The successful and free: how to be a loner

Many people think that "loner" and "lonely" - is synonymous. But is it really?

Yes, at times it may be true - who of us from time to time is not sobbing into a pillow at the thought that He only perhaps have already came - and gone?

Smug news from happily married friends, too, can be a source of stress and self-doubt. But in both cases it is important to remember that:

1. Your friends will show the public only public mask - that is the most positive aspects of their relationship.
2. It does not matter what they say about the inextinguishable sex: they still have to watch him floss, and maybe even let gases continuously.
3. Life in a pair - not vaccinated against loneliness: remember, you were just lonely  with a former boyfriend?
4. Feelings - a passing thing. Sometimes I also think that tomorrow morning, wake up a little kitten would be great, but it passes.

Five rules of success

• Support other women, regardless of the status of your relationship

Women are the toughest critics of other women. Do you condemn, in silence, style of your colleagues, curve a sly lips over her choice of food, not to mention a boyfriend? Stop doing it, damn it! Nobody makes it no better, least of all - your self-esteem: so if you're secretly judging others, you begin to suspect paranoid that they condemn you, too. So, with regard to women in your life - be a good friend when they heartbroken, and be able to genuinely rejoice when they meet the beautiful people.Critic aside: in general, when we criticize each other, we are projecting onto others our own insecurities. The next time you catch yourself on this, pause and think for a moment do you judge by yourself? Would you be angry  if someone told you the same thing? That's where the food for thought is ...

• Do not let the bastards upset yourself

Unfortunately, it's a fact of life that you can not change: people are tactless and pry into other people's business. Modern alone people face a lot more to learn how to behave in such interactions than willing to make them disappear. From time to time some idiot friendly will ask you when you think "to settle down." Do not take this as an excuse to hide in the closet or roll up the scandal. You're too good for that.

Battle cry of Singles - Independence: romantic,
 intellectual, financial, dressing room

• Conduct business and have an active life

Have a lot of cases. Meet people. Engage in fun, exciting activities. Love your work. Never puncture a hole in your life in the form of the male silhouette, then to spend the time, eagerly peering into it. To all those for whom you need to worry, do not care, with how many people you show up in public. If you are unable to go to the toilet without being accompanied by a squadron of support , guarding your every move, now is the time to break the habit . Go to the movies, be engaged in some activity, dine out at home ... alone. Go on vacation - solo. If you ever thought deep down that no one gets involved in a relationship (or supports) simply because they can not tolerate being alone (or, even worse, you're accused of this) - then this is especially important.

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• Be independent, both emotionally and financially

There is a stereotype that does not want to die - stereotype hunter for money. So, even though the image accompanying this sentence is laughable (Gucci, bling, five-inch heels, a tan from the "Tango"), the reality is much more pervasive and subtle. Hoping to go to half-time, when zavedesh family? Uh ... but you can ask who will pay for it? You think you're supposed to equal share in the ownership of any future home, even if your husband earns more? Again, think again about the subtext: equality otnosheniy.To, you're a woman - not a good reason to expect that other people will provide you. If someone offers to help - accept it with gratitude. But do not treat her for granted, laid you on the right. It's great to feel loved and adored. Much less cool - to create the impression ungrateful when people really did love you and adore.

Emotional independence is running on the same level. Any of this shit, "you  complete me" - what's that? Many women seem to consider perfectly acceptable to postpone their own happiness to the moment when we'll see the Prince Charming (and then fall into a stupor when he looks around, assess opportunities and dumps in an unknown direction.) Well, what do you want! Did you experience that you could drive to the man who would take you by the hand and began to look into the eyes and sincerely-confidential report that the meeting with you - the happiness that he had always dreamed of? No, damn it! This is a one-way ticket to the city Stalkervill.

