You are amazing!

I am amazing! "Say these words out loud and confident. This is the second magic spell that can make wonders. You are - amazing! Believe it. Call in to help all of your previous experiences. After all, you have everything you need to be loved worthy man. And now we're just learning to use it "all" in practice.

Why do you not always feel like a woman, totally admirable? Just because you only see things coming through your mind resulting in a dense filter that transmits the light of day you just admitted the error, previous disappointments and all the moments in your life when you behave not in the best way. In other words, you see yourself in the distorted mirror , which helpfully delineates all of your flaws and shortcomings.

Are you , in fact so ugly? Of course not! And now we'll know why.

YOUR DISADVANTAGES ARE AMAZING 
You are amazing! Of course, you are not perfect - how not immaculate are men  worthy of your admiration . But that's why you are with them so well come to each other. You all - at the same time delicious and possess some imperfections.


By the way, let us look at ourselves disadvantages from a different angle. Certain imperfections make you interesting, different from all the others. It adds a special touch to your way of communicating with people. Whether you are perfect in all, you would lose that zest, which is the "face" of every person

Fortunately, you are not perfect. You are lucky! You have a direction in which you can achieve even greater excellence. So work in this area, work on yourself. Many women who are burdened by a lot of shortcomings, and continue to trudge through life cursing their evil destiny, but do not striking even lift a finger, in order to at least do something change yourself. But you will make required minimum effort and very soon make yourself a gift that  you never dreamed of yesterday!

YOU - THE MAN FROM COHORT OF LORDS

Who are the people who buy books and videos with the procedures and guidelines on how to achieve self-help and heal their relationships with others? These are people who, sooner or later destined to achieve success in life and general well-being!

Successful people - people who seek to educate themselves no matter how deep is their acquired knowledge and life experience. Whatever success they may have achievedthey never lost the desire to achieve even greater prosperity.

Such people do not always show the willingness to accept given them halo of a person successful in life, who has nothing left that rest on their laurels. Rather, they see themselves as hard workers who continue to strive to achieve even greater success. Therefore, they continue to accumulate knowledge.


In this one you really like them. You do not want to waste your life flowed, condemning you as a blind puppy wallowing in the cycle of everyday problems. Are you looking for an opportunity to direct life back on track, and who seeks will always find!

You are not just a casual viewer, sadly watching how others find their happiness. You are - are potential winner. You actively seek to learn how to manage coincidence. This is exactly what distinguishes man who sooner or later good luck smiles.

As everyone else, seek to achieve a lifetime of success, you can not immediately take the lines that you would like to achieve, but you will always be much closer to  dream, than would have been sitting back and waiting for the sea weather. And it's only because with all your flaws and imperfections


Nine times out of ten your relationship with a man is only a reflection of your relationship to herself. If you love yourself, others will love you to

To foster a respectful attitude to herself, you have come to the realization of a very important fact: you - the person and the greatest authority in all that relates to your own life. Keep this in mind at all times because this view determines the way you will be perceived by a man.

Become yourself best friend and assistant, you can following way.

Learn how to consider attractive everything that you have, simply because it is - yours. Treat sympathetic to itself and to the subject matter of your preference.


Learn how to defend your point of view, whatever it was. If you will refuse stand up for yourself, on whom you have to expect? Do not rush to agree with the chorus of critics that shower at you the accusations, blame and resentment. If the situation really requires it, perceive their point of view, but do it in such a way that the flow of criticism in your address has changed intothe expression of approval and courtesy.

Do not waste your whole life waiting for, "THE ONE", with the emergence of which everything will change around you once and for all. This man already so many years wanders somewhere close by and you can not find him. And sitting out all day at home, at work, unless you will make it easier to find him ? Of course not! And you have to make a maximum effort to this. So become closer to yourself for the time, "Not THE ONE ,"as well as several men,that are worthy of your admiration and are able to brighten up hours of your expectations. 


