How to "grow" out of husband a millionaire

1. Believe in husband

Sincerely and with all your heart. Forget for ever that "your husband stuffed pears". Of course, sometimes it is very difficult to transcend yourself - during the marriage accumulated grievances, and generally

But unconditional love  the husband and belief in him - the most important step towards turning him into a millionaire.

2. Praise husband

Yes, not only women love with their ears, but all males too. Admire the husband, be favorable to him. The secret of this method - in influencing the subconscious

The spouse will strive to overcome the greater height and prove himself to you and to be able to achieve any purpose. Thus, you, by the way, will develop his self-confidence.

3. Stimulate his growth

How is it done? In a female way very simply: "Darling, I want a new coat, and then the old view is quite lost. Yes, it is true. I understand that we can not afford it now. You are working and you try. You're such a good fellow "

In this form, please request looks very well, and in any case no pressure on the psyche. And the likelihood that your husband "suddenly" will earn money for the new coat is very

4. Do not cut him "for nothing"

Yes, the socket is still "on the nozzle" is kept, and the husband is an electrical lead is not even an eyebrow. The paradox of "shoemaker without shoes" is now observed in many families, and strongly influences the "atmospheric pressure". Remind him of it gently, but do not push. All the same, he will sooner or later . Husband just got used to that you will wave his hand and make everything yourselves invoke the wizard for example

So, if you learn to look at his the mess through your fingers, he realizes that it was his job. And without him it is not done - in any way. In order to turn into a millionaire husband must instill in him a sense of responsibility, and instilled it just on the basis of these "little things"

5. Develop his talents

You have so much time together, and you know your Blessed like the five fingers. What does he know best? Where does he feel like a fish in water? Push him, help to expand the knowledge and skills. Of course, for a little bit and unobtrusively.

Feminism - evolution or degradation?

Somehow, I came up with a theory that I decided to live the next 1000 years. It sounds like this: a man - was created by nature to meet women's needs and for procreation. It goes without saying that this "brilliant" idea visited my head after the man's offense? I think not. After a while, the offense gone, but I look at the men continued to hold enemy. And not a little effort it took me to get rid of the military spirit. I have been possessed by clean water of Feminism.
If you understand the nature of feminism, it turns out it has a lot of ways to sprouting in the female mind. It could  be raised by mother  (or the one who brought up the girl), it may appear on the grounds of resentment, and perhaps for self-improvement.

So what is feminism than, what it has bad and good ?

Now it is fashionable to be a feminist. If your girlfriend tells you that in her house husband is the boss, and she is on vocals, and you wonder, rebelled, and, of course, tell you that it should not be like this. Slogans: "We are women - stronger than man", etc., is so ingrained in our lives that seem to be so always, there will be. The fight is not long for equality between men and women, and for the superiority of women over men.  And if earlier there was  that the man on the prowl, and the woman in the cave, now a man at work, and the woman, also on the hunt, and at work, and in a cave-anywhere and everywhere.  Naturally, the woman gets tired a lot more. After work, she runs home, but not to rest, but to work! What nonsense, say, men! Is household chores, such hard work! The absurdity is that the woman continues to do these things every day.

Why,  nowadays we can not be relied completely on the man, and to do their - women's responsibilities? Is it because men are now less hardy, more steressed and soft? True-that men can not see! Where are they? Extinct with the dinosaurs? No. We, the women them destroyed. By our tremendous power that is within us. In the wrong direction, we sent our greatest potential. Instead, it would be ideal to carry out our mission - keeper of the hearth and distributor of love, we push, both morally and physically male population to prove ... To each his own, but what is the result ? When a man takes you by the hand, you do not think about the beautiful evening, but the marriage contract that will protect you and your children, if this man will leave you.

Pros of feminism sure everyone finds itself, but the cons are more clearly expressed. We have ceased to educate the courageous men. Why is this happening? Because our boy who grows up and takes the basics of life in the family sees where dad did not play the leading role, but only the executive. He goes to work, takes out the garbage, watches TV and reads the newspaper at the time, as a mom, like a squirrel in a wheel, doing all for the welfare of the family. A man can not be realized in the family.  No one will givesuch an opportunity to him ! What might be the realization? A hanger in the corridor is not screwed! That's right, poor boys, see, what men really. As you consider what your family will get a baby? That's right! The same! Dictatorial wife, who will nag him for everything and never give praise, because it would undermine its men's health. A men are not men for a long time, they perish under the pressure of women's oppression. If the man is not being implemented as a man, he dies.

