I'm not saying thatyou should live only in dreams Of course, the need to continue work towards achieving your dreams. But not always the answer comes to us it.

It is important to remember that there are such things as our psychological jams. Day after day, someone sits down and rides the subway to work. And every day, he sees the sick and the poor, who are held there. A luxury and a decent life, he sees only in passing expensive and upmarket shops, hotels and clubs. This is the effect of habituation. He was used to his social place, and even if he does not like, he does not move.


In order to change this, change and familiar way. Not always, but sometimes go to work by taxi. Of course, it is much more expensive, but it "catches up to you are important." Not always, but sometimes, it is necessary to do an expensive gift. It also helps you to feel like a king or queen. Let all your things will be a second-hand, but one is Versace.

It is important that climbing to the ladder of success should be gradual. Let us again take the example of machines. If you have a lifetime rode the subway and suddenly boarded a limousine, you will overcome the confusion rather than joy for their achievements. Because it is important to go through all the stages of recovery: Metro - bus-taxi - his first car - a road car.

So, we can summarize that saving on itself but with the mind. Of course, on the way to the top you are waiting many pitfalls, which will be known only to you. And I did not say anything about them just because everyone has their peaks. And their obstacles on the way. But do not be afraid of it. It's like riding a bike. How many times to fall, then to boldly go? And in life we fall down, but get up and move on, gaining experience and becoming only more intelligent. But let bygones be bygones......

What you attract into your life?

About what do you think, what you feel and what you attract into your life.

Fear of the new relationship, you are more afraid of them, and they do not deliver joy and eventually you broke up.

Fear of the new projects, chores, a new and interesting activities, go away from her, plunging into the usual and familiar, but not giving the joy of life and energy, activity.

Fearing their desires, you eventually stop to understand what you want.

Thinking that you do not deserve to be happy, beautiful, wealthy, you are distancing yourself from happiness, beauty and consistency.


Do you think that  something does not work, then you would not succeed in a single attempt undertaken by you. And you do not even think about how to do so, to work out.

 Think about something (happy, beautiful, expensive), that this is definitely not for you and not about you. You separate yourself from happiness, beauty and abundance and include the "victim" of circumstances.

If you think that "all men cheat", then all your men will cheat on you.

And you know, the list is never ending.

For yourself you have it finished when you begin to live your desires, dreams, recognize your right to happiness, and most importantly, be honest with yourself.

Dream of a beautiful mutual love, a strong and happy family, go towards your ideas and desires, begin to do something to make your ideas come true, the courage to take the first step without delay.

Do not betray yourself.

Dream, believe in yourself and your happiness and success, believe in your man.

What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).

The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".

To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

To hell with the prejudices! Take everything out of life!

Is it possible to feel happy every day? What do you need to fell this?

In part, this is a philosophical question, because the understanding of "happiness" everyone has their own. But there are moments of female psychology, given that you will be able to enjoy and celebrate life to the fullest.
Let's find out together !

Women are unique!Nobody can  predict our behavior, thinking, or mood . Thousands of factors may affect our state of mind. Men often joke on our logic, but we perfectly understand each other :))

So, what settings prevent us from being happy?
I'll tell you about three of the most common ...








The first installation, "I will like myself when losing weight,'ll grow long hair and etc ..."

Perhaps reading these lines, you will smile and think, "What nonsense!" - Yes, I agree! But to be honest with yourself, you remember how many times have you said it yourself? Maybe it's sitting in your head right now?


Love yourself for what you have created nature. It is our otherness and it makes us unique and attractive for an individual.

Long hair - will not bring change to your life and will not "guarantee of happiness." A brand or exclusive things do not change the course of the party and will not affect the outcome of the date!


It is all about our inner feelings and a sense of fullness of life "here and now".



Think about it! Than you are ready to close for a year and limit yourself with communication until the hair does not grow back, or the body will not get the desired shape?? Do not you go to a party where you could meet her future husband, if you do not have a suitable dress??

Happy women do not expect that tomorrow everything will change. They live in the present, let go and thank their past for the experience, and make plans for the future.


Life is not so long, it is fleeting! And each year allegedly accelerated, especially after 30-35 years. That is why it is important to learn how to live the "here and now".


Focus on that date - this is the most important and interesting of what deserves your attention. Today - a whole life! Try to enjoy it and remember every moment of what is happening, no matter how long your hair is and how close your weight is to ideal .


The second unit, "My life will be better, brighter and more interesting when I will meet a man!"

Really? Of course not!

Men looking for the woman who will give them a certain inner state. In order to do this, we must be able to be happy with yourself, you need to be able to fill their own lives brightness!

Try to find inspiration in everything that surrounds you: the rays of the morning sun to read a book full of charm!

Only your fascination and inspiration of life are able to charge and inspire man.


By the way, one of the most important statements: "similar attracts similar" - very important when choosing a life partner. If you are happy, active, friendly, interesting and vibrant woman, then the man who would be next to you will be about the same.

The third setting, "What will others think?"

This setting is ingrained in many of us, as a "good girl syndrome" that has plagued 72% of women from childhood.

Many of us are looking for matches with the expectations of others, rather than to focus on the sensations. We are going through because of the fact that society can condemn us.

For example: women who have experienced a divorce, a long time (a year or more) believe that totally unneeded and the people around them look at them differently. They are afraid to voice their new status, not to get a conviction and a negativity in his address.