• Be honest

Ability, which is quite a lot of women do well - is the suppression of their feelings in order to give pleasure to other people. It is not only harmful - it is irritating. You may think that you are calm, unruffled and control yourself - when, to be honest, you act awkward and insincere. So it is critically important to be as honest as you can. But not to the point, you know, when it becomes rudeness. Honestly determine what you feel, and said aloud boundaries of behavior that you expecte from others, but do not tell that person all through  is bad and wrong.

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Fatal woman

Fatal woman (Fr. la femme fatale) - common in literature and film image of a sexy woman who manipulates men by flirting. She is not always the one whom she claims to be in the beginning.

I am sure that every woman, at least once in a lifetime "tries on" the image of a woman - the vamp. After all, the image of the fatal, passionate, impregnable and at the same time enticing and mysterious woman drives men crazy. Do not see such woman impossible. It is always a strong and conflicting emotions: men love her  passionately, madly or hate, but indifference is no place to be here.


One of the secrets of the "femme fatale" in the fact that they know exactly one simple rule:   fullness, crooked legs and a big nose do not make us ugly! And our sense of insecurity that comes from awareness of their own "inferiority." It makes no sense to get angry and offended by the fate of the whole wide world: it makes us closed, vulnerable, spiteful and resentful. 

A woman with such qualities is unlikely to attract someone's attention, and the exterior has nothing to do with it. This woman knows well: her shortcomings may like nothing less than the dignity of her, and sometimes more. 

Another secret of the "femme fatale" is that it is up to the subtleties know (or feel) the male psychology. When dealing with any man she uses (not always consciously!) one and the same scheme consistes of only four steps. It's really scheme, because its content - especially individual and creative.

Step one: "You are such an extraordinary".

Step two: "Why is no one besides me, does not notice it?".

Step Three: "If you want, I will help you get better?".

Step Four: "And now look how I am extraordinary".

Very unpretentious-looking pattern, but in all ages on any man she acted perfectly. It is only necessary to competently and without hypocrisy to use it. 

Moreover she is not a man-hater, sometimes it seems that she herself-that is not fully conscious of her strength, so easy and natural this woman behaves. And why, exactly - "fatal"? Because even a fleeting meeting with her man will remember as something very important for him personally ... Maybe it will be right to call it a "real woman"? What is her secret? And what is it - an innate quality or skill acquired consciously? Is it possible to become a "femme fatale"? As one classic said, the "femme fatale - it's a profession." A profession can and should learn.

The image of "vamp" choose for themselves decisive, confident in their own beauty, irresistibility and sexuality women, such as Renata Litvinova, Monica Bellucci, Nina Dobrev,Beyonce, Angelina Jolie and others.

Manner of a woman - vamp

Manner of the women - vamp wear a light shade of negligence. Vanity and concern are alien to her . She is confident in herself and it is not possible to embarrass her. The woman - a vamp is laconic, but what she says always makes sense.  Her movements are smooth, graceful, confidentt, but not impetuous. Such woman can be compared with a panther which came out on hunting, her beauty and grace border with danger.

Style

Vamp style in clothes - is primarily a contrast throughout. Clothing should attract attention and arouse interest in others. In this case, the brightness and sexuality bordered with exquisite taste and irresistible appearance. All clothes are beautiful, harmonious and sexy, but not in any way vulgar.

Preference should be given to close-fitting and form-fitting silhouettes. Clothing should be possible to emphasize the dignity of the figure - beautiful breasts, beautiful shoulders, arms or legs, at the same time hiding the tiniest flaws. Be sure to emphasize the slim waist, using wide belts or narrow bright belt.





Tissues

Clothes should always be thin, form-fitting fabrics such as satin, silk, jersey, thin skin, the clothes which better underlined curves of the female body.

Colours

It is very important that the clothes had a bright but natural colors - black, maroon, bright red, scarlet, dazzling white. Out of prints are best suited for the style leopard, tiger, under the skin of reptiles.