First, from the inside and then outside. I sometimes met with these women who complained about their husbands: he does not do anything around the house! He is such a kind of reptile-only football or his computer is busy! What about me ? And the children: For us it does not have the time! And you imagine how many times you come to a place where you say you're a fool? Probably more than never, right? And your spouse have nowhere to go. He has responsibilities and you have children together. So he goes home with his head down and to somehow abstract leaves to the football, television and newspapers.

We women have already received our freedom, our superiority. Man long time are not the strong but the weak floor. And sexual minorities are the majority. Where to next? And then, in the opposite direction. If we want our children to be happy, family, strong and reliable, we have to explain everything.

Let's try to do it.

1. Imagine that your husband (boyfriend, lover, lover), is facing a difficult choice (for example, there is no money for a taxi and it is late), do not reach for the purse to give him 10 dollars, and  do not pay for the car. The man he is! Let him prove himself. He, and he alone is responsible for his decisions. Let come up with a solution myself. Otherwise, he will feel a jerk. 

2. Try to negotiate with him all the joint actions (leisure, work, vacation), and if your opinions are commonplaces, look for a compromise and do not hit him with your "right" reasons.

3. Do not rush to do anything. Understand that you are a woman. You were made for a perfect (probably because it has no one to create beautiful, as all women in the workplace, there are so many homosexuals, as a substitute). Your companion - getter, you - the keeper of the extracted. Remind him about it, and remember yourself.

4. Never among the people do not abuse him and do not tell him what to do. It demeans anyone, not just men.

5. Do not discuss your family  relationship with my mom . Mothers tend to then criticize their sons-in-law. Would you be pleased if his father discussed you?


Raise your chosen one as courageous man.  You want that his strong arms wrapped around your fragile shoulders. So you want to live with him and be like a stone wall. I want to walk down the street with his arm, and proud when other women stare at your masculinity and stately Apollo. But for the fact that everything was just so in our time we need to string up. Two centuries ago, you would not have thought about it, but now have. 
Give him the opportunity to make decisions for your family or for both of you. 
Give him the opportunity to realize himself as a man. 

He will love you more than anyone else, just for the fact that you do not destroy, but rather became his muse.

The scandal or disease. Give vent to emotions.

Here again you are not happy with his behavior or act. And you know perfectly well that rolled up a tantrum or just starting to clarify the relationship will lead to weekly odds or even complete silence. But resentment or grudge is not going away. They remain in you, and will be looking for a way out. And if, emotional release is not there, you will start get sick. And as hard as you accumulate a lot of negative emotions in yourself.

So what to do? Should you at every opportunity, express to him your "unsatisfaction", moreover, accompanied by screams, tears and snot? What sane man will delayed near a woman who with or without suit scandal. Although certainly there are also fans of extreme sports, and they may just looking for these ladies. But if your partner is is not like it how to behave?

I propose to weigh everything. First, let's understand what will happen to us if all the time to hide their feelings. Any not expressed emotion, without exception, must find a new habitat. And she finds it in your body. Every emotion is always settles in a certain place. Therefore, therapists can knowing your chronic illness, can  paint to you the desises of yourwhole life over the past 10 years. And you can, and most importantly, learn how to work with it. Work - not in terms of going to work, but a plan of ridding yourself of excess cargo.


Let us consider, where do enter our unexpressed emotions. So:

1. Eyes. Here live the emotion of fear.

2. Mouth. People suffering from ailments in this area, often holding back their feelings.

3. Chest. Sometimes it hurts or you can feel heaviness - this suppression of laughter or sadness.

4. Diaphragm - enduring intense of anger or rage.

5. Abdomen - here run away fears of a possible aggression. Did it happens that when you feel an attack from someone's side you have a felling of twisting in your stomach?

6. The pelvis - the suppression of anxiety or anger.

Here they are, these mysterious places, though, and are described briefly. After all, we know how many there diseases. And they are all, without exception, related to our emotions.

