How to "grow" out of husband a millionaire

1. Believe in husband

Sincerely and with all your heart. Forget for ever that "your husband stuffed pears". Of course, sometimes it is very difficult to transcend yourself - during the marriage accumulated grievances, and generally

But unconditional love  the husband and belief in him - the most important step towards turning him into a millionaire.

2. Praise husband

Yes, not only women love with their ears, but all males too. Admire the husband, be favorable to him. The secret of this method - in influencing the subconscious

The spouse will strive to overcome the greater height and prove himself to you and to be able to achieve any purpose. Thus, you, by the way, will develop his self-confidence.

3. Stimulate his growth

How is it done? In a female way very simply: "Darling, I want a new coat, and then the old view is quite lost. Yes, it is true. I understand that we can not afford it now. You are working and you try. You're such a good fellow "

In this form, please request looks very well, and in any case no pressure on the psyche. And the likelihood that your husband "suddenly" will earn money for the new coat is very

4. Do not cut him "for nothing"

Yes, the socket is still "on the nozzle" is kept, and the husband is an electrical lead is not even an eyebrow. The paradox of "shoemaker without shoes" is now observed in many families, and strongly influences the "atmospheric pressure". Remind him of it gently, but do not push. All the same, he will sooner or later . Husband just got used to that you will wave his hand and make everything yourselves invoke the wizard for example

So, if you learn to look at his the mess through your fingers, he realizes that it was his job. And without him it is not done - in any way. In order to turn into a millionaire husband must instill in him a sense of responsibility, and instilled it just on the basis of these "little things"

5. Develop his talents

You have so much time together, and you know your Blessed like the five fingers. What does he know best? Where does he feel like a fish in water? Push him, help to expand the knowledge and skills. Of course, for a little bit and unobtrusively.

The theory of savings or how to love yourself

Many women often indulge in many things. In the expensive cosmetics, in manicure, a spa salons, or even easierin the new winter shoes or extra pair of underwear. There is a contrast, another type of women who do not save on itself absolutely. And what they can spend on myself . Who's right, from these two types of ladies?
Once, in a conversation my friend said the following sentence: "When I smoke expensive cigarettes, I have things go well, the profits itself swims in hand. When the class of cigarettes goes down as slowly and sluggishly go my business."

I thought about it. About the point of psychology. If this friend of mine dose not smoked but ate chocolate, his words were the same, only the word "cigarette" would be replaced with the word "chocolate".


I do not know about you, but for some time I ever scrimped on myself. And that felt like something between the homeless and the poor. Then of course I did not know what makes me a vision of myself. And then, my mother once told me: "Never save on yourself, because then you will go all your life in tatters."

And I abruptly changed my attitude to the economy. I really went to the store and bought a perfume that cost forty times more than before I was able to spend over a month. Wow! I'll tell you how strongly I flew in my own eyes. I felt expensive. Even though I did not go on the red carpet at the Cannes festival, but felt like it was so.

After I thought about it. I already had that to compare, and I realized you can save money on yourself, but with the mind. If my salary is about 5000 UAH I certainly can not spend over 4000. And if you subtract the bills, pay for food, etc., what would be left? Only money on travel. And yet, every month, you need somewhere to buy something, but please yourself. Every economist himself, and everyone is aware of how much money he has, and how much he can spend. But the calculations for embezzlement, must necessarily be a column "for personal use".

How does it work?

When we allow ourselves to get what we need to improve self-esteem, we begin to grow in our own eyes. We begin to feel more important, loved, popular. A, respectively, and for others we become such. This affects our communication with people. If you've been notorious, thanks to its purchase (things or servants, does not matter) your systems are aligned and gradually become invisible. Therefore, communicating, you begin to open up more, smile more, and that attracts people to you. As rapidly growing fast and your career. Although, by whom and where you work, your business will succeed.

One model, once said: "The big money is easy to earn, and small - hard." She said this with confidence, because once she was poor, and worked as a waitress for a pittance. And over time, become famous and rich.

There is a theory that says that in order to achieve something, you must now experience a sense of joy from what has been achieved desired. Simply put, start today to rejoice over the fact that you have a million that you are the most charming that your children are the most talented, etc. It's not all seem a simple task, because not all girls know how to be the most beautiful. Not all men will be able to experience sensations owner of an expensive car. And out of this situation is the easy way out. We all probably ever got in a beautiful salon car, or someone told us, how do we enchanting. It is necessary to remember these feelings and experiences. Remember and be able to bring them into the present. Learn to enjoy what is not, but really want to. This creates a power of attraction and thereby becomes valid desired.

I'm not saying thatyou should live only in dreams Of course, the need to continue work towards achieving your dreams. But not always the answer comes to us it.