Lingerie

It is important that women underwear, preferring style vamp, was luxurious, lacy and expensive. This gives confidence in her irresistibility. Black stockings and push-up bra is also attached to the image of sexuality, as well as a top slimming corset and transparent blouse demonstrate the impudence and aggressiveness.










Option wardrobe:

1. Fitting dress to the ankles with a deep neckline or a high side slit, or completely closed, but showing beautiful hands and shoulders;
2. Short-fitting dress from the sparkling fabric;
3. Complete sets of red and black lacy lingerie;
4. Top as a slimming corset and transparent blouse. It is obligatory to blouse long narrow straight skirt with a slit up to the mid-thigh;
5. Tight-fitting trousers made ​​of satin fabric.
6. Tight-fitting trouser suit.

Accessories

Accessories do not complement the style vamp, but seduce. Long gloves, developing a chiffon scarf, luxurious and elegant jewelery with precious stones or sequins, small elegant and refined handbag clutches.

Shoes

Shoes - an extraordinary and elegant. It is best to opt for a light and open sandals or shoes at a high and thin heels. Speaking of boots, high heels and a perfect fit by foot binding. Avoid unnecessary cumbersome details and bagginess.

Make-up

Doing make-up style vamp main emphasis should be on the eyes and lips. The eyes are enclosed in a black outline with a pencil, and the line should go as far as possible for the external borders of the century. In return for lips should be used a bright and vivid colors of lipstick with gloss. Best fit red, dark red, burgundy or maroon. Another important point. The girl-vamp manicure must exactly match the lipstick. Required and pedicure, which should be perfect.

Hairstyle

Despite the fact that the woman - vamp majority with the dark-haired beauty, if you have light hair, it does not mean that you can not play the role of the fatal temptress. Simply provide the proper care of your hair so that they can serve as worthy of framing the face.

To create a hair style vamp is quite suitable as long hair and hairstyle - quads. Can be curled strands, leaving them loose, or collect hair in a pony.

Dominatrix-style is cocky and bright, sexy, like the woman herself, preferring this image. If you like it - feel free to choose it!

Plus of each age

As a child, you always happily was waiting for her birthday! However, there comes a time when on your birthday you do not want to have fun, invite friends and throw a party, because you became another year older. Do not worry. 

Of course, the time rob us of our youthful charm, but instead gives invaluable experience. Moreover, opening up new horizons, new opportunities, one is better than another!

20 years

Body. At the young girl is smooth and elastic skin, there is no hint of wrinkles, and furthermore on the extra pounds. Your body listens to you, and such reaction can be envied. As a young woman you can do anything - a dizzying slopes on a snowboard, crazy rides, Latin American dancing, skating, riding on roller skates. You can choose whatever your heart desires.


Memory. All of the new knowledge you absorbs ka sponge. But little logic in the actions, and the attention is distracted. For example, instead of to preparing and studying the French language, you have no qualms to arrange a party with friends or going to the last show in the movies.

The psyche. In your head heaps all sorts of plans, thoughts and ideas, and energy to spare. Today you have decided to sign up with a friend in the solarium, and tomorrow you travel to Tibet ... You can easily make a new acquaintance, very quickly fall in love with you liked guy. However, at your age you can get burned!


Love. Sure, you can fall in love to madness, here you have everything spontaneous and chaotic. You dream about the ideal relationship with romance, passion, gifts and of course, you want him to wear you in arms, in general, everything that you see in movies about love. But you should know that usually life is not so rosy. You both want everything to be good, but there is practically no experience yet, and you can not tolerate, so every minute quarrel because of all the rubbish.

Sex. At this age, you probably are not making love in order to someone fascinate, surprise or pleasure - you play in curiosity. You do not know how to get a real pleasure, and you do not know what it is. Very often, you remain dissatisfied, but you probably would have changed your attitude to sex if your partner was not contemporary, but a man that has already an experience.

