You would think that in the choice of your path you are free from any kind dependencies. That you are freestyle bird and fly wherever you want, do what you want, think about what you want, and say what you want. Yes, yes, of course! That's right! Only in this way is only in your imagination, because you like to think so. In fact, every person is enmeshed in strong network of a variety of relationships: the moral, physical, physiological, psychological, emotional - mass sometimes not even recognized them as such. Because we are using them from childhood.
We are often completely enslaves public opinion and the burden of stereotypes, their own misconceptions and expectations that model of life that we once drew for ourselves once and for all, and follow it religiously.
We used to live in a strange tale, which selected for our life as a benchmark trying to play the unusual role and make completely foreign acts.
Well, for example, the role of a guy like Prince, and he is actively into this role and the suit itself selects and adjusts the expression, respectively, and the princess looks. Well, or at least a frog, but always be magical to know how a princess in which case quickly reincarnated. After all, as they, the women, kicked off the frog's skin, and forward, arms swinging right and left eyes and shoot him, prince, seducing the full program on the right path and teach.
Came up, he came up with, but not pulling the poor guy as much as the role of the Prince in any way. And our "prince" looks like as ogre. By theprofile and vocabulary. Princess Give to him! No, better a queen!
A princess who dreams of being in the white stone houses with tiled sparkling pool and garden outside the villa, too, imagine messed up fairy tales. And actively learning the role of Snow White , although her brain convolutions are exclusively engaged in the study of hunting areas and rules of the "pickup" of the planned object.
But in principle, Both other people, in general, quite good. Each in its own way. Just do not play their games. And maybe in their only on foreign soil. And when you're in a foreign field, that you seem to be bumps and hills and pits - chasms, and in general the climate is not suitable. Because you're from the North that is ...
Simply put, not getting something. It seems everything is the way you came up, and the legs of the nedded length, and eyes have the color you want, and even voice, smoky with a husky. And, imagine, even a house, but without the pool, but on the beach. And everything else is almost convergent. But it dosen't give you warm, NOT AT ALL!
But why? Because it is not your's! Because you invented all about what you really need, and the very person of yours missed, overlooked, passed by, blurry your own eyes with unrealistic expectations. Then suddenly recalls ...
But too late. You're already playing this tale "fortissimo" in full, go to church, you married the father, forced to kiss the cross. All forever linked by a single network of mutual obligations, dependencies, expectations and disappointments.
"What can we do to that?" - Yelling your inner voice that finally cut through, when drugged brain cleared and tuned in to your real needs.
But do nothing. Live!
Try to live in "your" fairy tale itself and with those characters, which you have! Better late than never! And what happens! suddenly you really wake upSnow White , dropping past mistakes and misconceptions. And in your instead of orge you will attain the Prince. Who knows! In life everything is mixed.
Well, if you have not "got into trouble," that is not found your fairy-tale characters, do not rush to paint himself the image of his lover's hard, based on the words of mother and grandmother, a neighbor on a staircase or friends. They have their own way, and their "princess", and you have your own. But to understand them, to recognize, to feel and "articulate" for yourself you will be able only when you will dismantled in your "inside world".
STUDY YOURSELF! What you like (not because everybody likes, but because you like it), what is your soul, with whom to you pleasant,dressed immaculately, knowing five languages, and do not be silent for a moment, self-sufficient, or simply a snob and a shy bespectacled, cute, embarrassed and do not hide your weaknesses.
To each their own! Understand this simple worldly wisdom, and Do not look at foreign princes. Occupying someone else's place, one can never be truly happy. Whatever the castles of your dreams he has surrounded himself not. Perhaps this is the most difficult thing in the world, to understand yourself through. But it's worth it! Because it can minimize the amount of unfulfilled expectations that did not materialize, as a rule, lower us to the dark depths of internal frustration, doubt and despair.
What for?
That we learn to accept yourself and your life in the version that is available to us at the moment as the most suitable, because it corresponds with our needs, and our nature, and spiritual impulses, and level of development.
To live in the fairy tale - a pleasure!
You may ask: "How to understand your or not? What if you're wrong? Do not play hide and seek with you in your clever brain? "
Yes, the truth is that he is able to get up to us such things, it is amazing! And if you do not give take the trouble to figure out how he brings to you a wraith and do not learn how to put it into place, you will be doomed for life and live in a strange tale.
There is one universal way to check "your" or is not "yours", to identify yourself with yourself, that bring into full compliance with your internal needs and external displays, balancing all the "pros" and "cons."
This process consists of a complete stop, knocked out of the mind and the inclusion of the heart, the soul, feeling, intuition. Many people have no idea what a powerful force has their soul, who is able to read the information on a thin invisible plane. To them all this chatter seems sheer nonsense.
But even in extreme moments of their life, outside comes the most important things, they can feel the power of the inner prompter. And to say, "Yes, there is something there!"
If you find it hard to trust intuition, if you feel a vague uncertainty, and you're afraid to make a mistake, advise with reality. And the reality will prompt you to correct guesses in the most concrete and specific way.
What we do with pleasure, with joy, that responds to the most important and warm inside of us, what we do and satisfying. This is the most it! Do not discard it as useless. Holite it and cherish, multiply, increase, reinforces this feeling.