It is important to remember that there are such things as our psychological jams. Day after day, someone sits down and rides the subway to work. And every day, he sees the sick and the poor, who are held there. A luxury and a decent life, he sees only in passing expensive and upmarket shops, hotels and clubs. This is the effect of habituation. He was used to his social place, and even if he does not like, he does not move.


In order to change this, change and familiar way. Not always, but sometimes go to work by taxi. Of course, it is much more expensive, but it "catches up to you are important." Not always, but sometimes, it is necessary to do an expensive gift. It also helps you to feel like a king or queen. Let all your things will be a second-hand, but one is Versace.

It is important that climbing to the ladder of success should be gradual. Let us again take the example of machines. If you have a lifetime rode the subway and suddenly boarded a limousine, you will overcome the confusion rather than joy for their achievements. Because it is important to go through all the stages of recovery: Metro - bus-taxi - his first car - a road car.

So, we can summarize that saving on itself but with the mind. Of course, on the way to the top you are waiting many pitfalls, which will be known only to you. And I did not say anything about them just because everyone has their peaks. And their obstacles on the way. But do not be afraid of it. It's like riding a bike. How many times to fall, then to boldly go? And in life we fall down, but get up and move on, gaining experience and becoming only more intelligent. But let bygones be bygones......

Unreal reality

Over the past decade, scientists have come to the conclusion that the universe is a kind of unfathomable clean energy, which has its own awareness. In Christianity, it is called by God (with different names), in the Muslim world - by Allah in the East - the Truth. Scientists call it the physical vacuum. There are other names. But no matter how this Something is called - it's just different metaphors, different ways of talking about one and the same. This source of all things, the force uniting everyone and everything in the world and is the basis of life. Magicians and sorcerers were known, and now this is the official science knows that this mysterious energy is amenable to human intentions. That is our very expectation of something starts to work on other energy systems and build the event in line with our expectation. Consequently, the one source of all things, the same Force that shapes our destiny is located in us.

But it's been known since ancient times. In the Slavic-Aryan Vedas says, "Getting to Know the World Reveal around us, we will sooner or later come to a clear understanding the fact that we know ourselvesbecause our existence in the World Reveal is an integral part of us." And the Bible says, "Do not seek the kingdom of God in the heavens or in the earth paradise, it is within each of us." A sign at the famous temple has existed for several centuries, says: "Know thyself." In Zen Buddhism, there is a great saying: "If a man is looking for the truth about himself, he tramples down what he is looking."

So why do people remained deaf to ancient wisdom and modern scientists to conclusions? How it happens that, when faced with the same World, different people perceive it such in different ways? And the reason is again the man himself. In his attitude to what he perceives. It turns out that when dealing with unimaginable, rich and complex reality, people are coming to the creation of a wretched model of the world, which is causing them pain and suffering.


People communicate with the surrounding reality, at least at two levels: the conscious and the subconscious. Consciously, we are dealing with a model of the world, not with the actual world. While the subconscious mind perceives reality as it is.

Our subconscious mind, under the relevant regulations ahead of us builds our world (or rather - small world), protects us from the chaos of the universe, selecting for us to perceive only what it considers necessary and safe, thereby fulfilling for us creative and protective functions. It is our mind does not allow us to go beyond the boundaries of the created world. He is constantly coming up with different shifts, often using fear to convince us that that illusion, which he presents to us, and there is Reality itself.


Everyone lives in his own world and creates its own unique world. Every one of us from birth under the influence of parents, adults, teachers, the environment constructs its reality, its world. If you have children, you remember how you impose them your description of the world, and explained them what is bad, and that - is good, what can be done and what can not. The same is done with them, grandparents, teachers and other adults.

As a result, your child has formed his Description of the world that is in some ways similar and in some respects different from yours. And your parents do to you as well. And all the people involved in this process. And you can not say it's good or bad, that we are taught from childhood to perceive reality in some special, "human" way. This process is absolutely necessary in view of the fact that, being involved in it, we feel calmer. But we are so involved in doing this that we forget one obvious truth: between Reality itself and our world there is a huge difference.

There is another paradox: we do live in Reality and  unconsciously perceive it as such as it is - as something wonderful, incomprehensible, unknowable, but realize only  just a model of Reality, the creation of which we spend our whole life and energy. But first we make some conclusions.

So:

The Universe (Reality, Validity, God, the World) is the unfathomable power, energy, possessing knowledge;

Human awareness is the only part of the Universe, the Divine Consciousness;

The world is incomprehensible and mysterious, and the person has to relate to the world and to himself as a mystery;

Our subconscious mind creates a model of the world in which lives our consciousness. In other words, our consciousness is in the role of observer and evaluator of the events that   our subconscious provide .