What separates the ladies from the other women ?

Have you ever wondered why, in the presence of a woman people somehow pulled around, trying to seem more intelligent, educated and in some cases even more beautiful. And in the presence of the other, even if all of her good attitude, behave anyhow?

This difference, which at first glance may be elusive, says that the first woman has the characteristics of a true lady, and the other ... they were not purchased yet. But what are these features and how they will be useful in the modern world - you might ask. Let's try to answer these questions.

Who is this lady? Initially, treatment is "lady" meant that the lady has a husband - Lord and, accordingly, a title of nobility. And the title, as you might imagine - is not only a privilege but also a great responsibility. Since then, there was time, created new formations and the elite, but no matter how society has changed, there have always been women who behave with dignity and with self-esteem.

Exactly follows the example from them every girl, for which the quality of life - is not an empty phrase. And it's not about the property and money but the properties of the individual, which is impossible to buy. You can only bring. What kind of properties that distinguish a lady from all the others?

Lady is democratic, but manages to keep a distance

It is important not to confuse democracy with immorality, and the ability to keep a distance - with arrogance. Democratic is not the kind of lady that speaks to each in his own language: with contractors - mat with teenagers - the slang, etc., but the one that speaks to everyone warmly and friendly.

Keeps the same distance is not the one who looks at the other his nose and through the glasses, and the one who is in the process of communication is trying not to fall into the ambiguous situation. By the way, an English find it almost the main virtue. After all, how do you - and to you, it's the basic principle of self-esteem, disarming those and tries to encroach on it.

The lady is disciplined

She knows very well: it is impossible to demand from others what you do not do yourself. Therefore, it is:

Do not be late for a meeting of more than 15 minutes and does not expect more than this period.

Get ahold of yourself, when you want to blurt out or to promise too much. But if we promised, we will perform.

Do not make others over trifles to get nervous because of her mood swings. Her behavior is impeccable. (However, if you really "throw" anything, so on a grand scale. Lady is not obliged to hide their temperament for a lifetime).

The lady is noble 

What is nobility? As written by Marlene Dietrich, this "privileg and responsibility." Noble is one who lives not only for themselves, and therefore is willing to give more than the asking, and certainly does not charge for every act of generosity. Is it profitable in everyday life? Just ask the men who do not mind to have fun with pretentious beauties, and get married yet on those who are able to take advantage of any situation to understand and forgive, without demanding anything in return.

Externally ladies can be identified:

According posture. Straight back - a sign not only of dignity, but also openness to the world. Conduct an experiment: Stand in front of a mirror hunched. And then straightened up and straighten shoulders. Feel the difference!

Sitting. The lady manages in any circumstances sit elegantly.

The manner of speech. Do you know many lady with shrill voices or repetitive monotonous speech: "Oh what the hell ..."? On the contrary, history tells the ladies, whose ability to conduct a conversation in conjunction with a charming voice was almost the main advantage of them. The most brilliant men were nevertheless at their feet. The manner of dress. Not all ladies have enough money to buy all the best and brand. "Poor thing, but neatly" may well be, and should not be ashamed of it.


However, there are general rules:

1. Dress comme il faut. That is because, as required by the place and time of the day.

2. Do not be "sexy": tight, leopard, latex, transparent. Do not wear, let's say, unnecessarily.

3. Do not skimp on shoes. And, ideally, on the bags. As it is annoying, but the rule: Shoes and bag should be proprietary and not fake, has not been canceled.

4. Clothing should be feminine, to give confidence and look of well-being. Fashionistas called a "quiet classics,".

To be a lady - so always work on yourself!


There are things that a lady would do just for yourself from others without requiring:

Will maintain order, cleanliness and clarity in all that lends itself to its control. She knows that chaos can be win. And if by magic, it's not going to happen.

Look for her - a tribute to others. And they will never see her "out of shape".


It will be genuinely interested in what is going on around her, without succumbing to apathy, followed by the inevitable comes to old age. The well-known actress at the time of the interview was asked, "How do you work on the form?" "I'm working on content write down exactly like I said!" - she said.

