Learning to be a QUEEN!

Dear, dear, loved  women! Most of you live alone, or with the unloved person, or frantically rushing in search of happiness ... You are - scared, confused and disappointed with life. Are you looking for support in this crazy world, but you're too weak to understand:
ONLY SUPPORT, THAT THE PERSON CAN TRUST - is himself.

You so want to be weak, bury your nose in the man's shoulder and to be a little girl, which mighty and the adult male will protect against all adversity, will love and tender care of her all life.

THROW THIS  CRAP OUT OF YOUR HEAD!

Even the parents do not have to take care of you all your life, and do you expect from a stranger that would take the baton from them?

It's time to grow up. And it means - to accept responsibility for everything that happens to you. Threw a beloved? Do not whine, do not feel sorry for yourself and think - why it did not happen the way you planned? And were you planning to do something? Or, once again, relied on the "fate"? 


 THERE IS NO FAILURES - ONLY A LESSONS

Each person can achieve what he wants if clearly decides WHAT he needs, HOW he can reach it and STOP  EXPECTING from the the WORLD FREEBIE.

You do not expect that someone will come and bring you money? You get up in the morning and go to work. As it is necessary to act with respect to the rest.
Start with yourself. Start with some small things. Teach yourself to be happy - always, regardless of the circumstances. DARE to be yourself. 
Tell yourself it does not matter, even if I do not meet my man in my entire life , I still: will get a lot of pleasure from intercourse with men, will test all pleasures of sex, give birth to the child ...



In general - I will do what I want. THIS IS MY WORLD!

And, believe me, you will have all that and much more of what you want to be done. World - rich and generously gives oneself to the one who knows how to enjoy it!

You are - WOMEN. You are are valuable itself. Doubt? Go out and flirt with any man. How he would be delighted! You say; oh, well, opening, understandably what these peasants want from us. Exactly! You initially have something that gives you value in society. But men have to make EVERYTHING ourselves. Use your feminine charm, to bring joy to themselves and men.


Be self-confident women. Not a bitch, not a maid, not a work colleague, but - the Queen of World.

The key to all of this - in FLEXIBILITY. Rubber hose can be tie a knot - and still he remains himself. Learn how to be flexible - and then you no longer have to wait until someone will choose you, you will be able to choose YOURSELF most pressious for yourself.


Your KING.

The girl - "prick tease " - who is she?

Men, for some reason always think that a woman own something to them have, and she should to them usually SEX. It is not clear where they get the idea that if he's on his own will buy you a cocktail, you owe him sex. If he asked you out to a restaurant, then you  owe him sex. Even if you're just a very attractive and, God forbid, sexy, then you owe him sex. And if for you it is not yet clear, he by all means will give it to you to understand. Moreover, if in your mind was not such idea, you will be accused that you did badly, you used him and dumped him . It does not matter that he himself taken the initiative, it does not matter that nature has blessed you with beauty and intelligence, he still will blame you in his troubles .

Of course, can the immense male ego accept the fact that he simply was not good enough for you? No, that's impossible. He needs someone to blame for his failures and blame, of course, you .

If a woman that does not respond to the provocations of men, who knows what she wants, who sleeps only with those who really like her, but not with those who starts to put pressure on her, is called "prick tease "  - then yes, I am the PRICK TEASE. If the compliance own interests, the ability to hold the position and insist on her own called "prick tease "  - yes, the "prick tease "  that is what we want.

No matter what anyone says about the equality of men and women, all of us are the same, we are different. We are too different to be identical. And what men find their weakness, most often their weakness is the female force. But in what men are strong, all too often destroys women. I do not want to be a man. What for? I'm not going to be a man, I will be  better equal to a woman. And that is what makes me successful. Successful woman in front of which there is great potential. Be flexible - sometimes weak, sometimes strong, sometimes asking, sometimes insisting. Be different - sometimes funny, sometimes sad, sometimes clever, sometimes silly. But always be free.

Yes, men do not like such girls. And all because they want to impose on women a lot of obligations, to repair her for theirselves, to deprive their own will. "Prick tease " is free. She does what she wants and does not depend on men. 
She is attractive and does not intend to pay for the complexes of men. 
She does not render to them in dialogue and is ready to accept their admiration of herself. 
But she will not step over herself.

She is independent. After all, only independent people can afford easily take the gifts of others - their attention, worship, gifts. For all you have to pay? You should, and you pay for - and she is independent from the conventions.

"Prick tease " is - a real woman, and she can achieve her goals by any means. If she wants, goes directly, and if not, there will always be a real man who will gladly do it for her. And they will not accuse her of being too attractive, or too sexy or that desirable. She is such as she was created, and this is only her merit.

I -am what I think of myself

When you say "me" what do you mean? Who is you, who is this "I", let's try to understand.

What can you say about yourself? Stop for a minute and think about it. Give yourself a definition. Do not be too philosophizing and think of complex designs. Try to define yourself in one word. "I am ...". I - the person. Well, frankly, indisputable statement. But what it gives you, what it tells you yourself or others? What do you have two arms and two legs. That you are omnivorous. That you possess intelligence. Good, but not too much, do not you think?

This game in the definition of itself can be continued. Who else are you ? "I - a woman / man" - here is, added another item. "I - a parent," "I - ...". The list goes on. Try it. How much do you have such determinations for yourself?

