To hell with the prejudices! Take everything out of life!

Is it possible to feel happy every day? What do you need to fell this?

In part, this is a philosophical question, because the understanding of "happiness" everyone has their own. But there are moments of female psychology, given that you will be able to enjoy and celebrate life to the fullest.
Let's find out together !

Women are unique!Nobody can  predict our behavior, thinking, or mood . Thousands of factors may affect our state of mind. Men often joke on our logic, but we perfectly understand each other :))

So, what settings prevent us from being happy?
I'll tell you about three of the most common ...








The first installation, "I will like myself when losing weight,'ll grow long hair and etc ..."

Perhaps reading these lines, you will smile and think, "What nonsense!" - Yes, I agree! But to be honest with yourself, you remember how many times have you said it yourself? Maybe it's sitting in your head right now?


Love yourself for what you have created nature. It is our otherness and it makes us unique and attractive for an individual.

Long hair - will not bring change to your life and will not "guarantee of happiness." A brand or exclusive things do not change the course of the party and will not affect the outcome of the date!


It is all about our inner feelings and a sense of fullness of life "here and now".



Think about it! Than you are ready to close for a year and limit yourself with communication until the hair does not grow back, or the body will not get the desired shape?? Do not you go to a party where you could meet her future husband, if you do not have a suitable dress??

Happy women do not expect that tomorrow everything will change. They live in the present, let go and thank their past for the experience, and make plans for the future.


Life is not so long, it is fleeting! And each year allegedly accelerated, especially after 30-35 years. That is why it is important to learn how to live the "here and now".


Focus on that date - this is the most important and interesting of what deserves your attention. Today - a whole life! Try to enjoy it and remember every moment of what is happening, no matter how long your hair is and how close your weight is to ideal .


The second unit, "My life will be better, brighter and more interesting when I will meet a man!"

Really? Of course not!

Men looking for the woman who will give them a certain inner state. In order to do this, we must be able to be happy with yourself, you need to be able to fill their own lives brightness!

Try to find inspiration in everything that surrounds you: the rays of the morning sun to read a book full of charm!

Only your fascination and inspiration of life are able to charge and inspire man.


By the way, one of the most important statements: "similar attracts similar" - very important when choosing a life partner. If you are happy, active, friendly, interesting and vibrant woman, then the man who would be next to you will be about the same.

The third setting, "What will others think?"

This setting is ingrained in many of us, as a "good girl syndrome" that has plagued 72% of women from childhood.

Many of us are looking for matches with the expectations of others, rather than to focus on the sensations. We are going through because of the fact that society can condemn us.

For example: women who have experienced a divorce, a long time (a year or more) believe that totally unneeded and the people around them look at them differently. They are afraid to voice their new status, not to get a conviction and a negativity in his address.

Some of the girls rush to get married in 20-23 years, not having any experience men only because they are afraid to remain "old maids."


Girls, stop! What is important is not a stamp in the passport, it is important to be close to loved ones, reliable and loving man who is willing to support you and take care of your family!

In this case, it does not matter how many years it will happen and what kind of men you have to communicate.

Take a look at the behavior, thoughts and actions on the part of ... And try to honestly answer the questions:

Is this like YOU or so would like your mom / friends / society?
When are you going to do something about what you are thinking, what others think about you or what it will give you?
Is it more important to live in harmony with each other, or be good for others?
Answers to these questions will help you better understand yourself.



I am truly convinced that be good for all IMPOSSIBLE! That's because many people, so many opinions - some with us is easy, with the other nothing at all glued, even talking about the weather ...

So why then, to kill your time in the pursuit of the correspondences and the expectations of others?

Listen to your needs and wishes, follow your dreams, even if they seem to all complete madness!

Only joy and satisfaction of knowing that you are doing what you want it to you, will give a feeling of happiness fullness of life!

Do not chase the templates! Stay yourself!