Femininity - find within yourself

For thousands of years the woman was the guardian of the hearth, she raised the children, ran the household and has always been in the shadow of her husband. Secure, weak, caring, wise, considerate and loved - that was this person. And today she is stylish, purposeful, successful, implemented, but not always happy.

Femininity - what is it? Today it is easier to find a definition for sexuality, beauty, confidence, than for the most important in the life of a beautiful person. The modern woman is not so charming, does not know how to present herself and does not feel like living inside a goddess. Something was lost, something has changed, and the ladies have been increasingly resemble to men.

Woman is creating a man

Changing around not just the fair sex, but also representatives of the stronger sex. A growing number of dependent, weak and boring men who give leadership to the ladies, and become a pale shadow. Strong, confident and motivated men in today's realities became a rarity. All this imbalance that has been created for thousands of years.

Features of thinking, the body structure have been developed for specific functions. Men are created to protect, build, produce food, to conquer and to conquer territory and heart. The woman - homemakers, housewife, mother and beloved. But today there is a change of roles, which means that there is a significant imbalance in the relationship, more divorces, unhappy children, and broken hearts.

Historical note

Women are brought up to the twentieth century in particular traditions. Regardless of family income, the girl instill qualities and skills that could be useful in life. This developed the feminine energy that helped build a family , maintain and educate the man many children.


The last century has been hard for Russia. The civil war, revolution, the Great Patriotic War brought a lot in the lives of our ancestors. The number of men decreased, and the women went to restore the devastation. They did not have enough time to deal with the native women things, they built, planted, improved productivity as well even had time to feed their children. These strong-willed personages brought their daughters, who have not seen how to be beautiful, how to create coziness, how to care for others, how to love yourself and loved ones.

Modern girls do not always know how to behave like a woman, they have no idea what man need Their mothers have been brought up as courageous ladies who did not know how to be gentle, loving, passionate and inspiring and, therefore, by the same way they raised daughters, and they, in turn, raise a new generation.

What does it mean to be a woman

A woman has a special energy that is designed to fill all the space around. She must be beautiful, to be a perfect example to children, the pride of her husband and parents. Beauty should be not only external, but first of all, emotional. Also, women has the talent to do everything around her  beautiful: Decorating the house and fill it with delicious smells and love. So, you need to know how to cook, sew, embroide, not just to make the world brighter, but to create it, creating a lot of things with her hands.

A woman should be loving and loved. For this you need to learn to talk with a man properly manage voice, to be able to influence his decisions, but without power, but soft and tender. You must also learn the lessons of love: how to show a man your feelings, how to please him, how in one-touch comfort and support your man.

Woman is created to be a mom. Patient, resourceful, caring, learning. No need to shout,  but to explain, provide the most relevant information, which will be the vector for the little man for life. Tranquility, softness in education, understanding of the problems, confidence and fluency - that is what is often lacking to modern young girls.

Femininity - a quality that is brought up in a person from the first minute in life. An example of moms, women around, and then the life experience can bring to this state to perfection. But in today's world, only a part of the knowledge is used for development.

How to discover your femininity?

The goddess is in everyone, but not all her notice. We have to understand that career development, the need to earn money and run somewhereis quite compatible with femininity. And in symbiosis they give a magical results, improving and personal life, and all other areas.

You should start with self-love. Any manifestations of attention, from manicures to a bouquet of roses, purchased just like that, are able to develop the feminine energy. It must be remembered that if a woman take care of themselves, then someone will take care of her. Recognize that you are beautiful, that the facial features, figure are perfect . Begin to love yourself - maybe there are some flaws, but this is nonsense, because the goddess is unique. Accept yourself, love yourself, to make the world admire you.

Begin to develop your talents. Learn to cook, , sing, dance. Not for nothing before every girl should have been self make a dowry, as embroidery and knitting to develop patience and perseverance, which is useful in the education of children.

Learn basic classes of aromatherapy, Vedic cooking, erotic massage to improve your house  in order to impress your man. What skills will be more pleasant than the more you use it, in order will begin to become more feminine.

Today, a lot of courses, lectures and books that tell the true nature of the beautiful ladies. Do not be lazy, read, in order to make your life  a delightful and enjoyable.