So, you are -  all that is above. Each of these definitions imply some special features. From these onesis in many ways made ​​up your unique and exclusive. Let's try to take the next step. Look at each of these "definitions". What it carries? What kind of information? For example, as I said, "person" - this, at least, bipedal mammal. More and reasonable, like. So, it turns out that for every image is a specific set of descriptions, but if you're talking about yourself, self-descriptions. Each of these characters has a certain set of features and, importantly, behaves in a certain way. Worker works, parent  is raising a child, the driver is driving, and so on.

... You somehow identify with these characters and live the way they should live. This - at most (but not less than) are your roles. And these roles you try out myself. Some culling, some are leaving yourself. You draw yourself like a picture which shows who you are. And this inner picture helps you to be yourself. And the extra touches - it's your development milestones.


So, the picture shows who you are. And the artist - is you too. And no one else. notice this.

That is, of course, someone can to some extent affect you, and your picture will change something, but to apply or not to apply the new touches - it's up to you and no one else. In the end, your whole life - is the process of drawing pictures. Something to erase something to finish. But pencil and eraser are in your hand ...

This picture occurs in obedience to your wishes, short-term and premeditated. Sometimes it is the mood - and you suddenly throw a few extra features. And sometimes you  take a long time of thinking, it is worth to once again touch the canvas and what you exectly  need to fix in it or what to add. And what has been drawn, mind you, change yourself. You find yourself in a strange way connected with your own creation. You are becoming it. Those features that appear in the portrait, become your features ...

Let's go back to our game, we started with, remember? So, there are a number of roles. Do you accept them, sometimes consciously, sometimes not. And they become part of you. Knowledge of these roles, can tell you about yourself.

You - are, in a sense, a set of your own self-perceptions of ourselves.


You know your capabilities and limitations, advantages and disadvantages, isn't it? And this is the description - the most accurate portrait of yours. Who knows you better than you know yourself? The others? But they judge you just by your appearance. Your behavior - is just one side of the coin. After all, you yourself understand more what you're doing and why. And what not to do.

But know everything about yourself , probably is impossible. Or at least very difficult. You can tell only what you know and realize yourself because only that you realize himself, right?

For example, if you do not notice the fact that you are often greedy, you can not tell to yourself you can not say "I  am mean." Sometimes it happens that a person knows that he is greedy and behaves accordingly. According to his representations about itself. As if he himself - that's what he thinks about himself. This is true, of course, not just about disadvantages. If you, for example, do not fully realize your potential, you too will not manage to tell anyone about it, even to yourself. The point here is not to boast. Quite different. In getting to know yourself ...

.. Because such knowledge has a special power. When you can judge yourself, anyway, you  kind of get under the influence of these words, these judgments. They can help and hinder you, it all depends on the situation, what is going on in your life. The more roles you have, the more resources for self-description, the richer selection of what can be done.

People - being oh, what a difficult and ambiguous. Contradictory, we'd say. Sometimes it is difficult to predict its behavior. And even my own. So we create for ourselves description, which laid our properties and help us be ourselves. Otherwise too difficult. "I - a young and healthy, so I'll let the bus sit to the sick and the old people." This is quite natural and even necessary for the organization of at least some of our lives. Knowing what else you would expect from yourself certain actions in certain situations. Knowing yourself, you can do anyway. Your possibilities are largely determined by your self-perception is.

But, mind you, the same self-description can be a challenge. You need to do something that collides with your own ideas about ourselves. "I - polite and never rude to other people." It is the right and, like, a harmless plant can in fact do a good or a service. When, for example,  bad people try to stick to you. But the person is so intrusive that dosen't pay attention to your polite persuasion . In such a situation, it seems necessary to get out of yourself. Come out beyond itself. Be something more than you can imagine.

Be a MAN!

Forget about the recent rebellion of feminism - women wearing bags, pay for them at the cafe, open doors for them, protect them, take on their issues.
Maybe you'll understand why all this and why it is are you when the thousandth time you come home, and then all the way comfortable, towelies of yours different colors in the bathroom, and there is  a plate with dinner. Maybe when everything will slip out of the hands - work, business, friends, but she - your good,  will be next to you every day - kissing the hands, curling up at your feet, and laying your head telling you that you are the best. And, maybe, when you see how much health and nerves, she lost while wearing under the heart your child, or when, after hours of 12-16-20 in the throes of childbirthshe will give you an heir.

Be kinder to her.

Stop wag her nerves with your pride, man's logic, strength of character. Call her. Especially when you had a fight, call her. If you only saw her crying bitterly after you threw up, slammed the door. No, not that beautiful she cries, like in the movies shown in the pillow and quietly. She weeps bitterly, wiping tears from ugly, swollen, red face. She can be heard on the street, in a neighboring apartment. She howls in pain, which causes her to you. Call her back, come. Grab her up and take out of this misery, as from a fire in the fire.

Earnestly desire her.

Passionately, violently, furiously. Beat your fists on the wall, stomp the feet, smash everything around. Just never tell her that she is to blame for this. Do not reproach her, do not blame her. Better to let the 'one goat that looked at her "will be  wrong. But it is for you to let remains saint. Believe me, if she wants to change,
she will change, and you will not know. But if you paid attention, she did it on purpose. What would be at least as you showed to her that you are jealous, and thus love, appreciate and are afraid to lose her. Then she hesitated, in herself, in your feelings. Means that she is afraid for your relations.

Tell her more about it. Say that she is your all, that you are in heaven with her.

