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понедельник, 12 августа 2013 г.

The girl - "prick tease " - who is she?


Men, for some reason always think that a woman own something to them have, and she should to them usually SEX. It is not clear where they get the idea that if he's on his own will buy you a cocktail, you owe him sex. If he asked you out to a restaurant, then you  owe him sex. Even if you're just a very attractive and, God forbid, sexy, then you owe him sex. And if for you it is not yet clear, he by all means will give it to you to understand. Moreover, if in your mind was not such idea, you will be accused that you did badly, you used him and dumped him . It does not matter that he himself taken the initiative, it does not matter that nature has blessed you with beauty and intelligence, he still will blame you in his troubles .

Of course, can the immense male ego accept the fact that he simply was not good enough for you? No, that's impossible. He needs someone to blame for his failures and blame, of course, you .

If a woman that does not respond to the provocations of men, who knows what she wants, who sleeps only with those who really like her, but not with those who starts to put pressure on her, is called "prick tease "  - then yes, I am the PRICK TEASE. If the compliance own interests, the ability to hold the position and insist on her own called "prick tease "  - yes, the "prick tease "  that is what we want.

No matter what anyone says about the equality of men and women, all of us are the same, we are different. We are too different to be identical. And what men find their weakness, most often their weakness is the female force. But in what men are strong, all too often destroys women. I do not want to be a man. What for? I'm not going to be a man, I will be  better equal to a woman. And that is what makes me successful. Successful woman in front of which there is great potential. Be flexible - sometimes weak, sometimes strong, sometimes asking, sometimes insisting. Be different - sometimes funny, sometimes sad, sometimes clever, sometimes silly. But always be free.

Yes, men do not like such girls. And all because they want to impose on women a lot of obligations, to repair her for theirselves, to deprive their own will. "Prick tease " is free. She does what she wants and does not depend on men. 
She is attractive and does not intend to pay for the complexes of men. 
She does not render to them in dialogue and is ready to accept their admiration of herself. 
But she will not step over herself.


She is independent. After all, only independent people can afford easily take the gifts of others - their attention, worship, gifts. For all you have to pay? You should, and you pay for - and she is independent from the conventions.

"Prick tease " is - a real woman, and she can achieve her goals by any means. If she wants, goes directly, and if not, there will always be a real man who will gladly do it for her. And they will not accuse her of being too attractive, or too sexy or that desirable. She is such as she was created, and this is only her merit.



воскресенье, 11 августа 2013 г.

The area of freedom

She does not depend on age, passport or certificate. It is possible in 15 years to win the European Championshipor you can in 25 - to sit on the neck of the parents. So instead of waiting for some kind of offensive magic hour, after which you will become independent woman - studing these text, force yourself to change, and make a choice in favor of your road.

Learn to agree

I presume you occupy a big stubbornness. If you have decided that right after the New Year you with Adam  get married and go away to the Arctic - to lift the fallen penguins (they themselves can not stand up, if topple), so - so be it. And let the world does not waste time on empty persuasion, but rather help you to pack in a suitcase ipod and woolen socks.


Who are we fighting for?

With the senseless obstinacy. If you take the trouble to at least five minutes to listen close, you may realize that in some ways is to agree with them. For example, in what is now the most important thing for you -  study. And the Penguins and Adam can easily wait. Maybe in a couple of years, you do not want to lift the Penguins but breeding Labradors,and with Will in New Zealand.

Phrase-wand

With adults: You have convinced me. It seems so really would be better.
With her: You know, you seem to be right. I'll have to try it.


Learn how to argue

To compromise - not means being a weak-willed. Teacher loudly asserts that the chipmunk - is bird, and you're willing to nod his head, hoping for relief in the exam? Ugh, how embarrassing. But even worse, if you are in a hurry to agree with everyone just to please and get liked .


With whom are we fighting for?

With the lack of character and a tendency to grovel. Divide your inner beliefs into areas and once for all decide - what are you willing to sacrifice for the sake of others, and what - no. For example, no one will ever convince you to try drugs or steal something. This is an area of ​​strong and unquestioning "no." In all other cases, the need to make a decision is based on the situation.

Bonus:

A person who knows how to be calm, firm and arguments to say "no" - it's a strong person. Such a man nowhere will be scared, want to be friends with and are afraid of enmity. Spineless sycophants slide in a dark corner. But bear in mind - the art of saying "no" to train better not on your grandmother who asks you to take out the trash, but on the friend, offering to smoke, "one such magical marijuana from Jamaica."

Phrase-wand

With adults: Sorry, but this is against my principles!
With your: Smart people do not do that.