Beauty secrets from all over the world

Each country has gained invaluable experience caring for themselves and Beauty. Japanese women are famous for flawless skin, oriental beauty - gorgeous hair. I have tried to collect for you the most proven and popular beauty recipes in several countries of the world. Maybe you'll find something useful for yourself.

Japan

Purpose: Porcelain skin.
Secret Ingredients: rice and seaweed.

Rice Scrub. In ancient times, the Japanese rice bran replaced soap. Until now, many Japanese women use them as a scrub, which perfectly refreshes and rejuvenates the skin. Rice bran is ground in a coffee grinder, and then they are applied after a bath or shower in the wet body, including the face and neck. Besides the fact that rice bran is a good peel for the dead cells, they are also rich in vitamin E and other beauty antiokidantami that improve skin condition. You can use them in a different way: going to take a bath, wrap in cheesecloth half a cup of powdered rice bran and put the bag into the water - after a bath your skin will become the silk.

Seaweed mask. The healing properties of seaweed in Japan has long been known. For the mask you will need about 200 g of fresh seaweed, but you can use dried. Fresh seaweed soak for a few minutes in the water in order to wash the salt. Dry - soaked for an hour in the cold water. Then algae are boiled in a glass of water over low heat for 10 minutes. Grind in a mixer, cool and add a teaspoon of lemon juice. The resulting mask is applied to cleansed face for 15-20 minutes, then wash off with cold water. The mixture can be stored in the refrigerator up to 4 days.

Beware of the sun. Everyone is familiar with the traditional image of Japanese women with a parasol in hand. But it still does not go only famous geisha, but also ordinary Japanese women. After all, the sun - the worst enemy of beauty. But Japanese women do not stop there - they put on, sitting behind the wheel of cars, opera gloves (those up to the elbows) to the sun coming through the open windows, do not spoil the porcelain skin. There is what's take an example!

Pakistan

Purpose: Silk and leather luxurious hair.
Secret Ingredients: almonds, orange peel, melon, olive oil.

Almond Scrub. My Pakistani friend told me that even her mother, who, by the way, was reputed to be the first beauty of their town, used almond flour to cleanse the face. Probably not in vain because modern cosmetologists believe almonds excellent cleansing and rejuvenating. To get the almond scrub almonds are ground into a fine powder and mixed with coconut milk (for oily skin) or olive oil (for dry skin). However, if there is no coconut, it is possible to do regular milk. But the coconut is better - it has strong anti-inflammatory and anti-fungal properties as well as is a good restores keratin that makes up our skin, hair and nails.

Balm for the skin of the head. Patients with dry, itchy scalp is often mistaken for loose flakes of skin dander, and complain that over the years can not get rid of it. Meanwhile, there is a great tool that allows you quickly and effectively solve the problem. Need to rub into the roots of the hair and scalp little warm oil - olive oil, burdock, castor, sunflower, even in the absence of others. You can add to it 2-3 drops of natural aromatic oils. Then wrap your hair with a warm towel and leave for an hour or two. Then wash the hair with a mild shampoo. This mask improves not only the scalp, but also hair.

Orange and melon mask. Here's another favorite Pakistani recipe for beautiful skin: You need to dry orange peel (at last they found a use!) And then grind them in a coffee grinder. Add to them a little melon pulp, or, for want of a little water with the lemon juice. The mixture shuld be put on a cleansed face for 15-20 minutes, then rinse with cold water. The mask is best done in the afternoon or evening, immediately before  living the home. The mask has excellent antioxidant properties, making the skin fragrant, pleasant to the touch and literally glowing from within.

Polynesia

Purpose: The smooth young skin.
Secret Ingredients: Coconut and sea water.

Exotic island beauties not only use coconuts for food, but also successfully are used for cosmetic purposes. With their help, they treat your hair clean and rejuvenate the skin. Possessing land, disinfectant and soothing properties, coconut is particularly useful for the care and treatment of oily, problem and combination skin. Coconut promotes rapid regeneration of the skin, moisturizes and makes it velvety, while eliminating the excess fat. And the healing properties have literally all parts of the coconut: as pulp and its milk and butter, and even peel.

Coconut Scrub. Coconut husks soaked in water for one hour, then thoroughly ground in a coffee grinder. Then pulverized coconut pulp bit - about half the volume husk. And diluted coconut milk mixture to a paste. Scrub is applied after a bath or shower in the wet body, including the face and neck. Skin massage for a few minutes, and then rinsed with warm water .