30 years


Body. The facial skin is no longer such "fresh". Get plenty of it moisturizes, and before going to sleep under the eyes, always apply a nourishing cream special. If you notice that you start to gain weight, then do not wait another minute, come eat so much and loans themselves, fight wrinkles, cellulite because it creeps up quietly, and then settles permanently on the buttocks. Try to move more, because the metabolic processes in the body are not as intense as it was ten years ago. However, despite these changes, thirty years -  is the golden time. After all, you're just as good and keep the shape.

Memory. You have already graduated, in fact, has gone further courses - sewing, English lessons, mastering the personal computer, driving a car. You also perceive information and you can appreciate that you can try in practice everything you know. The only thing that's stopping you - your responsibilities are countless, and the thought of children, family and career.

The psyche. Not all the plans you are able to carry out some old friends dropped out, and they has no place in your life. But now you know your strengths and weaknesses, and they skillfully using . Now you understand that the most important thing in your life: friends, faithful companion on whom you can rely on.

Love. You not once heart broken, you're experiencing frustration, so already know well what kind of fruit is - a man and what you can expect from him. You more than anything want long lasting relationship that will be based on respect and mutual understanding. Moreover, if you have not done that already know and feel that it is time to have a baby.


Sex. You already know what a real passion. You already have a regular partner or husband, with whom you're constantly looking for new sensations and experiment are improving your skills in the art of love. You now know what an orgasm is and you know how to get it, in fact, has become a very skillful and irreplaceable lover.

40 years

Body. You first wrinkles on the face, and age has become the main theme for reflectionyou increasingly began to think about it. Purchase a good, quality cosmetics, do not regret the money. Do not forget that even if you have a very good flawless skin, something about it still need to take care of, because you can not, without doing anything, then continue to look for thirty years. Remember your hands, upper chest neck, they also require care. Do not worry about the fact that you are not so quick to move around, but you are able to tolerate, you're hardy.

Memory. You start to notice that the memory fades, any knowledge difficult to hold in your head? This is not the case. Now you just need more time to learn the material, you need to concentrate and focus, moreover, now you need perseverance to achieve your goals the ability to properly manage your time.

The psyche. You can now realistically assess your strengths and abilities, easily define the ability  of others. You can anticipate the changes that are sure to happen in your life, so you analyze the pros and cons. But right now in your life was not enough spontaneity and immediacy. Before making any decision you think a hundred times hesitating for a long time, because of that missing the a lot of chances and opportunities.

Love. You know all its advantages, try to behave with men, whether it is a spouse or a friend. You can clearly explain your problem. But it is not worth much to get hung up on the kids or work. In order to love, you need to constantly take care of themselves.


Sex. Well, here you are at the top of your capabilities! You can do anything, and  know how to have fun dostavlyaet it to the man. Teens are not rival to you, not in love affairs, nor in temperament. However, you still dream to sink into the arms of a tireless young lover.

50 years

Body. The skin is thin and dry, like an oak leaf in late autumn. Do not stop to take care of her in the evening and in the morning. You possess a very high resistance and endurance, so you can safely overcome the marathon, you need only to want. You can manage your time raskhoduesh forces wisely.

Memory. Now you have more time to spend with the benefit of yourselves, can make sense to think about the development of some crafts? After all, even the scientists say that only 40% percent of people stop learning at the age of 25 years, and others continue to study only after survive the crisis of middle age. So you still able to great lengths!

The psyche. You have to learn to spend energy only as needed, has learned to control yourself. You can clearly set a goal and achieves it safely. At your age you can easily talk to a stranger, easy to make new friends, and it's true, after all, love and friendship for all ages!

Love. The most interesting - you have not lost interest in men. And now you're interested in and attracts adventurous relationship. You look back to your youth. But now you love is otherwise. Now you again have no worries, and time belongs only to you. Do not miss this moment, enjoy!

Sex. You have access to all the delights of sex. You are free to make love as much as your heart desires. And some discomfort and dryness of the vagina - this is easily remedied, take advantage of intimate gel, it will deal with this problem. Plus there will be no oral sex. Try it! It is not necessary to build a barrier in your head, live and enjoy every moment.