Learn to recognize the errors

Not mistaken only one who does not do anything. All fail from time to time tasks, break the rules, disrupt the timing and do not hear the alarm.There is nothing wrong with errors. Bad if you're acting like a dopey kid who tries to blame the broken cup, and eaten jam on the innocent cat.

With whom are we fighting for?

With cowardice.

Bonus:

If you itself without waiting for debriefing, say that was mistaken, no one will trample you underfoot. You probably even scold no one will. Because people who recognize their mistakes are the only strong and upright men. And there are always respected by all. The main thing - do not forget to fix your own fault. Who broken a vase, is the one who sweeps up the pieces.

-Phrase-wand:

With adults: Sorry, but it seems that all I brought. What can I do to make as soon as possible to rectify the situation?
With your: I'm sorry, I did not mean it, I promise. Let's try to fix it?

Pimp optimism

No one likes moaners and pessimists, . You would take in exploration (to the team, to work) a person who drags everyone behind, afraid of challenges and moreover hoots like an old gloomy owl, that all is lost?

With whom are we fighting for?

With blues and laziness. Just do not stick humus - from optimism to enthusiastic idiocy If you and your friends get lost in the woods, do not rapidly be glad that you can make some glamorous skirts of mugs and get acquainted with a snow man. Tell better to everyone  not to panic, change the shoes (dry and wet socks needles spoil strayed karma) and look at the north side of trees. The idea is that it should be covered with moss. In the meantime, people having fun, call the Ministry of Emergency Situations and calls the professional reinforcement.

Bonus:

Optimistic, confident person automatically becomes a leader in any company.


Phrase-wand:

With adults: I love challenges. They encourage me.
With your: Come on, everything will be fine! I know how to handle the situation!

What will help you quickly become an independent?

1. Foreign languages.

Bison them, and even better - love. A man who simply says at least one foreign language - is the embodiment of freedom and independence. You will not get lost in any country of the world, read more books (translated by no means the best), you will have advantages in hiring and in the choice of the gentleman.

2. Travel.

Buy a ticket at a travel agency can anyone. Learn how to plan your trip by yourself - choose the route yourelf, order tickets and book hotels, chooses travel, country and city. You do not notice how you will visit entire planet, make a bunch of friends and a million precious memories.

3. Internet.

There are not only the horoscope, diet and abstracts. Internet - it's your personal freedom - the freedom to buy, to vote, to travel, to believe. Make your site, start your own blog - and not full of stupid hearts and syusyami about Tokio Hotel, but a real, serious. Try to convince the thousands of people that you are serious, adult, and you have something to say to the world. It may well be that the world will indeed be interesting to listen to you.


4. Work

No matter - the pizza, the waitress, the courier, Jr. Assistant Secretary. At your age, any job - is important and honorable, because - first in life. Believe me, the need to perform adult responsibilities and adapt to the team quickly will be deprive you of infantile quirks.

I myself!

1. Responsibilities.


Own  responsibilities that everyone has an independent and an adult. For example, shift on your fragile shoulders all invoices that come to your home. If you do not trust the money and important forms? By the way, this is a very sad occasion for thinking.

2. Money.

Establish usually defer 10% of any amount in the precious envelope. No matter - this is permanent or casual earnings 500 dollars donated by your aunt about passing the exam or little thing you are given out to pocket expenses. The main thing - 10% should go to the stash. If you do not have the courage to gut the envelope for a year, you'll get a major award - out of nowhere a substantial sum that can be spent on all sorts of joyous frenzy. And, of course, the title of the Most Intelligent and Independent in the World Girl.

3. Pet.

Again, it does not matter - to whom exactly do you bring down a wave of tenderness,

responsibility and care. Hamster, puppy, baby brother, cactus named Athanasius - all of them wither without your help and warmth. Nothing makes a man independent as quickly as the need every day - regardless of the mood and the weather - take out, bring water or filtered water thoroughly someone young and defenseless.

суббота, 10 августа 2013 г.

Feminism - evolution or degradation?

Somehow, I came up with a theory that I decided to live the next 1000 years. It sounds like this: a man - was created by nature to meet women's needs and for procreation. It goes without saying that this "brilliant" idea visited my head after the man's offense? I think not. After a while, the offense gone, but I look at the men continued to hold enemy. And not a little effort it took me to get rid of the military spirit. I have been possessed by clean water of Feminism.
If you understand the nature of feminism, it turns out it has a lot of ways to sprouting in the female mind. It could  be raised by mother  (or the one who brought up the girl), it may appear on the grounds of resentment, and perhaps for self-improvement.


So what is feminism than, what it has bad and good ?