Thalassotherapy. So called sea-water treatments. It is a traditional practice of the vast number of countries around the world. The benefit of sea bathing is difficult to overestimate, because sea salt, mined from the depths of the sea, contains the full range of minerals and trace elements beneficial effects on the body: sodium chloride, potassium, calcium, magnesium, bromine, iron, iodine, and even silver and gold. All of these substances through our skin receptors have a healing effect: improve sleep and prevent insomnia, irritability, and reduce the symptoms of depression. Seawater also has excellent anti-inflammatory and analgesic effect. Useful sea baths and beauty: they provide a stimulating and regenerating effect on the skin and enrich the skin micro-and macro-elements, improve blood circulation and lymphatic flow, thus restoring elasticity and beauty of the breast and great fight with cellulite. Sea salt is sold in drug stores, usually in packs of 1 kg. The bath is best taken in the morning or 1-2 hours before bedtime. The water temperature should be 35-37 °, duration bath - 10-20 minutes. On the bath is required from 500g (Black Sea) up to 2 kg (Dead Sea) sea salt.

Mediterranean countries

Purpose: The natural beauty of fresh skin.
Secret Ingredients: milk, olive oil, grapes.

Milk baths. Women from mediterranean countries, have always been able to look after themselves. It is known that the ancient Grecian and Roman women loved to take milk baths. It is unlikely that you will afford to take a whole bath of milk, but milk to wash (for dry skin) or yogurt (for oily skin) is extremely useful. Lactic acid has a mild exfoliating properties, so dairy washing refresh and improve the complexion.

Nourishing body lotion. Woman from souther countries, there is a practice self-care: they are applied to the entire body, including the face and hair, olive oil and leave it to soak from several minutes down to several hours. When the oil is washed off, the skin and the hair is literally silk. Just be careful when putting oil on your face - If your skin is prone to rashes, better to limit a body.

Grape freshness. Grape juice is very salubrious for the skin. You can mix it with honey and apply as a mask for toning flabby or tired skin. And you can chop grape seeds, grape juice to dilute and use this mixture as a rejuvenating and vitaminizing .

Plus of each age

As a child, you always happily was waiting for her birthday! However, there comes a time when on your birthday you do not want to have fun, invite friends and throw a party, because you became another year older. Do not worry. 

Of course, the time rob us of our youthful charm, but instead gives invaluable experience. Moreover, opening up new horizons, new opportunities, one is better than another!

20 years

Body. At the young girl is smooth and elastic skin, there is no hint of wrinkles, and furthermore on the extra pounds. Your body listens to you, and such reaction can be envied. As a young woman you can do anything - a dizzying slopes on a snowboard, crazy rides, Latin American dancing, skating, riding on roller skates. You can choose whatever your heart desires.


Memory. All of the new knowledge you absorbs ka sponge. But little logic in the actions, and the attention is distracted. For example, instead of to preparing and studying the French language, you have no qualms to arrange a party with friends or going to the last show in the movies.

The psyche. In your head heaps all sorts of plans, thoughts and ideas, and energy to spare. Today you have decided to sign up with a friend in the solarium, and tomorrow you travel to Tibet ... You can easily make a new acquaintance, very quickly fall in love with you liked guy. However, at your age you can get burned!


Love. Sure, you can fall in love to madness, here you have everything spontaneous and chaotic. You dream about the ideal relationship with romance, passion, gifts and of course, you want him to wear you in arms, in general, everything that you see in movies about love. But you should know that usually life is not so rosy. You both want everything to be good, but there is practically no experience yet, and you can not tolerate, so every minute quarrel because of all the rubbish.

Sex. At this age, you probably are not making love in order to someone fascinate, surprise or pleasure - you play in curiosity. You do not know how to get a real pleasure, and you do not know what it is. Very often, you remain dissatisfied, but you probably would have changed your attitude to sex if your partner was not contemporary, but a man that has already an experience.