Some of the girls rush to get married in 20-23 years, not having any experience men only because they are afraid to remain "old maids."


Girls, stop! What is important is not a stamp in the passport, it is important to be close to loved ones, reliable and loving man who is willing to support you and take care of your family!

In this case, it does not matter how many years it will happen and what kind of men you have to communicate.

Take a look at the behavior, thoughts and actions on the part of ... And try to honestly answer the questions:

Is this like YOU or so would like your mom / friends / society?
When are you going to do something about what you are thinking, what others think about you or what it will give you?
Is it more important to live in harmony with each other, or be good for others?
Answers to these questions will help you better understand yourself.



I am truly convinced that be good for all IMPOSSIBLE! That's because many people, so many opinions - some with us is easy, with the other nothing at all glued, even talking about the weather ...

So why then, to kill your time in the pursuit of the correspondences and the expectations of others?

Listen to your needs and wishes, follow your dreams, even if they seem to all complete madness!

Only joy and satisfaction of knowing that you are doing what you want it to you, will give a feeling of happiness fullness of life!

Do not chase the templates! Stay yourself!

Smart people will always understand you and will take for who you are. Stupid and lazy to explain useless - still condemn! So do not waste your time on these people your time, focus on yourself and your happiness!



Remember, your time is priceless because it can not be returned!

Nothing happens without a reason ....

Nothing happens without a reason .... I firmly believe that nothing in life is not without reason. I try to live for today and fully devote myself to what I do, and I believe that the correct way would be open to me. The use of positive statements keep me open to change and help me to deal with self-doubt. Sometimes it's a feeling of uncertainty in anything can be a great wake-up call, time to think carefully about what is really going on. Take a little time to think about the doubts may be a useful procedure for which you look inwards, revealing their true beliefs.

 There will always be challenges, obstacles and more than a non-ideal situation, but if you take it step by step, you will grow stronger and more confident in their own abilities. There was a time in high school when I was teasing a girl, my peers. This particular girl is always teasing someone, and then came my turn. I remember that I was really afraid of her, and because I did not want to go to school. So much so, that I did not want to go there. My parents talked to me for a long time. They told me to stand up for what I believe is correct: not to be rude, but to be honest with her and tell what effect it produces on the people, and how badly it makes them feel. I remember when I went the next day at school, quite sure that she would tell me something bad. I was much smaller than her, but as much as I was scared, I told her exactly what I thought. I told her that, as no one spoke, as he was not ready or brave enough to express it. I told her that the only reason that people are kept around her, the fear, and that she can not see that they are not her real friends. Those whom it is to be made, only some want to be out of fear. It hurt her, and she began to cry. I did not mean to hurt her, I just wanted to tell her the truth, which I did. In this situation, I defended myself and others when not even think I can. This is very interesting, because after that I let the situation with my friend, did not appear for no reason, and then it was time for me to learn to be stronger. As it turned out, my speech has helped her to stop teasing people and find out what it is - when you have real friends, someone who likes you for real. She and I are friends to this day, and I am grateful for the situation we went through together. 

Knowledge of self and trust your feelings and intuition will open your life's greatest opportunities, and make you move toward your goals. I learned that I should trust my instincts blind. In the end, only we know what is best for us.

How to become a beloved woman

Falling in love with yourself, and then you fall in love with the whole world! This is the motto of the units in our world, but actually it works. Psychologists say that the better woman refers to herself, the more attention she attracts from the opposite sex. So, to be truly loved, you need to learn how to pamper yourself.

Self-love and narcissism - different concepts. Love - is, first of all, the adoption of yourself for what is, but not simply admiring your own reflection. Have a respect for your body, thoughts and actions. Only when you realize that everything in life - ideally, the world begins to change in the best possible way.

My body is perfect

Shape of the eyes, hips, height, figure, color of hair each has its own. Even the appearance of twins have differences. And it is time to learn to be proud of, rather than trying to become an ideal, imposed by society.

Modern standards of beauty are very specific. Glossy magazines, television and fashion designers claim that there is a certain standard of beauty, which is called the "ideal". And everyone on the planet has to strive for it. But to achieve this goal - it means getting the same "as all". How much this is true? Somehow, millions of women feel that you need to do so.

Perfect appearance each has its own. But there are several compelling elements: well-groomed skin, beautiful hands, tightened muscles and a dazzling smile. To be beautiful, you need to take care of yourself, take care of every part of the body.

A woman can be charming and without the skinny figure, can conquer the hearts even without hair on hук head. The fact that it refers to herself. Love of self begins with a touching concern for the body. You need to take the figure as a given. And no need to customize it for standards, just start to care for herself. A manicure, do not forget about the masks. You should start with a regular facial and neck, but it's best to remember all the body. Dedicate yourself more time, pamper your skin with nice creams, body wraps and massages. Love yourself and appreciate. And the more time you devote to this task, the more you will get admiring glances from others.

I Think and do everything right

You should love not only your body but also your actions and thoughts. In psychology, there is a unique statement, which has helped thousands of people get out of depression: "At the moment I made the best way for yourself. I chose the best solution to a situation that could have been. "Let it become your statement axiom. Perhaps then you will come to mind the idea that it was possible to do something different. But nothing can be changed, and therefore, it is necessary to go further.