Give yourself a little more kindness. I do not know what is the reason, but in every woman's life there comes a time when it seems as if it is completely useless. Do not believe this feeling, remember: you are needed first of all to herself

The area of freedom

She does not depend on age, passport or certificate. It is possible in 15 years to win the European Championshipor you can in 25 - to sit on the neck of the parents. So instead of waiting for some kind of offensive magic hour, after which you will become independent woman - studing these text, force yourself to change, and make a choice in favor of your road.

Learn to agree

I presume you occupy a big stubbornness. If you have decided that right after the New Year you with Adam  get married and go away to the Arctic - to lift the fallen penguins (they themselves can not stand up, if topple), so - so be it. And let the world does not waste time on empty persuasion, but rather help you to pack in a suitcase ipod and woolen socks.

Who are we fighting for?

With the senseless obstinacy. If you take the trouble to at least five minutes to listen close, you may realize that in some ways is to agree with them. For example, in what is now the most important thing for you -  study. And the Penguins and Adam can easily wait. Maybe in a couple of years, you do not want to lift the Penguins but breeding Labradors,and with Will in New Zealand.

Phrase-wand

With adults: You have convinced me. It seems so really would be better.
With her: You know, you seem to be right. I'll have to try it.

Learn how to argue

To compromise - not means being a weak-willed. Teacher loudly asserts that the chipmunk - is bird, and you're willing to nod his head, hoping for relief in the exam? Ugh, how embarrassing. But even worse, if you are in a hurry to agree with everyone just to please and get liked .


With whom are we fighting for?

With the lack of character and a tendency to grovel. Divide your inner beliefs into areas and once for all decide - what are you willing to sacrifice for the sake of others, and what - no. For example, no one will ever convince you to try drugs or steal something. This is an area of ​​strong and unquestioning "no." In all other cases, the need to make a decision is based on the situation.

Bonus:

A person who knows how to be calm, firm and arguments to say "no" - it's a strong person. Such a man nowhere will be scared, want to be friends with and are afraid of enmity. Spineless sycophants slide in a dark corner. But bear in mind - the art of saying "no" to train better not on your grandmother who asks you to take out the trash, but on the friend, offering to smoke, "one such magical marijuana from Jamaica."

Phrase-wand

With adults: Sorry, but this is against my principles!
With your: Smart people do not do that.

Learn to recognize the errors

Not mistaken only one who does not do anything. All fail from time to time tasks, break the rules, disrupt the timing and do not hear the alarm.There is nothing wrong with errors. Bad if you're acting like a dopey kid who tries to blame the broken cup, and eaten jam on the innocent cat.

With whom are we fighting for?

With cowardice.

Bonus:

If you itself without waiting for debriefing, say that was mistaken, no one will trample you underfoot. You probably even scold no one will. Because people who recognize their mistakes are the only strong and upright men. And there are always respected by all. The main thing - do not forget to fix your own fault. Who broken a vase, is the one who sweeps up the pieces.

-Phrase-wand:

With adults: Sorry, but it seems that all I brought. What can I do to make as soon as possible to rectify the situation?
With your: I'm sorry, I did not mean it, I promise. Let's try to fix it?

Pimp optimism

No one likes moaners and pessimists, . You would take in exploration (to the team, to work) a person who drags everyone behind, afraid of challenges and moreover hoots like an old gloomy owl, that all is lost?

With whom are we fighting for?

With blues and laziness. Just do not stick humus - from optimism to enthusiastic idiocy If you and your friends get lost in the woods, do not rapidly be glad that you can make some glamorous skirts of mugs and get acquainted with a snow man. Tell better to everyone  not to panic, change the shoes (dry and wet socks needles spoil strayed karma) and look at the north side of trees. The idea is that it should be covered with moss. In the meantime, people having fun, call the Ministry of Emergency Situations and calls the professional reinforcement.

Bonus:

Optimistic, confident person automatically becomes a leader in any company.