30 years


Body. The facial skin is no longer such "fresh". Get plenty of it moisturizes, and before going to sleep under the eyes, always apply a nourishing cream special. If you notice that you start to gain weight, then do not wait another minute, come eat so much and loans themselves, fight wrinkles, cellulite because it creeps up quietly, and then settles permanently on the buttocks. Try to move more, because the metabolic processes in the body are not as intense as it was ten years ago. However, despite these changes, thirty years -  is the golden time. After all, you're just as good and keep the shape.

Memory. You have already graduated, in fact, has gone further courses - sewing, English lessons, mastering the personal computer, driving a car. You also perceive information and you can appreciate that you can try in practice everything you know. The only thing that's stopping you - your responsibilities are countless, and the thought of children, family and career.

The psyche. Not all the plans you are able to carry out some old friends dropped out, and they has no place in your life. But now you know your strengths and weaknesses, and they skillfully using . Now you understand that the most important thing in your life: friends, faithful companion on whom you can rely on.

Love. You not once heart broken, you're experiencing frustration, so already know well what kind of fruit is - a man and what you can expect from him. You more than anything want long lasting relationship that will be based on respect and mutual understanding. Moreover, if you have not done that already know and feel that it is time to have a baby.


Sex. You already know what a real passion. You already have a regular partner or husband, with whom you're constantly looking for new sensations and experiment are improving your skills in the art of love. You now know what an orgasm is and you know how to get it, in fact, has become a very skillful and irreplaceable lover.

40 years

Body. You first wrinkles on the face, and age has become the main theme for reflectionyou increasingly began to think about it. Purchase a good, quality cosmetics, do not regret the money. Do not forget that even if you have a very good flawless skin, something about it still need to take care of, because you can not, without doing anything, then continue to look for thirty years. Remember your hands, upper chest neck, they also require care. Do not worry about the fact that you are not so quick to move around, but you are able to tolerate, you're hardy.

Memory. You start to notice that the memory fades, any knowledge difficult to hold in your head? This is not the case. Now you just need more time to learn the material, you need to concentrate and focus, moreover, now you need perseverance to achieve your goals the ability to properly manage your time.

The psyche. You can now realistically assess your strengths and abilities, easily define the ability  of others. You can anticipate the changes that are sure to happen in your life, so you analyze the pros and cons. But right now in your life was not enough spontaneity and immediacy. Before making any decision you think a hundred times hesitating for a long time, because of that missing the a lot of chances and opportunities.

Love. You know all its advantages, try to behave with men, whether it is a spouse or a friend. You can clearly explain your problem. But it is not worth much to get hung up on the kids or work. In order to love, you need to constantly take care of themselves.


Sex. Well, here you are at the top of your capabilities! You can do anything, and  know how to have fun dostavlyaet it to the man. Teens are not rival to you, not in love affairs, nor in temperament. However, you still dream to sink into the arms of a tireless young lover.

50 years

Body. The skin is thin and dry, like an oak leaf in late autumn. Do not stop to take care of her in the evening and in the morning. You possess a very high resistance and endurance, so you can safely overcome the marathon, you need only to want. You can manage your time raskhoduesh forces wisely.

Memory. Now you have more time to spend with the benefit of yourselves, can make sense to think about the development of some crafts? After all, even the scientists say that only 40% percent of people stop learning at the age of 25 years, and others continue to study only after survive the crisis of middle age. So you still able to great lengths!

The psyche. You have to learn to spend energy only as needed, has learned to control yourself. You can clearly set a goal and achieves it safely. At your age you can easily talk to a stranger, easy to make new friends, and it's true, after all, love and friendship for all ages!

Love. The most interesting - you have not lost interest in men. And now you're interested in and attracts adventurous relationship. You look back to your youth. But now you love is otherwise. Now you again have no worries, and time belongs only to you. Do not miss this moment, enjoy!

Sex. You have access to all the delights of sex. You are free to make love as much as your heart desires. And some discomfort and dryness of the vagina - this is easily remedied, take advantage of intimate gel, it will deal with this problem. Plus there will be no oral sex. Try it! It is not necessary to build a barrier in your head, live and enjoy every moment.

Fashionable, Stylish and Confident

1. Necessarily should be in the wardrobe shoes corporal (natural) color. They are perfect to any kind of clothing, also visually lengthen leg.