Female Archetypes

A woman ... How many works of art dedicated to her as a warrior and heroic deeds being accomplished for her. How many sleepless nights, and poems have been written and sung for us, women.

As soon as you start to think about the intricacies of the universe women are plunged into a kind of a very different atmosphere. The atmosphere of softness, elegance, grace, subtlety and wisdom, deep and old as Earth itself.

The first woman is considered to be  Eve, wife of Adam. But few people know that there was a woman who had seen heaven before Eve - Lilith. The one that was rebellious and untamed, the one that was the exact opposite of the homelike and the meek ​​Eve. Already since the birth of the universe, women are different and each of them had its own particular qualities that give them something quite unusual and rather mysterious. Lilith inherent inflexibility and freedom in all its manifestations, and Eve was designed to create and preserve warmth of the hearth. And each of them has its own way to be beautiful and attractive to the men.

So why all the women are so different? The answer is simple. In fact, there are several archetypes of women, who are present in each of us and manifest themselves in different degrees. By reading this article, you will be able to understand how you prevail in this or that woman and what qualities it gives you.

Woman - The Queen, Empress, Cleopatra, Warrior

Element - air.

The time of year - winter.

Colors: white, black, navy blue, gray.

Stone - sapphire.

Habitats - hills, the tops of the mountains.

Autonomy and independencesuch brave woman and a cold-blooded, confident and free. Queen controls. In her presence, timid men, lost and looking admiringly, catching every word of a woman. If such a woman smiles, it is, above all, confuse present and make a man feel like a timid boy. The Queen commands. She is beautiful and majestic. Next to such a woman man is changing - he becomes King.

Woman - Mistress, Mother, Keeper

Element - Earth.

The time of year - summer.

Colors: green, purple, brown.

Stone - emerald.

Habitats - suburban area, forest clearing.

A woman who knows how to manage and hold in their hands the house, and to inspire a man to keep order and harmony in family life and relationships. A woman who likes to interact with the children and, most importantly, the kids meet her in return. In such womans' home always smells of delicious food, grow lush flowers, and on the couch basking fat cat. This woman is sure of herself, quietly watching the world go by and enjoys the good results of her contributions to the family, relationships, growth and development.



Woman - Princess, Girl, Baby

Element - water.

The time of year - spring.

Color - blue, yellow, pink.

Stone - diamond.

Habitat - the sea, the ocean, any body of water.

We all come from childhood. We were girls and this state remains within us. In someone it less in someone more. The girl needs to exhibit to her care and attention. She is joyful, light, open and trusting. Quickly gives and is easy to lift. Men with joy endows her with gifts and attention. Take care of her, often play the role of father for a girl. It's not a bad thing. These alliances are usually made ​​between a woman and a man who is older than her age or higher social status.

Woman - Lover, Priest, The Witch

Element - fire.

Time of year - autumn.

Color - red, burgundy and gold.

Stone - a ruby.

Habitats - volcanoes, geysers, caves, place the open fire.

The woman - the priestess has the highest sexual energy. She attracts and fascinates with its passionate nature and wild temper. The nature rebellious, freedom-loving and sensual. The clothes are common predatory animal motifs. Such women can use men for many purposes. It is very common that the female lover do not hurry to get married and sometimes have a relationship with multiple partners simultaneously. Excellent command of sexual practices. Liberated in bed and know what men love .

How to wake up your inner woman?

All four types are present in each of us and, as I said earlier, are shown in different aspects of life and with different people. I want to share with you, dear women, meditative technique that will help you determine what kind of woman you are. 