Allow yourself to live, do not waste time on regrets and digging into the past. Not worth going to sleep, think about how you could do that. It's a waste of time. Enough sorry! In the future you will do even better, but in the past, you were right. It's your life, you can go for it as you wish.

Give yourself the right to be wrong. Even if something does not add up, do not worry. There are no people who always do everything perfectly. Just let yourself do not control everything, let go of the problems that you still can not decide.

To learn how to relax, use the meditation. They may be very different, it is important that this process is called a sense of comfort and relaxation. Someone is trying to stop the thoughts, someone sings a mantra, and some people choose meditation with the words to the imagination to present the manner described. Choose your method. Some people prefer active relaxation. Sometimes, running, swimming, exercise at the gym,  give a discharge. Look for something that will give pleasure, you are eligible for the ease, joy and serenity.

Relax - this is important

Relax - it's a human right. And it's a way to show love for yourself. Just need to rest properly, without remorse. Day off will never bring lightness, if you are constantly thinking about what did not have time to do. If there are ideas in the mind of the commitments will not find comfort.

In order to properly relax, you need to solve the problem. First way: go on vacation or on a weekend, when all is done, when it is not another report, no need to remember about the partners and the authorities. If all can not be forgotten, you need something to finish, do not think about it constantly. Determine for yourself hours or days when you do not accept to work. This is a solution: it's time to rest - will be the right one. Deny yourself during this period even reminisce about their problems. For their solution find a different time, and rest - is inviolable.

Relax - it's time for yourself, not for cleaning or washing. Of course, home care can help to relax, but it is better to rest for real. Do only what you like. Someone will be active, while others simply will sit at the TV for hours. But it is important not to abuse yourselves, and admit that I like now to do just that. Give yourself permission to do nothing. Let this be a regular ritual - spending some time as you want, not the way you need or others want.

Loving yourself can be different. There are lots of ways to begin to realize their dreams, desires to indulge. Start not from the very large, such as buying a bouquet of flowers. A further is is easier to reach other ambitions plans. Appetite comes with eating!

Beauty secrets from all over the world

Each country has gained invaluable experience caring for themselves and Beauty. Japanese women are famous for flawless skin, oriental beauty - gorgeous hair. I have tried to collect for you the most proven and popular beauty recipes in several countries of the world. Maybe you'll find something useful for yourself.

Japan

Purpose: Porcelain skin.
Secret Ingredients: rice and seaweed.

Rice Scrub. In ancient times, the Japanese rice bran replaced soap. Until now, many Japanese women use them as a scrub, which perfectly refreshes and rejuvenates the skin. Rice bran is ground in a coffee grinder, and then they are applied after a bath or shower in the wet body, including the face and neck. Besides the fact that rice bran is a good peel for the dead cells, they are also rich in vitamin E and other beauty antiokidantami that improve skin condition. You can use them in a different way: going to take a bath, wrap in cheesecloth half a cup of powdered rice bran and put the bag into the water - after a bath your skin will become the silk.

Seaweed mask. The healing properties of seaweed in Japan has long been known. For the mask you will need about 200 g of fresh seaweed, but you can use dried. Fresh seaweed soak for a few minutes in the water in order to wash the salt. Dry - soaked for an hour in the cold water. Then algae are boiled in a glass of water over low heat for 10 minutes. Grind in a mixer, cool and add a teaspoon of lemon juice. The resulting mask is applied to cleansed face for 15-20 minutes, then wash off with cold water. The mixture can be stored in the refrigerator up to 4 days.

Beware of the sun. Everyone is familiar with the traditional image of Japanese women with a parasol in hand. But it still does not go only famous geisha, but also ordinary Japanese women. After all, the sun - the worst enemy of beauty. But Japanese women do not stop there - they put on, sitting behind the wheel of cars, opera gloves (those up to the elbows) to the sun coming through the open windows, do not spoil the porcelain skin. There is what's take an example!

Pakistan

Purpose: Silk and leather luxurious hair.
Secret Ingredients: almonds, orange peel, melon, olive oil.

Almond Scrub. My Pakistani friend told me that even her mother, who, by the way, was reputed to be the first beauty of their town, used almond flour to cleanse the face. Probably not in vain because modern cosmetologists believe almonds excellent cleansing and rejuvenating. To get the almond scrub almonds are ground into a fine powder and mixed with coconut milk (for oily skin) or olive oil (for dry skin). However, if there is no coconut, it is possible to do regular milk. But the coconut is better - it has strong anti-inflammatory and anti-fungal properties as well as is a good restores keratin that makes up our skin, hair and nails.

Balm for the skin of the head. Patients with dry, itchy scalp is often mistaken for loose flakes of skin dander, and complain that over the years can not get rid of it. Meanwhile, there is a great tool that allows you quickly and effectively solve the problem. Need to rub into the roots of the hair and scalp little warm oil - olive oil, burdock, castor, sunflower, even in the absence of others. You can add to it 2-3 drops of natural aromatic oils. Then wrap your hair with a warm towel and leave for an hour or two. Then wash the hair with a mild shampoo. This mask improves not only the scalp, but also hair.

Orange and melon mask. Here's another favorite Pakistani recipe for beautiful skin: You need to dry orange peel (at last they found a use!) And then grind them in a coffee grinder. Add to them a little melon pulp, or, for want of a little water with the lemon juice. The mixture shuld be put on a cleansed face for 15-20 minutes, then rinse with cold water. The mask is best done in the afternoon or evening, immediately before  living the home. The mask has excellent antioxidant properties, making the skin fragrant, pleasant to the touch and literally glowing from within.