2. One more must have - a few white shirts. Form-fitting shirt male pattern perfectly emphasize the beautiful breasts, thighs and waist.

3. In the wardrobe sure to have a set of clothes "for itself." Can wear it for fun - to communicate and meet with friends. Calm tones, multilayer does not emphasize the waist - all contribute to your comfort.

4. Purchase certainly classic black trousers, black sweater with a V-neck and black boats strict on the comfortable heel. Pants must sit upon you well and good, sweater highlight the neckline. This outfit can be hundreds of times outplay the different accessories and it will always look gorgeous and differently.

5. Remember that ribbons and straps on the shoes shorten the leg. A classic boats shape is drawn. This should be considered, especially for women of medium height.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.


8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.

8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

9. In the locker room necessarily have to be at least one pair of shoes with heels. Heels gives the woman some instability that attracts men to support her.


10. Wearing a bright, flashy dress, do hairstyle smooth not striking not to divert attention from the dress.

11. Bright shoes with straps are selected so that ankle was open.

12. Remember, if the top of clothing - bulky volume, the bottom should be light and airy. Look for harmony!

13. Bright, unconventional and revealing things to wear sultry resorts, there are looking great.


14. For a spectacular view, open the chest area, extend the leg line at the expense of a well-fitting trousers and add interesting accessories. With casual dresses will be well looked clutch, big sunglasses and a bright silk scarf.

15. Do not be afraid of trendy trousers with a low line between the legs. Contrary to the popular belief that they shorten the legs the do opposite sit perfectly and make legs slim.

16. Seductive and flirtatious gait of Marilyn Monroe can be repeated, wearing a skirt just below the knee, which will impede slightly walk.

17. The bright skirts, for example, beige color should wear a slender long-legged women.


18. To attract the attention of others, you can simply: make up lips with bright lipstick, put on huge sunglasses and bright bag.

19. The coat does not have to encircle. This is outerwear, and therefore can be free.

20. For full thighs there are long skirts and dresses just below the knee.

21. To demonstrate the neckline in a jacket with a plunging neckline, be sure to wear a contrasting color top.

22. In the wardrobe should be for all occasions in your life. These are clothes for home, shopping, working, elegant clothes. All these things have to be appropriate, stylish and well-fitting on you.

Evelyn Hromchenko (c)

All you need is passion

Passion takes you places… Passion is something that can motivate you into action. Procrastination is something that prevents you from living your passion and ultimately deprives you of achieving your dreams. Be careful not to get stuck in the trap of procrastination! Procrastination is when you intend to do something but somehow never get around to doing it. We all know that feeling! You keep putting something off or you keep making up excuses not to do it.

By procrastinating you are reaffirming the belief that you can’t achieve your goals. The first thing you should do so you can understand the real problem behind your procrastination is to identify those self-limiting beliefs that are holding you back. It could be that you don’t think you have the skills to complete a project or that you’re scared of failure. The only way to eliminate these limiting thoughts is through action, even if it may seem daunting at first. No successful man or woman you admire got to where they are by doing nothing. Say to yourself, “There is nothing stopping me from achieving my dreams!” Once you embrace your innermost passion, it will stay with you for life.

Take some time to work out what really excites and inspires you. Discover what you would be prepared to do every day even for free! When you are following your passion, it won’t even seem like work to you. Passionate people feel alive with their unwavering sense of direction in life. They exude an innate confidence and feel like they have total command of their world.
Miranda Kerr (c)

Are women aware of their power?

Muse - not an ephemeral thing, and sensual woman carrying the world of subtle energy of love, harmony, beauty and inspiration ..

Are women aware of their power? And the greatest blessing - to be born in a female body? Do they direct their creative energy, their creative thoughts? Whether consciously create their own reality happy or complain about the circumstances, destiny, karma, being content with less? ..

Do you have what it takes to be happy right now, at this very moment .. Just be aware that you are a Source itself .. The source of Welfare, the Source of Love, Beauty Source, the Source of Happiness, the source of all the most beautiful thing that only exists in the universe ..

