Be a MAN!

Forget about the recent rebellion of feminism - women wearing bags, pay for them at the cafe, open doors for them, protect them, take on their issues.
Maybe you'll understand why all this and why it is are you when the thousandth time you come home, and then all the way comfortable, towelies of yours different colors in the bathroom, and there is  a plate with dinner. Maybe when everything will slip out of the hands - work, business, friends, but she - your good,  will be next to you every day - kissing the hands, curling up at your feet, and laying your head telling you that you are the best. And, maybe, when you see how much health and nerves, she lost while wearing under the heart your child, or when, after hours of 12-16-20 in the throes of childbirthshe will give you an heir.

Be kinder to her.

Stop wag her nerves with your pride, man's logic, strength of character. Call her. Especially when you had a fight, call her. If you only saw her crying bitterly after you threw up, slammed the door. No, not that beautiful she cries, like in the movies shown in the pillow and quietly. She weeps bitterly, wiping tears from ugly, swollen, red face. She can be heard on the street, in a neighboring apartment. She howls in pain, which causes her to you. Call her back, come. Grab her up and take out of this misery, as from a fire in the fire.

Earnestly desire her.

Passionately, violently, furiously. Beat your fists on the wall, stomp the feet, smash everything around. Just never tell her that she is to blame for this. Do not reproach her, do not blame her. Better to let the 'one goat that looked at her "will be  wrong. But it is for you to let remains saint. Believe me, if she wants to change,
she will change, and you will not know. But if you paid attention, she did it on purpose. What would be at least as you showed to her that you are jealous, and thus love, appreciate and are afraid to lose her. Then she hesitated, in herself, in your feelings. Means that she is afraid for your relations.

Tell her more about it. Say that she is your all, that you are in heaven with her.

Let this be in cinematic pretense, so be it. Speak! If all of a sudden her will not be next day. But someday it will not. After all, all of us are not ever.
Life,  is very brief, so unpredictable, can end in an instant. So, if it will not be tomorrow, you will never get the chance to tell her everything. Tell me, dear, tell. Promise does not feel sorry for the promises and do not be afraid to cheat.
She is so happy when hears promises, while dreaming, hoping for something very good. She's so beautiful in that moment, so she's ...
Does not she deserve it? Yes, even if you will leave the day after tomorrow, is not it all worth the fifteen minutes when you were lying holding each other , and dreaming of your beautiful future! Worth it! Every second is worth it! Because there is so little such seconds in our lives .

Things are not what they seem

Two angels stopped for the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was inhospitable and did not want to leave the Angels in the living room, after putting them to sleep in the cold basement. When they were going to sleep older angel saw a hole in the wall and closed it up. When the younger angel saw it, he asked, why?

Senior said, things are not what they seem.

The following night they went to sleep in the house of a very poor, but hospitable man and his wife. The couple shared with the angels little food that they had, and said to the Angels sleep in their beds. The morning after waking angels found the owner and his wife crying. Their cow, whose milk was the only household income, lay dead in the crib. The younger angel asked the elder:

- How could this happen? The first man had everything, and you helped him. Another family had little but was willing to share everything, and you allow their only cow died. Why?

- Things are not what they seem, - older angel replied. - When we were in the basement, I realized that in the wall was a treasure of gold. Its owner was rude and did not want to do good. I repaired the wall so  the treasure was not found. When the next night we slept in the bed,  to his wife came the angel of death. I gave him the cow.

Things are not what they seem. We will never know everything. And even if you have faith, you have  also instill confidence that everything that happens is in your favor. This will understand with time. Some people come into our lives and quickly go, some become our friends, and stay for a minute. Yesterday - is history. Tomorrow - a mystery. Today ...
The present - a gift. Life is magic, and the taste of each moment is unique!


Very often we grieve when something we do not get. Often we blame ourselves in it. Or the case. Or life in general. But I believe that everything that is done is done for the better.