Let this be in cinematic pretense, so be it. Speak! If all of a sudden her will not be next day. But someday it will not. After all, all of us are not ever.
Life,  is very brief, so unpredictable, can end in an instant. So, if it will not be tomorrow, you will never get the chance to tell her everything. Tell me, dear, tell. Promise does not feel sorry for the promises and do not be afraid to cheat.
She is so happy when hears promises, while dreaming, hoping for something very good. She's so beautiful in that moment, so she's ...
Does not she deserve it? Yes, even if you will leave the day after tomorrow, is not it all worth the fifteen minutes when you were lying holding each other , and dreaming of your beautiful future! Worth it! Every second is worth it! Because there is so little such seconds in our lives .

How to "grow" out of husband a millionaire

1. Believe in husband

Sincerely and with all your heart. Forget for ever that "your husband stuffed pears". Of course, sometimes it is very difficult to transcend yourself - during the marriage accumulated grievances, and generally

But unconditional love  the husband and belief in him - the most important step towards turning him into a millionaire.

2. Praise husband

Yes, not only women love with their ears, but all males too. Admire the husband, be favorable to him. The secret of this method - in influencing the subconscious

The spouse will strive to overcome the greater height and prove himself to you and to be able to achieve any purpose. Thus, you, by the way, will develop his self-confidence.

3. Stimulate his growth

How is it done? In a female way very simply: "Darling, I want a new coat, and then the old view is quite lost. Yes, it is true. I understand that we can not afford it now. You are working and you try. You're such a good fellow "

In this form, please request looks very well, and in any case no pressure on the psyche. And the likelihood that your husband "suddenly" will earn money for the new coat is very

4. Do not cut him "for nothing"

Yes, the socket is still "on the nozzle" is kept, and the husband is an electrical lead is not even an eyebrow. The paradox of "shoemaker without shoes" is now observed in many families, and strongly influences the "atmospheric pressure". Remind him of it gently, but do not push. All the same, he will sooner or later . Husband just got used to that you will wave his hand and make everything yourselves invoke the wizard for example

So, if you learn to look at his the mess through your fingers, he realizes that it was his job. And without him it is not done - in any way. In order to turn into a millionaire husband must instill in him a sense of responsibility, and instilled it just on the basis of these "little things"

5. Develop his talents

You have so much time together, and you know your Blessed like the five fingers. What does he know best? Where does he feel like a fish in water? Push him, help to expand the knowledge and skills. Of course, for a little bit and unobtrusively.

Feminism - evolution or degradation?

Somehow, I came up with a theory that I decided to live the next 1000 years. It sounds like this: a man - was created by nature to meet women's needs and for procreation. It goes without saying that this "brilliant" idea visited my head after the man's offense? I think not. After a while, the offense gone, but I look at the men continued to hold enemy. And not a little effort it took me to get rid of the military spirit. I have been possessed by clean water of Feminism.
If you understand the nature of feminism, it turns out it has a lot of ways to sprouting in the female mind. It could  be raised by mother  (or the one who brought up the girl), it may appear on the grounds of resentment, and perhaps for self-improvement.

So what is feminism than, what it has bad and good ?

Now it is fashionable to be a feminist. If your girlfriend tells you that in her house husband is the boss, and she is on vocals, and you wonder, rebelled, and, of course, tell you that it should not be like this. Slogans: "We are women - stronger than man", etc., is so ingrained in our lives that seem to be so always, there will be. The fight is not long for equality between men and women, and for the superiority of women over men.  And if earlier there was  that the man on the prowl, and the woman in the cave, now a man at work, and the woman, also on the hunt, and at work, and in a cave-anywhere and everywhere.  Naturally, the woman gets tired a lot more. After work, she runs home, but not to rest, but to work! What nonsense, say, men! Is household chores, such hard work! The absurdity is that the woman continues to do these things every day.

Why,  nowadays we can not be relied completely on the man, and to do their - women's responsibilities? Is it because men are now less hardy, more steressed and soft? True-that men can not see! Where are they? Extinct with the dinosaurs? No. We, the women them destroyed. By our tremendous power that is within us. In the wrong direction, we sent our greatest potential. Instead, it would be ideal to carry out our mission - keeper of the hearth and distributor of love, we push, both morally and physically male population to prove ... To each his own, but what is the result ? When a man takes you by the hand, you do not think about the beautiful evening, but the marriage contract that will protect you and your children, if this man will leave you.

Pros of feminism sure everyone finds itself, but the cons are more clearly expressed. We have ceased to educate the courageous men. Why is this happening? Because our boy who grows up and takes the basics of life in the family sees where dad did not play the leading role, but only the executive. He goes to work, takes out the garbage, watches TV and reads the newspaper at the time, as a mom, like a squirrel in a wheel, doing all for the welfare of the family. A man can not be realized in the family.  No one will givesuch an opportunity to him ! What might be the realization? A hanger in the corridor is not screwed! That's right, poor boys, see, what men really. As you consider what your family will get a baby? That's right! The same! Dictatorial wife, who will nag him for everything and never give praise, because it would undermine its men's health. A men are not men for a long time, they perish under the pressure of women's oppression. If the man is not being implemented as a man, he dies.

First, from the inside and then outside. I sometimes met with these women who complained about their husbands: he does not do anything around the house! He is such a kind of reptile-only football or his computer is busy! What about me ? And the children: For us it does not have the time! And you imagine how many times you come to a place where you say you're a fool? Probably more than never, right? And your spouse have nowhere to go. He has responsibilities and you have children together. So he goes home with his head down and to somehow abstract leaves to the football, television and newspapers.