And so. Emotion has found a place "where to" and from there begins to drill a hole. The more emotion in this place we send, the more they drill a hole. And what we then? We then go to the doctor and ask for a tablet. And she burst into this hole and will have through the rectum. In general, there is no escape! Upset? Do not be sad. The output, of course, there is.

Let us return to the case of a loved one. To swear or not? Maintain a healthy relationship with a sick bodyor you can vice versa?


Did you know that what you do not like your partner, it is the reflection of what you do not like in yourself. Or, that's what you are missing. Well, for example, take the most common marital unhappiness - festivities. Spouse may be washed down to death out of jealousy of the faithful husband. Why? Because she is, in secret, even to herself, assumes that can go for treason. And the fact of betrayal of her husband is known, and his wife is fighting (!) with this for many years, but did not go away from such unfaithful, then maybe that's the kind of man she needs.  And she eats it, just because of the fact that she for whatever reason, does not betrail him.


All at once will not describe. It's a fine science, and you need to work with certain people. Then you better know what do you want again to trample your lover in the ground. So, the next time, in such a situation, analyze - it brings pleasure to you? I say that because of what you want to create a scandal. The husband did not call or came too late? You meet him with a frying pan. He did not buy milk. Are you looking inundated with a rolling pin. And in the end, it fell reptile home drunk ... No such weapons in your home!
And how do you situation, if it did not? He came at six, as promised on the phone 15 minutes ago. Brought straight from the tin milk and immediately ran out the trash. And when a neighbor offered to drink beer, he kicked him in the ass kicked out of your home. And your partner will do as you wish. And you will not have the slightest reason to  drive yourself some bad emotion.

So what? What could be better? Scandals and happiness, or calm and ... death in one day.

And the best part is that you will choose for themselves. Of course, the quarrel should take place. Even quarreling with broken crockery and torn curtains. Only the children had not seen or heard of. This will help you to get rid of not only the mutual resentments and misunderstandings, but also throw off the burden of working everyday. But it should not be offensive to him or you. Had a fight - and then kisse. Interestingly, when a pair of scandals,has discredits, not blowing lips, the relationship growing. And if they said to each other two offensive words and went to sleep in different rooms, it lasts a few weeks, these relations smell like exclusion.

Swear sometimes. Once every two weeks. And all the other days of learning to understand yourself and your partner. Sometimes it is only just to say, you know, I'm sorry, when you go out with friends without me. Perhaps he thinks that you are bored in their company, so you do not pull back. And it never occurred to him, then why you are yelling at him?


A struggle against the accumulated emotions can be carried out independently. Do yoga or exercise, it helps, but not always relieve. You can go into the woods, and scream that negativity to nowhere. You can laminate the attraction, after which you will not remember your name for a long time, too, will remove stagnation. And even an ordinary change of scenery - is treated.

And that emotions do not accumulate, you need to solve the situation immediately. He came too late, but you boil. Tell him you're angry and walk away. And then themselves sit down and analyze - why you are angry. Because you can not do so yourself or because it does not take into account your interests? And find the answers to your questions , and tell him the result. Male appreciate your understanding. More often smile to him.

To live in harmony with each other is a big science. But only mastered its intricacies, we can learn to live in harmony with other people around us.

Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.

Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.

Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.

You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.

Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

Hello, dear....

Hello, dear!

it's me, your future .. Well, for example, the mysterious man. and if you want you can even betrothed! why do I write? there's a reason.

I have this .. in general, I wanted to say to you, that you threw smoke quickly and blanketed the kitchen table with a tablecloth, and wore a cross around your neck! Come and learn, and do not spend nights throwing the poetry on the flash drive in folder "some nonsense"! Do you, by the way, like dinner with candles? and if not, maybe just dinner?
and here's another: wear tights in winter_ catch a cold_ but this is fraught with .. and stop the night shots of vodka,it is early in your years. Still do not try to cut your hair.Why do you want hair like a boy? You with the long hair look like a princess .. or ladies from your magazine.

And finally .. let go of the past? You know of whom I am talking about. it gives you a false hope, and you try to avoid random meetings. and do not answer the phone, even desirable. ran away. otherwise it would never end, and the future (its me!) is waiting for you!

It is said that soon you will meet me again, and I anxious about that .. Then, I promise things will change

your future favorite faithful husband.