Previously, I believe in another truth: if you want to live, be able to spin. And if something was going wrong, I blamed myself around. Scolded. Punished. Well, as best I could. Do you think that what I want? The result: low self-esteem, self-doubt, and accordingly, in my actions and decisions. Oh, how should I then struggled with this.

Now I am sure everything in life is a lot easier. Yes, for everything that happens to us, we take full responsibility. Just us. Sometimes life throws us and all the "pretzel". But only in order to make us stronger and better.


If we prevail against any disease, we frantically swallow pills without a moment's thought, why do I have, but my closest friend does not. Or  why 5.9 billion people on the planet does not have such the disease ?

Because we all think differently, building on our thoughts, we make any action, and the output is the consequences are not always pleasing to us. So we need to treat not the body but a Soul. Although, since you're already sick with something, then you need to drink a tablet, but do not rely on them. It is necessary to begin the treatment from your thoughts. The disease will go away and never come back. Some authors say that in such waythe cancer can be treated. But still, it is better to prevent disease than to treat it, because when it is already there, people often start to panic, but there is much more difficult to fight.

Or you broken up with your lover. Of course we are shocked. Yes, even in what. Such horror. What to do now? Those who are younger, see the solution to suicide, those who are older, in a glass. Wise can be at any age. If your lover through you, it is only in order to make way to your heart, a worthy partner. Nobody is perfect. The one who left was just not your man. Tell him thank you. Now you have opened the opportunity to meet with your half. Your half never go away. Those who have gone out of your life,  are not your second component, but brought you a lot of useful information. Remember how many beautiful moments you had. And how many lessons you can now bear from it!

What we think, we send into space, the universe (call it what you will), and from there we get the result. The universe does not know the emotions. She gets a vibration that radiates our brains and just doing what they want. Here I also want to insert a little anecdote:

A woman is standing and saying: man is asshole, the drunkard, does not bring the money; the young children are noisy, losers, none of them is sensible. The government only cares about himself,  you bastards. Boss, also a pig, nor "hello" nor "goodbye", but only screams and hisses .....
Behind her are two angels, one is writing something. The second asked him:
- Why does she need all this?

- I do not know. Orders are orders. Write it down!


I will offer you a couple of tricks to help get rid of the blues, spruce will try hard from depression too and away the negative thoughts.


1. There are rubber bands, thin, their money is tied up. They have different colors. Stock up with a dozen such. Put one on hand. Once notice that in my head bad thoughts, click on the eraser on hand. And just think of the good. When you feel that this gum satiated a lot of negativity from you, throw it away, put on another. And so, as long as your subconscious mind does not understand, think is bad - bad is punished.

2. In the morning, opening your eyes, look at  watch. Smile and count three minutes. Think of a good (if  the bad thoughts climb - cut them off with rubber band on your arm.) Smile for three minutes every morning. First, someone it will be difficult, but there is also a matter of time. Get in the habit, and then it will be ease to you .

This is enough, but remember the words of father Thomas. He said:

Just like snakes and scorpions placed for a long time in the vessel, in the end, die, and bad thoughts, disturbing the heart of a hermit, die and disappear if you do not allow them to pass.

The scandal or disease. Give vent to emotions.

Here again you are not happy with his behavior or act. And you know perfectly well that rolled up a tantrum or just starting to clarify the relationship will lead to weekly odds or even complete silence. But resentment or grudge is not going away. They remain in you, and will be looking for a way out. And if, emotional release is not there, you will start get sick. And as hard as you accumulate a lot of negative emotions in yourself.

So what to do? Should you at every opportunity, express to him your "unsatisfaction", moreover, accompanied by screams, tears and snot? What sane man will delayed near a woman who with or without suit scandal. Although certainly there are also fans of extreme sports, and they may just looking for these ladies. But if your partner is is not like it how to behave?

I propose to weigh everything. First, let's understand what will happen to us if all the time to hide their feelings. Any not expressed emotion, without exception, must find a new habitat. And she finds it in your body. Every emotion is always settles in a certain place. Therefore, therapists can knowing your chronic illness, can  paint to you the desises of yourwhole life over the past 10 years. And you can, and most importantly, learn how to work with it. Work - not in terms of going to work, but a plan of ridding yourself of excess cargo.