Smart people will always understand you and will take for who you are. Stupid and lazy to explain useless - still condemn! So do not waste your time on these people your time, focus on yourself and your happiness!



Remember, your time is priceless because it can not be returned!

Seduction is proceeded by "Agent Provocateur" ...

Lingerie brand from England, but his mission is clear in any language. Oh, what kind of underwear! Expensive, impractical, minuscule lace and silk, a pinch of rhinestones and graceful bows - every day is not going to wear. That's right: non-lethal weapons should be available only to a specialist high-end. And just for the purposes of the special operation.

No, you just think about it: the famous brand established by an English couple! But what about the traditional British stiffness, restraint and decency? Sheds little light on the fact that one of the founders, Joe Corre, the son of the mad genius Vivienne Westwood, and to this any scandals on the shoulder. In fact, the emergence of Joe to the white light from the discharge too eccentric. Many years ago, Vivienne Westwood was young, and that's what piquancy, pregnant. She walked down the street by no means a good cause - namely abortion. And suddenly she saw in a storefront window her cherished dream. In a in the form of a gorgeous coat. "My God! Without abortion I can live, but without this beauty can not "- probably something like this reasoned in  Vivian's mind and all the money intended for the operation, were spended on the coat. Soon in the tiny crib little Joe was crying ...

Cheap and cheerful? No, expensive and sexy

In 1994, Joe Corre and his wife Serena Rees decided to "kerf rock in the hole" and shake the sleepy old lady England. Thus arose the first boutique Agent Provocateur. A few words about the title. Translated from the "spy" agent provocateur - a secret agent who instigate actions leading to the trap. Actually, the conclusion suggests itself, is worth seeing lingerie submitted under the brand name. Call it "underwear" language does not turn. Because its primary mission - to seduce, destroy, shoot down the path of true gender male. Perhaps it is because the British thought, standing in front of the shop window of the first with a vicious commodity. And there - oh merciful! - Stretches, smiled and took sexually-enlistment pose mannequins. In lace bustier, fishnet thong, armed with whips and handcuffs in rhinestones to bows but with fur trim. Boutique atmosphere - boudoir, sellers dressed in "uniforms flight attendants" - short pink robe with the inscription Agent Provocateur. By the way, the design developed by Vivienne Westwood. She dictated the rules for its "exploitation": wear exclusively with black stockings, unbuttoned top and bottom buttons of clothes.

Oh, well, what they have done, these Joe Corre and Serena Rees!
 .. Nothing special: call things by their names, crushed pillars of pretense and hypocrisy. And at the same time returned underwear long-lost sensuality and seduction: lace-up corsets, garter belts, a combination of bright, saturated colors. By the way, all these panties, bustiers not be construed as push-ups and seductive pads to add volume to the right places, just beating a backhand naturalness. Therefore, a woman in sexy lingerie feels sexy and domineering. Like she is walking on the podium, commanding shocked and admiring partner. To shake the darling can not only view, but also the price of laundry. However,  he does not need to know this.

The British public maybe grumbled over a cup of tea, but linen swept from the shelves. Agent Provocateur knew what to do.

Harz, Kylie! Do not hesitate, George and Tony!

Buying happiness would not be complete without a controversial advertising moves. Joe Corre did not wait and beg. In 2001, the famous movie was aired with Kylie Minogue in Agent Provocateur lingerie prancing horse an improvised. Well, as a horse - a velvet seat. Well, as the prancing - seductively writhing. A decade after the brand has thrown out altogether unheard-of audacity: posted on his website movie outrageous content. As you see it is unlikely, remains to listen and use your imagination. So imagine the Oval Office, a man like an American ex-president George W. Bush, taking part in a sadomasochistic orgy. Of course, along the way there is an advertising production Agent Provocateur. In the end, there is another party, from head to toe in black latex and wears the mask of a dog. When the "lady" takes off the mask, it is a ... man, surprisingly similar to the British Prime Minister Tony Blair!