Polynesia

Purpose: The smooth young skin.
Secret Ingredients: Coconut and sea water.

Exotic island beauties not only use coconuts for food, but also successfully are used for cosmetic purposes. With their help, they treat your hair clean and rejuvenate the skin. Possessing land, disinfectant and soothing properties, coconut is particularly useful for the care and treatment of oily, problem and combination skin. Coconut promotes rapid regeneration of the skin, moisturizes and makes it velvety, while eliminating the excess fat. And the healing properties have literally all parts of the coconut: as pulp and its milk and butter, and even peel.

Coconut Scrub. Coconut husks soaked in water for one hour, then thoroughly ground in a coffee grinder. Then pulverized coconut pulp bit - about half the volume husk. And diluted coconut milk mixture to a paste. Scrub is applied after a bath or shower in the wet body, including the face and neck. Skin massage for a few minutes, and then rinsed with warm water .

Thalassotherapy. So called sea-water treatments. It is a traditional practice of the vast number of countries around the world. The benefit of sea bathing is difficult to overestimate, because sea salt, mined from the depths of the sea, contains the full range of minerals and trace elements beneficial effects on the body: sodium chloride, potassium, calcium, magnesium, bromine, iron, iodine, and even silver and gold. All of these substances through our skin receptors have a healing effect: improve sleep and prevent insomnia, irritability, and reduce the symptoms of depression. Seawater also has excellent anti-inflammatory and analgesic effect. Useful sea baths and beauty: they provide a stimulating and regenerating effect on the skin and enrich the skin micro-and macro-elements, improve blood circulation and lymphatic flow, thus restoring elasticity and beauty of the breast and great fight with cellulite. Sea salt is sold in drug stores, usually in packs of 1 kg. The bath is best taken in the morning or 1-2 hours before bedtime. The water temperature should be 35-37 °, duration bath - 10-20 minutes. On the bath is required from 500g (Black Sea) up to 2 kg (Dead Sea) sea salt.

Mediterranean countries

Purpose: The natural beauty of fresh skin.
Secret Ingredients: milk, olive oil, grapes.

Milk baths. Women from mediterranean countries, have always been able to look after themselves. It is known that the ancient Grecian and Roman women loved to take milk baths. It is unlikely that you will afford to take a whole bath of milk, but milk to wash (for dry skin) or yogurt (for oily skin) is extremely useful. Lactic acid has a mild exfoliating properties, so dairy washing refresh and improve the complexion.

Nourishing body lotion. Woman from souther countries, there is a practice self-care: they are applied to the entire body, including the face and hair, olive oil and leave it to soak from several minutes down to several hours. When the oil is washed off, the skin and the hair is literally silk. Just be careful when putting oil on your face - If your skin is prone to rashes, better to limit a body.

Grape freshness. Grape juice is very salubrious for the skin. You can mix it with honey and apply as a mask for toning flabby or tired skin. And you can chop grape seeds, grape juice to dilute and use this mixture as a rejuvenating and vitaminizing .

Elegant home image

Fashion dictates the rules and in respect of home clothes. It was good to our mothers: in those days they could go at home (and allowed!) in robes. For a modern lady like dress code is not allowed. If we believe in family psychology, in a  such form it is not far to the divorce.

But seriously, in terms of choosing of attire for the house you should follow the example of oriental women. Husbands never see them in the old and ugly clothes and always admire their wives. I like the one statement on this subject, I do not remember where I read it: "The Russian woman puts on the best  coming out on the street, and  does not pay attention to appearance, when she is at home. That is, another man she wants to please, and hers not. "My friend with whom I shared similar thoughts objected that our women do all the work around the house themselves, they do not have assistants, as opposed to the same eastern, and, say, wash the floor in an elegant dress is not very convenient. What is true. But modern designers are for us. In the collections can be found both beautiful and comfortable home clothes. Take a walk to the shops?

So, what guided the choice of home clothes?

At home, we relax, restore power. And this is possible only if it comfortable, cozy, warm, and every detail of the interior we enjoy. The same requirements must meet and indoor clothing. With its help, we are creating a mood for yourself and loved ones. After all, if we are not comfortable in the clothes, no matter how beautiful it is was, would we be able to fully relax? Of course not. We will be annoyed by the fact that, for example, constantly having to correct the straps on top or pull up the skirt. I am sure that soon you will change  beautiful but uncomfortable clothes on the good old bathrobe.

Therefore, the first and most important requirement for home clothes - convenience. Attire must not hamper movements, push, be too narrow. Convenient should be any clothes, but especially home. Another reason that choosing outfits for school and work, we often sacrifice comfort for the sake of beauty. And by the evening are so tired that dream to get home as quickly as possible _ remove all to give yourself a chance to rest. It's like in the commercials where the girl proudly walking down the street in high heels, men looking after her with admiration . But once she crosses the threshold of house , as removes uncomfortable shoes, clothes and put on cute pajamas and slippers.

Second, the important fabric from which made ​​homemade clothes. Pleasant body silk, cotton, satin, flannel, jersey. These materials are soft, warm, breathable, easy to use (easy to wash _ dry quickly). Their only disadvantage is that they are heavily wrinkled. My advice - do not look for clothing made ​​from 100% natural fabric, if clothes will contain small percentage of synthetic additives, things will be less wrinkle.

