What you attract into your life?

About what do you think, what you feel and what you attract into your life.

Fear of the new relationship, you are more afraid of them, and they do not deliver joy and eventually you broke up.

Fear of the new projects, chores, a new and interesting activities, go away from her, plunging into the usual and familiar, but not giving the joy of life and energy, activity.

Fearing their desires, you eventually stop to understand what you want.

Thinking that you do not deserve to be happy, beautiful, wealthy, you are distancing yourself from happiness, beauty and consistency.


Do you think that  something does not work, then you would not succeed in a single attempt undertaken by you. And you do not even think about how to do so, to work out.

 Think about something (happy, beautiful, expensive), that this is definitely not for you and not about you. You separate yourself from happiness, beauty and abundance and include the "victim" of circumstances.

If you think that "all men cheat", then all your men will cheat on you.

And you know, the list is never ending.

For yourself you have it finished when you begin to live your desires, dreams, recognize your right to happiness, and most importantly, be honest with yourself.

Dream of a beautiful mutual love, a strong and happy family, go towards your ideas and desires, begin to do something to make your ideas come true, the courage to take the first step without delay.

Do not betray yourself.

Dream, believe in yourself and your happiness and success, believe in your man.

You are - the star of the party

Even the most timid person can feel at ease in any place and at any time, subject to a number of simple rules and a little pre-preparation - says Leil Lowndes, a recognized expert in the field of psychology, communication, bestselling author of "How to talk to anyone about anything . "

Before the event:

Imagine that all this has been
Consider that your task - to play a major role. So spend a dress rehearsal in advance. Imagine how you pacing (impeccable posture, as if someone pulls you up the rope) as smiling with a warm smile (work-out in front of a mirror), hear how confident you are talking to other people and, most importantly, feel the pleasure of knowing that you - in great shape, and people are drawn to you.

Find your "something"

Do not make potential friends suffer, inventing an excuse to come to you. Carry anything unusual that could be a topic for conversation.

Work on image

Show consideration to the choice of attire. If you think that the "dress sits very personal, especially if you draw the belly and do not turn sideways," it is better to put it aside. Otherwise, the entire party will torment you two questions: "So, whether you're standing," and "Is it enough to strongly pulled abdomen." In such a condition is no place for interesting conversations and enigmatic smiles. Pay special attention to shoes. No doubt, the heels visually lengthen the legs. But in order to have noticed it,you will have to move on them , not to prop up the wall! Meanwhile walk "of the tribe," and not from the hip can ruin any beauty.

Achieve 100% confidence

Allocate sufficient time to become perfect. A person who does not need to worry because the nails are not in the best condition, to brow hands have never reached, one eye somehow made ​​up slightly differently than the second, and underwear too tight bites into the body, it is easier to communicate .

Agree with yourself

In order not to be jealous about liberated ladies, preconceived strategy and tactics of behavior. Tell yourself that you are invited to a party, not your restraint, shyness and embarrassment, so that all these qualities will have to stay home and wait for your return.

If verbal persuasion does not help, create a written order on the same topic. Consider this magical changes that have to happen right at Christmas time.





In the beginning of the party:

Use the method of the "Old Friend"

As a rule, people value not only your words, but also how they are told and the tone you use, in what position you are. To make your cues not contradictory the language of your body, imagine dealing with a stranger, that he - your old friend (old love), with whom you have not seen for a long time. And just today, you each have met again. These pleasant feelings will start a chain reaction throughout your body - from the subconscious softening look to the turn of the body.

Use the method of the "Flowing smile"

Take your time to smile to everyone, as if just received from them a huge amount of money donated. Instead, carefully look into a person's face for a few seconds. Try to feel his personality. And then give him a wide warm smile that flows out of your eyes. Pause, which you stand will convince the person to whom you are smiling that smile of yours is sincere.

During the event:

Avoid one word answers

Your conversation even with the nice man can end, barely begun, if he would have nothing to add to what you say. Try to construct sentences so that the other party also had something to say. For example, the question "Where are you from" answer "from the Southern Butovo" is not enough. Nice to add that such a significant and interesting (not for you, but for someone with whom you speak) is in the area. If a male athlete - advice him to visit a good sports club, a banker tell about the lack of additional offices. Your task - to give him an opportunity to comment on your remark .Then, when he says something clever in response to your bait, will take you to as an excellent conversationalist.

Connect the other guests to the conversation

Engage in the conversation of those who like and am glad to join your circle, but does not know how to do it. People are always drawn to those who are interested in themselves. Imagine that you are shining spotlights around in your power to direct their light - try to make sure that their beams visited all who are close to you.
And, most importantly - remember the effectiveness of a smile. If your goal - meeting with a man, then keep in mind the results of research scientists from the University of Missouri.
Female researcher established visual contact with the guinea men who drank while sitting at the bar in the local nightclubs or drinking establishments. In some cases, the gaze of women scholars that was accompanied by a smile. In other cases, they did not smile. "The highest percentage of attempts to establish contact - 60% - was observed in the case where, among others, non-verbal signs of the present interest, a smile."

How to remain a mystery in the eyes of man?

"A woman has to be a secret ..." - we all have heard the phrase. And many women and even men put there some mystical sense. The mysterious woman is attractive, she's special, she attracts her charm, it is a mystery that you want to solve! In married this mystery goes somewhere, and the woman said some men become like an "open book." Why is that? Frankly, dear women, it is our fault . 

The mystery and mystique of women starts with the simplest things. It is important to see the beauty of a man and of a woman and it is not necessary to know what it is made. So remember a few rules, which is absolutely NOT worth doing if you want to keep your mystical and wonderful nature in the eyes of men.

- DO NOT walk around the house in an old, dirty and crumpled clothes. In Vedic times for the house was bought the most beautiful clothes. A man came home, and the woman met him in a beautiful dress, so she always remained for him the most beautiful and attractive! A man loves his eyes, and even stunningly beautiful woman does not dye an old-stained robe ...

• - DO NOT walk around the house wearing masks and other accessories that shape our beauty. Man thinks that your natural beauty, and he did not need to know what we use, to maintain it . This is completely destroys our image in the eyes of men. When we see a beautiful flower - we do not need to know how photosynthesis takes place ... we just want to admire it as a miracle, not a set of chemical elements.

• - DO NOT allow your men to see our intimate side of beauty, that is, keep on top of pads, tampons, hang on the battery underwear - NOT worth it. The intimate nature of women is completely sacral.

• - DO NOT put on makeup, nails cut, curl in front of men - our beauty secrets - and they ONLY OUR exclusively for women.

• -  DO NOT expresse rude and crony words - is much destroys the female energy and lowers you in the eyes of men. 

That is why in the old days women had a separate side of the house, and all  secrets remained there. To her husband she was going out a beautiful, well-groomed. And he did not see all that she does to maintain this beauty! And in today's world, a woman does not even have her room, where she can keep their secrets. But I think every one of us can try and find a way to keep our little feminine mystery ... 

Some time ago I read an interview with Sophia Loren, and I understood why so many years it retained its charm and charm. She said: "Every morning I get up around 6:00 am, while my pets sleep, and two hours I spend on something that would bring myself up, I take a bath, use a cream, make-up, hair ... And when everyone gets up - I've had a look and feel of beautiful woman!", I wish you success and dexterous skills to the conservation of its female secrets! And let your man for you will always remain desirable, interesting and unsolved mystery!