Now it is fashionable to be a feminist. If your girlfriend tells you that in her house husband is the boss, and she is on vocals, and you wonder, rebelled, and, of course, tell you that it should not be like this. Slogans: "We are women - stronger than man", etc., is so ingrained in our lives that seem to be so always, there will be. The fight is not long for equality between men and women, and for the superiority of women over men.  And if earlier there was  that the man on the prowl, and the woman in the cave, now a man at work, and the woman, also on the hunt, and at work, and in a cave-anywhere and everywhere.  Naturally, the woman gets tired a lot more. After work, she runs home, but not to rest, but to work! What nonsense, say, men! Is household chores, such hard work! The absurdity is that the woman continues to do these things every day.

Why,  nowadays we can not be relied completely on the man, and to do their - women's responsibilities? Is it because men are now less hardy, more steressed and soft? True-that men can not see! Where are they? Extinct with the dinosaurs? No. We, the women them destroyed. By our tremendous power that is within us. In the wrong direction, we sent our greatest potential. Instead, it would be ideal to carry out our mission - keeper of the hearth and distributor of love, we push, both morally and physically male population to prove ... To each his own, but what is the result ? When a man takes you by the hand, you do not think about the beautiful evening, but the marriage contract that will protect you and your children, if this man will leave you.


Pros of feminism sure everyone finds itself, but the cons are more clearly expressed. We have ceased to educate the courageous men. Why is this happening? Because our boy who grows up and takes the basics of life in the family sees where dad did not play the leading role, but only the executive. He goes to work, takes out the garbage, watches TV and reads the newspaper at the time, as a mom, like a squirrel in a wheel, doing all for the welfare of the family. A man can not be realized in the family.  No one will givesuch an opportunity to him ! What might be the realization? A hanger in the corridor is not screwed! That's right, poor boys, see, what men really. As you consider what your family will get a baby? That's right! The same! Dictatorial wife, who will nag him for everything and never give praise, because it would undermine its men's health. A men are not men for a long time, they perish under the pressure of women's oppression. If the man is not being implemented as a man, he dies.

First, from the inside and then outside. I sometimes met with these women who complained about their husbands: he does not do anything around the house! He is such a kind of reptile-only football or his computer is busy! What about me ? And the children: For us it does not have the time! And you imagine how many times you come to a place where you say you're a fool? Probably more than never, right? And your spouse have nowhere to go. He has responsibilities and you have children together. So he goes home with his head down and to somehow abstract leaves to the football, television and newspapers.

We women have already received our freedom, our superiority. Man long time are not the strong but the weak floor. And sexual minorities are the majority. Where to next? And then, in the opposite direction. If we want our children to be happy, family, strong and reliable, we have to explain everything.

Let's try to do it.

1. Imagine that your husband (boyfriend, lover, lover), is facing a difficult choice (for example, there is no money for a taxi and it is late), do not reach for the purse to give him 10 dollars, and  do not pay for the car. The man he is! Let him prove himself. He, and he alone is responsible for his decisions. Let come up with a solution myself. Otherwise, he will feel a jerk. 

2. Try to negotiate with him all the joint actions (leisure, work, vacation), and if your opinions are commonplaces, look for a compromise and do not hit him with your "right" reasons.



3. Do not rush to do anything. Understand that you are a woman. You were made for a perfect (probably because it has no one to create beautiful, as all women in the workplace, there are so many homosexuals, as a substitute). Your companion - getter, you - the keeper of the extracted. Remind him about it, and remember yourself.

4. Never among the people do not abuse him and do not tell him what to do. It demeans anyone, not just men.

5. Do not discuss your family  relationship with my mom . Mothers tend to then criticize their sons-in-law. Would you be pleased if his father discussed you?


Raise your chosen one as courageous man.  You want that his strong arms wrapped around your fragile shoulders. So you want to live with him and be like a stone wall. I want to walk down the street with his arm, and proud when other women stare at your masculinity and stately Apollo. But for the fact that everything was just so in our time we need to string up. Two centuries ago, you would not have thought about it, but now have. 
Give him the opportunity to make decisions for your family or for both of you. 
Give him the opportunity to realize himself as a man. 

He will love you more than anyone else, just for the fact that you do not destroy, but rather became his muse.









вторник, 6 августа 2013 г.

What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).


The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".


To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

пятница, 2 августа 2013 г.

Practice of "World filled with love."

During the life, every person has a lot of feelings, both positive and negative. We have seen a lot and now in our memory there are a lot of particles of different things and events. Some people in my life are good and bright, learning difficulties in their life, and there are those who have become meaner and colder.

Many people have not learned to trust yourself and feel lonely and abandoned.

But we should start to work on yourself, then the world will change at once and colors get brighter. Of course, all this is not for one moment, it will take some time to see all these changes. The main thing is not to stop and go through the planned and everything will be even better than you realize.