You're doing your own reality, every moment of your life you are creating your world with the power of your creative thought. Realizing the source itself, know and feel that the circumstances do not affect you, and you - influence the circumstances. And right now, you can choose where to direct your energy, what kind of world do you want to create .. Dream on ... but dream with absolute certainty that the Universe hears your dreams, and give you everything that you can imagine, once you loose it and will not interfere with the wonders enter into your life and throw it with the light of happiness ..

Do not interfere - so do not contradict the nature of femininity. Be a woman every minute, under any circumstances - and alone with a man, and at work, and alone with itself, even when no one is watching .. To honor your divine manifestation in the female body, to honor your feminine power, and know when you're at peace with yourself - your dreams miraculously incarnate ..

The Purpose of Women

In Vedic culture, women have always been very honored. It all started from birth a girl. In Sanskrit "diva" means divine. It was believed that the girl is born perfect, and it is the main task - to maintain its cleanliness. In this case, the girl initially by their nature are much closer to God than the boys - as cut from the ministry. And from the birth try to serve, help completely disinterested. Service -  is a women's purpose.

In all traditional cultures, it was, but somewhere else is.

There are even a few facts about the female nature, as described in the Vedas:

1. Feelings of women is 6 times stronger than that of men

2. A woman's mind is 9 times stronger than the men

3. The woman consists of service - she always wants to help someone

4. The girl has great power - the power of chastity, able to resist all kinds of malefices

5. Woman gives birth to children

In ancient times, everyone knew that the girl is born perfect. Her did not try to alter or otherwise citified. She had been taught to accept their feminine nature. They are very much praised, even pampered. At the same time develop their natural talents. Dressed up, made a lot of compliments. And so the girls learned to maintain their self-esteem.

Now things happen differently. Women do not realize their original fullness, so all the time trying to develop something yourself, work on yourself like a man. Set goals, plans, objectives, and go to them, training dedication, willpower, determination. Qualities that are essentially masculine.

Whenever we think of our female destiny, about the nature of how the world is changing. When we have a sense of self-esteem (but not arrogance!), People treat us differently.

A woman with dignity, can be happy. And this happiness is like a magnet, attracts people to her. In her life come a great men because they like to be close to such sun. The  friends appeare  - because she has something to share with people. Next to a mother  children blossom- they see that adult life is full of happiness and love.

A woman wants to do even happier than she is. Because she already knows how to be happy. And even if a man does not get to make her even happier, she in any case remain happy! Win-win lottery in which it is impossible not to play.

Such a woman is able to make happy those who are near her. When you're full, you easily share happiness - because you have a lot of it.

And it all starts at the point when you realize that you were born is perfect. And all that is needed - remember how it was. Its purpose - the purpose of Women!

Olga Valyaeva(c)

Does your own thing

I see are only three types of things in the universe: mine, yours and God's. (For me, the word "God" means "reality." Reality - a God, because it rules. Anything outside of my control, your control and in general anyone's control, I call God's works.)
Much of our stress - the result of what we mentally engaged in other people affairs. When I think, 'You've got to find a job, I want you to be happy, you have to come on time, you have more to deal with them, "- I'm doing your deeds. When I worry about earthquakes, floods, war or time of my death, I am doing God's business. If I'm mentally doing your chores, or God, the result is - the separation. I saw it back in 1986. When I began mentally deal with the affairs of my mother, for example, with the thought: "My mother should understand me", I immediately began to feel lonely. And I found that every time in my life when I felt hurt or lonely, it turned out that I have to get into other people's business.
If you live your life, and I mentally live your life, then who is living my life? Both of us are there. Mentally living your life, I do not live my own. I am separated from myself and still wonder why my life is not made up.
To think that I know what's best for someone else - it means not to engage in someone else business. Even in the name of love, it is - pure arrogance, and the result of it - stress, anxiety and fear.

Do I know what is right for me? That is my only business.  Do not I need to work on my business before I start to solve your problems for you.

If you understand these three types of cases so well that you only deal with their own affairs, and you can not imagine how it will free your life. The next time you feel stress or discomfort, ask yourself whose deeds you are mentally engaged, and maybe you burst out laughing. This question can bring you back to yourself. Maybe you will find that you never really are and were not present in your own life that you have lived, mentally doing other things, all your life. Even if you just notice that other people are doing things, it can get you back to your wonderful self.
"Loving what is"(c)

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