The third criterion to guide the choice of attire for the home is a pastime in the native walls. How do you spend your leisure time? Are you hosting frequently? What chores are you? For example, a lot of you are cooking. So you need clothes, cut free of the fabric, so it was not hot, with short sleeves. Refill your wardrobe, dress shirt, there will be nothing to interfere with the culinary process. If you're a mom of crumbs that actively learns, then pay attention to the track suit. Obtain to it a couple of t-shirts, and the image is ready! In this dress you can reach to the nearest supermarket,  put garbage until the baby is asleep.

Fifthly, I recommend when choosing a home clothes to give preference to the one which is made in soft colors, so it does not irritate nor you, nor household. Pay attention to the things pale blue, olive, yellow, light pink palette. Do not forget about the accessories. Kit will be brighter if you combine it into a hairpin tone rim.




What to choose?


- Two robes - silk and bath robe. The first is indispensable for the morning toilet, in the second to wrap up so nicely after a bath;

- Jumpsuit. Very universal thing. It is convenient, clean and it is easy to cook in and guests to meet.

- Sweatpants;

- A few T-shirts and shirts-bortsovok. I love T-Shirts with cartoon characters. This print is uplifting;

- Breeches or shorts, depending on the characteristics of the figure;

- Dresses, one lung, another dense, warm for the winter.

Look good at home is very important, especially if you are married. I do not urge you to wear evening dresses and brightly painted, leave it for special occasions. But also do not need to go in the clothes you are ashame to go to street. And in these things we wear more often at home.

Clothing affects our mood. In a beautiful dress even relation to  household chores will be different, they are carried out with great desire. If your wardrobe has no home clothes, buy at least one set. You'll see how you mood will immediately change!  It's so important for a woman - to be beautiful and attractive. And to compliment ones provided!
I wish you in all situations have a flirty look, be well-groomed and elegant!

I have myself, once!

Men do us a lot of complement, and sometimes not even trying to hide underneath them a rough adulation. But never a man is not being disingenuous, saying: "you're my only ..." Each of us is really unique. And it does not matter that he is willing to put instead of dots princess or a frog, beauty or beast, more importantly, that there is no more woman like you, there was not and never will.

We love to read about successful people in general, and of women who have made a life of well-being, fame and recognition, in particular. Although, each of us experience a very mixed range of emotions. Sometimes we sincerely happy for them, and sometimes feel, as they say, the envy of the white, and sometimes black. But most of all, we tell ourselves that it was just lucky, and they were at the right time in the right place.

Perhaps this reasoning could claim the title of the axiom, if it were not for one small thing. I personally do not agree only with the fact that all this is just luck, just luck, just a happy coincidence, although the notion of "spoiled child of destiny" has a right to exist, but this is an exception. 
In this regard, the memory pops up a parable about that before you pray to God about the big win, you need  at least buy a lottery ticket.
Sometimes I want to ask, how many efforts we have made ourselves to  be in those "right places", many have decided to donate for that. And if we are not to blame for the fact that so many have missed the very "right time", hoping that we still have "whole life."

I'm not saying that we all need to blame themselves for what we have become stars of different firmaments, believe me, if they are broken it is very painful to fall and rise again so they often have in splendid isolation, is that, unfortunately, the price of success. But at least occasionally "buy lottery tickets" still stands.

In the 20 years the life before us, as the net book, and we have recently finished school, we think that it can be rough draft, and then, later, we can rewrite it. As a result, in 40 years we say that life is a failure, it is gray and boring.

Between middle-aged ladies, beating in depressive-dim convulsions and thus suggestive longing for their loved ones, often occurs such dialogue:
- All is ,bad,  I'm sick and tired of work, I am like a downtrodden horse!
- And what did you do in order to change something in your life?
- What can I?
- What did you try?
- What can I?
- Well, an apartment, a husband and children, probably not, try to change jobs!
- And what else can I do?
- Try something different!
- What can I do?

And so on to infinity. I want to take the shoulders, shake, and say as follows: "Then go at least get hair coated in a green color and wear a shorter skirt Ah, it would be foolish and ridiculous. But do not be sad and AS ALWAYS! And in the evening you can substitute the usual "leave me alone I'm busy," spit on the dirty dishes and do with your child grandiose crafts of the available material, so he took first place at the regular school competition. and when his eyes would shine with happiness, trust me, you'll be ready if not to everything but to a lot ! "
Lovely woman, there are many objective reasons, due to which we can not have everything that we would like and what we are certainly worthy. But remember, that depends on us, if not all, very much.

Our main task is to try to find all the good, bad, as a rule, you do not have to look for, it "comes" itself , and sometimes "fall down" on our heads when we did not expect.
Are you tired of everything. It seems to you that everything is bad. Find the courage to look at the circumstances on the other side!

You think that your life is monotonous, no, it is stable!
Do you think it is gray, well, no, it is not catchy, what would not be maleficiated!
You think that you are, I apologize, like a horse, just you are needed to evryone, and they can not do without you! You are not "horse" - you center of the universe! And to be the center, oh, it is not easy!

And finally, most importantly, a lovely woman, always remember that you are the best! Such as you in a single copy! Love yourself! Every morning, going to the mirror, meet yourself saying, "I am the ONE!" And all will be fine!