We women have already received our freedom, our superiority. Man long time are not the strong but the weak floor. And sexual minorities are the majority. Where to next? And then, in the opposite direction. If we want our children to be happy, family, strong and reliable, we have to explain everything.

Let's try to do it.

1. Imagine that your husband (boyfriend, lover, lover), is facing a difficult choice (for example, there is no money for a taxi and it is late), do not reach for the purse to give him 10 dollars, and  do not pay for the car. The man he is! Let him prove himself. He, and he alone is responsible for his decisions. Let come up with a solution myself. Otherwise, he will feel a jerk. 

2. Try to negotiate with him all the joint actions (leisure, work, vacation), and if your opinions are commonplaces, look for a compromise and do not hit him with your "right" reasons.

3. Do not rush to do anything. Understand that you are a woman. You were made for a perfect (probably because it has no one to create beautiful, as all women in the workplace, there are so many homosexuals, as a substitute). Your companion - getter, you - the keeper of the extracted. Remind him about it, and remember yourself.

4. Never among the people do not abuse him and do not tell him what to do. It demeans anyone, not just men.

5. Do not discuss your family  relationship with my mom . Mothers tend to then criticize their sons-in-law. Would you be pleased if his father discussed you?


Raise your chosen one as courageous man.  You want that his strong arms wrapped around your fragile shoulders. So you want to live with him and be like a stone wall. I want to walk down the street with his arm, and proud when other women stare at your masculinity and stately Apollo. But for the fact that everything was just so in our time we need to string up. Two centuries ago, you would not have thought about it, but now have. 
Give him the opportunity to make decisions for your family or for both of you. 
Give him the opportunity to realize himself as a man. 

He will love you more than anyone else, just for the fact that you do not destroy, but rather became his muse.

The theory of savings or how to love yourself

Many women often indulge in many things. In the expensive cosmetics, in manicure, a spa salons, or even easierin the new winter shoes or extra pair of underwear. There is a contrast, another type of women who do not save on itself absolutely. And what they can spend on myself . Who's right, from these two types of ladies?
Once, in a conversation my friend said the following sentence: "When I smoke expensive cigarettes, I have things go well, the profits itself swims in hand. When the class of cigarettes goes down as slowly and sluggishly go my business."

I thought about it. About the point of psychology. If this friend of mine dose not smoked but ate chocolate, his words were the same, only the word "cigarette" would be replaced with the word "chocolate".


I do not know about you, but for some time I ever scrimped on myself. And that felt like something between the homeless and the poor. Then of course I did not know what makes me a vision of myself. And then, my mother once told me: "Never save on yourself, because then you will go all your life in tatters."

And I abruptly changed my attitude to the economy. I really went to the store and bought a perfume that cost forty times more than before I was able to spend over a month. Wow! I'll tell you how strongly I flew in my own eyes. I felt expensive. Even though I did not go on the red carpet at the Cannes festival, but felt like it was so.

After I thought about it. I already had that to compare, and I realized you can save money on yourself, but with the mind. If my salary is about 5000 UAH I certainly can not spend over 4000. And if you subtract the bills, pay for food, etc., what would be left? Only money on travel. And yet, every month, you need somewhere to buy something, but please yourself. Every economist himself, and everyone is aware of how much money he has, and how much he can spend. But the calculations for embezzlement, must necessarily be a column "for personal use".

How does it work?

When we allow ourselves to get what we need to improve self-esteem, we begin to grow in our own eyes. We begin to feel more important, loved, popular. A, respectively, and for others we become such. This affects our communication with people. If you've been notorious, thanks to its purchase (things or servants, does not matter) your systems are aligned and gradually become invisible. Therefore, communicating, you begin to open up more, smile more, and that attracts people to you. As rapidly growing fast and your career. Although, by whom and where you work, your business will succeed.

One model, once said: "The big money is easy to earn, and small - hard." She said this with confidence, because once she was poor, and worked as a waitress for a pittance. And over time, become famous and rich.

There is a theory that says that in order to achieve something, you must now experience a sense of joy from what has been achieved desired. Simply put, start today to rejoice over the fact that you have a million that you are the most charming that your children are the most talented, etc. It's not all seem a simple task, because not all girls know how to be the most beautiful. Not all men will be able to experience sensations owner of an expensive car. And out of this situation is the easy way out. We all probably ever got in a beautiful salon car, or someone told us, how do we enchanting. It is necessary to remember these feelings and experiences. Remember and be able to bring them into the present. Learn to enjoy what is not, but really want to. This creates a power of attraction and thereby becomes valid desired.

I'm not saying thatyou should live only in dreams Of course, the need to continue work towards achieving your dreams. But not always the answer comes to us it.

It is important to remember that there are such things as our psychological jams. Day after day, someone sits down and rides the subway to work. And every day, he sees the sick and the poor, who are held there. A luxury and a decent life, he sees only in passing expensive and upmarket shops, hotels and clubs. This is the effect of habituation. He was used to his social place, and even if he does not like, he does not move.


In order to change this, change and familiar way. Not always, but sometimes go to work by taxi. Of course, it is much more expensive, but it "catches up to you are important." Not always, but sometimes, it is necessary to do an expensive gift. It also helps you to feel like a king or queen. Let all your things will be a second-hand, but one is Versace.