Phrase-wand:

With adults: I love challenges. They encourage me.
With your: Come on, everything will be fine! I know how to handle the situation!

What will help you quickly become an independent?

1. Foreign languages.

Bison them, and even better - love. A man who simply says at least one foreign language - is the embodiment of freedom and independence. You will not get lost in any country of the world, read more books (translated by no means the best), you will have advantages in hiring and in the choice of the gentleman.

2. Travel.

Buy a ticket at a travel agency can anyone. Learn how to plan your trip by yourself - choose the route yourelf, order tickets and book hotels, chooses travel, country and city. You do not notice how you will visit entire planet, make a bunch of friends and a million precious memories.

3. Internet.

There are not only the horoscope, diet and abstracts. Internet - it's your personal freedom - the freedom to buy, to vote, to travel, to believe. Make your site, start your own blog - and not full of stupid hearts and syusyami about Tokio Hotel, but a real, serious. Try to convince the thousands of people that you are serious, adult, and you have something to say to the world. It may well be that the world will indeed be interesting to listen to you.

4. Work

No matter - the pizza, the waitress, the courier, Jr. Assistant Secretary. At your age, any job - is important and honorable, because - first in life. Believe me, the need to perform adult responsibilities and adapt to the team quickly will be deprive you of infantile quirks.

I myself!

1. Responsibilities.


Own  responsibilities that everyone has an independent and an adult. For example, shift on your fragile shoulders all invoices that come to your home. If you do not trust the money and important forms? By the way, this is a very sad occasion for thinking.

2. Money.

Establish usually defer 10% of any amount in the precious envelope. No matter - this is permanent or casual earnings 500 dollars donated by your aunt about passing the exam or little thing you are given out to pocket expenses. The main thing - 10% should go to the stash. If you do not have the courage to gut the envelope for a year, you'll get a major award - out of nowhere a substantial sum that can be spent on all sorts of joyous frenzy. And, of course, the title of the Most Intelligent and Independent in the World Girl.

3. Pet.

Again, it does not matter - to whom exactly do you bring down a wave of tenderness,

responsibility and care. Hamster, puppy, baby brother, cactus named Athanasius - all of them wither without your help and warmth. Nothing makes a man independent as quickly as the need every day - regardless of the mood and the weather - take out, bring water or filtered water thoroughly someone young and defenseless.

What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).

The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".

To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.

Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.

Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.

You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.

Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

How to look beautyful without make-up?

Sometimes you get tired of makeup. All these jars, tubes - well, as you can! Eyes on them do not look! I want to be natural and genuine, but still beautiful. Can I do that without having to look at myself in the mirror and arm do not reache for the powder or fresh-faced? Of course you can, but, nevertheless, some effort from your part is still nedded.

What is primarily characterized by untidy? Uneven complexion, pimples, puffiness - in short, the state of the skin. And that just is not so conspicuous, you need somewhere to distract the eye companion. And get an  attention to the beautiful and well-groomed facial features. And then come to help:

1. Petrolatum. To make the look more expressive and eyelashes longer, thicker and darker, put on the  eyelashes a clean brush with a little petroleum jelly or castor oil. It would be beneficial for their recovery, if you do it regularly enough, the structure of your lashes will improve dramatically.

2. Well-defined eyebrows. A neat line of eyebrows creates a kind of frame for your face, making the focus on the features: eyes, lips, cheeks. If you want to give your eyebrows the desired shape and direction, use a brush and tweezers for eyebrows. Carefully remove any excess hair and then comb your eyebrows - first against the hair growth, and then to growth. At the brush you can add a little castor oil or petroleum jelly.

3. Sugar Scrub. Scrubs make skin smooth, even and radiant because remove dead skin cells. To achieve the glow of youth to age or even tired skin, you need to regularly use scrubs. If the store is not at hand scrub, you can do well and homemade scrubs. The most simple but effective homemade scrub is this: take some regular granulated sugar and apply gentle massage and moist the skin of the face (do not forget about your lips!), then rinse with cool water. 