So, sit back, close your eyes and breathe. Deeply and quietly. With each exhalation try to maximize relaxation. Make sure that no foreign sounds can not be interfered with by itself and enjoy the peace and quiet. Feel like other thoughts leave you and have nothing distracting. Imagine for yourself a place where you would be good at the moment. This may be a place where you as a child spent a lot of time or the seashore.
And maybe it will be a blooming meadow, which illuminates the bright sun. 
Stay in this place, enjoy its beauty and the pleasant sensation that it causes you.

Then take a look around. Somewhere nearby a woman should appear to be dressed in beautiful clothes. Neat and noble. Look closely at it, what color her dress, hair, and follow her gestures, watch out for her. It is possible that she will talk to you. Thank her for what she is with you and for the qualities that she gives you. If you lack another state, call the woman whose qualities you need, and reunited with her. Dance, rejoice, talk with your inner woman. When you feel that you are filled with the necessary energy - slowly and quietly back into reality. Stretch yourself, hug yourself and remember you're a woman - and you already is the Goddess.

Lessons from Oprah Winfrey

She is called the most powerful woman in America, although the first six years of her life she spent not in a private mansion in rural backwoods. Her TV show is watched by millions of people, and once she was denied a contract for the presenter news. 

In her only marriage she spent twenty years old, became pregnant for the first time at fourteen. Make a show of personal life and everyone can but to become a popular TV presenter, but keep yourself as a woman perfectly turned out Oprah Winfrey.

Honesty and simplicity

Oprah Winfrey is famous throughout the world. What's her secret? With any person, whether it's the president of the United States or an ordinary housewife, she talks easily and honestly, not hiding behind verbal tinsel and psychological manipulation. Before Oprah everyone is equal she makes no distinction between businessmen and politicians, political criminals and school teachers. The key to it is the person himself, not the social roles. This is the motto she lives herself. If Oprah does not adhere to the rules of "simplicity and honesty", she would not have become the mistress of her life. Sincerity - one of her major talents.

Try to be honest with yourself and with your partner. Pay attention not only on the superficial communication, but also on the inner world of the man with whom you are dealing.

Be different

"Marriage is actually - the sacrifice of yourself for a relationship with someone. When I'm ready to put myself in a position, then I'll do it, "- said Oprah Winfrey. Interview she gives, never vary in directness and honesty from those of the author which it is in their shows. For a long time she did not dare to register a relationship with her fiance Graham Stedmanom because she was not sure that she could be a good wife and a professional TV presenter at the same time. After Oprah agreed, twenty years they lived, as they say, in peace and harmony, but then broke up. Now Oprah Winfrey is credited in love to Barack Obama or the childhood friend, Gayle King, blaming nonconventional orientation, but it is nothing more than speculation.

At the same time, Oprah can hardly be called a model of constancy - in youth she had many short-term romance. However, she believes that it is rather good.

"Dating - it's fun - she explains. - Even if he is not your prince. Take care that he sometimes missed ... When a man always know where you are, and you are always reachable - he takes it for granted. "

Therefore: every age - has its own activity, each period of time - their priorities. Do not limit your life by a man and  do not only focus your existence on him. Do not restrain yourself with too stereotyped behavior. If you want to be a flirty - be, a love - love of the soul. Do not be afraid to learn and  be open to new people. Maybe a new acquaintance, maybe he will not be your prince, but you can get a good and useful friend.

The past is in the past

As a child, Oprah was subjected molested by brothers, uncles and friends. In her opinion, it is "a perfect example of poor guy who got out of the dirt." The girl had run away from home and wander in search of shelter and sustenance. As a result of all the tribulations of a juvenile detention saved her early pregnancy, keep the baby from which also failed.

Despite such a traumatic experience, and maybe partly based on it, Oprah Winfrey, and was able to build their own destiny, and relationships with the opposite sex. 

However, an unpleasant experience, it is reasonable and ordered: men with strange reputation she dose not allow in her life. "Avoid men who have a bunch of kids from different women. He did not marry them when they made the children, why would he treat you differently? "- Asks herself and their audience Oprah.

So: do not be afraid to be wrong, be afraid to make the same mistake twice. The past can be a valuable resource for building new relationships, and just a material for art.