Fatal woman

Fatal woman (Fr. la femme fatale) - common in literature and film image of a sexy woman who manipulates men by flirting. She is not always the one whom she claims to be in the beginning.

I am sure that every woman, at least once in a lifetime "tries on" the image of a woman - the vamp. After all, the image of the fatal, passionate, impregnable and at the same time enticing and mysterious woman drives men crazy. Do not see such woman impossible. It is always a strong and conflicting emotions: men love her  passionately, madly or hate, but indifference is no place to be here.


One of the secrets of the "femme fatale" in the fact that they know exactly one simple rule:   fullness, crooked legs and a big nose do not make us ugly! And our sense of insecurity that comes from awareness of their own "inferiority." It makes no sense to get angry and offended by the fate of the whole wide world: it makes us closed, vulnerable, spiteful and resentful. 

A woman with such qualities is unlikely to attract someone's attention, and the exterior has nothing to do with it. This woman knows well: her shortcomings may like nothing less than the dignity of her, and sometimes more. 

Another secret of the "femme fatale" is that it is up to the subtleties know (or feel) the male psychology. When dealing with any man she uses (not always consciously!) one and the same scheme consistes of only four steps. It's really scheme, because its content - especially individual and creative.

Step one: "You are such an extraordinary".

Step two: "Why is no one besides me, does not notice it?".

Step Three: "If you want, I will help you get better?".

Step Four: "And now look how I am extraordinary".

Very unpretentious-looking pattern, but in all ages on any man she acted perfectly. It is only necessary to competently and without hypocrisy to use it. 

Moreover she is not a man-hater, sometimes it seems that she herself-that is not fully conscious of her strength, so easy and natural this woman behaves. And why, exactly - "fatal"? Because even a fleeting meeting with her man will remember as something very important for him personally ... Maybe it will be right to call it a "real woman"? What is her secret? And what is it - an innate quality or skill acquired consciously? Is it possible to become a "femme fatale"? As one classic said, the "femme fatale - it's a profession." A profession can and should learn.

The image of "vamp" choose for themselves decisive, confident in their own beauty, irresistibility and sexuality women, such as Renata Litvinova, Monica Bellucci, Nina Dobrev,Beyonce, Angelina Jolie and others.

Manner of a woman - vamp

Manner of the women - vamp wear a light shade of negligence. Vanity and concern are alien to her . She is confident in herself and it is not possible to embarrass her. The woman - a vamp is laconic, but what she says always makes sense.  Her movements are smooth, graceful, confidentt, but not impetuous. Such woman can be compared with a panther which came out on hunting, her beauty and grace border with danger.

Style

Vamp style in clothes - is primarily a contrast throughout. Clothing should attract attention and arouse interest in others. In this case, the brightness and sexuality bordered with exquisite taste and irresistible appearance. All clothes are beautiful, harmonious and sexy, but not in any way vulgar.

Preference should be given to close-fitting and form-fitting silhouettes. Clothing should be possible to emphasize the dignity of the figure - beautiful breasts, beautiful shoulders, arms or legs, at the same time hiding the tiniest flaws. Be sure to emphasize the slim waist, using wide belts or narrow bright belt.





Tissues

Clothes should always be thin, form-fitting fabrics such as satin, silk, jersey, thin skin, the clothes which better underlined curves of the female body.

Colours

It is very important that the clothes had a bright but natural colors - black, maroon, bright red, scarlet, dazzling white. Out of prints are best suited for the style leopard, tiger, under the skin of reptiles.

Lingerie

It is important that women underwear, preferring style vamp, was luxurious, lacy and expensive. This gives confidence in her irresistibility. Black stockings and push-up bra is also attached to the image of sexuality, as well as a top slimming corset and transparent blouse demonstrate the impudence and aggressiveness.










Option wardrobe:

1. Fitting dress to the ankles with a deep neckline or a high side slit, or completely closed, but showing beautiful hands and shoulders;
2. Short-fitting dress from the sparkling fabric;
3. Complete sets of red and black lacy lingerie;
4. Top as a slimming corset and transparent blouse. It is obligatory to blouse long narrow straight skirt with a slit up to the mid-thigh;
5. Tight-fitting trousers made ​​of satin fabric.
6. Tight-fitting trouser suit.

Accessories

Accessories do not complement the style vamp, but seduce. Long gloves, developing a chiffon scarf, luxurious and elegant jewelery with precious stones or sequins, small elegant and refined handbag clutches.

Shoes

Shoes - an extraordinary and elegant. It is best to opt for a light and open sandals or shoes at a high and thin heels. Speaking of boots, high heels and a perfect fit by foot binding. Avoid unnecessary cumbersome details and bagginess.

Make-up

Doing make-up style vamp main emphasis should be on the eyes and lips. The eyes are enclosed in a black outline with a pencil, and the line should go as far as possible for the external borders of the century. In return for lips should be used a bright and vivid colors of lipstick with gloss. Best fit red, dark red, burgundy or maroon. Another important point. The girl-vamp manicure must exactly match the lipstick. Required and pedicure, which should be perfect.

Hairstyle

Despite the fact that the woman - vamp majority with the dark-haired beauty, if you have light hair, it does not mean that you can not play the role of the fatal temptress. Simply provide the proper care of your hair so that they can serve as worthy of framing the face.