Scent of a Woman, and the temptation

The English couple get not a joke and added an arsenal of spirits befitting the occasion - you know, what. So, Agent Provocateur fragrance is hidden in a black box, and that, in turn, hides pale pink porcelain bottle. Which predictably provided "slit for spying." And what opens to the prying eyes? Sleek bottle shaped like an egg, which symbolizes fertility, a woman, and of other similar things here. Ask how perfume? They say they are for women, whose purpose - and the power of seduction. She avoids pressure excludes obligations. She seduces and charms, seduces and provokes insanity. Thats all!

Brand Agent Provocateur presented in the native open spaces, The same boudoir decor boutiques, shop-attendants in her dressing gown fastened correctly, Linen, accessories, perfumes ... And the old, old truth: if a woman does not give up, she wins if rent - dictates the winner. So, are you ready to call your own conditions?

Elegant home image

Fashion dictates the rules and in respect of home clothes. It was good to our mothers: in those days they could go at home (and allowed!) in robes. For a modern lady like dress code is not allowed. If we believe in family psychology, in a  such form it is not far to the divorce.

But seriously, in terms of choosing of attire for the house you should follow the example of oriental women. Husbands never see them in the old and ugly clothes and always admire their wives. I like the one statement on this subject, I do not remember where I read it: "The Russian woman puts on the best  coming out on the street, and  does not pay attention to appearance, when she is at home. That is, another man she wants to please, and hers not. "My friend with whom I shared similar thoughts objected that our women do all the work around the house themselves, they do not have assistants, as opposed to the same eastern, and, say, wash the floor in an elegant dress is not very convenient. What is true. But modern designers are for us. In the collections can be found both beautiful and comfortable home clothes. Take a walk to the shops?

So, what guided the choice of home clothes?

At home, we relax, restore power. And this is possible only if it comfortable, cozy, warm, and every detail of the interior we enjoy. The same requirements must meet and indoor clothing. With its help, we are creating a mood for yourself and loved ones. After all, if we are not comfortable in the clothes, no matter how beautiful it is was, would we be able to fully relax? Of course not. We will be annoyed by the fact that, for example, constantly having to correct the straps on top or pull up the skirt. I am sure that soon you will change  beautiful but uncomfortable clothes on the good old bathrobe.

Therefore, the first and most important requirement for home clothes - convenience. Attire must not hamper movements, push, be too narrow. Convenient should be any clothes, but especially home. Another reason that choosing outfits for school and work, we often sacrifice comfort for the sake of beauty. And by the evening are so tired that dream to get home as quickly as possible _ remove all to give yourself a chance to rest. It's like in the commercials where the girl proudly walking down the street in high heels, men looking after her with admiration . But once she crosses the threshold of house , as removes uncomfortable shoes, clothes and put on cute pajamas and slippers.

Second, the important fabric from which made ​​homemade clothes. Pleasant body silk, cotton, satin, flannel, jersey. These materials are soft, warm, breathable, easy to use (easy to wash _ dry quickly). Their only disadvantage is that they are heavily wrinkled. My advice - do not look for clothing made ​​from 100% natural fabric, if clothes will contain small percentage of synthetic additives, things will be less wrinkle.

The third criterion to guide the choice of attire for the home is a pastime in the native walls. How do you spend your leisure time? Are you hosting frequently? What chores are you? For example, a lot of you are cooking. So you need clothes, cut free of the fabric, so it was not hot, with short sleeves. Refill your wardrobe, dress shirt, there will be nothing to interfere with the culinary process. If you're a mom of crumbs that actively learns, then pay attention to the track suit. Obtain to it a couple of t-shirts, and the image is ready! In this dress you can reach to the nearest supermarket,  put garbage until the baby is asleep.

Fifthly, I recommend when choosing a home clothes to give preference to the one which is made in soft colors, so it does not irritate nor you, nor household. Pay attention to the things pale blue, olive, yellow, light pink palette. Do not forget about the accessories. Kit will be brighter if you combine it into a hairpin tone rim.