Know how to protect yourself

"No man will not dare break your heart." Such a statement once made ​​Oprah Winfrey. For a long time she was embarrassed her appearance and weight, not to mention the color of the skin. Could build a serious relationship, satisfied with fleeting connections and romances only for the way she spoke to satisfy her sexual hunger.

"The fear of loneliness - that's what makes many women stay in abusive relationships - says Oprah. - You should know - you are the best thing that could happen to any man, and if he mistreats you, he will lose a lot. If he is the first to draw attention to you, just know that he - not the only one. They're all watching you, so you have much choice. Make the right. Women take care of your heart! "

Power in the word

Once Oprah has mentioned in her talk show about mad cow disease, transmitting through a the beef. Of course, after all, the demand for meat products plummeted. American businessmen working in this area have suffered huge losses. One of her casually thrown recommendation makes books bestsellers, ordinary Americans - the famous and diet drinks with which Oprah could significantly lose weight instantly become deficit in the markets bought by the fans of the star.

Oprah Winfrey has proven by example that words have over the minds and hearts of the people the enormous power. It's unlikely that we'll find ourselves in a situation where our every word and gesture will monitor millions of people around the world, but still we should treat them carefully. What are we up to the rest of mankind, if our words hear most loved, the most valuable people. Their feelings and our relationship with them may suffer due to careless words thrown.

Therefore: always say what you think, but think what you say. Closest people are called because we in front of them and they are defenseless in front of us, without the usual armor of irony and social protections. As a teenager, and now, the correct text messages could cheer up to its highest pitch. It seems to be a couple of words, and how much happiness. Rate the power of words. Learn to communicate.

Believe in yourself

Thoughts on the global popularity and millions of fees come in every other head, but Oprah Winfrey was able to realize their dreams in life. A simple girl from the Negro ghetto, who grew up without a father. Who could have predicted that within a few decades she will be the star of America and the billionaire into the bargain? At the cost of hell to work, intuition and faith in herselve unable to Oprah Winfrey to achieve such success. 

She never changed her personality, adjusting to the requirements of others, did not go for short-term profits as in the construction of her career, and in relations

"Do not try to change yourself for a relationship that is not destined to emerge. Slowly - that's the surest way - tells Oprah in one of her shows. - Do not survive life for the sake of another man, first find what makes you truly happy. If your relationship ended because he did not behave decently, then you can not "be friends." A true friend would never mistreat a friend. "

Therefore, no one except you will not make you happy. Neither the car nor the man will not bring  you happinnes. Oprah Winfrey experience teaches us that only faith in yourself, calm self-confidence, the ability does not depend on the opinion of others, can give the basis for a strong relationship.

Every woman is sexy

It is important to take your sexuality and let it reveal. Every woman is sexy. Every man  is sexy no matter what body he has. Sexuality is not associated with the perfectly shaped body and beauty, but it should be felt at the level of energy.

A woman who does not feel the sexual energy is not able to enjoy yourselve, simply because she is - a woman and enjoy life in all its manifestations. In this case, no matter how she might  be appear feminine.

Sexuality can be blocked for various reasons:

- If a woman does not want to attract attention, especially from men. Sexuality is open - men go to this "smell of a woman" (women, too, are pulled). Closed - barely noticed, show slightly or no interest as a woman, natural sexuality expresses in the space of a woman on a female, at her and men react.

- Often sexuality is negative, the bad shade is under the "ban", and with the abundance of information on the subject, most people remain unenlightened state with respect to their natural sexuality.

- Many women are afraid to be sexy because of the ridiculous stereotypes. Like, it's opinion, experience in sex, knowing the 5th, 10th, want to 5 times a day, the image of passion, often causing bright or transparent clothing. Or that you have to be half-naked, revealing some part of the body.