It is important that climbing to the ladder of success should be gradual. Let us again take the example of machines. If you have a lifetime rode the subway and suddenly boarded a limousine, you will overcome the confusion rather than joy for their achievements. Because it is important to go through all the stages of recovery: Metro - bus-taxi - his first car - a road car.

So, we can summarize that saving on itself but with the mind. Of course, on the way to the top you are waiting many pitfalls, which will be known only to you. And I did not say anything about them just because everyone has their peaks. And their obstacles on the way. But do not be afraid of it. It's like riding a bike. How many times to fall, then to boldly go? And in life we fall down, but get up and move on, gaining experience and becoming only more intelligent. But let bygones be bygones......

The scandal or disease. Give vent to emotions.

Here again you are not happy with his behavior or act. And you know perfectly well that rolled up a tantrum or just starting to clarify the relationship will lead to weekly odds or even complete silence. But resentment or grudge is not going away. They remain in you, and will be looking for a way out. And if, emotional release is not there, you will start get sick. And as hard as you accumulate a lot of negative emotions in yourself.

So what to do? Should you at every opportunity, express to him your "unsatisfaction", moreover, accompanied by screams, tears and snot? What sane man will delayed near a woman who with or without suit scandal. Although certainly there are also fans of extreme sports, and they may just looking for these ladies. But if your partner is is not like it how to behave?

I propose to weigh everything. First, let's understand what will happen to us if all the time to hide their feelings. Any not expressed emotion, without exception, must find a new habitat. And she finds it in your body. Every emotion is always settles in a certain place. Therefore, therapists can knowing your chronic illness, can  paint to you the desises of yourwhole life over the past 10 years. And you can, and most importantly, learn how to work with it. Work - not in terms of going to work, but a plan of ridding yourself of excess cargo.


Let us consider, where do enter our unexpressed emotions. So:

1. Eyes. Here live the emotion of fear.

2. Mouth. People suffering from ailments in this area, often holding back their feelings.

3. Chest. Sometimes it hurts or you can feel heaviness - this suppression of laughter or sadness.

4. Diaphragm - enduring intense of anger or rage.

5. Abdomen - here run away fears of a possible aggression. Did it happens that when you feel an attack from someone's side you have a felling of twisting in your stomach?

6. The pelvis - the suppression of anxiety or anger.

Here they are, these mysterious places, though, and are described briefly. After all, we know how many there diseases. And they are all, without exception, related to our emotions.

And so. Emotion has found a place "where to" and from there begins to drill a hole. The more emotion in this place we send, the more they drill a hole. And what we then? We then go to the doctor and ask for a tablet. And she burst into this hole and will have through the rectum. In general, there is no escape! Upset? Do not be sad. The output, of course, there is.

Let us return to the case of a loved one. To swear or not? Maintain a healthy relationship with a sick bodyor you can vice versa?


Did you know that what you do not like your partner, it is the reflection of what you do not like in yourself. Or, that's what you are missing. Well, for example, take the most common marital unhappiness - festivities. Spouse may be washed down to death out of jealousy of the faithful husband. Why? Because she is, in secret, even to herself, assumes that can go for treason. And the fact of betrayal of her husband is known, and his wife is fighting (!) with this for many years, but did not go away from such unfaithful, then maybe that's the kind of man she needs.  And she eats it, just because of the fact that she for whatever reason, does not betrail him.


All at once will not describe. It's a fine science, and you need to work with certain people. Then you better know what do you want again to trample your lover in the ground. So, the next time, in such a situation, analyze - it brings pleasure to you? I say that because of what you want to create a scandal. The husband did not call or came too late? You meet him with a frying pan. He did not buy milk. Are you looking inundated with a rolling pin. And in the end, it fell reptile home drunk ... No such weapons in your home!
And how do you situation, if it did not? He came at six, as promised on the phone 15 minutes ago. Brought straight from the tin milk and immediately ran out the trash. And when a neighbor offered to drink beer, he kicked him in the ass kicked out of your home. And your partner will do as you wish. And you will not have the slightest reason to  drive yourself some bad emotion.

So what? What could be better? Scandals and happiness, or calm and ... death in one day.

And the best part is that you will choose for themselves. Of course, the quarrel should take place. Even quarreling with broken crockery and torn curtains. Only the children had not seen or heard of. This will help you to get rid of not only the mutual resentments and misunderstandings, but also throw off the burden of working everyday. But it should not be offensive to him or you. Had a fight - and then kisse. Interestingly, when a pair of scandals,has discredits, not blowing lips, the relationship growing. And if they said to each other two offensive words and went to sleep in different rooms, it lasts a few weeks, these relations smell like exclusion.

Swear sometimes. Once every two weeks. And all the other days of learning to understand yourself and your partner. Sometimes it is only just to say, you know, I'm sorry, when you go out with friends without me. Perhaps he thinks that you are bored in their company, so you do not pull back. And it never occurred to him, then why you are yelling at him?


A struggle against the accumulated emotions can be carried out independently. Do yoga or exercise, it helps, but not always relieve. You can go into the woods, and scream that negativity to nowhere. You can laminate the attraction, after which you will not remember your name for a long time, too, will remove stagnation. And even an ordinary change of scenery - is treated.

And that emotions do not accumulate, you need to solve the situation immediately. He came too late, but you boil. Tell him you're angry and walk away. And then themselves sit down and analyze - why you are angry. Because you can not do so yourself or because it does not take into account your interests? And find the answers to your questions , and tell him the result. Male appreciate your understanding. More often smile to him.