To create a hair style vamp is quite suitable as long hair and hairstyle - quads. Can be curled strands, leaving them loose, or collect hair in a pony.

Dominatrix-style is cocky and bright, sexy, like the woman herself, preferring this image. If you like it - feel free to choose it!

Plus of each age

As a child, you always happily was waiting for her birthday! However, there comes a time when on your birthday you do not want to have fun, invite friends and throw a party, because you became another year older. Do not worry. 

Of course, the time rob us of our youthful charm, but instead gives invaluable experience. Moreover, opening up new horizons, new opportunities, one is better than another!

20 years

Body. At the young girl is smooth and elastic skin, there is no hint of wrinkles, and furthermore on the extra pounds. Your body listens to you, and such reaction can be envied. As a young woman you can do anything - a dizzying slopes on a snowboard, crazy rides, Latin American dancing, skating, riding on roller skates. You can choose whatever your heart desires.


Memory. All of the new knowledge you absorbs ka sponge. But little logic in the actions, and the attention is distracted. For example, instead of to preparing and studying the French language, you have no qualms to arrange a party with friends or going to the last show in the movies.

The psyche. In your head heaps all sorts of plans, thoughts and ideas, and energy to spare. Today you have decided to sign up with a friend in the solarium, and tomorrow you travel to Tibet ... You can easily make a new acquaintance, very quickly fall in love with you liked guy. However, at your age you can get burned!


Love. Sure, you can fall in love to madness, here you have everything spontaneous and chaotic. You dream about the ideal relationship with romance, passion, gifts and of course, you want him to wear you in arms, in general, everything that you see in movies about love. But you should know that usually life is not so rosy. You both want everything to be good, but there is practically no experience yet, and you can not tolerate, so every minute quarrel because of all the rubbish.

Sex. At this age, you probably are not making love in order to someone fascinate, surprise or pleasure - you play in curiosity. You do not know how to get a real pleasure, and you do not know what it is. Very often, you remain dissatisfied, but you probably would have changed your attitude to sex if your partner was not contemporary, but a man that has already an experience.

30 years


Body. The facial skin is no longer such "fresh". Get plenty of it moisturizes, and before going to sleep under the eyes, always apply a nourishing cream special. If you notice that you start to gain weight, then do not wait another minute, come eat so much and loans themselves, fight wrinkles, cellulite because it creeps up quietly, and then settles permanently on the buttocks. Try to move more, because the metabolic processes in the body are not as intense as it was ten years ago. However, despite these changes, thirty years -  is the golden time. After all, you're just as good and keep the shape.

Memory. You have already graduated, in fact, has gone further courses - sewing, English lessons, mastering the personal computer, driving a car. You also perceive information and you can appreciate that you can try in practice everything you know. The only thing that's stopping you - your responsibilities are countless, and the thought of children, family and career.

The psyche. Not all the plans you are able to carry out some old friends dropped out, and they has no place in your life. But now you know your strengths and weaknesses, and they skillfully using . Now you understand that the most important thing in your life: friends, faithful companion on whom you can rely on.

Love. You not once heart broken, you're experiencing frustration, so already know well what kind of fruit is - a man and what you can expect from him. You more than anything want long lasting relationship that will be based on respect and mutual understanding. Moreover, if you have not done that already know and feel that it is time to have a baby.


Sex. You already know what a real passion. You already have a regular partner or husband, with whom you're constantly looking for new sensations and experiment are improving your skills in the art of love. You now know what an orgasm is and you know how to get it, in fact, has become a very skillful and irreplaceable lover.

40 years

Body. You first wrinkles on the face, and age has become the main theme for reflectionyou increasingly began to think about it. Purchase a good, quality cosmetics, do not regret the money. Do not forget that even if you have a very good flawless skin, something about it still need to take care of, because you can not, without doing anything, then continue to look for thirty years. Remember your hands, upper chest neck, they also require care. Do not worry about the fact that you are not so quick to move around, but you are able to tolerate, you're hardy.

Memory. You start to notice that the memory fades, any knowledge difficult to hold in your head? This is not the case. Now you just need more time to learn the material, you need to concentrate and focus, moreover, now you need perseverance to achieve your goals the ability to properly manage your time.

The psyche. You can now realistically assess your strengths and abilities, easily define the ability  of others. You can anticipate the changes that are sure to happen in your life, so you analyze the pros and cons. But right now in your life was not enough spontaneity and immediacy. Before making any decision you think a hundred times hesitating for a long time, because of that missing the a lot of chances and opportunities.

Love. You know all its advantages, try to behave with men, whether it is a spouse or a friend. You can clearly explain your problem. But it is not worth much to get hung up on the kids or work. In order to love, you need to constantly take care of themselves.


Sex. Well, here you are at the top of your capabilities! You can do anything, and  know how to have fun dostavlyaet it to the man. Teens are not rival to you, not in love affairs, nor in temperament. However, you still dream to sink into the arms of a tireless young lover.

50 years

Body. The skin is thin and dry, like an oak leaf in late autumn. Do not stop to take care of her in the evening and in the morning. You possess a very high resistance and endurance, so you can safely overcome the marathon, you need only to want. You can manage your time raskhoduesh forces wisely.

Memory. Now you have more time to spend with the benefit of yourselves, can make sense to think about the development of some crafts? After all, even the scientists say that only 40% percent of people stop learning at the age of 25 years, and others continue to study only after survive the crisis of middle age. So you still able to great lengths!