This is stereotypes that shade of vulgarity, which brought the sexual revolution, and are not associated with the natural - the natural sexuality of every person, and the position of the body when one leg is thrown back to the other - not a sexy pose, but rather spoke of the desire to hide their sexuality.

- A lot of violence and control over the female energy. The fear of violence. Quite common is shown on TV, almost continuously, just introducing people to the drama.

Feminine energy humiliated and abused her. This has had an impact on women, which forced them to abandon the lower part of the body, which is their strength. Especially when it came to sexual abuse, emotional trauma associated with it, a woman forced to divert their minds from the lower part of the body and renouncing. This makes it hard to self-awareness and feel grounding.

Natural and free sexuality gives to the woman strength. And gives women confidence in yourself without any training to improve self-esteem, self-love, because The woman begins to feel incredibly attractive regardless of age, prettie eyes.

Just allow yourself to be sexy,acknowledge your sexuality. Say: Yes, I - sexy! Yes, I  give freedom to my sexuality! It is time to regain its power, given by the nature. 

Feel now your sexuality! Feel the body, heart, and mind, so that the latter did not tell you and it will open in your life.

Fashionable, Stylish and Confident

1. Necessarily should be in the wardrobe shoes corporal (natural) color. They are perfect to any kind of clothing, also visually lengthen leg.

2. One more must have - a few white shirts. Form-fitting shirt male pattern perfectly emphasize the beautiful breasts, thighs and waist.

3. In the wardrobe sure to have a set of clothes "for itself." Can wear it for fun - to communicate and meet with friends. Calm tones, multilayer does not emphasize the waist - all contribute to your comfort.

4. Purchase certainly classic black trousers, black sweater with a V-neck and black boats strict on the comfortable heel. Pants must sit upon you well and good, sweater highlight the neckline. This outfit can be hundreds of times outplay the different accessories and it will always look gorgeous and differently.

5. Remember that ribbons and straps on the shoes shorten the leg. A classic boats shape is drawn. This should be considered, especially for women of medium height.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.


8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

6. Things of one style, style, and color in the wardrobe - boring! The woman of fashion should be diverse, different styles, different clothes, shoes and accessories.

7. Usually monochromatic suit - the presence of bright accessories and make-up! Arrange the accents in the form of shoes, handbags, brooches, scarf.

8. Of the same color tunic and bag - only for beach. This set includes bare feet, flip flops, a big bag of straw and massive sunglasses.

9. In the locker room necessarily have to be at least one pair of shoes with heels. Heels gives the woman some instability that attracts men to support her.


10. Wearing a bright, flashy dress, do hairstyle smooth not striking not to divert attention from the dress.

11. Bright shoes with straps are selected so that ankle was open.

12. Remember, if the top of clothing - bulky volume, the bottom should be light and airy. Look for harmony!

13. Bright, unconventional and revealing things to wear sultry resorts, there are looking great.


14. For a spectacular view, open the chest area, extend the leg line at the expense of a well-fitting trousers and add interesting accessories. With casual dresses will be well looked clutch, big sunglasses and a bright silk scarf.

15. Do not be afraid of trendy trousers with a low line between the legs. Contrary to the popular belief that they shorten the legs the do opposite sit perfectly and make legs slim.

16. Seductive and flirtatious gait of Marilyn Monroe can be repeated, wearing a skirt just below the knee, which will impede slightly walk.

17. The bright skirts, for example, beige color should wear a slender long-legged women.


18. To attract the attention of others, you can simply: make up lips with bright lipstick, put on huge sunglasses and bright bag.

19. The coat does not have to encircle. This is outerwear, and therefore can be free.

20. For full thighs there are long skirts and dresses just below the knee.

21. To demonstrate the neckline in a jacket with a plunging neckline, be sure to wear a contrasting color top.

22. In the wardrobe should be for all occasions in your life. These are clothes for home, shopping, working, elegant clothes. All these things have to be appropriate, stylish and well-fitting on you.

Evelyn Hromchenko (c)