It is good that there are power within us and open our hearts, awakens in us the love inside.


I propose to share that love with the people that surround us, because surely there are among them those who are now ill and need help.

Let's take them all with love and appreciation and wishes of happiness, surround them with warmth and care.

Let's share your love with those who are now scared and had nowhere to go for help with those who have no roof over their heads, with those who have been hurt.

Let us present your love to everyone, even if they do not accept it, the main thing to know that giving up our love can no longer cause pain and suffering. We give it sincerely and without delay a response.

Put your heart into our planet and all living beings, even those who hurt us, and in whom we are very disappointed. We will give them the love that they have found the strength to find out what they really are - the good and loving.

Then take a look at our world, there reigned in peace and quiet. Everywhere there is harmony and beauty.

And know now there is your credit. Rejoice in the fact that you can do good, and you have the opportunity to make someone happy.

Each of us - a beautiful fairy who changes the world and gives her love. You are beautiful. Keep this in mind always.

I wish you a sincere love and joy.

With love to you,
Zhen-Shen

четверг, 1 августа 2013 г.

Women's practice of "Sunshine in your heart"

Today I want to share with you an amazing practice that helps to open the heart chakra (one of the very important for women) and to transform your life with love and light.

It also helps to improve relations with the people and transform living conditions.

The practice of "Sunshine in your heart," do should in a quiet and comfortable place so that no one can distract you. Turn on soft music if it helps you, but not distracting. Take a comfortable position and relax. Feel that all cells of the body relaxed, and no thoughts distract you.


Think of the most striking moment when you were most happy. This may be a date with a loved one, any holiday, new baby, or just contemplation of beauty. Maximum try to remember the feeling and the feeling of that moment. Maybe this will be the flight of the soul or unbridled joy.

Now imagine in the heart, that you have the sun, which shines brightly. But it is not visible because it is hidden in a small box that needs to be open and let him out. Do it. Your sun begins to shine brighter and brighter, and you become the hot sun under the name of LOVE.

Every cell in your body radiates divine light, love and happiness. Enjoy this state.

This light can give loved ones, presenting a golden bridge between your hearts, and directing your love for him. You'll see how this man will change and begins to smile and lighten up.

In the material world, you will see how your relationship will become warmer or acquired new paint.



You can also do this with your home or situation.

Often turn your "sun" during the day. The result did not take long.

The most important thing in this practice - enjoy the process of giving love.

I wish you a lot of love and light in your life.

YOUR ZHEN-SHEN!

P.S. Please write about what would you like to read and to see here. I would be very gratefull!!!


воскресенье, 21 июля 2013 г.

Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.
Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.





Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.




You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.


Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

Seduction is proceeded by "Agent Provocateur" ...

Lingerie brand from England, but his mission is clear in any language. Oh, what kind of underwear! Expensive, impractical, minuscule lace and silk, a pinch of rhinestones and graceful bows - every day is not going to wear. That's right: non-lethal weapons should be available only to a specialist high-end. And just for the purposes of the special operation.


No, you just think about it: the famous brand established by an English couple! But what about the traditional British stiffness, restraint and decency? Sheds little light on the fact that one of the founders, Joe Corre, the son of the mad genius Vivienne Westwood, and to this any scandals on the shoulder. In fact, the emergence of Joe to the white light from the discharge too eccentric. Many years ago, Vivienne Westwood was young, and that's what piquancy, pregnant. She walked down the street by no means a good cause - namely abortion. And suddenly she saw in a storefront window her cherished dream. In a in the form of a gorgeous coat. "My God! Without abortion I can live, but without this beauty can not "- probably something like this reasoned in  Vivian's mind and all the money intended for the operation, were spended on the coat. Soon in the tiny crib little Joe was crying ...

Cheap and cheerful? No, expensive and sexy

In 1994, Joe Corre and his wife Serena Rees decided to "kerf rock in the hole" and shake the sleepy old lady England. Thus arose the first boutique Agent Provocateur. A few words about the title. Translated from the "spy" agent provocateur - a secret agent who instigate actions leading to the trap. Actually, the conclusion suggests itself, is worth seeing lingerie submitted under the brand name. Call it "underwear" language does not turn. Because its primary mission - to seduce, destroy, shoot down the path of true gender male. Perhaps it is because the British thought, standing in front of the shop window of the first with a vicious commodity. And there - oh merciful! - Stretches, smiled and took sexually-enlistment pose mannequins. In lace bustier, fishnet thong, armed with whips and handcuffs in rhinestones to bows but with fur trim. Boutique atmosphere - boudoir, sellers dressed in "uniforms flight attendants" - short pink robe with the inscription Agent Provocateur. By the way, the design developed by Vivienne Westwood. She dictated the rules for its "exploitation": wear exclusively with black stockings, unbuttoned top and bottom buttons of clothes.