What to choose?


- Two robes - silk and bath robe. The first is indispensable for the morning toilet, in the second to wrap up so nicely after a bath;

- Jumpsuit. Very universal thing. It is convenient, clean and it is easy to cook in and guests to meet.

- Sweatpants;

- A few T-shirts and shirts-bortsovok. I love T-Shirts with cartoon characters. This print is uplifting;

- Breeches or shorts, depending on the characteristics of the figure;

- Dresses, one lung, another dense, warm for the winter.

Look good at home is very important, especially if you are married. I do not urge you to wear evening dresses and brightly painted, leave it for special occasions. But also do not need to go in the clothes you are ashame to go to street. And in these things we wear more often at home.

Clothing affects our mood. In a beautiful dress even relation to  household chores will be different, they are carried out with great desire. If your wardrobe has no home clothes, buy at least one set. You'll see how you mood will immediately change!  It's so important for a woman - to be beautiful and attractive. And to compliment ones provided!
I wish you in all situations have a flirty look, be well-groomed and elegant!

You are - the star of the party

Even the most timid person can feel at ease in any place and at any time, subject to a number of simple rules and a little pre-preparation - says Leil Lowndes, a recognized expert in the field of psychology, communication, bestselling author of "How to talk to anyone about anything . "

Before the event:

Imagine that all this has been
Consider that your task - to play a major role. So spend a dress rehearsal in advance. Imagine how you pacing (impeccable posture, as if someone pulls you up the rope) as smiling with a warm smile (work-out in front of a mirror), hear how confident you are talking to other people and, most importantly, feel the pleasure of knowing that you - in great shape, and people are drawn to you.

Find your "something"

Do not make potential friends suffer, inventing an excuse to come to you. Carry anything unusual that could be a topic for conversation.

Work on image

Show consideration to the choice of attire. If you think that the "dress sits very personal, especially if you draw the belly and do not turn sideways," it is better to put it aside. Otherwise, the entire party will torment you two questions: "So, whether you're standing," and "Is it enough to strongly pulled abdomen." In such a condition is no place for interesting conversations and enigmatic smiles. Pay special attention to shoes. No doubt, the heels visually lengthen the legs. But in order to have noticed it,you will have to move on them , not to prop up the wall! Meanwhile walk "of the tribe," and not from the hip can ruin any beauty.

Achieve 100% confidence

Allocate sufficient time to become perfect. A person who does not need to worry because the nails are not in the best condition, to brow hands have never reached, one eye somehow made ​​up slightly differently than the second, and underwear too tight bites into the body, it is easier to communicate .

Agree with yourself

In order not to be jealous about liberated ladies, preconceived strategy and tactics of behavior. Tell yourself that you are invited to a party, not your restraint, shyness and embarrassment, so that all these qualities will have to stay home and wait for your return.

If verbal persuasion does not help, create a written order on the same topic. Consider this magical changes that have to happen right at Christmas time.





In the beginning of the party:

Use the method of the "Old Friend"

As a rule, people value not only your words, but also how they are told and the tone you use, in what position you are. To make your cues not contradictory the language of your body, imagine dealing with a stranger, that he - your old friend (old love), with whom you have not seen for a long time. And just today, you each have met again. These pleasant feelings will start a chain reaction throughout your body - from the subconscious softening look to the turn of the body.

Use the method of the "Flowing smile"

Take your time to smile to everyone, as if just received from them a huge amount of money donated. Instead, carefully look into a person's face for a few seconds. Try to feel his personality. And then give him a wide warm smile that flows out of your eyes. Pause, which you stand will convince the person to whom you are smiling that smile of yours is sincere.