The psyche. You have to learn to spend energy only as needed, has learned to control yourself. You can clearly set a goal and achieves it safely. At your age you can easily talk to a stranger, easy to make new friends, and it's true, after all, love and friendship for all ages!

Love. The most interesting - you have not lost interest in men. And now you're interested in and attracts adventurous relationship. You look back to your youth. But now you love is otherwise. Now you again have no worries, and time belongs only to you. Do not miss this moment, enjoy!

Sex. You have access to all the delights of sex. You are free to make love as much as your heart desires. And some discomfort and dryness of the vagina - this is easily remedied, take advantage of intimate gel, it will deal with this problem. Plus there will be no oral sex. Try it! It is not necessary to build a barrier in your head, live and enjoy every moment.

Female Archetypes

A woman ... How many works of art dedicated to her as a warrior and heroic deeds being accomplished for her. How many sleepless nights, and poems have been written and sung for us, women.

As soon as you start to think about the intricacies of the universe women are plunged into a kind of a very different atmosphere. The atmosphere of softness, elegance, grace, subtlety and wisdom, deep and old as Earth itself.

The first woman is considered to be  Eve, wife of Adam. But few people know that there was a woman who had seen heaven before Eve - Lilith. The one that was rebellious and untamed, the one that was the exact opposite of the homelike and the meek ​​Eve. Already since the birth of the universe, women are different and each of them had its own particular qualities that give them something quite unusual and rather mysterious. Lilith inherent inflexibility and freedom in all its manifestations, and Eve was designed to create and preserve warmth of the hearth. And each of them has its own way to be beautiful and attractive to the men.

So why all the women are so different? The answer is simple. In fact, there are several archetypes of women, who are present in each of us and manifest themselves in different degrees. By reading this article, you will be able to understand how you prevail in this or that woman and what qualities it gives you.

Woman - The Queen, Empress, Cleopatra, Warrior

Element - air.

The time of year - winter.

Colors: white, black, navy blue, gray.

Stone - sapphire.

Habitats - hills, the tops of the mountains.

Autonomy and independencesuch brave woman and a cold-blooded, confident and free. Queen controls. In her presence, timid men, lost and looking admiringly, catching every word of a woman. If such a woman smiles, it is, above all, confuse present and make a man feel like a timid boy. The Queen commands. She is beautiful and majestic. Next to such a woman man is changing - he becomes King.

Woman - Mistress, Mother, Keeper

Element - Earth.

The time of year - summer.

Colors: green, purple, brown.

Stone - emerald.

Habitats - suburban area, forest clearing.

A woman who knows how to manage and hold in their hands the house, and to inspire a man to keep order and harmony in family life and relationships. A woman who likes to interact with the children and, most importantly, the kids meet her in return. In such womans' home always smells of delicious food, grow lush flowers, and on the couch basking fat cat. This woman is sure of herself, quietly watching the world go by and enjoys the good results of her contributions to the family, relationships, growth and development.



Woman - Princess, Girl, Baby

Element - water.

The time of year - spring.

Color - blue, yellow, pink.

Stone - diamond.

Habitat - the sea, the ocean, any body of water.

We all come from childhood. We were girls and this state remains within us. In someone it less in someone more. The girl needs to exhibit to her care and attention. She is joyful, light, open and trusting. Quickly gives and is easy to lift. Men with joy endows her with gifts and attention. Take care of her, often play the role of father for a girl. It's not a bad thing. These alliances are usually made ​​between a woman and a man who is older than her age or higher social status.

Woman - Lover, Priest, The Witch

Element - fire.

Time of year - autumn.

Color - red, burgundy and gold.

Stone - a ruby.

Habitats - volcanoes, geysers, caves, place the open fire.

The woman - the priestess has the highest sexual energy. She attracts and fascinates with its passionate nature and wild temper. The nature rebellious, freedom-loving and sensual. The clothes are common predatory animal motifs. Such women can use men for many purposes. It is very common that the female lover do not hurry to get married and sometimes have a relationship with multiple partners simultaneously. Excellent command of sexual practices. Liberated in bed and know what men love .

How to wake up your inner woman?

All four types are present in each of us and, as I said earlier, are shown in different aspects of life and with different people. I want to share with you, dear women, meditative technique that will help you determine what kind of woman you are. 

So, sit back, close your eyes and breathe. Deeply and quietly. With each exhalation try to maximize relaxation. Make sure that no foreign sounds can not be interfered with by itself and enjoy the peace and quiet. Feel like other thoughts leave you and have nothing distracting. Imagine for yourself a place where you would be good at the moment. This may be a place where you as a child spent a lot of time or the seashore.
And maybe it will be a blooming meadow, which illuminates the bright sun. 
Stay in this place, enjoy its beauty and the pleasant sensation that it causes you.

Then take a look around. Somewhere nearby a woman should appear to be dressed in beautiful clothes. Neat and noble. Look closely at it, what color her dress, hair, and follow her gestures, watch out for her. It is possible that she will talk to you. Thank her for what she is with you and for the qualities that she gives you. If you lack another state, call the woman whose qualities you need, and reunited with her. Dance, rejoice, talk with your inner woman. When you feel that you are filled with the necessary energy - slowly and quietly back into reality. Stretch yourself, hug yourself and remember you're a woman - and you already is the Goddess.