Oh, well, what they have done, these Joe Corre and Serena Rees!
 .. Nothing special: call things by their names, crushed pillars of pretense and hypocrisy. And at the same time returned underwear long-lost sensuality and seduction: lace-up corsets, garter belts, a combination of bright, saturated colors. By the way, all these panties, bustiers not be construed as push-ups and seductive pads to add volume to the right places, just beating a backhand naturalness. Therefore, a woman in sexy lingerie feels sexy and domineering. Like she is walking on the podium, commanding shocked and admiring partner. To shake the darling can not only view, but also the price of laundry. However,  he does not need to know this.

The British public maybe grumbled over a cup of tea, but linen swept from the shelves. Agent Provocateur knew what to do.

Harz, Kylie! Do not hesitate, George and Tony!

Buying happiness would not be complete without a controversial advertising moves. Joe Corre did not wait and beg. In 2001, the famous movie was aired with Kylie Minogue in Agent Provocateur lingerie prancing horse an improvised. Well, as a horse - a velvet seat. Well, as the prancing - seductively writhing. A decade after the brand has thrown out altogether unheard-of audacity: posted on his website movie outrageous content. As you see it is unlikely, remains to listen and use your imagination. So imagine the Oval Office, a man like an American ex-president George W. Bush, taking part in a sadomasochistic orgy. Of course, along the way there is an advertising production Agent Provocateur. In the end, there is another party, from head to toe in black latex and wears the mask of a dog. When the "lady" takes off the mask, it is a ... man, surprisingly similar to the British Prime Minister Tony Blair!

Scent of a Woman, and the temptation

The English couple get not a joke and added an arsenal of spirits befitting the occasion - you know, what. So, Agent Provocateur fragrance is hidden in a black box, and that, in turn, hides pale pink porcelain bottle. Which predictably provided "slit for spying." And what opens to the prying eyes? Sleek bottle shaped like an egg, which symbolizes fertility, a woman, and of other similar things here. Ask how perfume? They say they are for women, whose purpose - and the power of seduction. She avoids pressure excludes obligations. She seduces and charms, seduces and provokes insanity. Thats all!

Brand Agent Provocateur presented in the native open spaces, The same boudoir decor boutiques, shop-attendants in her dressing gown fastened correctly, Linen, accessories, perfumes ... And the old, old truth: if a woman does not give up, she wins if rent - dictates the winner. So, are you ready to call your own conditions?


суббота, 20 июля 2013 г.

The ancient Indian beauty recipes

Ancient India - perhaps the only country where one of the religious principles for a married woman was to like her husband. And to achieve this ideal women should fight aging and were forced to invent more and more new recipes, giving youth and beauty.

Thus, the face skin was wiped with basil infusion of herbs to prevent the formation of wrinkles. The body, according to the canons of beauty, had to be velvety, well-groomed, causing desire. Special attention by ancient medical was paid to the substances wich moisturize and nourish the skin.

Recipes with the use of different oils emerged about 5,000 years ago. First, using coconut oil, famous emollient and also bactericidal. Nowadays, it is known that lauric acid contained in the oil, kills bacteria and fungus formation. But experts on Ayurveda knew about it in ancient times. The the described properties of coconut oil were importaned in a hot climate of India, where there was a very favorable environment for the growth of microorganisms


Keen to please her husband or patron, Indian coconut oil is used both to improve the condition of the skin and hair. It has become traditional to take a bath with milk, coconut oil and rose petals. Such bath makes the skin soft as a baby, and even returned a youthful appearance to very respectable ladies. Bath with lavender, rosemary, nutmeg, cardamom, in turn, helped to mitigate the skin, give it a nice flavor and freshness. Yet the foundation of Indian cosmetics was just coconut oil, in particular, with the necessary supplements that the doctor assigned according to age and state of health of the woman. It melted at room temperature and soaked to the skin, almost without leaving a trace. And applied it as a mask on your hair to prevent the appearance of gray hair.

Along with the application of oils ancient Indian healers and beauticians use massage techniques. Thus, they recommended to do to little girls hairy scalp massage, and perhaps due to this tradition Indian have thick and long hair.

And today, oil massage helps to relieve tension and improve circulation. In ancient times, this type of massage was elevated to an art form. It was believed that it releases energy in the body, improves health, relieves headaches. According to Ayurveda, in temechko is the highest chakra energy, with skillful massage which man casts off the heavy load of problems accumulated over the day, relax, feel reborn.