To live in harmony with each other is a big science. But only mastered its intricacies, we can learn to live in harmony with other people around us.

Intergated personality or someone's half?.

Each of us have heard the legend of the halves of walking around the world in search of each other. We hope that coming to wrap a handsome prince, it was she (the second half) will make us deeply happy. And desperately looking for the perfect man to save us from ourselves. 

Forget! 

First, the woman radiating fluids despair does not attract the opposite sex. Second, the search for the ideal - employment fairly stupid. With blinders on the eyes, you will look for the mythical person , whose image is formed by past experiences and prejudices of society. Burn your list of qualities of the ideal man and feel by the heart each of the candidates, not hanging a label through reason. And most importantly, do not wait to find someone who will make you happy, that someone is you, yourself. Relationships will not save you. Each of us - whole person, inside which there is everything to be happy. External able to awaken in us a state for a moment. True happiness comes from the ability to enjoy every moment of life ..

We emphasize two types of failed relationships: 

1) A woman enters a "business contract" with the man, hoping that he would kill in her the sense of loneliness, will fill the inside, will satisfy the needs and requirements. 

2) The woman is totally committed to the relationship, dissolving in a man, forgetting about her friends and hobbies. 

In both cases, the man is the lifeline that helps to get away from myself, from the depth of feelings and experiences. Relations are necessary, especially for the spiritual evolution of personality to reveal the full sense of love, compassion, warmth, which is already in us. Right now start living as a complete person, radiating love, and you will attract into your life or have  another whole different look at the man (before you looked on him as a half), which is close to you .

To hell with the prejudices! Take everything out of life!

Is it possible to feel happy every day? What do you need to fell this?

In part, this is a philosophical question, because the understanding of "happiness" everyone has their own. But there are moments of female psychology, given that you will be able to enjoy and celebrate life to the fullest.
Let's find out together !

Women are unique!Nobody can  predict our behavior, thinking, or mood . Thousands of factors may affect our state of mind. Men often joke on our logic, but we perfectly understand each other :))

So, what settings prevent us from being happy?
I'll tell you about three of the most common ...








The first installation, "I will like myself when losing weight,'ll grow long hair and etc ..."

Perhaps reading these lines, you will smile and think, "What nonsense!" - Yes, I agree! But to be honest with yourself, you remember how many times have you said it yourself? Maybe it's sitting in your head right now?


Love yourself for what you have created nature. It is our otherness and it makes us unique and attractive for an individual.

Long hair - will not bring change to your life and will not "guarantee of happiness." A brand or exclusive things do not change the course of the party and will not affect the outcome of the date!


It is all about our inner feelings and a sense of fullness of life "here and now".



Think about it! Than you are ready to close for a year and limit yourself with communication until the hair does not grow back, or the body will not get the desired shape?? Do not you go to a party where you could meet her future husband, if you do not have a suitable dress??

Happy women do not expect that tomorrow everything will change. They live in the present, let go and thank their past for the experience, and make plans for the future.


Life is not so long, it is fleeting! And each year allegedly accelerated, especially after 30-35 years. That is why it is important to learn how to live the "here and now".


Focus on that date - this is the most important and interesting of what deserves your attention. Today - a whole life! Try to enjoy it and remember every moment of what is happening, no matter how long your hair is and how close your weight is to ideal .


The second unit, "My life will be better, brighter and more interesting when I will meet a man!"

Really? Of course not!

Men looking for the woman who will give them a certain inner state. In order to do this, we must be able to be happy with yourself, you need to be able to fill their own lives brightness!

Try to find inspiration in everything that surrounds you: the rays of the morning sun to read a book full of charm!

Only your fascination and inspiration of life are able to charge and inspire man.


By the way, one of the most important statements: "similar attracts similar" - very important when choosing a life partner. If you are happy, active, friendly, interesting and vibrant woman, then the man who would be next to you will be about the same.

The third setting, "What will others think?"

This setting is ingrained in many of us, as a "good girl syndrome" that has plagued 72% of women from childhood.

Many of us are looking for matches with the expectations of others, rather than to focus on the sensations. We are going through because of the fact that society can condemn us.

For example: women who have experienced a divorce, a long time (a year or more) believe that totally unneeded and the people around them look at them differently. They are afraid to voice their new status, not to get a conviction and a negativity in his address.

Some of the girls rush to get married in 20-23 years, not having any experience men only because they are afraid to remain "old maids."


Girls, stop! What is important is not a stamp in the passport, it is important to be close to loved ones, reliable and loving man who is willing to support you and take care of your family!

In this case, it does not matter how many years it will happen and what kind of men you have to communicate.

Take a look at the behavior, thoughts and actions on the part of ... And try to honestly answer the questions:

Is this like YOU or so would like your mom / friends / society?
When are you going to do something about what you are thinking, what others think about you or what it will give you?
Is it more important to live in harmony with each other, or be good for others?
Answers to these questions will help you better understand yourself.



I am truly convinced that be good for all IMPOSSIBLE! That's because many people, so many opinions - some with us is easy, with the other nothing at all glued, even talking about the weather ...

So why then, to kill your time in the pursuit of the correspondences and the expectations of others?

Listen to your needs and wishes, follow your dreams, even if they seem to all complete madness!

Only joy and satisfaction of knowing that you are doing what you want it to you, will give a feeling of happiness fullness of life!

Do not chase the templates! Stay yourself!