4. Light tan. It is the perfect replacement for tonal foundation and even powder. If in the near future trip to the sea does not threaten you, come to the solarium, or even better - bronzer. Tan should be easy enough to hide all the non-uniform color space, but will not wear out the skin visually.

5. Eyedrops. It is a simple but effective trick to instantly erase from the face of fatigue, remove redness of the eyes and make the eyes look bright and expressive drip into each eye, one drop of the eye means that eliminates redness.

6. Moisturizer. Support elasticity and freshness of skin with moisturizer, preferably containing light-reflecting particles. Put it in the morning after washing at a slightly wet face and neck.

7. Beautiful teeth. If you have a white smile, then you can safely dispense with little or no makeup, its absence no one will notice, so white teeth and grooming support the impression of well-groomed as a whole. So do not forget to visit the dentist regularly, periodically whiten teeth and protect them from tooth decay. And, of course, in any case, do not smoke!

Album of Wishes and Dreams

                            Get yourself Album of Dreams.

We are constantly overwhelmed with a lot of desires. Some are easily implemented and executed, immediately forgotten, others we cherish for years. A variety of reasons do not allow them to come true, and the cherished moments of happiness all postponed.

How does it work?

Album dream operates on the same principle as many of his colleagues and sisters - a collage dream book of dreams, or, say, a map of desires.

Even without going into scientific details of any of us can experience on themselves that our conscious and subconscious operate images. Pronouncing, for example, "a nice little stilnenko purse", we tend to imagine a particular thing, or somewhere we can already see the one you are currently readily portrays our imagination.

However, these features as they would be clear to us or draw, you can not touch it.



But if you record their on paper, they seem to materialize - become visible and tangible. It turns out that despite the fact that the object is not present in reality it anyway already exists. Begins the transition to the desired reality, and it is a very strong message to our subconscious

Excellent! What do I need?

Time

Probably, more than one hour and even more than one day.

The fact that a person does not always a clear idea of what he really wants. New work - where, what? Traveling abroad - where exactly? Money - how much? Married - for whom??

That's why you work with an album of dreams before they start to attract miracles in your life, will be able to discover the most hidden, sometimes for yourself unexpected "Wishlist".

In addition, the album incarnation dreams - not static, but a living and evolving entity. Over time, of course, transform our understanding of the ideals, and your images may need to be adjusted.


And this method is based on the visualization desired.





Actually album

According to the logic it should be strong, with thick sheets and symbolize this way solidity of your intentions. However, in such a delicate matter logic does not always work.

Therefore rely mainly on your experience. They just have to get the light and joy at the mere sight of your dreams album.

Consequently, advises beautiful and successful, it is necessary to start with the selection or self-cover design - and get pleasure from it.

And solace, gratitude, delight, peace of mind, confidence, interest - any feelings and emotions with the "+".


Exactly they - the true engine spectacular dialogue with the universe. It is their energy ensures reciprocity of this communication does not give your requests to remain fruitless pleas. After all, only feelings, according to experts in visualization, confer the power of dreams. It consists in the possession of positive vibrations, which reacts universe.

Images

Now you have the most exciting -  put in album all of your dreams.

This requires any images that fit perfectly as possible in your mind with plans, expected developments, acquisition or creation of things that can make you happy.

Magazines and the Internet - the main sources of relevant images. If you do not lack artistic ability, to create a very good image of its own future.

This promise of the Universe will be much more effective, if to use your photos, and it is obligatory the ones where well you look, are smiling, happy, the ones where you are satisfied and admire yourselves.


Imagine what you write colorful scenario of the future prosperity of where you are, of course - the main character, and the whole re-enactment is an overwhelmingly positive response in your soul.

And then watch it more often, fueled by positive energy and channeling it into the universe.

Let live there all your most treasured dreams near the simple human desires.

Collect the clippings from magazines, booksphotographs in a beautiful notebook ... 
Let the universe hear what you like :)