There were complex in their formulation oils with toning and firming effect. These include mixtures containing Indian hemp root ashvgandy, wax-like substance secreted by insects called Kerry varnish. Sometimes massage oil consisted of 18 or even 25 out of ingredients. Oil mixtures can be used in chronic diseases, tuberculosis, rheumatism, edema. And they helped with a number of gynecological problems. In the latter case, held a stomach massage, which relieves pain and normalize the functioning of the whole organism.

During the hot oil massage was applied to the problem areas and gently massage them. Then left on the body for 40 minutes, then rinsed with warm water. When flushing the ancient massage therapists have used herbal mixture.


Special attention is paid Indians to dentistry. This field of medicine (and to some extent also cosmetology) attributed a divine origin. According to legend, the knowledge of dentistry god Indra gave to the ancient healers called Sushruta and Charaka. We have heard some of their recommendations.

For example, in the collection of sayings Sushruta Samhita describes how to search for growths in the sky, the sky tumors, tumors of the wisdom teeth. Swelling of the gums and tongue ancient book recommends not to cut but to cauterize. Cauterization often applied as medicines and have been used as special tools and hot liquids, such as oil or wax. Widely used by indians were leeches, believing that "bad blood causes diseases of the mouth." 


How to keep youth and beauty? - This question troubled women of all ages and nations. Historical records tell us about the cosmetics of ancient and lost civilizations. So why do not we use tested recipes for thousands of years, tested with one million women and men in the XXI century, when environmentally friendly becomes a symbol of health?






How to look beautyful without make-up?

Sometimes you get tired of makeup. All these jars, tubes - well, as you can! Eyes on them do not look! I want to be natural and genuine, but still beautiful. Can I do that without having to look at myself in the mirror and arm do not reache for the powder or fresh-faced? Of course you can, but, nevertheless, some effort from your part is still nedded.

What is primarily characterized by untidy? Uneven complexion, pimples, puffiness - in short, the state of the skin. And that just is not so conspicuous, you need somewhere to distract the eye companion. And get an  attention to the beautiful and well-groomed facial features. And then come to help:

1. Petrolatum. To make the look more expressive and eyelashes longer, thicker and darker, put on the  eyelashes a clean brush with a little petroleum jelly or castor oil. It would be beneficial for their recovery, if you do it regularly enough, the structure of your lashes will improve dramatically.

2. Well-defined eyebrows. A neat line of eyebrows creates a kind of frame for your face, making the focus on the features: eyes, lips, cheeks. If you want to give your eyebrows the desired shape and direction, use a brush and tweezers for eyebrows. Carefully remove any excess hair and then comb your eyebrows - first against the hair growth, and then to growth. At the brush you can add a little castor oil or petroleum jelly.

3. Sugar Scrub. Scrubs make skin smooth, even and radiant because remove dead skin cells. To achieve the glow of youth to age or even tired skin, you need to regularly use scrubs. If the store is not at hand scrub, you can do well and homemade scrubs. The most simple but effective homemade scrub is this: take some regular granulated sugar and apply gentle massage and moist the skin of the face (do not forget about your lips!), then rinse with cool water. 

4. Light tan. It is the perfect replacement for tonal foundation and even powder. If in the near future trip to the sea does not threaten you, come to the solarium, or even better - bronzer. Tan should be easy enough to hide all the non-uniform color space, but will not wear out the skin visually.

5. Eyedrops. It is a simple but effective trick to instantly erase from the face of fatigue, remove redness of the eyes and make the eyes look bright and expressive drip into each eye, one drop of the eye means that eliminates redness.

6. Moisturizer. Support elasticity and freshness of skin with moisturizer, preferably containing light-reflecting particles. Put it in the morning after washing at a slightly wet face and neck.

7. Beautiful teeth. If you have a white smile, then you can safely dispense with little or no makeup, its absence no one will notice, so white teeth and grooming support the impression of well-groomed as a whole. So do not forget to visit the dentist regularly, periodically whiten teeth and protect them from tooth decay. And, of course, in any case, do not smoke!


среда, 17 июля 2013 г.

The successful and free: how to be a loner

Many people think that "loner" and "lonely" - is synonymous. But is it really?

Yes, at times it may be true - who of us from time to time is not sobbing into a pillow at the thought that He only perhaps have already came - and gone?

Smug news from happily married friends, too, can be a source of stress and self-doubt. But in both cases it is important to remember that:

  1. Your friends will show the public only public mask - that is the most positive aspects of their relationship.
  2. It does not matter what they say about the inextinguishable sex: they still have to watch him floss, and maybe even let gases continuously.
  3. Life in a pair - not vaccinated against loneliness: remember, you were just lonely  with a former boyfriend?
  4. Feelings - a passing thing. Sometimes I also think that tomorrow morning, wake up a little kitten would be great, but it passes.