And then you feel the same call of the heart, which intuity know better than on logical calculations of consciousness.
Listen to it and follow it, this call, and then you finally will find your story, will not take someone else's place and become happy!
We are often completely enslaves public opinion and the burden of stereotypes, their own misconceptions and expectations that model of life that we once drew for ourselves once and for all, and follow it religiously.
We used to live in a strange tale, which selected for our life as a benchmark trying to play the unusual role and make completely foreign acts.
Well, for example, the role of a guy like Prince, and he is actively into this role and the suit itself selects and adjusts the expression, respectively, and the princess looks. Well, or at least a frog, but always be magical to know how a princess in which case quickly reincarnated. After all, as they, the women, kicked off the frog's skin, and forward, arms swinging right and left eyes and shoot him, prince, seducing the full program on the right path and teach.
Came up, he came up with, but not pulling the poor guy as much as the role of the Prince in any way. And our "prince" looks like as ogre. By theprofile and vocabulary. Princess Give to him! No, better a queen!
A princess who dreams of being in the white stone houses with tiled sparkling pool and garden outside the villa, too, imagine messed up fairy tales. And actively learning the role of Snow White , although her brain convolutions are exclusively engaged in the study of hunting areas and rules of the "pickup" of the planned object.
But in principle, Both other people, in general, quite good. Each in its own way. Just do not play their games. And maybe in their only on foreign soil. And when you're in a foreign field, that you seem to be bumps and hills and pits - chasms, and in general the climate is not suitable. Because you're from the North that is ...
Simply put, not getting something. It seems everything is the way you came up, and the legs of the nedded length, and eyes have the color you want, and even voice, smoky with a husky. And, imagine, even a house, but without the pool, but on the beach. And everything else is almost convergent. But it dosen't give you warm, NOT AT ALL!
But why? Because it is not your's! Because you invented all about what you really need, and the very person of yours missed, overlooked, passed by, blurry your own eyes with unrealistic expectations. Then suddenly recalls ...
But too late. You're already playing this tale "fortissimo" in full, go to church, you married the father, forced to kiss the cross. All forever linked by a single network of mutual obligations, dependencies, expectations and disappointments.
"What can we do to that?" - Yelling your inner voice that finally cut through, when drugged brain cleared and tuned in to your real needs.
But do nothing. Live!
Try to live in "your" fairy tale itself and with those characters, which you have! Better late than never! And what happens! suddenly you really wake upSnow White , dropping past mistakes and misconceptions. And in your instead of orge you will attain the Prince. Who knows! In life everything is mixed.
Well, if you have not "got into trouble," that is not found your fairy-tale characters, do not rush to paint himself the image of his lover's hard, based on the words of mother and grandmother, a neighbor on a staircase or friends. They have their own way, and their "princess", and you have your own. But to understand them, to recognize, to feel and "articulate" for yourself you will be able only when you will dismantled in your "inside world".
STUDY YOURSELF! What you like (not because everybody likes, but because you like it), what is your soul, with whom to you pleasant,dressed immaculately, knowing five languages, and do not be silent for a moment, self-sufficient, or simply a snob and a shy bespectacled, cute, embarrassed and do not hide your weaknesses.
To each their own! Understand this simple worldly wisdom, and Do not look at foreign princes. Occupying someone else's place, one can never be truly happy. Whatever the castles of your dreams he has surrounded himself not. Perhaps this is the most difficult thing in the world, to understand yourself through. But it's worth it! Because it can minimize the amount of unfulfilled expectations that did not materialize, as a rule, lower us to the dark depths of internal frustration, doubt and despair.
What for?
That we learn to accept yourself and your life in the version that is available to us at the moment as the most suitable, because it corresponds with our needs, and our nature, and spiritual impulses, and level of development.
To live in the fairy tale - a pleasure!
You may ask: "How to understand your or not? What if you're wrong? Do not play hide and seek with you in your clever brain? "
Yes, the truth is that he is able to get up to us such things, it is amazing! And if you do not give take the trouble to figure out how he brings to you a wraith and do not learn how to put it into place, you will be doomed for life and live in a strange tale.
There is one universal way to check "your" or is not "yours", to identify yourself with yourself, that bring into full compliance with your internal needs and external displays, balancing all the "pros" and "cons."
This process consists of a complete stop, knocked out of the mind and the inclusion of the heart, the soul, feeling, intuition. Many people have no idea what a powerful force has their soul, who is able to read the information on a thin invisible plane. To them all this chatter seems sheer nonsense.
But even in extreme moments of their life, outside comes the most important things, they can feel the power of the inner prompter. And to say, "Yes, there is something there!"
If you find it hard to trust intuition, if you feel a vague uncertainty, and you're afraid to make a mistake, advise with reality. And the reality will prompt you to correct guesses in the most concrete and specific way.
What we do with pleasure, with joy, that responds to the most important and warm inside of us, what we do and satisfying. This is the most it! Do not discard it as useless. Holite it and cherish, multiply, increase, reinforces this feeling.
And then you feel the same call of the heart, which intuity know better than on logical calculations of consciousness.
Listen to it and follow it, this call, and then you finally will find your story, will not take someone else's place and become happy!
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