Smart people will always understand you and will take for who you are. Stupid and lazy to explain useless - still condemn! So do not waste your time on these people your time, focus on yourself and your happiness!



Remember, your time is priceless because it can not be returned!

Elegant home image

Fashion dictates the rules and in respect of home clothes. It was good to our mothers: in those days they could go at home (and allowed!) in robes. For a modern lady like dress code is not allowed. If we believe in family psychology, in a  such form it is not far to the divorce.

But seriously, in terms of choosing of attire for the house you should follow the example of oriental women. Husbands never see them in the old and ugly clothes and always admire their wives. I like the one statement on this subject, I do not remember where I read it: "The Russian woman puts on the best  coming out on the street, and  does not pay attention to appearance, when she is at home. That is, another man she wants to please, and hers not. "My friend with whom I shared similar thoughts objected that our women do all the work around the house themselves, they do not have assistants, as opposed to the same eastern, and, say, wash the floor in an elegant dress is not very convenient. What is true. But modern designers are for us. In the collections can be found both beautiful and comfortable home clothes. Take a walk to the shops?

So, what guided the choice of home clothes?

At home, we relax, restore power. And this is possible only if it comfortable, cozy, warm, and every detail of the interior we enjoy. The same requirements must meet and indoor clothing. With its help, we are creating a mood for yourself and loved ones. After all, if we are not comfortable in the clothes, no matter how beautiful it is was, would we be able to fully relax? Of course not. We will be annoyed by the fact that, for example, constantly having to correct the straps on top or pull up the skirt. I am sure that soon you will change  beautiful but uncomfortable clothes on the good old bathrobe.

Therefore, the first and most important requirement for home clothes - convenience. Attire must not hamper movements, push, be too narrow. Convenient should be any clothes, but especially home. Another reason that choosing outfits for school and work, we often sacrifice comfort for the sake of beauty. And by the evening are so tired that dream to get home as quickly as possible _ remove all to give yourself a chance to rest. It's like in the commercials where the girl proudly walking down the street in high heels, men looking after her with admiration . But once she crosses the threshold of house , as removes uncomfortable shoes, clothes and put on cute pajamas and slippers.

Second, the important fabric from which made ​​homemade clothes. Pleasant body silk, cotton, satin, flannel, jersey. These materials are soft, warm, breathable, easy to use (easy to wash _ dry quickly). Their only disadvantage is that they are heavily wrinkled. My advice - do not look for clothing made ​​from 100% natural fabric, if clothes will contain small percentage of synthetic additives, things will be less wrinkle.

The third criterion to guide the choice of attire for the home is a pastime in the native walls. How do you spend your leisure time? Are you hosting frequently? What chores are you? For example, a lot of you are cooking. So you need clothes, cut free of the fabric, so it was not hot, with short sleeves. Refill your wardrobe, dress shirt, there will be nothing to interfere with the culinary process. If you're a mom of crumbs that actively learns, then pay attention to the track suit. Obtain to it a couple of t-shirts, and the image is ready! In this dress you can reach to the nearest supermarket,  put garbage until the baby is asleep.

Fifthly, I recommend when choosing a home clothes to give preference to the one which is made in soft colors, so it does not irritate nor you, nor household. Pay attention to the things pale blue, olive, yellow, light pink palette. Do not forget about the accessories. Kit will be brighter if you combine it into a hairpin tone rim.




What to choose?


- Two robes - silk and bath robe. The first is indispensable for the morning toilet, in the second to wrap up so nicely after a bath;

- Jumpsuit. Very universal thing. It is convenient, clean and it is easy to cook in and guests to meet.

- Sweatpants;

- A few T-shirts and shirts-bortsovok. I love T-Shirts with cartoon characters. This print is uplifting;

- Breeches or shorts, depending on the characteristics of the figure;

- Dresses, one lung, another dense, warm for the winter.

Look good at home is very important, especially if you are married. I do not urge you to wear evening dresses and brightly painted, leave it for special occasions. But also do not need to go in the clothes you are ashame to go to street. And in these things we wear more often at home.

Clothing affects our mood. In a beautiful dress even relation to  household chores will be different, they are carried out with great desire. If your wardrobe has no home clothes, buy at least one set. You'll see how you mood will immediately change!  It's so important for a woman - to be beautiful and attractive. And to compliment ones provided!
I wish you in all situations have a flirty look, be well-groomed and elegant!

You are - the star of the party

Even the most timid person can feel at ease in any place and at any time, subject to a number of simple rules and a little pre-preparation - says Leil Lowndes, a recognized expert in the field of psychology, communication, bestselling author of "How to talk to anyone about anything . "

Before the event:

Imagine that all this has been
Consider that your task - to play a major role. So spend a dress rehearsal in advance. Imagine how you pacing (impeccable posture, as if someone pulls you up the rope) as smiling with a warm smile (work-out in front of a mirror), hear how confident you are talking to other people and, most importantly, feel the pleasure of knowing that you - in great shape, and people are drawn to you.

Find your "something"

Do not make potential friends suffer, inventing an excuse to come to you. Carry anything unusual that could be a topic for conversation.

Work on image

Show consideration to the choice of attire. If you think that the "dress sits very personal, especially if you draw the belly and do not turn sideways," it is better to put it aside. Otherwise, the entire party will torment you two questions: "So, whether you're standing," and "Is it enough to strongly pulled abdomen." In such a condition is no place for interesting conversations and enigmatic smiles. Pay special attention to shoes. No doubt, the heels visually lengthen the legs. But in order to have noticed it,you will have to move on them , not to prop up the wall! Meanwhile walk "of the tribe," and not from the hip can ruin any beauty.