Five rules of success


  • Support other women, regardless of the status of your relationship
Women are the toughest critics of other women. Do you condemn, in silence, style of your colleagues, curve a sly lips over her choice of food, not to mention a boyfriend? Stop doing it, damn it! Nobody makes it no better, least of all - your self-esteem: so if you're secretly judging others, you begin to suspect paranoid that they condemn you, too. So, with regard to women in your life - be a good friend when they heartbroken, and be able to genuinely rejoice when they meet the beautiful people.Critic aside: in general, when we criticize each other, we are projecting onto others our own insecurities. The next time you catch yourself on this, pause and think for a moment do you judge by yourself? Would you be angry  if someone told you the same thing? That's where the food for thought is ...



  • Do not let the bastards upset yourself
Unfortunately, it's a fact of life that you can not change: people are tactless and pry into other people's business. Modern alone people face a lot more to learn how to behave in such interactions than willing to make them disappear. From time to time some idiot friendly will ask you when you think "to settle down." Do not take this as an excuse to hide in the closet or roll up the scandal. You're too good for that.



Battle cry of Singles - Independence: romantic,
 intellectual, financial, dressing room

  • Conduct business and have an active life

Have a lot of cases. Meet people. Engage in fun, exciting activities. Love your work. Never puncture a hole in your life in the form of the male silhouette, then to spend the time, eagerly peering into it. To all those for whom you need to worry, do not care, with how many people you show up in public. If you are unable to go to the toilet without being accompanied by a squadron of support , guarding your every move, now is the time to break the habit . Go to the movies, be engaged in some activity, dine out at home ... alone. Go on vacation - solo. If you ever thought deep down that no one gets involved in a relationship (or supports) simply because they can not tolerate being alone (or, even worse, you're accused of this) - then this is especially important.



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  • Be independent, both emotionally and financially

There is a stereotype that does not want to die - stereotype hunter for money. So, even though the image accompanying this sentence is laughable (Gucci, bling, five-inch heels, a tan from the "Tango"), the reality is much more pervasive and subtle. Hoping to go to half-time, when zavedesh family? Uh ... but you can ask who will pay for it? You think you're supposed to equal share in the ownership of any future home, even if your husband earns more? Again, think again about the subtext: equality otnosheniy.To, you're a woman - not a good reason to expect that other people will provide you. If someone offers to help - accept it with gratitude. But do not treat her for granted, laid you on the right. It's great to feel loved and adored. Much less cool - to create the impression ungrateful when people really did love you and adore.

Emotional independence is running on the same level. Any of this shit, "you  complete me" - what's that? Many women seem to consider perfectly acceptable to postpone their own happiness to the moment when we'll see the Prince Charming (and then fall into a stupor when he looks around, assess opportunities and dumps in an unknown direction.) Well, what do you want! Did you experience that you could drive to the man who would take you by the hand and began to look into the eyes and sincerely-confidential report that the meeting with you - the happiness that he had always dreamed of? No, damn it! This is a one-way ticket to the city Stalkervill.

  • Be honest

Ability, which is quite a lot of women do well - is the suppression of their feelings in order to give pleasure to other people. It is not only harmful - it is irritating. You may think that you are calm, unruffled and control yourself - when, to be honest, you act awkward and insincere. So it is critically important to be as honest as you can. But not to the point, you know, when it becomes rudeness. Honestly determine what you feel, and said aloud boundaries of behavior that you expecte from others, but do not tell that person all through  is bad and wrong.

"Guide to Men" Belle de Jour (c)












понедельник, 15 июля 2013 г.

Fatal woman


Fatal woman (Fr. la femme fatale) - common in literature and film image of a sexy woman who manipulates men by flirting. She is not always the one whom she claims to be in the beginning.


I am sure that every woman, at least once in a lifetime "tries on" the image of a woman - the vamp. After all, the image of the fatal, passionate, impregnable and at the same time enticing and mysterious woman drives men crazy. Do not see such woman impossible. It is always a strong and conflicting emotions: men love her  passionately, madly or hate, but indifference is no place to be here.


One of the secrets of the "femme fatale" in the fact that they know exactly one simple rule:   fullness, crooked legs and a big nose do not make us ugly! And our sense of insecurity that comes from awareness of their own "inferiority." It makes no sense to get angry and offended by the fate of the whole wide world: it makes us closed, vulnerable, spiteful and resentful. 

A woman with such qualities is unlikely to attract someone's attention, and the exterior has nothing to do with it. This woman knows well: her shortcomings may like nothing less than the dignity of her, and sometimes more. 