During the event:

Avoid one word answers

Your conversation even with the nice man can end, barely begun, if he would have nothing to add to what you say. Try to construct sentences so that the other party also had something to say. For example, the question "Where are you from" answer "from the Southern Butovo" is not enough. Nice to add that such a significant and interesting (not for you, but for someone with whom you speak) is in the area. If a male athlete - advice him to visit a good sports club, a banker tell about the lack of additional offices. Your task - to give him an opportunity to comment on your remark .Then, when he says something clever in response to your bait, will take you to as an excellent conversationalist.

Connect the other guests to the conversation

Engage in the conversation of those who like and am glad to join your circle, but does not know how to do it. People are always drawn to those who are interested in themselves. Imagine that you are shining spotlights around in your power to direct their light - try to make sure that their beams visited all who are close to you.
And, most importantly - remember the effectiveness of a smile. If your goal - meeting with a man, then keep in mind the results of research scientists from the University of Missouri.
Female researcher established visual contact with the guinea men who drank while sitting at the bar in the local nightclubs or drinking establishments. In some cases, the gaze of women scholars that was accompanied by a smile. In other cases, they did not smile. "The highest percentage of attempts to establish contact - 60% - was observed in the case where, among others, non-verbal signs of the present interest, a smile."

Female Archetypes

A woman ... How many works of art dedicated to her as a warrior and heroic deeds being accomplished for her. How many sleepless nights, and poems have been written and sung for us, women.

As soon as you start to think about the intricacies of the universe women are plunged into a kind of a very different atmosphere. The atmosphere of softness, elegance, grace, subtlety and wisdom, deep and old as Earth itself.

The first woman is considered to be  Eve, wife of Adam. But few people know that there was a woman who had seen heaven before Eve - Lilith. The one that was rebellious and untamed, the one that was the exact opposite of the homelike and the meek ​​Eve. Already since the birth of the universe, women are different and each of them had its own particular qualities that give them something quite unusual and rather mysterious. Lilith inherent inflexibility and freedom in all its manifestations, and Eve was designed to create and preserve warmth of the hearth. And each of them has its own way to be beautiful and attractive to the men.

So why all the women are so different? The answer is simple. In fact, there are several archetypes of women, who are present in each of us and manifest themselves in different degrees. By reading this article, you will be able to understand how you prevail in this or that woman and what qualities it gives you.

Woman - The Queen, Empress, Cleopatra, Warrior

Element - air.

The time of year - winter.

Colors: white, black, navy blue, gray.

Stone - sapphire.

Habitats - hills, the tops of the mountains.

Autonomy and independencesuch brave woman and a cold-blooded, confident and free. Queen controls. In her presence, timid men, lost and looking admiringly, catching every word of a woman. If such a woman smiles, it is, above all, confuse present and make a man feel like a timid boy. The Queen commands. She is beautiful and majestic. Next to such a woman man is changing - he becomes King.

Woman - Mistress, Mother, Keeper

Element - Earth.

The time of year - summer.

Colors: green, purple, brown.

Stone - emerald.

Habitats - suburban area, forest clearing.

A woman who knows how to manage and hold in their hands the house, and to inspire a man to keep order and harmony in family life and relationships. A woman who likes to interact with the children and, most importantly, the kids meet her in return. In such womans' home always smells of delicious food, grow lush flowers, and on the couch basking fat cat. This woman is sure of herself, quietly watching the world go by and enjoys the good results of her contributions to the family, relationships, growth and development.



Woman - Princess, Girl, Baby

Element - water.

The time of year - spring.

Color - blue, yellow, pink.

Stone - diamond.

Habitat - the sea, the ocean, any body of water.

We all come from childhood. We were girls and this state remains within us. In someone it less in someone more. The girl needs to exhibit to her care and attention. She is joyful, light, open and trusting. Quickly gives and is easy to lift. Men with joy endows her with gifts and attention. Take care of her, often play the role of father for a girl. It's not a bad thing. These alliances are usually made ​​between a woman and a man who is older than her age or higher social status.

Woman - Lover, Priest, The Witch

Element - fire.

Time of year - autumn.

Color - red, burgundy and gold.

Stone - a ruby.