Achieve 100% confidence

Allocate sufficient time to become perfect. A person who does not need to worry because the nails are not in the best condition, to brow hands have never reached, one eye somehow made ​​up slightly differently than the second, and underwear too tight bites into the body, it is easier to communicate .

Agree with yourself

In order not to be jealous about liberated ladies, preconceived strategy and tactics of behavior. Tell yourself that you are invited to a party, not your restraint, shyness and embarrassment, so that all these qualities will have to stay home and wait for your return.

If verbal persuasion does not help, create a written order on the same topic. Consider this magical changes that have to happen right at Christmas time.





In the beginning of the party:

Use the method of the "Old Friend"

As a rule, people value not only your words, but also how they are told and the tone you use, in what position you are. To make your cues not contradictory the language of your body, imagine dealing with a stranger, that he - your old friend (old love), with whom you have not seen for a long time. And just today, you each have met again. These pleasant feelings will start a chain reaction throughout your body - from the subconscious softening look to the turn of the body.

Use the method of the "Flowing smile"

Take your time to smile to everyone, as if just received from them a huge amount of money donated. Instead, carefully look into a person's face for a few seconds. Try to feel his personality. And then give him a wide warm smile that flows out of your eyes. Pause, which you stand will convince the person to whom you are smiling that smile of yours is sincere.

During the event:

Avoid one word answers

Your conversation even with the nice man can end, barely begun, if he would have nothing to add to what you say. Try to construct sentences so that the other party also had something to say. For example, the question "Where are you from" answer "from the Southern Butovo" is not enough. Nice to add that such a significant and interesting (not for you, but for someone with whom you speak) is in the area. If a male athlete - advice him to visit a good sports club, a banker tell about the lack of additional offices. Your task - to give him an opportunity to comment on your remark .Then, when he says something clever in response to your bait, will take you to as an excellent conversationalist.

Connect the other guests to the conversation

Engage in the conversation of those who like and am glad to join your circle, but does not know how to do it. People are always drawn to those who are interested in themselves. Imagine that you are shining spotlights around in your power to direct their light - try to make sure that their beams visited all who are close to you.
And, most importantly - remember the effectiveness of a smile. If your goal - meeting with a man, then keep in mind the results of research scientists from the University of Missouri.
Female researcher established visual contact with the guinea men who drank while sitting at the bar in the local nightclubs or drinking establishments. In some cases, the gaze of women scholars that was accompanied by a smile. In other cases, they did not smile. "The highest percentage of attempts to establish contact - 60% - was observed in the case where, among others, non-verbal signs of the present interest, a smile."

What can we learn from "bitch"?

Just a couple of centuries ago was called a bitch dead cattlerather than beautiful, energetic woman. Today,  very few people remember this, but the word itself is almost a compliment.
Of course, the bitch - an ambiguous character and the hero is not very positive, but there are things that you can learn from her.

1. The ability to keep a man "on a short leash"

After some (sometimes rather short) time after the wedding, an ordinary woman often finds that succeeded in the quest to be nedded for the husband so that his feet rubbed her neck. With a bitch this embarrassment does not happen - with her "not spoil" at any time she can throw anything. No matter how long a bitch with a man - the feeling of being prey to "catch", you can relax, and then switch to another object - it is unlikely to arise. Its unpredictability - a type of fuel on which "works" male instinct. Bitch looks like a "black box" Russian nesting doll at the same time - to know in advance what is inside, is almost impossible.

2. The desire for perfectionism

In this bitch is always the best (at least, from the fact that she can afford), she will never regret over the money and effort, do not compromise with the toad, which, as is known, is the most frightening animal on earth because often stifled. Why bitch can afford it? Solely because she deserves it! One can not imagine her with black heels, a hunched back, sagging belly or faded bra strap every now and then falling from the shoulder, as she herself strives for perfection.

3. Love for yourself

The nice bitch - no doubt about it, and so typical of women throwing soul on "Was I can love?", "For what I was born into the world?" Or "I can not afford it", "Lucky everyone but me" . She loves herself for what it is - from the heels to the crown, likes simple: by definition, without reservation. Bitch instinctively or consciously resorted to the proven formula of "failures - is good luck, you only have to look at them from a different angle," makes beastliness of ham and presents disadvantages as advantages. Bitch saves a lot of time thinking what to buy in the first place: the next cell to her husband, griddle for mother-in  or a new scratcher with turbopodduvom for cats ... of course,  she will go to the store just to buy something nice to herself.





4. Dignity

Bitch never sacrifice dignity in order to maintain the relationship. No effect self-consolation, "He is  inferior, but mine" or "Better him than one." Options "and that would" absolutely not suited to it. She instinctively feels that the most important person in her life that will be with her from the first to the last breath - it is herself, and that person needs love, no less than the others. "Do not cave in to the changing worldbetter that he sag under us," -  this covenant bitch follow today.

5. The ability to be herself

People who are indifferent to bitch, almost none. But bitch, indifferent to the opinions of others, and reliable "grafted" from the syndrome of, "Oh, what will they think," is full. Men look after them with admiration, and women feel soulless selfish (though at heart often envy). However, the bitch can hold a person staunchly attacks from jelious and their principles, unlike men,  never change.