Another secret of the "femme fatale" is that it is up to the subtleties know (or feel) the male psychology. When dealing with any man she uses (not always consciously!) one and the same scheme consistes of only four steps. It's really scheme, because its content - especially individual and creative.

Step one: "You are such an extraordinary".

Step two: "Why is no one besides me, does not notice it?".

Step Three: "If you want, I will help you get better?".

Step Four: "And now look how I am extraordinary".

Very unpretentious-looking pattern, but in all ages on any man she acted perfectly. It is only necessary to competently and without hypocrisy to use it. 


Moreover she is not a man-hater, sometimes it seems that she herself-that is not fully conscious of her strength, so easy and natural this woman behaves. And why, exactly - "fatal"? Because even a fleeting meeting with her man will remember as something very important for him personally ... Maybe it will be right to call it a "real woman"? What is her secret? And what is it - an innate quality or skill acquired consciously? Is it possible to become a "femme fatale"? As one classic said, the "femme fatale - it's a profession." A profession can and should learn.

The image of "vamp" choose for themselves decisive, confident in their own beauty, irresistibility and sexuality women, such as Renata Litvinova, Monica Bellucci, Nina Dobrev,Beyonce, Angelina Jolie and others.

Manner of a woman - vamp

Manner of the women - vamp wear a light shade of negligence. Vanity and concern are alien to her . She is confident in herself and it is not possible to embarrass her. The woman - a vamp is laconic, but what she says always makes sense.  Her movements are smooth, graceful, confidentt, but not impetuous. Such woman can be compared with a panther which came out on hunting, her beauty and grace border with danger.

Style

Vamp style in clothes - is primarily a contrast throughout. Clothing should attract attention and arouse interest in others. In this case, the brightness and sexuality bordered with exquisite taste and irresistible appearance. All clothes are beautiful, harmonious and sexy, but not in any way vulgar.

Preference should be given to close-fitting and form-fitting silhouettes. Clothing should be possible to emphasize the dignity of the figure - beautiful breasts, beautiful shoulders, arms or legs, at the same time hiding the tiniest flaws. Be sure to emphasize the slim waist, using wide belts or narrow bright belt.





Tissues

Clothes should always be thin, form-fitting fabrics such as satin, silk, jersey, thin skin, the clothes which better underlined curves of the female body.


Colours

It is very important that the clothes had a bright but natural colors - black, maroon, bright red, scarlet, dazzling white. Out of prints are best suited for the style leopard, tiger, under the skin of reptiles.


Lingerie

It is important that women underwear, preferring style vamp, was luxurious, lacy and expensive. This gives confidence in her irresistibility. Black stockings and push-up bra is also attached to the image of sexuality, as well as a top slimming corset and transparent blouse demonstrate the impudence and aggressiveness.










Option wardrobe:


  1. Fitting dress to the ankles with a deep neckline or a high side slit, or completely closed, but showing beautiful hands and shoulders;
  2. Short-fitting dress from the sparkling fabric;
  3. Complete sets of red and black lacy lingerie;
  4. Top as a slimming corset and transparent blouse. It is obligatory to blouse long narrow straight skirt with a slit up to the mid-thigh;
  5. Tight-fitting trousers made ​​of satin fabric.
  6. Tight-fitting trouser suit.

Accessories

Accessories do not complement the style vamp, but seduce. Long gloves, developing a chiffon scarf, luxurious and elegant jewelery with precious stones or sequins, small elegant and refined handbag clutches.


Shoes

Shoes - an extraordinary and elegant. It is best to opt for a light and open sandals or shoes at a high and thin heels. Speaking of boots, high heels and a perfect fit by foot binding. Avoid unnecessary cumbersome details and bagginess.






Make-up

Doing make-up style vamp main emphasis should be on the eyes and lips. The eyes are enclosed in a black outline with a pencil, and the line should go as far as possible for the external borders of the century. In return for lips should be used a bright and vivid colors of lipstick with gloss. Best fit red, dark red, burgundy or maroon. Another important point. The girl-vamp manicure must exactly match the lipstick. Required and pedicure, which should be perfect.



Hairstyle

Despite the fact that the woman - vamp majority with the dark-haired beauty, if you have light hair, it does not mean that you can not play the role of the fatal temptress. Simply provide the proper care of your hair so that they can serve as worthy of framing the face.

To create a hair style vamp is quite suitable as long hair and hairstyle - quads. Can be curled strands, leaving them loose, or collect hair in a pony.

Dominatrix-style is cocky and bright, sexy, like the woman herself, preferring this image. If you like it - feel free to choose it!