Habitats - volcanoes, geysers, caves, place the open fire.

The woman - the priestess has the highest sexual energy. She attracts and fascinates with its passionate nature and wild temper. The nature rebellious, freedom-loving and sensual. The clothes are common predatory animal motifs. Such women can use men for many purposes. It is very common that the female lover do not hurry to get married and sometimes have a relationship with multiple partners simultaneously. Excellent command of sexual practices. Liberated in bed and know what men love .

How to wake up your inner woman?

All four types are present in each of us and, as I said earlier, are shown in different aspects of life and with different people. I want to share with you, dear women, meditative technique that will help you determine what kind of woman you are. 

So, sit back, close your eyes and breathe. Deeply and quietly. With each exhalation try to maximize relaxation. Make sure that no foreign sounds can not be interfered with by itself and enjoy the peace and quiet. Feel like other thoughts leave you and have nothing distracting. Imagine for yourself a place where you would be good at the moment. This may be a place where you as a child spent a lot of time or the seashore.
And maybe it will be a blooming meadow, which illuminates the bright sun. 
Stay in this place, enjoy its beauty and the pleasant sensation that it causes you.

Then take a look around. Somewhere nearby a woman should appear to be dressed in beautiful clothes. Neat and noble. Look closely at it, what color her dress, hair, and follow her gestures, watch out for her. It is possible that she will talk to you. Thank her for what she is with you and for the qualities that she gives you. If you lack another state, call the woman whose qualities you need, and reunited with her. Dance, rejoice, talk with your inner woman. When you feel that you are filled with the necessary energy - slowly and quietly back into reality. Stretch yourself, hug yourself and remember you're a woman - and you already is the Goddess.

Every woman is sexy

It is important to take your sexuality and let it reveal. Every woman is sexy. Every man  is sexy no matter what body he has. Sexuality is not associated with the perfectly shaped body and beauty, but it should be felt at the level of energy.

A woman who does not feel the sexual energy is not able to enjoy yourselve, simply because she is - a woman and enjoy life in all its manifestations. In this case, no matter how she might  be appear feminine.

Sexuality can be blocked for various reasons:

- If a woman does not want to attract attention, especially from men. Sexuality is open - men go to this "smell of a woman" (women, too, are pulled). Closed - barely noticed, show slightly or no interest as a woman, natural sexuality expresses in the space of a woman on a female, at her and men react.

- Often sexuality is negative, the bad shade is under the "ban", and with the abundance of information on the subject, most people remain unenlightened state with respect to their natural sexuality.

- Many women are afraid to be sexy because of the ridiculous stereotypes. Like, it's opinion, experience in sex, knowing the 5th, 10th, want to 5 times a day, the image of passion, often causing bright or transparent clothing. Or that you have to be half-naked, revealing some part of the body.

This is stereotypes that shade of vulgarity, which brought the sexual revolution, and are not associated with the natural - the natural sexuality of every person, and the position of the body when one leg is thrown back to the other - not a sexy pose, but rather spoke of the desire to hide their sexuality.

- A lot of violence and control over the female energy. The fear of violence. Quite common is shown on TV, almost continuously, just introducing people to the drama.

Feminine energy humiliated and abused her. This has had an impact on women, which forced them to abandon the lower part of the body, which is their strength. Especially when it came to sexual abuse, emotional trauma associated with it, a woman forced to divert their minds from the lower part of the body and renouncing. This makes it hard to self-awareness and feel grounding.

Natural and free sexuality gives to the woman strength. And gives women confidence in yourself without any training to improve self-esteem, self-love, because The woman begins to feel incredibly attractive regardless of age, prettie eyes.

Just allow yourself to be sexy,acknowledge your sexuality. Say: Yes, I - sexy! Yes, I  give freedom to my sexuality! It is time to regain its power, given by the nature. 

Feel now your sexuality! Feel the body, heart, and mind, so that the latter did not tell you and it will open in your life.