Let us consider, where do enter our unexpressed emotions. So:

1. Eyes. Here live the emotion of fear.

2. Mouth. People suffering from ailments in this area, often holding back their feelings.

3. Chest. Sometimes it hurts or you can feel heaviness - this suppression of laughter or sadness.

4. Diaphragm - enduring intense of anger or rage.

5. Abdomen - here run away fears of a possible aggression. Did it happens that when you feel an attack from someone's side you have a felling of twisting in your stomach?

6. The pelvis - the suppression of anxiety or anger.

Here they are, these mysterious places, though, and are described briefly. After all, we know how many there diseases. And they are all, without exception, related to our emotions.

And so. Emotion has found a place "where to" and from there begins to drill a hole. The more emotion in this place we send, the more they drill a hole. And what we then? We then go to the doctor and ask for a tablet. And she burst into this hole and will have through the rectum. In general, there is no escape! Upset? Do not be sad. The output, of course, there is.

Let us return to the case of a loved one. To swear or not? Maintain a healthy relationship with a sick bodyor you can vice versa?


Did you know that what you do not like your partner, it is the reflection of what you do not like in yourself. Or, that's what you are missing. Well, for example, take the most common marital unhappiness - festivities. Spouse may be washed down to death out of jealousy of the faithful husband. Why? Because she is, in secret, even to herself, assumes that can go for treason. And the fact of betrayal of her husband is known, and his wife is fighting (!) with this for many years, but did not go away from such unfaithful, then maybe that's the kind of man she needs.  And she eats it, just because of the fact that she for whatever reason, does not betrail him.


All at once will not describe. It's a fine science, and you need to work with certain people. Then you better know what do you want again to trample your lover in the ground. So, the next time, in such a situation, analyze - it brings pleasure to you? I say that because of what you want to create a scandal. The husband did not call or came too late? You meet him with a frying pan. He did not buy milk. Are you looking inundated with a rolling pin. And in the end, it fell reptile home drunk ... No such weapons in your home!
And how do you situation, if it did not? He came at six, as promised on the phone 15 minutes ago. Brought straight from the tin milk and immediately ran out the trash. And when a neighbor offered to drink beer, he kicked him in the ass kicked out of your home. And your partner will do as you wish. And you will not have the slightest reason to  drive yourself some bad emotion.

So what? What could be better? Scandals and happiness, or calm and ... death in one day.

And the best part is that you will choose for themselves. Of course, the quarrel should take place. Even quarreling with broken crockery and torn curtains. Only the children had not seen or heard of. This will help you to get rid of not only the mutual resentments and misunderstandings, but also throw off the burden of working everyday. But it should not be offensive to him or you. Had a fight - and then kisse. Interestingly, when a pair of scandals,has discredits, not blowing lips, the relationship growing. And if they said to each other two offensive words and went to sleep in different rooms, it lasts a few weeks, these relations smell like exclusion.

Swear sometimes. Once every two weeks. And all the other days of learning to understand yourself and your partner. Sometimes it is only just to say, you know, I'm sorry, when you go out with friends without me. Perhaps he thinks that you are bored in their company, so you do not pull back. And it never occurred to him, then why you are yelling at him?


A struggle against the accumulated emotions can be carried out independently. Do yoga or exercise, it helps, but not always relieve. You can go into the woods, and scream that negativity to nowhere. You can laminate the attraction, after which you will not remember your name for a long time, too, will remove stagnation. And even an ordinary change of scenery - is treated.

And that emotions do not accumulate, you need to solve the situation immediately. He came too late, but you boil. Tell him you're angry and walk away. And then themselves sit down and analyze - why you are angry. Because you can not do so yourself or because it does not take into account your interests? And find the answers to your questions , and tell him the result. Male appreciate your understanding. More often smile to him.

To live in harmony with each other is a big science. But only mastered its intricacies, we can learn to live in harmony with other people around us.